Cap Guy & Libra Woman - Help! Help! Help!

Hi All,

I am looking to pick the wisdom of some of the very wise people here. I am a Capri guy who's been dating a Libra girl for the past 6 years and I think I've never really know what's going on inside her head...or it just keeps changing 😢

First things first, My Natal Chart: -

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Capricorn 11.13 Ascendant Virgo 12.10
Moon Scorpio 18.28 II Libra 9.09
Mercury Capricorn 11.58 III Scorpio 9.24
Venus Sagittarius 18.02 IV Sagittarius 11.16
Mars Aquarius 1.24 V Capricorn 12.58
Jupiter Libra 9.34 VI Aquarius 13.30
Saturn Libra 9.31 VII Pisces 12.10
Uranus Scorpio 28.27 VIII Aries 9.09
Neptune Sagittarius 23.06 IX Taurus 9.24
Pluto Libra 24.11 Midheaven Gemini 11.16
Lilith Scorpio 0.21 XI Cancer 12.58
Asc node Leo 11.08 XII Leo 13.30


Her Natal Chart: -

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 7.37 Ascendant Scorpio 15.53
Moon Pisces 14.07 II Sagittarius 15.17
Mercury Libra 9.57 R III Capricorn 16.10
Venus Virgo 28.51 IV Aquarius 18.33
Mars Sagittarius 7.40 V Pisces 20.45
Jupiter Scorpio 11.36 VI Aries 20.13
Saturn Libra 23.02 VII Taurus 15.53
Uranus Sagittarius 1.45 VIII Gemini 15.17
Neptune Sagittarius 24.28 IX Cancer 16.10
Pluto Libra 26.06 Midheaven Leo 18.33
Lilith Capricorn 11.21 XI Virgo 20.45
Asc node Cancer 8.41 XII Libra 20.13


Now a little bit of background. I met while she was dating my best friend (an Aquarian). He and I shared a place, and later she moved in. Within 6 months of moving in with us, she told me she was in love with me and began seducing me. I resisted initially, coz she was dating my best friend. But she always complained and cried about how rude he was to her and how he mistreated her. I developed sympathy for her and began caring for her. Before I knew, one night she got all over me and we ended up having sex. Thereon, she kept dating me and him and me. She and i later moved to UK and began living together. Now, after 6 years, she's been sleeping with me...having a claims she still has feeling for the aquarian 😢

Promised us both marriage, but recently had a complete breakdown with the other guy. I finally thought he was behind us and she and i can have a future, but! She now tells me she hasn't loved me since the last 1 year...and that she has lost all feelings. Now she's bloody found her self a Taurean guy at her work place and has started seeing him!!!!

WTF

I looked up her chart and stuff with the little i know about astrology and she seems to be going through a Uranus - Venus Opposition transit right now....but then 6 years...i just don't understand this woman? What do i do? should i try to win her back? wait for the transit to be over? or accept that she's not going to change!

Btw...she's seeing this new guy she claims is her future...but she's still sleeping with me :S

I don't understand anything!!!

Posted by BelovedAssata
wow....

You don't need a synastry chart or a reading, you just got dealt with an extreme double helping of Karma courtesy of Saturn.

Get ready, he's not done with you yet. MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!

Moral of the story...Thou shall not fuck over thine Best Friend.

accepted...but i truly thought she was in a broken and unhappy relationship with her coz i saw him not treat her right all the time. She made me feel she needed rescuing and that she really loved me, nor did i initiate anything. ofcourse i am not proud of what i did to my friend...but i did it for her 😢

Posted by BelovedAssata
wow....

You don't need a synastry chart or a reading, you just got dealt with an extreme double helping of Karma courtesy of Saturn.

Get ready, he's not done with you yet. MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!

Moral of the story...Thou shall not fuck over thine Best Friend.

and what about her? saturn not getting to her—? :G

"I resisted initially, coz she was dating my best friend. But she always complained and cried about how rude he was to her and how he mistreated her. I developed sympathy for her and began caring for her."

