I have known this Libra Male (47) for 20 years. I am Cancer Female (39). We were involved for 3 of those 20 years and we broke up because i was too young for him and we fought a lot. Even when we broke up we still hung out together going for happy hours etc. He didn't tell me he had a new girlfriend that he accidentally got pregnant shortly after we ended but when i found out i was still being kind. We stopped talking for about 11 years ago. He found me through FB this year and chatted me up. He is now married to this woman and had a son in addition. I thought ok we can be friends but soon after hitting me up, he wanted to sleep with me and i said no. He proceeded to tell me that he still loved me etc, that he never was in love with his wife but married her to be a good dad to his kid, their sex life is non-existent and he doesn't have the relationship with her he had with me. He also said he was mad at me because when he got a new girlfriend years ago, i refused to sleep with him (yeah you read that right, i am getting bashed for doing the right thing lol) and i should have been. We went out for a drink and he let out that he had another kid while he was in a relationship with his wife and she doesn't know , he's a deadbeat dad to this kid and that he cheated on her 5 times, he even told me specifics about each person. I asked him why he told me all this and he says telling me the truth is the nature of our relationship. I wasn't aware tha i could absolve his sins lol. The next day he said he didn't want to talk to me because he only hurts people, he doesn't want to hurt me, he is ashamed to face me and we can't be friends. Great victim playing. I know they have a fence pole permanently stuck up their rears because their indecisive. My question... What the hell is going on here? I thought Libra males were very into partners and building a marriage? Do they ever tell the truth?
