Cancer or Aries?

Okay the Cancer and the Aries asked me out on a date the same night. Which one? I think Aries - Neva been on a date with one though...

Atom? What are you guy's take on Aries and Scorps?

Cancers are sweet, but boring, get way too clingy for me.

OMG. Aries are a fire sign right? Ugghh Water and fire? I dunno?

Can you go to dinner with one and drinks with the other?

I would definetly check both of them out. Go with one one night, the other the next.

Why either/or when you can both?
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have your cake and eat it too!

Especially at this point. You don't know either men and are just at the getting to know you stage.

Because I have a date Friday night w/tha girls... And a couple things going on Saturday night. Only room for one. I might just do brunch with the other on Sunday. I was thinking about that.

Been out with that Cancer - Movies, when Libra had plans already... Cancer cool peeps, great company, but nothing else. I like hanging with him though. He would probably be a good buddy.

Never dated a cancer. I have dated Aries but wasn't crazy about either of them.

Do a brunch date or a Sunday night date ... or put it off till next week. lots of options!

Queen, fire+water=steam. What else can I tell you? The passion will be strong---maybe the arguments too! Both strong-willed. Can you tell?

Aries will be a lot more fun than Cancer---even if you just sit back and watch them make fools out of themselves.

I will defiitely get them both in this weekend. Mommy and me time next weekend. My baby will be 4 tomorrow and she is having a birthday sleep over with 4 friends at my house. Pray for me!!!

Aries!!! You have already tried the Cancer out, from the sound of it (both sign and person-wise). Obviously, if it was that titillating, then you wouldn't be asking the question... Give the Aries his go, then you will have had the opportunity to see which, if any, might be capable of giving you what you desire.

Good luck on the sleep over. You sound like a very brave woman... 😉

* We always know when something is up

Alas. In my experience, this is VERY untrue.

Well-------Aries WILL be hurt if he finds out he's been lied to. LS is right in that we give the other the benefit of the doubt they ARE tellilng the truth---but we CAN be deceived. Ain't pretty. Ain't funny. Aries will keep you guessing and excited and his tales of adventure will be REAL, not made up like Mr. Cancer's. THEN you also have all that action with Mr. Aries. Watery Cancer is a slow mover and too busy examining his darling feelings. If Mr. Aries wants you, there will be no doubt.

Okay, Dinner and drinks w/ the Aries tomorrow night (Friday) and Hanging out with the Cancer Sat night. Girls rather do brunch Sun.

Perfect!

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Good way to go, QS.

QS, if you get close to him and touch his head, his face, especially his temples, you'll drive him nutz.

* No slow with them!! Full tilt.

Yeah. God bless those fire signs!

Thanks guys...

I don't intend to lie to anyone. Don't like lying and I don't have too. So, I am kinda excited to see what the Aries is like. He just called to see where I wanted to go for eats and drinks. He suggested a very nice place close to where I live. He was also asking if I was available this evening. I told him I wasn't but I would see him tomorrow.

Alcheme, LOL!!! Yes the cancer is Okay, but we will more than likely just bee friends. I can never have too many friends. However I am not sure what we will be doing on Saturday, but he wants to get together and hang out. I said OK.

Notso, I created a schedule.

Waiting. Waiting. Waiting to hear about your date, QS,

Waiting. Waiting. Waiting I learned from being with a Libra.

Okay guys!!!! Aries are wonderful!!! He was so funny, sweet, real, down-to-earth and very handome, and a sharp dresser. We met at a very nice quiet set, ate appetizers and had drinks and talked until the place closed - midnight!!! He invited me to his place to watch movies, although I really wanted to go I politely declined. He walked me to my car and called me about 5 minutes later to make sure my car was warm, as it was a small snow storm last night. He asked me to call him and let him know I was home once I arrived, I did and we chated for a few minutes and I thanked him for the wonderful evening and he said he would call today.

Thumbs up for Aries!!! No drama, no games and knows how to adore a woman... 🙂

The Cancer called me when I was on my date. Didn't answer. However, I will call him today. No word from the Libra, I think I can safetly say he ran... Man, I thought above all things he was a better friend than that. Guess I was wrong. So on my to new adventures.

Aries texted to see if I worked out. I texted back yes. He texted that he will be in my neighborhood and if I wanted to do brunch. I texted that I wasn't home. He texted Okay maybe another time. I called, told him I was at a girl friends, I was, and that I couldn't pull myself from her couch, and that I was sweaty and had on sweats with a wild pony tail in my head and didn't want to taint his image of me.

He laughed and said he wasn't looking too hot himself. I told him I would call him later - he is supposed to be going to some party later. He keeps hinting around it, that is the third time he told me about the party.

Having dinner with the Cancer, but would love to go to the party with the Aries after. We shall see. 🙂

Kris, and what does this have to do with an Aries or Cancer?

kris, your post cracks me up. An Aries can ALWAYS take down a Taurus!

QS, you found a sweet Aries who's already into you. Let him chase you, dahlin', and, BTW, it will turn him on to see you in your sweats! We's primal guys, y'know! You're handling him just right. And, yes, he will focus on you and pursue and be generous. Hmmm. 'Sounds pretty nice! I've been telling you all along we ADORE you. Now you know!

Cancer definitely a no go. Aries.. He is really sweet. We shall see. He called twice yesterday to chat called this morning to see if I wanted to do bruch. I already had plans to meet the girlfriends for brunch. He had mentioned if I would come to his neighborhood, if we see eachother today. I told him I really didn't want to drive and I had a couple things I had to take care of today after brunch, but I would be happy to see him another time. He said Okay and soundedd disappointed.

Atom, after I thought about it. I hope I didn't hurt his feelings for not wanting to go to his neighborhood to meet him as he came to mine to take me out... I just had quite a bit to do today and my daughter is coming home this aternoon... Anyway he is very nice. You guys are sweet and no games.

Kris, Aries hands down!

Shaka, if you have read any of my threads, you wil see they involve my experiences with Libras, who are the signs that I have been involved with the most and because of my FWB Libra friend, who I suddenly had a change of feelings for after in some way rejecting him when he got emotional about us initially... Hence, I am on the Libra board.

Kris's question was, which do I like the best between the Cancer and the Aries... Keep up little grasshopper, keep up.

QS, you most likely did not hurt his feelings. But, just so you know, if HE invited you to HIS neighborhood / home, he has his eyes on you. We tend to be private unless we trust someone---he must trust you some already!

***QS, you most likely did not hurt his feelings. But, just so you know, if HE invited you to HIS neighborhood / home, he has his eyes on you. We tend to be private unless we trust someone---he must trust you some already✨**

Wow, how could he trust me and we only went out once? I dunno about that. Anyway, I think he is very nice, however, although we scorps can be intense. We tend to start off slow. I am always this way when I first meet someone. Y'know need to feel them out first. He is just so nice and thoughtful, which is so refreshing after dealing with aloof and wishy washy Libras.... LOL!!!!

smoldering, girl. And we Aries tend to be intuitive---so maybe that's why I feel he's trusting you.