capricorns and libras

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Dont really know hers just recently discovered mine

Virgo ascending
Scorpio mercury
Scorpio Venus
Mars Aquarius
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Node Aries

I dont know if this helps I can try to find hers... I just don't know her time of birth I guess its important to the chart.
Oh dear, Neptune in Capricorn.
Yes, Caps and Leebs can work out, but I have the feeling you'll be disappointed in Capricorn lovers.
You see if they're Sun is conjunct your Neptune in Cap, then they'll likely appear at first to be a perfect mate.
Then as time goes by, the love illusion fades and you see the darker and less appealing sides to them. Shocked, you'll likely wish to end it if they didn't end it first.

You have a 5th house Cap, right? ...If possible, post your chart or at least find out the exact degree of your Neptune in Capricorn.
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Can't add much positivity here...I had a horrible experience with a Cap. He hurt my feelings often. I tried for months and months to make it work but he literally just brought me down. Killed my joy honestly. If you're looking for a happy life with someone who's loving and caring...it ain't a cap. They're not bad people, just too practical for a Libra. We want real LOVE, not "hey you have this and I have that, we'll make a good team." It feels like he's using you, but he's not from his perspective.

My dad is a Cap, and he loves me beyond words, but I'm blood, I was born with his love. It's so different trying to get in that heart.
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Dont really know hers just recently discovered mine

Virgo ascending
Scorpio mercury
Scorpio Venus
Mars Aquarius
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Node Aries

I dont know if this helps I can try to find hers... I just don't know her time of birth I guess its important to the chart.
Oh dear, Neptune in Capricorn.
Yes, Caps and Leebs can work out, but I have the feeling you'll be disappointed in Capricorn lovers.
You see if they're Sun is conjunct your Neptune in Cap, then they'll likely appear at first to be a perfect mate.
Then as time goes by, the love illusion fades and you see the darker and less appealing sides to them. Shocked, you'll likely wish to end it if they didn't end it first.

You have a 5th house Cap, right? ...If possible, post your chart or at least find out the exact degree of your Neptune in Capricorn.
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What's wrong with a Neptune cap?

03 degrees Neptune Capricorn.
Thanks for the reply I dont know how to read the charts
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Posted by elguapolibra
Dont really know hers just recently discovered mine

Virgo ascending
Scorpio mercury
Scorpio Venus
Mars Aquarius
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Node Aries

I dont know if this helps I can try to find hers... I just don't know her time of birth I guess its important to the chart.
Oh dear, Neptune in Capricorn.
Yes, Caps and Leebs can work out, but I have the feeling you'll be disappointed in Capricorn lovers.
You see if they're Sun is conjunct your Neptune in Cap, then they'll likely appear at first to be a perfect mate.
Then as time goes by, the love illusion fades and you see the darker and less appealing sides to them. Shocked, you'll likely wish to end it if they didn't end it first.

You have a 5th house Cap, right? ...If possible, post your chart or at least find out the exact degree of your Neptune in Capricorn.
What's wrong with a Neptune cap?

03 degrees Neptune Capricorn.
Thanks for the reply I dont know how to read the charts
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It's a generational planet, so people around your age will have it, like myself for instance. By itself, nothing is wrong with it. Now as for what it influences in your chart, another story.

Since it's 03 degrees, Caps born in December will likely be the most appealing to you. If you don't mind me asking, when you try to attain someone for a relationship, what do you first picture getting from them and giving to them?

Also if you feel comfortable, I could read your chart or show you the basics on how to read it yourself. Could also recommend books or sites to read.
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Dont really know hers just recently discovered mine

Virgo ascending
Scorpio mercury
Scorpio Venus
Mars Aquarius
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Node Aries

I dont know if this helps I can try to find hers... I just don't know her time of birth I guess its important to the chart.
Oh dear, Neptune in Capricorn.
Yes, Caps and Leebs can work out, but I have the feeling you'll be disappointed in Capricorn lovers.
You see if they're Sun is conjunct your Neptune in Cap, then they'll likely appear at first to be a perfect mate.
Then as time goes by, the love illusion fades and you see the darker and less appealing sides to them. Shocked, you'll likely wish to end it if they didn't end it first.

