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What Does It Mean When a Libra Falls in Love Quickly

When a Libra falls in love fast, it often reflects their desire for harmony and connection. Libras value relationships and can be quick to develop strong feelings if they feel a genuine bond. However, they also need to ensure their feelings are real and not impulsive. Understanding a Libra's love approach helps build trust and meaningful connections.

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Well I went out Saturday nite walked in a club at 1am and saw him about my height 5'5 or taller dark, handsome with a sexy wide smile and freakin dimples, I just started dancing with him then he smiled and I just had to take a picture of him. During the course of the nite all we did was dance Bop, slow danced and fast dancing, he brought me some drinks but I was already buzzing from the previous party I was at. So I asked him his name and he told me he told me he was dangerous and I said not as dangerous as me....I have not had sex in 4 months you don't want to see how dangerious I am. Yea I had a one night stand. I was in heat and he was my victim of sexually pleasure....we went to the drug store to get condoms, he paid for the hotel.
The rest is History.

What scares me is him telling me he Love Me so so so soon. Why, I asked him and he said because I do So I said do you normally fall in love so quickly or are you just trying to play with he. He said he was unhappy and that one night with me changed him and he is happy know, so I said it was the sex, get to know me frist. He was like anything you want let me know. and I said you don't mean that do you. He falls for people quickly. So I said here's the thing, lets just be friends get to know each other and see what happens. He told me that he has been used by women and I said I see why you are to gullible like you are being know and he was like yea, so then I said you should'nt.

Well the brother called me like 3 times yesterday. One to tell me he love me. He was thinking about me. Had a dream about me, and Just plain miss me. So I was like dude are you serious and he said yea.

I am going out to dinner with him tonight only because when we went to the hotel and because I did not know him, I had my gf hold on to his license and I forgot to give it back to him when she picked me up the next morning. LOL

I think I will have to lay down some concrete rules that he needs to live by when dealing with me because I don't want to hear the ILU's right know I want to get to know him because I believe that he really a nice sweet caring person. He kept saying that I was so cute and beautiful, that was to much for me to hear because he becamse suspect....hell this man is 5 years older than me, and I wonder what the hell did he learn about women over the years.


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Scorpionlady
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Emeraldgem

"OL....I love reading her posts. I can picture the whole thing!" You are funny LOL


"This one sounds like trouble S/L - but you don't need any advise from ME - you know how to handle men"

Thought that same thing and that is why he is suspect.

Bling
You say indulge myself.

I think what the problem is that he is to nice, sweet, caring and I am not used to that, I am used to cussing men out and given them a piece of my mind letting them know I am not to be played we. I have grew a very hard shell over the years.

But I will have fun...Damn the sex was AWESOME. GOTTA HAVE MORE. I broke my celibacy LOL
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Karima27
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Um...I didn't know Libra's fall for people so easily. This is all news to me. The ones I know are kinda-Not Laid back but definitely not all overly mushy...

Ya'll are short! LOL! 5"5 🙂 Nothing wrong with that though

SL-Tell him to be easy with the ILU's...that would make anyone uncomfortable after one night of sex. Please...that means he may be stalker material. Or lonely or something! I mean while it may sound nice...Let's be real here. He doesn't know you or you him. Maybe it's been a while for him too.

Anyway Good Luck breaking down those celibacy walls my love ✨ Sounds like a awesome plan!
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"Libras tend to bore me....to tears."

Hmmmm... Wow... I generally get on with most people, but oddly enough, from a purely friendship perspective I get along with air signs, Sags, and Scorps the best (and they are the least likely to bore me, intellectually or socially). I especially enjoy the way air signs think, with Sags and Scorps coming in second. As I said, though, I have always tended to get along with everyone, except perhaps Leos in my early years (I was a bit more awnry in those days).
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My friends and I dated Libras before and I noticed they are very quick to say I Love You. They throw the word around like its a frisbee. They are also fast to start relationships and talks of marriage (notice I said "talks" because their actions don't match their words). I also noticed that their feelings of love are shallow or not as deep as Scorpio or Cancer love (which is a problem for my moon in Cancer).

