aqua girl and libra guy...what the heck happened?

okay so im an aquarius lady and well i was just married for nine years with a libra guy...

it was good for awhile and i thought we really would be together forever...oh but when we fought it was like a full on war! but we managed to keep it going for 9 almost 10 years...then the last four years he was unemployed and was soooo stubborn about getting a job, maintaining it, and basically getting off his butt. he wouldn't do a thing! he only talked about himself, his problems, how the world was against him pretty much, did a 180 in terms of appearance and likes/dislikes...he just wasn't the same any more.

im not saying that im perfect and that i was perfect in this relationship...it's just that i thought libra and aqua goes together know what i mean?

insight any of you libra men?

No offense lady but Aquarian women are THE WORST.

Let me guess, you lied to him—
If you're honest and don't get defensive you will admit that you did! You probably ignored the hell out of him most of the time as well, right?

Did you ever take time to consider that he was depressed? Several Libras are afflicted with some form of severe depression at least at one point in their lives. Instead of being insensitive and being like he needed to get off of his unemployed broke ass to get a job, did you offer to get him some help if he needed it? Did you try to refocus his energy on positive things?

I find Aquarian women can be quite insenstive and cruel when it comes to a man's feelings! And nothing turns ann Aquarian girl off more than a man who is unable to provide financially, because they are so materialistic and focused on having the best money can buy. So, Yeah...

Libra man + Aquarius woman= Don't do it!

I'm sorry about your divorce, but its probably for the best! Look for a Taurus man next time, despite what people may say I think that Aquarius women and Taurus men are great for each other!

@sagiluv

Nice! You sound like a good woman! But you see the support means everything! And if he isn't meeting you halfway THEN and only THEN do you give him the boot, if you count for him he will make the right changes!

I just had to set this Aquarius Woman right! I knew too many in my life to let her come on here ad pretend that she's been victimized by a Libra men.

In the Aquarius female/Libra male relationship, the Aquarius Woman is the one that always starts the abuse! Sometimes Libra males react TO DEFEND THEMSELVES from these monsters!

please excuse the troll here in aisle one ... anyhow, to be honest, this sounds a little worrisome. Is there a chance he is suffering from depression or another mental illness? I don't mean to worry you, just sounds like there is something much more serious going on here.

* then the last four years he was unemployed and was soooo stubborn about getting a job, maintaining it, and basically getting off his butt. he wouldn't do a thing! he only talked about himself, his problems, how the world was against him pretty much, did a 180 in terms of appearance and likes/dislikes...he just wasn't the same any more.

This all sounds like a mental illness is at play here. 😢

Posted by little_sparrow
please excuse the troll here in aisle one ...

I wonder who this little b*tch is referring to here...it better not be me.

Hey my experiences are my experiences....if that makes me a "troll" then so be it!

sagiluv.... I would think so too! 🙂

I really like you already sagiluv!

I know I can be harsh, but I'm at least honest, which is more than can be said for most people!