Just give him a hand job and chocolates and all will be well...
Do I Still Have A Chance With This Libra Male?
Posted by gemguyaz34Lol Nothing less of a response I would've expected from a Gemini Sun ^_^ Thanks...But that would only work for a Gemini Male π
Just give him a hand job and chocolates and all will be well...
Posted by LustHey there lust! Long time no see! Haha yes i was actually being serious its true advice!
Gemguyaz34 is 100% correct.
Libra here, I approve this message!
Glad to hear all well with u Gemguyaz34βΊΓ―ΒΈ
I read your post.
Hope you are well too π
....on texting him someday soon and saying, "I do want to continue dating, I'm sorry." Something along those lines where it is honestly short, that way it is ultimately up to him to decide without any emotional banter. The last thing I want to do is push him away with a paragraph of my feelings.
Thank you for anyone's help and input, I greatly appreciate you all π
Ahhh, little one you've made a mistake you're regretting (I can feel your pain) as I am Piscean (water sign) not an AZZ like Gemini is/are. I am surprised within the 10 month relationship HE spoke those three little words that didn't come from you; but from him. Did you know you broke his heart by severing the relationship after a couple of days after he said, "I love you". But it's never too late to mend this (and his heart). Libras tend to be indecisive; but not for YOUR Libra. He was being very careful not to say those words too soon as he's learned from the past and what happened? Yeah, you can re-read the above comment from me. How do you mend a broken heart/ego? Talk to the guy! Be honest and sincere (please don't do it via text, e-mail, FB, etc). YOU verbally broke it off w/him you can be the lady you are and meet him face-to-face and talk to him about it. Express your feelings. When you ________ I felt ___________. I'm ASSUMING you were afraid when you heard him use those words; then tell him. If you were not ready; then tell him. If you felt he wasn't sincere, then tell him. Life is a huge blackboard (school). You're learning when God has dropped a wonderful man on your lap. Try to be amongst the rest of us who have not met a man like you have (who CARES)....you just haven't tasted that for days/months/maybe years. You've got a lot of explaining to do and I just pray he takes you back.
Keep us posted. You DESERVE a cyber hug π€
Love,
Eva
Thank you for anyone's help and input, I greatly appreciate you all π
Ahhh, little one you've made a mistake you're regretting (I can feel your pain) as I am Piscean (water sign) not an AZZ like Gemini is/are. I am surprised within the 10 month relationship HE spoke those three little words that didn't come from you; but from him. Did you know you broke his heart by severing the relationship after a couple of days after he said, "I love you". But it's never too late to mend this (and his heart). Libras tend to be indecisive; but not for YOUR Libra. He was being very careful not to say those words too soon as he's learned from the past and what happened? Yeah, you can re-read the above comment from me. How do you mend a broken heart/ego? Talk to the guy! Be honest and sincere (please don't do it via text, e-mail, FB, etc). YOU verbally broke it off w/him you can be the lady you are and meet him face-to-face and talk to him about it. Express your feelings. When you ________ I felt ___________. I'm ASSUMING you were afraid when you heard him use those words; then tell him. If you were not ready; then tell him. If you felt he wasn't sincere, then tell him. Life is a huge blackboard (school). You're learning when God has dropped a wonderful man on your lap. Try to be amongst the rest of us who have not met a man like you have (who CARES)....you just haven't tasted that for days/months/maybe years. You've got a lot of explaining to do and I just pray he takes you back.
Keep us posted. You DESERVE a cyber hug π€
Love,
Eva
Eva dont give her false hope, she might have done herself a favor. If she doesn't walk away he probably will in the end all be all.
Thats good advice coming from a fish sign that lives in never never land -says so the azz.
Thats good advice coming from a fish sign that lives in never never land -says so the azz.
I wouldn't expect anyone to take you back, tbh. You sound stupid and fickle in this department. He sounds better off without you. Libras are indecisive enough on their own. They don't need more from their partner.
I mean really, you're on and off with the guy for almost a year and when he says the "L" word, you freeze up? Really? You either know or you don't. After that much time (off and on or not), you should have an idea of what's really going on.
This sounds more like a case of you want what you can't have since you cut yourself off. Stop fucking around with others' emotions when you can't even figure yours out. If you're this unsure after this much time, chances are it's not meant to be. Especially if it's been "on and off" for so long.
I mean really, you're on and off with the guy for almost a year and when he says the "L" word, you freeze up? Really? You either know or you don't. After that much time (off and on or not), you should have an idea of what's really going on.
This sounds more like a case of you want what you can't have since you cut yourself off. Stop fucking around with others' emotions when you can't even figure yours out. If you're this unsure after this much time, chances are it's not meant to be. Especially if it's been "on and off" for so long.
