@stillstillwater
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can i punch him in the face now?
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Posted by KoniWhy keep talking to him then?
I know it's complicated but I could make it simple. Just stupidly drawn to him and it's a back and forth.
Part of you needs to let his ass go. He blocked you and then unblocked you, so he can have some peace on the weekend and spend time with who he wanted to, without being bothered.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by KoniWhy keep talking to him then?
I know it's complicated but I could make it simple. Just stupidly drawn to him and it's a back and forth.
Time is not a luxury that women have. You sound very silly.
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Yeah key word sound.. there's a lot more going on in my life that i'm choosing this back/forth issues with him. But the situation itself is silly, yes. Lawd.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by KoniWhy keep talking to him then?
I know it's complicated but I could make it simple. Just stupidly drawn to him and it's a back and forth.
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yes but he's not drawn to you enough or in the right way so best you not let this continue it's spiral downwards no ~ ?
Repeating what Koni said
Why do you keep trying to talk to him? It's pretty clear he's not interested and no amount of effort on your part will change his mind and if he does, do you really wanna be with someone who has no regard of how you feel?
"Playing you hard" ➡ NO
Low-key rejecting you so as not to hurt your feelings ➡ YES
Dont waste your pretty.
Accept the lost and move on.
Posted by DamousFor the fact that you just tried to play me, I hope you have games of cat and mouse for DECADES
You're dumb. I'm not playing anything.
What are you going to do?
Posted by DolluxxeRepeating what Koni said
Why do you keep trying to talk to him? It's pretty clear he's not interested and no amount of effort on your part will change his mind and if he does, do you really wanna be with someone who has no regard of how you feel?
"Playing you hard" ➡ NO
Low-key rejecting you so as not to hurt your feelings ➡ YES
I don't think he is low key rejecting me because you don't know his part in this and the many other things that he initiates without me asking/going for it. More like using me and leading me on for his own reasons. I know that I'm responsible in this too for the fact that i'm receiving his bs with open arms at times...but like i said i got my own reasons too. But that doesn't stop you from feeling blah at times. This situation definitely needs to be resolved but i'm just not ready....
Posted by SolaristicWhat are you going to do?
I don't know... address it. Next time he contacts me I'm going to ask him call me asap or forget talking to me ever again. Then discuss what is going on with him.
Posted by MolochWhy Caps always go directly to assault and battery?
lol i know right! But it's a fantasy irl i have a lot of self control physically
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by SolaristicWhat are you going to do?
I don't know... address it. Next time he contacts me I'm going to ask him call me asap or forget talking to me ever again. Then discuss what is going on with him.
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Yea, addressing it seems smart. I mean, you want to know why. What if he doesn't contact you?
Posted by AneemA04Are you dating this guy?
Let's call it talking and long distance situationship.
Posted by SolaristicPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by SolaristicWhat are you going to do?
I don't know... address it. Next time he contacts me I'm going to ask him call me asap or forget talking to me ever again. Then discuss what is going on with him.
Yea, addressing it seems smart. I mean, you want to know why. What if he doesn't contact you?
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He will. Trust me. There's a reason he unblocked me the first thing the weekend was over. He's not msging me right away to see where I'm at but I'm going to let him come to me then..BAM!
Posted by MolochPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by MolochWhy Caps always go directly to assault and battery?
lol i know right! But it's a fantasy irl i have a lot of self control physically
I'm just playing. You're like one of the calmest people on here.
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Thanks.. I appreciate that.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by SolaristicPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by SolaristicWhat are you going to do?
I don't know... address it. Next time he contacts me I'm going to ask him call me asap or forget talking to me ever again. Then discuss what is going on with him.
Yea, addressing it seems smart. I mean, you want to know why. What if he doesn't contact you?
He will. Trust me. There's a reason he unblocked me the first thing the weekend was over. He's not msging me right away to see where I'm at but I'm going to let him come to me then..BAM!
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Lmao. Perfect gif.
Posted by AneemA04Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by AneemA04Are you dating this guy?
