Contemplating my next move with Libra

Hey there everyone, I am a long time reader first time poster here on DXPnet and I have kind of a small issue on the scheme of things that I need insight on.

I am a Cancer/Leo (July 23, 1987) with more than enough water placements to drown a fish (scorpio rising, cancer moon/mercury/venus) and I am having a bit of a difficult time trying to understand a Libra guy (September 25)that I have known for a few years. We started out as friends when we first met in the Navy and things were pretty fun and awesome. I went back to my command, and didn't see him for a year. I got put back on his ship the next year, and a month after we got on deployment I told him that I liked him and I have never done that before in my life. A lot of things went down on that deployment (office politics, everyone in our business, we slept together, a misunderstanding that happened over one of our ports) and it threw everything over a loop. By the end of everything, I was going threw the gammut emotionally for the first time over a guy ( I was engaged previously and even then I wasn't that emotional about it) and he showed his emotions another way (telling all of his friends how he felt about me but not telling me, checking up with my friends to see if I am in a relationship all the while not talking to me and "dating" a girl that looked just like me). It has been a long few years since then with both of us popping up in each others lives but in the past few years, I have grown tired. In the past year, we have made strides to kind of fix our friendship with both of us kind of admitting that we had screwed up but he does this disappearing act before anything can get accomplished. This most recent time, after disappearing for months, he comes out and tells me that he wants me to visit him in Arizona and asking me on dates but when I step up to give him a date he backs off just to propose it again later on. He is in the midst of a disappearing act with me at the moment after he asked me out a few days after Christmas and I told him I was visiting family down South. I called him to tell him when I'll be back and he doesn't answer the phone and I messaged him on FB just for him to deactivate it hours later. I don't know what I should do. Part of me just wants to get past all of the issues and get to being his friend again but a part of me just wants to drop it where it is and walk away. I know I left a lot out but I was trying to make this as easy to read as possible. lol

I deeply appreciate the feedback, been thinking about it off and on today and was trying to make sure before I absolutely pull the plug on this if it is the right decision.

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