Hello, need a bit of guidance,I am 38 yrs old. and have been dating someone for the past two months. He is younger to me by 2 yrs, he is very caring and loving, but he is also a very insecure person. It was ok at the start of the relationship, later on he started to ask me to check in where i was. That has gone further where he wants me to send him pics. He is very clear that he will not be ok with me not checkin in.Its a non negotiable point or him. it makes him comfy to know where i am, who i am with. I was ok doing it but i think its growing. Also he doesnt have any trust in me. Even tho i have never given him any reason to doubt me. i was out with my kid and he knew it and yet he thought we had someone with us, he wanted me to send him pics.. I was at an office event, which i had informed him well in advance, he got over the board upset as i dint check in and he thought i was out with someone else. He doesnt like me meeting my friends or doing things by myself. He hasnt said it with words but with his actions. If i leave for lunch he wants me to tell him, this was getting way too much to handle so i told him that i am unable to do it and meet his expectations. When we broke up he was very rude and unapproachable at the time of the break up. he has emailed me once and it was to ask for his stuff back. I miss him a lot and just like the drug effect i am hurting and want to get rid of that hurt by calling him and patching things up. He is insecure but like i said he is very caring and he understands me. Please tell me what i should do. Do ppl with insecurity change or does it get worse