Let's call it talking and long distance situationship.
Then there is no valid reason to punch him.
BUT! I would punch him anyway!
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lol! There's a lot of reasons to punch him but on some levels you're right. that's why i have to reserve my super saiyan reflex and just think about this logically.
But he is going to get a talking to because he is leading me on telling me how "we'll be together everyday when he moves here etc".
Posted by tizianiPosted by stillstillwaterBut he is going to get a talking to
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Don't tempt me, Libra! Not on my good graces right now haha
Huge turn off
Yuk
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Posted by MyStarsShineHuge turn off
Yuk
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To make it worse...I had a really weird feeling about this before it happened the day before like something was not right. Then when he pulled that shit before seeing his FB, I totally was worried that something happened to him like death in the family. Then after i went on FB, i was like this motherfucker!
Posted by GemCurioSay goodbye after a couple boxing lessons...
Yes thanks for looking out!
Posted by GemCurioPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by GemCurioSay goodbye after a couple boxing lessons...
Yes thanks for looking out!
This proves my other point, if a guy isn't dick nobody wants him. You're marinating there for one last hoorah not because you want to curse him out, but because it really doesn't matter what he did. You want to see if he can sweet talk you out of your knickers into a body slam..
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Oh shoosh. I have the right to see if he has any viable reasons for his BS or may be has any intentions of fixing the shituationship. Plus I'm a cap...so hellloooooooo? We stay focused till the absolute crash & burn, no?
Posted by GemCurioPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by GemCurioPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by GemCurioSay goodbye after a couple boxing lessons...
Yes thanks for looking out!
This proves my other point, if a guy isn't dick nobody wants him. You're marinating there for one last hoorah not because you want to curse him out, but because it really doesn't matter what he did. You want to see if he can sweet talk you out of your knickers into a body slam..
Oh shoosh. I have the right to see if he has any viable reasons for his BS or may be has any intentions of fixing the shituationship. Plus I'm a cap...so hellloooooooo? We stay focused till the absolute crash & burn, no?
Hmmm... So you're saying I should seduce a couple Cap women on my way to the women I would really want for an ego boost and a good ram and rut...
Thanks for permission... May I take a number and have a seat—
Normally I mind my business, but come the F@# $ on??!! Really??!!
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That was just mean!
Posted by CaliopePosted by saggurl88Part of you needs to let his ass go. He blocked you and then unblocked you, so he can have some peace on the weekend and spend time with who he wanted to, without being bothered.
But doesn't block her on facebook so she can see who he spent his weekend with lol
I'd never contact him again.
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I forgot about that!!! 😆
Posted by AntiochusHave you filed an official request?
What's an official request?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by CaliopePosted by saggurl88Part of you needs to let his ass go. He blocked you and then unblocked you, so he can have some peace on the weekend and spend time with who he wanted to, without being bothered.
But doesn't block her on facebook so she can see who he spent his weekend with lol
I'd never contact him again.
I forgot about that!!! 😆
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Damn... i'm really lacking perspective. It is the worse but why don't i feel that way.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by saggurl88Posted by CaliopePosted by saggurl88Part of you needs to let his ass go. He blocked you and then unblocked you, so he can have some peace on the weekend and spend time with who he wanted to, without being bothered.
But doesn't block her on facebook so she can see who he spent his weekend with lol
I'd never contact him again.
I forgot about that!!! 😆
Damn... i'm really lacking perspective. It is the worse but why don't i feel that way.
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That's cause you like him a lot and want to believe his bull shit lol You know you're being played but you don't care cause of how much you like him. We've all been there! I will forgive over and over again, until I get into bitch mode lol
Posted by AntiochusHave you filed an official request?
Made a reservation— 😆
Posted by GemCurioPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by GemCurioPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by GemCurioPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by GemCurioSay goodbye after a couple boxing lessons...
Yes thanks for looking out!
This proves my other point, if a guy isn't dick nobody wants him. You're marinating there for one last hoorah not because you want to curse him out, but because it really doesn't matter what he did. You want to see if he can sweet talk you out of your knickers into a body slam..