Posted by EvatheDivaAhhh, little one you've made a mistake you're regretting (I can feel your pain) as I am Piscean (water sign) not an AZZ like Gemini is/are. I am surprised within the 10 month relationship HE spoke those three little words that didn't come from you; but from him. Did you know you broke his heart by severing the relationship after a couple of days after he said, "I love you". But it's never too late to mend this (and his heart). Libras tend to be indecisive; but not for YOUR Libra. He was being very careful not to say those words too soon as he's learned from the past and what happened? Yeah, you can re-read the above comment from me. How do you mend a broken heart/ego? Talk to the guy! Be honest and sincere (please don't do it via text, e-mail, FB, etc). YOU verbally broke it off w/him you can be the lady you are and meet him face-to-face and talk to him about it. Express your feelings. When you ________ I felt ___________. I'm ASSUMING you were afraid when you heard him use those words; then tell him. If you were not ready; then tell him. If you felt he wasn't sincere, then tell him. Life is a huge blackboard (school). You're learning when God has dropped a wonderful man on your lap. Try to be amongst the rest of us who have not met a man like you have (who CARES)....you just haven't tasted that for days/months/maybe years. You've got a lot of explaining to do and I just pray he takes you back.
....on texting him someday soon and saying, "I do want to continue dating, I'm sorry." Something along those lines where it is honestly short, that way it is ultimately up to him to decide without any emotional banter. The last thing I want to do is push him away with a paragraph of my feelings.
Thank you for anyone's help and input, I greatly appreciate you all π
Keep us posted. You DESERVE a cyber hug π€
Love,
Eva
Thank you so much for your response EvatheDiva, you are definitely right about him being guarded (as I was too) due to his past. So, for him to tell me he loved me must've been a huge deal and I definitely got scared as it was not what I expected in the least bit. During our relationship, he told me he wasn't looking for a serious relationship as he said he's not sure what he wants but that he's certain that he wants me. Me, on the other hand, I wanted us to be exclusive and have the label of being boyfriend and girlfriend. Although, he seemed loyal and caring, I just couldn't 100% trust him which is why I couldn't tell if he was being sincere about saying, "I love you." I thought he was saying that just to take our relationship to the next level of intimacy, in which we haven't explored each other sexually. Admittedly, I undeniably screwed up for letting him go and just to clarify, I ended it through text. I doubt he would want to see me, especially aft
Ouch. So not only did you not say "I love you" back, you broke up with him shortly thereafter. It would take a lot more than some chocolate and a simple, "Sorry" for me to give you another chance. I wouldn't trust you not to pull this type of stunt again.
He was being very cordial and polite with you post-breakup, which is how I would have responded. It doesn't really mean anything. Why the sudden change of mind, anyway?
I suppose you have nothing to lose by reaching out, as I'm sure he still cares about you in some way, but be honest with yourself. Make sure you actually do want him back before taking the plunge. If it is purely for ego or loneliness, then please just let him be.
Next time, think before you leap. Don't break up with someone unless you know with absolute clarity that it's what you want.
He was being very cordial and polite with you post-breakup, which is how I would have responded. It doesn't really mean anything. Why the sudden change of mind, anyway?
I suppose you have nothing to lose by reaching out, as I'm sure he still cares about you in some way, but be honest with yourself. Make sure you actually do want him back before taking the plunge. If it is purely for ego or loneliness, then please just let him be.
Next time, think before you leap. Don't break up with someone unless you know with absolute clarity that it's what you want.
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I doubt he would want to see me, especially after reading other negative comments, I'm starting to think that maybe letting him go is really for the best for him? I am stupid and I knew I would regret it when I sent him the text. I honestly don't know what to do. Our relationship has been a roller coaster ride with ups and downs and like I've mentioned, we've been on and off throughout this 10 month relationship due to faults from both him and I. He has ended it with me before, due to saying he can't handle school and a relationship at the same time and now I've ended it recently due to his sudden distance (and idk if it's due to being heart broken because he seemed fine a few days after, still keeping in touch and texting me). Then he went from hot to cold so I got fed up one day and just flat out texted him that I no longer wanted to continue dating. Maybe this is all a understanding..I don't know π’ Truly, I want to talk to him but I can't tell if he's completely over me or not. His positive response when I asked how was his day, gives me some kind of hope but then he could just be polite.
Anyways, I cannot thank you enough for your kind words and motivation. You are awesome! π
I doubt he would want to see me, especially after reading other negative comments, I'm starting to think that maybe letting him go is really for the best for him? I am stupid and I knew I would regret it when I sent him the text. I honestly don't know what to do. Our relationship has been a roller coaster ride with ups and downs and like I've mentioned, we've been on and off throughout this 10 month relationship due to faults from both him and I. He has ended it with me before, due to saying he can't handle school and a relationship at the same time and now I've ended it recently due to his sudden distance (and idk if it's due to being heart broken because he seemed fine a few days after, still keeping in touch and texting me). Then he went from hot to cold so I got fed up one day and just flat out texted him that I no longer wanted to continue dating. Maybe this is all a understanding..I don't know π’ Truly, I want to talk to him but I can't tell if he's completely over me or not. His positive response when I asked how was his day, gives me some kind of hope but then he could just be polite.