If they say it that fast, it ain't real. It is most likely, infatuation or care but not love. To me, love is deeper and builds with time. Romantic type of love (falling in love) definitely can't happen at first sight (because you don't know the person).
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Well dinner was nice I gave him back his license, and he said that he never had no one do that to him, but he understood why I took his license. LOL

The man adores me in his own little way, and it was because of the damn sex I am sure of that was all he talked about was how good I made him feel and know his manhood won't stay put every time he thinks about me it rises damn. I asked him was he infatuated and he looked puzzled so I told him what it meant and he said no no I really do love you so I just let him rant about it. I told him I won't sleep with him until the weekend and he said ok I can wait. damn

Ok here's the problem, the ILU's are ridiculas, the your are so cute and beautiful is getting on my nerves. the I am crazy about you all the things that he says to me is irratating the hell out of me. And it's crazy because I wanted someone to appreciated me love me and adore me but damn this is an over abundance of attention, and admiration, and so call love.

When he says ILU he looks dead in my eyes and says ILU so much and I just look at and say ok. He is talking future wife, and I am like I know you are not talking about me, and he said well how long do I have to wait to marry you and I said a couple of years,and he said couple of years then he says ok. I was like let's get to know each other first, and he said I have never had any one like you before and I can see he has'nt. I am convinced that the women he dated used the hell out of him and I can't do that.

He throws money at me like crazy. ok he gave me 40 bucks for my pocket, brought me dinner, put gas in my car, gave my son money for putting my headlights in my car so on my way taking him home he kept asking me am I alright do I need anything and I was like no I don't need any more money I am find if I need anything I will let you know and he had this look on his face like he was sad that I did not want anymore of his money. The man is loaded....he got hurt on his job and he is sue the company for some odd million dollars, he just got a check for like 10,000 when I met him and he was like when I cash how much do you want and I said what ever you wanna give me, then I said surprise me. I basically wanted to get some braids, my nails done and my toes done.

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I believe people come in your life for a reason a season or a life time. I think I came in his life to help him, he is two kind hearted he has given people money and when he was down no one helped him and he keeps talking about how he needs a good women. He was just blabbing on on to people about his money when he was gonna cash his check so I asked him why do you do that. That is your business you don't need to let everyone know what you have and he said yea yea your are right. So I figure I am in this man life to help him gain some type of self control with given. I just cannot be with him and just take and take because he gives. So I must really really take this slow and make him take it as slow as possible because if he does not. I don't know how long I will continue to date him. I just let him know I am not all about the money I have my own money....and don't really need his.
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karima,

I know that and if I need something I will ask him. I mean if you are talking marriage and all I don't want a husband that is giving to other people me and him...He did say that the lord comes fris then him then me. I am fine with that....but it should not be all his friends. Damn when I was in club is friend came to table and was like let me have a 20 and he just gave it to him, the needed the money to buy some girl a drink. that bumb....it is shit like that that I don't like.....know the man is gonna be around town with 10,000 in his pocket running wild. LOL go fucking figure.....And a nother thing that is ridiculas and stupid to me is the fact that he is 50 years old...damn...how can you be so freaking light hearted. He told me that hard and he needed someone like me.

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"that not really using someone ,if you make it known that you want the sex as it's hot and good,but you think people are taking him for a ride,and being a badass,you wouldn't mind helping him gain more backbone"

But on the flip side and maybe this is me being parinoid I kept thinking that I will be hated by some of his so call friends and they will think I am brainwashing him or using him for myself. You know say something like..."Damn man you let that women tell you what to do with your money" you know what I am saying, people tend to hate on other people when someone comes in the pictures and it stops them from what they were getting. And my other thought is what if that does happen will he stop listening to me and turn his back...I can't have that, I need to know that he will be there no matter what so from this point on I am from the SHOW ME STATE. Until this man gains a back bone.
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