Oh shoosh. I have the right to see if he has any viable reasons for his BS or may be has any intentions of fixing the shituationship. Plus I'm a cap...so hellloooooooo? We stay focused till the absolute crash & burn, no?
Hmmm... So you're saying I should seduce a couple Cap women on my way to the women I would really want for an ego boost and a good ram and rut...
Thanks for permission... May I take a number and have a seat—
Normally I mind my business, but come the F@# $ on??!! Really??!!
That was just mean!
Now you know I do my best not to be rude, but who are you bullsh&tting?? There are men out there that actually respect women still, but your consent to have open arms for a guy who obviously isn't respecting you and treating women like Now Laters shouldn't be respected.
What do you think the next guy is going to think when you tell him this story—
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I won't tell him this story...
Ok listen I know you're right. It's just been too casual for too long that I'm so used to this bs with him. This is just with him; I'm not like this normally. My life is weird now and i guess he fulfills certain parts... but yeah time to be a big girl.
Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by saggurl88Posted by CaliopePosted by saggurl88Part of you needs to let his ass go. He blocked you and then unblocked you, so he can have some peace on the weekend and spend time with who he wanted to, without being bothered.
But doesn't block her on facebook so she can see who he spent his weekend with lol
I'd never contact him again.
I forgot about that!!! 😆
Damn... i'm really lacking perspective. It is the worse but why don't i feel that way.
Have you been in this situation with guys before or is he the first to jerk you around in such fashion?
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I've been in situations where it's a gray area but I quickly call it out and quickly end it. This is the first time that it's been so prolonged... and so full of feelings I suppose.
Posted by AntiochusPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by AntiochusHave you filed an official request?
What's an official request?
Have you officially asked him if you can give him a well deserved bitch slap to the face for what he is doing with and to you?
It seems to be pretty well deserved from what I could observe from your writtings about in the past.
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Yes! Worse part when I did have the chance to really bring out issues in person... i got so lost in the moment and just enjoying his company...forgot about all the important stuff.
Yeah fuck him all the way.
I swear I know 2 other Cap women who are chasing Libra guys and getting the same response as stillstillwater. Girl Libra's and Caps rarely make it together. Libra's get bored with Caps. Sorry because I don't mean to hurt you but leave that Leeb alone.
Posted by stillstillwaterJust some more update/nonsense on the Libra guy, Dude is playing me so hard....
Friday: we talked
Saturday: I texted hey
Sunday: I texted hey!
Sunday:
his response, "Sorry really busy now, talk later"
me: really on a sunday, is everything ok
him: no response
me: call him. then text him that i've had weird feelings since the weekend like something is wrong, let me know if everything's ok. then he blocks me on whatsapp.
*LATER...i go on facebook and he posted some video of being on lunch.
So yes super fucking busy.
Monday/Today: unblocked me.
Lil jerk was with a girl smh. He's playing me and i'm letting him. My spidey senses are saying it's his ex. I can't wait for the next convo we're gonna have. Part of me wants me to be all super saiyan on his ass and another part is like chillllll.
Girl, you are better than this. walk away.
i have a feeling i would have blocked you too.
Posted by stillstillwaterJust some more update/nonsense on the Libra guy, Dude is playing me so hard....
Friday: we talked
Saturday: I texted hey
Sunday: I texted hey!
Sunday:
his response, "Sorry really busy now, talk later"
me: really on a sunday, is everything ok
him: no response
me: call him. then text him that i've had weird feelings since the weekend like something is wrong, let me know if everything's ok. then he blocks me on whatsapp.
*LATER...i go on facebook and he posted some video of being on lunch.
So yes super fucking busy.
Monday/Today: unblocked me.
Lil jerk was with a girl smh. He's playing me and i'm letting him. My spidey senses are saying it's his ex. I can't wait for the next convo we're gonna have. Part of me wants me to be all super saiyan on his ass and another part is like chillllll.
