Can a male Libra Friend ever become more?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by CT_Sag on Monday, October 13, 2008 and has 4 replies.

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@CT_Sag
17 Years

I'm a Sag female who has, for the past 3 years, been slowly becoming friends with a Libra male. When I first met him he was in a long term relationship but that ended about a year and a half ago now.

In April of this year I mentioned that I'd thought about he and I possibly dating and asked what he thought. He said that he would really like to be my friend, which I've been doing. In about June I found out that he has been trying to get back together with his ex at the time I asked him about dating.

Since April we've certainly become closer friends at a faster rate than the first couple years of knowing each other. We're currently working closely on a political campaign and spend a lot of time together. His body language reads that he is attracted to me. We flirt and tease each other often and have a lot of fun working together. We make a great team.

So my question is, would I be stupid to ask again about dating after the campaign is over? Do I accept his original response and leave the ball in his court if he's changed his mind? We've talked about going to dinner when the campaign is over, but more as a thank you for helping or as a victory dinner.

Thanks!
CT_Sag

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@Upheaval
18 YearsVirgo

The more he feels like you are a really good friends the more he'll be attraccted to you.

BUT :p

don't act desperate/over emotional , major turn off for libra's

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@sagittarian
19 Years

I would just be there and be friendly. My Libra friend started out very friendly and flirty and then it became more. I left it up to him and he advanced.
I think your guy needs to work past thinking about his ex before you will have any chance. But hang in there.

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@SageTree
18 Years

that usually how it starts with libra. you become friends first. so just be a real friend. i was friends with a libra for over a year, turned out he liked me and i never knew. but it ended badly, he wanted more with me then he went on vaca with his ex...........it was bull. i didn't accept this and never talked to him again.