Blast from my past

Some of you may remember I discussed a certain libra in my life recently.
A few weeks ago I had heard what I thought was the last of him, especially since he sent a photo of him and his new girl, and I had sent an email wishing him best of luck to which I got no reply.
He saw me online several times, and I did not make an attempt to speak to him, as much as I wanted to I just stayed on line without any attempt to say hi.
Last night he emailed me a hello, acknowledged we havent spoken for a while , and a question about how I was doing....

I have yet to reply, I don't know but it felt so great to hear from him, but I feel great resisting to reply. I don't think he wants anything but to be friendly again, he is not used to me staying out of touch and not responding, or pursuing him.
A part of me wants to say HIIIIIIIIIIII!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW ARE YOU—??
MISSED YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!lol

Maybe I should respond and just be freindly and polite.....rather than be rude and appear to be angry... 🙂

Nope, you've done so amazingly well not speaking to him so i'd say keep your pride and your head up, and leave him wondering. Its all about your own power..keep it!!

I think it is okay to speak if you really want to. Leave out the "I miss you" Just Hi buddy how you doin?

Why should you care what he's doing now..even if you do. He paraded his new interest in front of you, and that's all you need to know, he's with her and not you. No point in playing with fire...

He is involved with someone else. Are you interested in a platonic friendship? Because that is what you will have with him.

Stop trying to control the situation and find someone else.

"Why should you care what he's doing now..even if you do. He paraded his new interest in front of you, and that's all you need to know, he's with her and not you. No point in playing with fire..."

Is forcing yourself to not "care" what someone is doing not subjecting your satisfaction to the condition or behavior of someone else as well. If you care as a friend you care as a friend and should act on it genuinely. But that does mean having a cirtain amound of realistic understanding of what one really wants from the situation.

If she cares about him as a friend and wants to check that he is doing well and be there to offer advice when he needs it or even a "atta boy" that is fine. I know people usually associate Cancers with having to much emotion or resentment to be friends after a break up with someone they really liked but I do have a female cancer friend that does exactly this. Every once in a while she emails or texts me just to update on what is going on in her life and to check that I am doing well. It did take a good amount of time before she could do this without at the same time showing she still has feelings for me but it did eventually work out as just friends.

The thing is, if you shared intimacy with someone, you have an intimate understanding that caters really well to being a friend with someone. You can give a more unique perspective to someone with whom you have intimate knowledge and understanding of and that can be valuable in a platonic friendship.

I would continue to ignore but it's your call...this guy remembers all that ego stroking you gave, he's fishing. ignore him.

your too anxious which means you have feelings for him beyond friendship...he's not out of your system, keep ignoring until you become indifferent then open up a bit.

antibling please baby, no one is any of the above you described, get your head out of the clouds...she asked a question we gave an answer...name callers are haters...seems your the hater

nope no bashing, no indication of it, never the hater (hands antibling some haterade)drink up baby, it's hot in hell.

that's Ms.Bitch to you and I will bake you a pie when hell freezes over or you learn to say please, whichever one comes first, thus far you have been beyond the 7th layer of hell for 207 years which means your stuck so get on your knees and say please biotch!

Dont do it, from a libra perspective he just wants to know if he can keep you on the backburner (for future reference)..😉

"that's Ms.Bitch to you and I will bake you a pie when hell freezes over or you learn to say please, whichever one comes first, thus far you have been beyond the 7th layer of hell for 207 years which means your stuck so get on your knees and say please biotch!"


-LMAO!!! nice, tiki...i think you put him in his place...that's what i love about aqua chicks...so on point!

Hi there,

First off I need to thank all of you for the feedback.
Youve each made valid points... joining this forum has helped ALOT!!!!
I've been agressively pursuing him for along time, I'm no angel but the truth here is he had my heart and did put me on the backburner plenty of times...
I havent done anything, yest i typed a reply and came close to sending it,then I remembered the picture of them....and deleted my reply.
Its too soon, I'll trip over myself and show him that I'll take anything he gives me. I do believe he thinks " I can have her anytime I want"....
Maybe in time I can be just a friend (doubting that now)
On a happier note there is adorable pisces man in the picture who seems to be a AMAZING!!!! lets see...
I just found out my rising sign is a virgo... now I have to read up "them"... lol

Fabulous news Cancer,,what better way to distract yourself than a new man?!!

Bling, im not biased..just honest 🙂

Good for you Cancer