Yo fux him! 😤😤
Posted by GemCurioPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by GemCurioPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by GemCurioPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by GemCurioPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by GemCurioSay goodbye after a couple boxing lessons...
Yes thanks for looking out!
This proves my other point, if a guy isn't dick nobody wants him. You're marinating there for one last hoorah not because you want to curse him out, but because it really doesn't matter what he did. You want to see if he can sweet talk you out of your knickers into a body slam..
Oh shoosh. I have the right to see if he has any viable reasons for his BS or may be has any intentions of fixing the shituationship. Plus I'm a cap...so hellloooooooo? We stay focused till the absolute crash & burn, no?
Hmmm... So you're saying I should seduce a couple Cap women on my way to the women I would really want for an ego boost and a good ram and rut...
Thanks for permission... May I take a number and have a seat—
Normally I mind my business, but come the F@# $ on??!! Really??!!
That was just mean!
Now you know I do my best not to be rude, but who are you bullsh&tting?? There are men out there that actually respect women still, but your consent to have open arms for a guy who obviously isn't respecting you and treating women like Now Laters shouldn't be respected.
What do you think the next guy is going to think when you tell him this story—
I won't tell him this story...
Ok listen I know you're right. It's just been too casual for too long that I'm so used to this bs with him. This is just with him; I'm not like this normally. My life is weird now and i guess he fulfills certain parts... but yeah time to be a big girl.
Who you trying to convince of that, me or you— Nobody is going to respect you anymore than you demand. Why would they... And unless you come back on here talking about how upset you are for having to let this ass clown go for disrespecting you don't try and sell this self respecting BS today... Real Talk.... Dammit.. You ruined my grammar for today...
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"You ruined my grammar for today..."
That's how you know it's real
Posted by DonnaLibraI swear I know 2 other Cap women who are chasing Libra guys and getting the same response as stillstillwater. Girl Libra's and Caps rarely make it together. Libra's get bored with Caps. Sorry because I don't mean to hurt you but leave that Leeb alone.
Yeah i'm trying to. I don't want to give you the wrong impression. Obviously I only make posts when things go bad but he chases too ...and we take different roles at different times. Trust me I wouldn't be all kinds of fucked up if he didn't contribute to how we are. You know what i mean? I don't just fall for someone based on nothing. But either way there just isn't enough in this to having anything real.
Posted by Black-MambaLibra moons are hilarious, ya'll are nuts!
Cap women need to understand ya'll deserve the best, not trash.
think Michelle Obama
"Libra moons are hilarious, ya'll are nuts!"
lol why?
He texted me today: Sorry about the other day I was dealing with some absolute madness in the day and just needed to have a day to deal with it. Anyway hope all is good.
I responded with a screenshot of my previous msgs that he hadn't opened basically asking if he was okay (before i saw his fb).
He: yeah I'm okay
and i'm not responding anymore. I know he doesn't think it's a big deal because just couple of weeks ago I blocked him but it was for a different reason (he was pissing me off ... not because I was with another guy) but him I know he was with someone else. I hope the reason why he blocked me was worth it smh
Posted by DamousI can’t remember what my name’s were. Synapse, fame, etc
See that's a problem...I've had the same name for like 5 years now that i've been on this site.
Posted by jeanei have a feeling i would have blocked you too.
Yes because you know me on the same level. We've known each other for 5 years while you i don't even know your name so fuck off.
ridiculous response. You do know you're not obligated to respond to every thread on the board, right?
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by AneemA04Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by AneemA04Are you dating this guy?
Let's call it talking and long distance situationship.
Then there is no valid reason to punch him.
BUT! I would punch him anyway!
lol! There's a lot of reasons to punch him but on some levels you're right. that's why i have to reserve my super saiyan reflex and just think about this logically.
But he is going to get a talking to because he is leading me on telling me how "we'll be together everyday when he moves here etc".
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A guy like that will say whatever to keep you "happy". Most guys will infact. And don't mean a word they say. I don't think it will have any effect on him giving him a piece of your mind or telling him, you'll never talk to him again. He won't care really and knows that you can't stop talking to him anyways.