You have a 5th house Cap, right? ...If possible, post your chart or at least find out the exact degree of your Neptune in Capricorn.
What's wrong with a Neptune cap?

03 degrees Neptune Capricorn.
Thanks for the reply I dont know how to read the charts
It's a generational planet, so people around your age will have it, like myself for instance. By itself, nothing is wrong with it. Now as for what it influences in your chart, another story.

Since it's 03 degrees, Caps born in December will likely be the most appealing to you. If you don't mind me asking, when you try to attain someone for a relationship, what do you first picture getting from them and giving to them?

Also if you feel comfortable, I could read your chart or show you the basics on how to read it yourself. Could also recommend books or sites to read.
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She was born early January.

What do I want to attain? Hmmm I want someone who can give me a new perspective of life, show me what I can't see, understand what I never could grasp and of course to fill my carnal desires and I just want to give the person a means to attain everything they desire and to aspire too and of course fulfill there sexual desires.

I would send the chart just don't know how to do that lmao
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Recently had a bad break up with capi I was with for two years. Any success stories here, or is this just one of those very difficult matches.
Success story here. 2+ years. Going strong 🙂 We both have playful moons ( me sag, him gem). That helps a lot. We also both have fire mars. I like all of his cap placements because they are so different from mine. But, his cancer rising makes him warm and caring (towards his loved ones).

What are you guys moons?
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Congrats on the two years, stay strong!!!! My moon is aquarius and hers may be Scorpio dont know her time of birth
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Recently had a bad break up with capi I was with for two years. Any success stories here, or is this just one of those very difficult matches.
Success story here. 2+ years. Going strong 🙂 We both have playful moons ( me sag, him gem). That helps a lot. We also both have fire mars. I like all of his cap placements because they are so different from mine. But, his cancer rising makes him warm and caring (towards his loved ones).

What are you guys moons?
Congrats on the two years, stay strong!!!! My moon is aquarius and hers may be Scorpio dont know her time of birth
Jeez that would be hard. Squared suns and squared moons. And your moons aren't harmonious to each others suns either. What happened to cause you guys to break up if it's not too personal? Are you hoping to get back together?
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I must add she is eight years my junior so I'm sure that had something to do with it. We were having problems with the work aspect of the relationship. She just didn't want to do anything. She lost three jobs in the two years we were together, but I supported her through all of them. The division of labor between the two of us was non existent. After she left her job at a car dealership, I told her to just take her time and figure out what she wants to do and I will hold us down until she was ready to work again or go to school.
She went back to work six months later because I told her we couldn't afford her marijuana habit (we are living in Colorado lol) and that she wasn't taking care of her part of the house work which was just keeping the bedroom clean. I'm not clean in it though, I eventually just started running away from the problems, staying out later, drinking. She lost that job and I said that we will be ok, I will hold us down. A few months after we argued a lot, and made up a lot. Eventually it lead to taking a break she moved back to her moms house and eventually said she didn't love me anymore and that she wanted to break up... But she would still want to hang out and that's when things would get messy. She played a lot of games, would want to be with me again, then she didn't want that, we did the fwb for a bit but then she would start saying I love you and miss you so much, then blame me for making it weird. Things were said and I decided to cut ties completely, and she was upset about that. She still tries to message me and call me but I have to ignore or keep it very brief, because it still hurts
I would love to get back with her, but sh
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That sounds like a total mismatch. One of those situations where love just isn't enough. Your work ethics and expectations of each other aren't lined up.
Yeah and she thought if we got married it would have fixed everything.i still love her though, wish it could go back to the way it was when we were first together, but that girl is long gone. That tinder and instagram lifestyle got her locked in
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That sounds like a total mismatch. One of those situations where love just isn't enough. Your work ethics and expectations of each other aren't lined up.
Yeah and she thought if we got married it would have fixed everything.i still love her though, wish it could go back to the way it was when we were first together, but that girl is long gone. That tinder and instagram lifestyle got her locked in
Married— Hell naw.