Not a very flattering account. How can you be in love with someone you feel sorry for? Classic Saviour-Victim relationship.
She went with the Taurus because perhaps she didn't really like anyone of you 3 all that much! It's like putting a kid in a candy house, except you all see her as candy, and she sees you all as candy too!

That aside, The Libra/Pisces moon woman is very likely the most feminine (and thus alluring) of the Libras. I had a friend like that once and she's awesome.

That said, she is also desperately looking for someone to save her from herself.. don't be surprised if she gets her act together and disappears for good. Just find her some counsellor.

chile please! RUN RUN RUN! thats what you do. This couple will drive each other mad! They see the world from two diffrent sets of views. COMPLETELY different. And her cheating on you or leaving should'nt surprise you all that much. I mean she did it to the other guy, so your no different and niether is the taurus. It may hurt, but you shouldn't be surprised. But you should consider yourself lucky if she leaves you, because she is sparing you. If a libra woman leaves you alone its because she believe either you deserve better, or she wants more than what your offering. If a libra woman thinks you are missing something that she could find somewhere else, chances are she will dump you before cheating, go find out, and then come back if its not out there. You will be running in circles. Trust me I'm a libra woman with a moon in picies, it is very hard for us to make a decision if we are unsure of the situation or the person. I personally dont cheat, because i couldn't fathom the title "whore", "Bi*ch" or anything unpleasent. I would dump before cheating. So trust me its less painful if she leaves you alone. She's sparing your feelings. Let her ass go!lol

Posted by aquagirl24

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Realer talk is the fact this person needs a host.

i had 4 ex capris. i was with a gem moon for 4 months. dumped the bastard after something really bad he tried to do to me, i told you in mail. THE WORST MAN on earth. also capricorn is a feminine sign so that should say it all...

he doesnt feel sorry for HER, he feels sorry for HIMSELF. that is why he GOT WHAT HE SPEAKS ABOUT HER. i can say capricorn men are BASTARDS! THEY REALLY ARE. he doesnt respect her at all.

capricorn doesnt respect anyone but himself. the only reason why he cares for her is because of HIS reputation, he doesnt care about love or anything, he doesnt know what that is.

capricorn=all about them, bastards. i hate them. HATE.

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wow..are you retarded?

Just coz' you had some bad experience with a capri guy..makes them all bad? going by that i should be saying that all librans are cheats? btw..in case u didnt read...cheated on an aqua guy to be with me...does that mean aqua folks are worthless?


please...if you don't have anything contstructive to add to the thread..keep your thoughts and opinions to yourself!

lmao

Posted by BelovedAssata
I was reading what ya girl purplediamond was saying in the other thread..and I see what the problem is, you really loved her ha?

If your uranus is opposing her venus..and how what she was stating about how the libra's 7th house was in taurus..etc..

just look at your uranus/venus placement in relation to hers, and your 7th house and her moon...it's probably a lot harder for you to get over this girl than vice versa.

So though I know you probably are more upset at having your ego bruised, I'm seeing now that you're probably alot more hurt than you're letting on. I would stop sleeping with the girl though..that'd make it alot less painful.

But yah dude, circumstances aside, heartbreaks are rough..keep your head up, you'll get past this. You(Caps) always do, and since you're going through your saturn return right now, you have no where to go but up.

Thanks...u've been really helpful. I sincerely appreciate you're taking the time to share your knowledge and your insight.

Posted by amethyst2002
One, aquagirl IS retarded.

Two, you found yourself one of those Libra chicks. It's two extremes with the female variety. The cool ones and the freaking crazy ones who use and abuse people and then are on their merry way. This chick is the latter. Just do your best to walk away. I know you want to know the why of everything, but the chick is crazy and has issues like no tomorrow. There is no figuring it out. Believe me, karma will bite her in the ass, whether it be a form of an STD or SHE gets cheated on. If that happens, don't let her come running back, which she may very well do.

Thanks dude..and thanks to everyone who responded. I am new to this forum and wasn't expecting much, but in reality you all are fantastic!

Thanks a ton.