The mistake here is actually believing in anything he says. Maybe hold onto that: know you can't believe a word he says and maybe your feelings will diminish over time and you'll be able to let him go eventually?!
Posted by starlordPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by AneemA04Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by AneemA04Are you dating this guy?
Let's call it talking and long distance situationship.
Then there is no valid reason to punch him.
BUT! I would punch him anyway!
lol! There's a lot of reasons to punch him but on some levels you're right. that's why i have to reserve my super saiyan reflex and just think about this logically.
But he is going to get a talking to because he is leading me on telling me how "we'll be together everyday when he moves here etc".
A guy like that will say whatever to keep you "happy". Most guys will infact. And don't mean a word they say. I don't think it will have any effect on him giving him a piece of your mind or telling him, you'll never talk to him again. He won't care really and knows that you can't stop talking to him anyways.
The mistake here is actually believing in anything he says. Maybe hold onto that: know you can't believe a word he says and maybe your feelings will diminish over time and you'll be able to let him go eventually?!
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actually i was thinking about this today that it would make mefeel better if i told him waht i thought of his shitty ass move. BUT then i was like that's too much effort given the state of affairs. So yeah just going to try to let it go now and i won't say that this is it... because i've said that in the past on this board like "I"m done. I'm blocking him" only to end up failing at that. So don't want to make false promises but i'm going to take steps towards that. I'm really disappointed in the scenario but hardly as heartbroken as i've been in the past over things so may be that's a good sign...
Posted by DamousPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by DamousI can’t remember what my name’s were. Synapse, fame, etc
See that's a problem...I've had the same name for like 5 years now that i've been on this site.
Lol I’m so hurt. LucciF (not that other cap from a few years ago or whatever). I’ve had this tag 3 years
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well damn lol i'm sorry. But are you even around that much? Supposedly you're a cap but i hardly see you post there.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by jeanei have a feeling i would have blocked you too.
Yes because you know me on the same level. We've known each other for 5 years while you i don't even know your name so fuck off.
ridiculous response. You do know you're not obligated to respond to every thread on the board, right?
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yes, i know.
thanks for confirming what i thought.
Posted by stillstillwaterHe texted me today: Sorry about the other day I was dealing with some absolute madness in the day and just needed to have a day to deal with it. Anyway hope all is good.
I responded with a screenshot of my previous msgs that he hadn't opened basically asking if he was okay (before i saw his fb).
He: yeah I'm okay
and i'm not responding anymore. I know he doesn't think it's a big deal because just couple of weeks ago I blocked him but it was for a different reason (he was pissing me off ... not because I was with another guy) but him I know he was with someone else. I hope the reason why he blocked me was worth it smh
Ohh y'all doing the back n forth stuff. Sadly, from my experience that ends badly.
I rarely tell people to walk away like I did earlier but ask yourself this, do you want toxic? If no, then work on ensuring your aren't participating in communications or lack of said communication (blocking) that feeds into toxicity. You seem to be intrigued by him or you would have closed that door. So why not try a different approach as What you have shared so far is cringe worthy. Which I get the feeling isn't what you want deep down.
The only person you should be punching in the face is yourself because you're just being a dumb bitch about the whole thing.
How much does your self esteem suck that you're humiliating yourself like this??
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Just some more update/nonsense on the Libra guy, Dude is playing me so hard....
Friday: we talked
Saturday: I texted hey
Sunday: I texted hey!
Sunday:
his response, "Sorry really busy now, talk later"
me: really on a sunday, is everything ok
him: no response
me: call him. then text him that i've had weird feelings since the weekend like something is wrong, let me know if everything's ok. then he blocks me on whatsapp.
*LATER...i go on facebook and he posted some video of being on lunch.
So yes super fucking busy.
Monday/Today: unblocked me.
Lil jerk was with a girl smh. He's playing me and i'm letting him. My spidey senses are saying it's his ex. I can't wait for the next convo we're gonna have. Part of me wants me to be all super saiyan on his ass and another part is like chillllll.