Let me pick your brain tho. My bffs husband is a Libra. He started staying out late instead of coming home because he wasn't happy at home. Of course this made everything worse. Why did you start staying out drinking when things got bad in your relationship?
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I had a drinking problem from early teen years till mid twenties. Used it to escape reality. I was weak by the end, I was working onernights, coming home to a messed up apartment, trying to keep it clean, taking care of the pets... I didn't feel appreciated, even though I communicated how I felt.should. She Stopped trying so for a moment I did. It felt like a relationship with myself.
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That sounds like a total mismatch. One of those situations where love just isn't enough. Your work ethics and expectations of each other aren't lined up.
Yeah and she thought if we got married it would have fixed everything.i still love her though, wish it could go back to the way it was when we were first together, but that girl is long gone. That tinder and instagram lifestyle got her locked in
Married— Hell naw.

Let me pick your brain tho. My bffs husband is a Libra. He started staying out late instead of coming home because he wasn't happy at home. Of course this made everything worse. Why did you start staying out drinking when things got bad in your relationship?
I had a drinking problem from early teen years till mid twenties. Used it to escape reality. I was weak by the end, I was working onernights, coming home to a messed up apartment, trying to keep it clean, taking care of the pets... I didn't feel appreciated, even though I communicated how I felt.should. She Stopped trying so for a moment I did. It felt like a relationship with myself.
Hmm...escapism. that makes sense. Thanks for answering that question 🙂.
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Its one of two things for your friends husband; 1. He has given up on the relationship and making him self appear to be a horrible person, trying to passively have the partner make the decision to leave or 2. He needs to get away and balance himself as an individual, to see himself as more than the relationship. I loved my capi and wanted to be with her as much as I could, but I was losing my identity. I also felt as if she didn't respect or love me enough to make an effort. I was talking to a wall, especially when she was high. Its not communication when your the only one listening. i should have gone about it differently, definitely should not have picked up the bottle again. Its better it ended though, it was very toxic for her and i.
What is your friends sign, if you dont mind me asking?
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That sounds like a total mismatch. One of those situations where love just isn't enough. Your work ethics and expectations of each other aren't lined up.
Yeah and she thought if we got married it would have fixed everything.i still love her though, wish it could go back to the way it was when we were first together, but that girl is long gone. That tinder and instagram lifestyle got her locked in
Married— Hell naw.

Let me pick your brain tho. My bffs husband is a Libra. He started staying out late instead of coming home because he wasn't happy at home. Of course this made everything worse. Why did you start staying out drinking when things got bad in your relationship?
I had a drinking problem from early teen years till mid twenties. Used it to escape reality. I was weak by the end, I was working onernights, coming home to a messed up apartment, trying to keep it clean, taking care of the pets... I didn't feel appreciated, even though I communicated how I felt.should. She Stopped trying so for a moment I did. It felt like a relationship with myself.
Hmm...escapism. that makes sense. Thanks for answering that question 🙂.
Its one of two things for your friends husband; 1. He has given up on the relationship and making him self appear to be a horrible person, trying to passively have the partner make the decision to leave or 2. He needs to get away and balance himself as an individual, to see himself as more than the relationship. I loved my capi and wanted to be with her as much as I could, but I was losing my identity. I also felt as if she didn't respect or love me enough to make an effort. I was talking to a wall, especially when she was high. Its not communication when your the only one listening. i should have gone about it differently, definitely should not have picked up the bottle again. Its better it ended though, it was very toxic for her and i.
What is your friends sign, if you dont mind me asking?
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She's a cancer. Yea. I was thinking it was the first one. Now that he's been out of the house for a while, it seems that he's interested in doing
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....buyers remorse. He didn't start doing all of that until right after they got engaged. Then he thought he wanted kids. Kid comes along and he just gets worse. Smh. A family "sounds" good in theory, but people don't realize how much work a marriage and kids are. It takes everything you have just to keep things from going under. So I think it's a case of loving the idea more than the actual thing itself. :/
Yeah seems like he doesn't know himself very well. Wasn't ready to be married and forced it. Sorry your friend has to go through all that. Question did she push for the engagement?
My capi kept pushing for marriage, I told her that I want to marry her, but i didn't think we were ready for marriage. I wanted to be able to provide more, and that we have things to work on in our relationship. I knew that marriage takes a lot of work and that is where the problems in the relationship were.
I was never big on marriage because of witnessing the train wreck that was my parents relationship. I think she was more in love with the idea of marriage than what it marriage actually entailed.