Complex time for single libras?

Or is it just me? I feel like am ran over by a Tank 😢 Things all gone complicated over the weekend. My invisible gemini resurfaced telling me she is hopelessly in love with me but she is confused whether to disturb my current situation. My libra ex colleague/old flame also popped up and been talking to me for past 3 days and invited me over for a dinner with her family June 1st week when she is back in KL from Perth. My aqua accidentally met up with her ex (aries) sat night and found him all drunk and depressed and now she is confused like hell feeling guilty that she is responsible for his current stage and thinking of going back.


Are there other libras out there facing similar complex situations? Reminds me of how things went wrong during Sep last week.

Oh nooooooo

How do you feel about the gemini though? Is it something you could take up again? I do recall you being rather smitten some time ago 😉 And it would be unlike a Libran not to accept a dinner invitation would it?? Hmmmm actually come to think of it recently mine did but I think he's scared of my cooking LOL (which reminds me to put up a new subject re: pickyness...stay tuned LOL).

The Aqua needs time to deal through her feelings, especially if she is still hooked on her ex and/or feels bad for his current state, which of course is probably just in her head...everybody needs to take responsibility for their own actions...hopefully she'll realise that 🙂 I dont know much about Aquas but I do know a broken LIbra is not a good thing...perhaps they are the same *shrugs* but I am sorry for your state.....things will improve, they always do and life has a funny way of working itself out 🙂

I have been reading through the LIbran horoscope though thelibran, and it all looks good from what I can tell....you have ample of opportunities and need to just be your charming self 🙂

Enlighten me though, what happened last September.....(considering I only met my LIbran in October I am unaware as to what happened then)...that's of course if you don't mind sharing.

Complex time?
What you describe is basically my life and my friends.

Horrible guys and girls, in a way. Several people told me I should look for new friends, but does it really get better? If my luck with women is any indication, it would only get worse.

So I keep my friends who spent nights in the asylum, drink themselves stupid, do drugs, are sociophobic to the point of not talking anymore...
Most of them are so vulgar and egoistical it makes me sick sometimes. But what the heck - I'm not even sure if there are people without any hangups existing at all.

My 2 cents:
I dunno. If you have "normal" friends (and by that I mean more sane than insane) you could actually try out your diplomatic and therapeutic skills by giving advice.

On the other hand, you're from Singapore...

Welp, there goes all of the progress I have made trying to convince people we Libra guys aren't players. You just mapped out your juggling three girls situation.

😛

Jerk

ok, ok....look at the situation with the Gem objectivly, if emotions weren't involved does she exhibit what you want in a girlfriend. If not, does she exhibit what you want in a FWB.... If not. Keep in mind that Gem guys and girls LOVE being cold and uninterrested when you are then fall apart in a puddle of love and affection when you are "over" them. They are great when you don't want anything to do with em 😉

Pretty much the same thing with the Libra girl but without the cynical bit. Libra women don't bring you around their family unless they have decided your right for them. Libras in general like to leave family out of things until emotions and motivations are decided and objectives have been established.

As for the Aqua. Tell her that you think she is making a mistake in wanting to help this guy, but that you are her friend and have her back no matter what she decides and leave it at that. She is "unreachable" as long as she ties herself into this drama. Shake the hand say the wise words and walk away.

Welp, there goes all of the progress I have made trying to convince people we Libra guys aren't players. You just mapped out your juggling three girls situation.

😛

Jerk

ok, ok....look at the situation with the Gem objectivly, if emotions weren't involved does she exhibit what you want in a girlfriend. If not, does she exhibit what you want in a FWB.... If not. Keep in mind that Gem guys and girls LOVE being cold and uninterrested when you are then fall apart in a puddle of love and affection when you are "over" them. They are great when you don't want anything to do with em 😉

Pretty much the same thing with the Libra girl but without the cynical bit. Libra women don't bring you around their family unless they have decided your right for them. Libras in general like to leave family out of things until emotions and motivations are decided and objectives have been established.

As for the Aqua. Tell her that you think she is making a mistake in wanting to help this guy, but that you are her friend and have her back no matter what she decides and leave it at that. She is "unreachable" as long as she ties herself into this drama. Shake the hand say the wise words and walk away.

LOL I do like your posts Yishen!

I have to quote what my LIbran said the other night..."Im like a duck...on the water its all calm and serene but underneath Im paddling for my life but never seem to get anywhere"...awwwwww!! How sweet but sad, but so unbelievably true...you guys never show any vulnerability and seem to just struggle through life and won't allow those who are "normal" as you put it, to help or to get close - sheesh!!!

Also he has said "you're too nice" and stuff like that, yet complains about women/friends who treat him badly and use him up for those wonderful traits he displays, i.e. being a great friend...once they're done with him, they move on. In his particular situation, he looks for those who are screwed up, those who he won't get close to....strange!!

Gotta love him though LOL

Gem says she has been trying all these while to run away from me by double locking her email and chat id's. Finally came back saying "I dont wanna mess up your current situation". Wat the Hell!! Its already a mess. And funny part. I dont know her in real life, never seen or heard her. She is still scared. And I am in love with her for 2.5 years.

Libra is cool. I think even she is going through similar situations and kind of falling apart with her virgo ex. We kinda make each other feel better. Shoulder to cry and whine. lol.

Aqua broke off with her Aries ex bcoz of complications originated from parents approval. She was asked to pick btween him and her family(no..no... not Indian. So there is more than enough base for her pain. Morning she messaged me saying she cannot sleep when me myself was up playing chess in my laptop to stop my damn brain from overthinking and exploding.

So am juggling btween 3 air signs from 3 timezone belonging to 3 religious group(where as am anti-religious) and 3 ethnic group. What a beauty.

Yishen, Am originally from India. Working in SE Asia for last 2 years.

Hi thelibran

You are with an aqua now?? How is it 🙂 (or should I say was it)

OMG yes you take the prize thelibran!!! Man, I struggle with one Air sign who lives 5 minutes away!!! Personally I think you should pursue the Gemini...you're obviously under her skin 🙂

Or what the hell, do what Nic said you guys don't do...and be with all 3 😛

How on earth you can sit there playing chess with that going on is beyond me...I struggle to do ANYTHING of substance when Im that emotionally upsetted.....very impressive!! I would turn myself inside out...oh did you beat yourself at chess by the way?? LOL

Another option is - give up women altogether.....they're only trubble...so I've been told 😉

@thelibran:
I didn't mean any offense, thelibran 😉

I just know so many strange people from Singapore (among the some who do coke with the Mafia there - wtf? How do I always end up with these people??)... and they somehow are all more or less evil, so much that I slowly start thinking about Singapore as "The City of Evil" 😄

@Chatz:
I can confirm that they are only trouble. But if my gay pals are to be trusted, men aren't much different. Lose-lose situation, I suppose 😉

Not with her. All 3 are distance. Know only the libra in real life. Rest 2 are online. Aqua being the latest. So far it was good. And I was planning to visit her this July. Now am bit confused.

Well atleast she told you (aqua that is)...now she has to make her own decision.

You cannot offend a libran Yishen. 😛 hehehehehe... But am jus bit curious. You mean in Singapore or the ones from Singapore? Here any traces of drugs means you are straight away sentenced to death. In every single immigration check points you can find notice which says "death to drug traffickers". Been in 4 countries in SEasia and Spore is the safest and cleanest. Hardly any crime.

Chatz, Playing chess is to stabilize me back to normal. If I fail, I know my brain is elsewhere. So I keep playing till I win. 😉 Cannot watch movies at 5am disturbing neighbors.

Good to hear, thelibran.

No, it was IN Singapore. I couldn't believe it either at first, but I have to say, this person's talent for getting into potentially dangerous and weird situations rivals my own, so it's actually completely out of left field.

This person is always getting out unharmed by dumb luck, however, a thing I don't have. He also spent a few nights by inviting prostitutes for dinner (and nothing happened! Can you imagine that? I probably would've lost a kidney and woke up the next morning in some alley with an anchor tattooed on my butt - I don't dare to think about what would've happened with the Mafia....).

"Chatz, Playing chess is to stabilize me back to normal. If I fail, I know my brain is elsewhere"

Yeah guess we're all that way!!!

You guys do need to keep busy - guess that's better than other options 😛