Anyways, I cannot thank you enough for your kind words and motivation. You are awesome! π
(So sorry for the clutter of responses from myself, I was having technical difficulties and wanted you to get my full response)
Thank you so much for your response EvatheDiva, you are definitely right about him being guarded (as I was too) due to his past. So, for him to tell me he loved me must've been a huge deal and I definitely got scared as it was not what I expected in the least bit. During our relationship, he told me he wasn't looking for a serious relationship as he said he's not sure what he wants but that he's certain that he wants me. Me, on the other hand, I wanted us to be exclusive and have the label of being boyfriend and girlfriend. Although, he seemed loyal and caring, I just couldn't 100% trust him which is why I couldn't tell if he was being sincere about saying, "I love you." I thought he was saying that just to take our relationship to the next level of intimacy, in which we haven't explored each other sexually. Admittedly, I undeniably screwed up for letting him go and just to clarify, I ended it through text. I doubt he would want to see me, especially after reading other negative comments, I'm starting to think that maybe letting him go is really for the best for him? I am stupid and I knew I would regret it when I sent him the text. I honestly don't know what to do. Our relationship has been a roller coaster ride with ups and downs and like I've mentioned, we've been on and off throughout this 10 month relationship due to faults from both him and I. He has ended it with me before, due to saying he can't handle school and a relationship at the same time and now I've ended it recently due to his sudden distance (and idk if it's due to being heart broken because he seemed fine a few days after, still keeping in touch and texting me). Then he went from hot to cold so I got fed up one day and just flat out texted him that I no longer wanted to continue dating. Maybe this is all a understanding..I don't know π’ Truly, I want to talk to him but I can't tell if he's completely over me or not. His positive response when I asked how was his day, gives me some kind of hope but then he could just be polite.
Anyways, I cannot thank you enough for your kind words and motivation. You are awesome! π
Thank you so much for your response EvatheDiva, you are definitely right about him being guarded (as I was too) due to his past. So, for him to tell me he loved me must've been a huge deal and I definitely got scared as it was not what I expected in the least bit. During our relationship, he told me he wasn't looking for a serious relationship as he said he's not sure what he wants but that he's certain that he wants me. Me, on the other hand, I wanted us to be exclusive and have the label of being boyfriend and girlfriend. Although, he seemed loyal and caring, I just couldn't 100% trust him which is why I couldn't tell if he was being sincere about saying, "I love you." I thought he was saying that just to take our relationship to the next level of intimacy, in which we haven't explored each other sexually. Admittedly, I undeniably screwed up for letting him go and just to clarify, I ended it through text. I doubt he would want to see me, especially after reading other negative comments, I'm starting to think that maybe letting him go is really for the best for him? I am stupid and I knew I would regret it when I sent him the text. I honestly don't know what to do. Our relationship has been a roller coaster ride with ups and downs and like I've mentioned, we've been on and off throughout this 10 month relationship due to faults from both him and I. He has ended it with me before, due to saying he can't handle school and a relationship at the same time and now I've ended it recently due to his sudden distance (and idk if it's due to being heart broken because he seemed fine a few days after, still keeping in touch and texting me). Then he went from hot to cold so I got fed up one day and just flat out texted him that I no longer wanted to continue dating. Maybe this is all a understanding..I don't know π’ Truly, I want to talk to him but I can't tell if he's completely over me or not. His positive response when I asked how was his day, gives me some kind of hope but then he could just be polite.
Anyways, I cannot thank you enough for your kind words and motivation. You are awesome! π
Thank you for your advice and sharing your experience sagiluv,
Mine was hard to show his emotions at first too, as was I. We were both cautious of opening our hearts in the beginning due to our past. I think you're right, he most likely was mirroring my behavior by keeping his distance and you're definitely right about there being miscommunication. In this instance, there was no communication on my part as I incoherently made the decision to end it without further explanation because I was tired of him being hot and cold. That's absolutely great that you and your Libra got back together 10x stronger, that is how I hope we will be if he were to take me back. I can promise that I will be a lot better and do good to him, as well as show nothing but love as he had shown me. I really do want to talk to him so I will take your advice about asking him if he has time to talk in person. And if he rejects, then that will be the end of it and this will all be a learning experience.
Mine was hard to show his emotions at first too, as was I. We were both cautious of opening our hearts in the beginning due to our past. I think you're right, he most likely was mirroring my behavior by keeping his distance and you're definitely right about there being miscommunication. In this instance, there was no communication on my part as I incoherently made the decision to end it without further explanation because I was tired of him being hot and cold. That's absolutely great that you and your Libra got back together 10x stronger, that is how I hope we will be if he were to take me back. I can promise that I will be a lot better and do good to him, as well as show nothing but love as he had shown me. I really do want to talk to him so I will take your advice about asking him if he has time to talk in person. And if he rejects, then that will be the end of it and this will all be a learning experience.
Posted by FleshpotThe sudden change of mind is due to realizing that I've made a mistake and there might've been a misunderstanding on both sides. I do love him and I don't want to officially let it go unless he wants to. This is not due to my own ego or loneliness, I don't care about my ego when it comes to people I care about and I'm used to being alone as I've been most of my life so that isn't it either. You're right, I'll definitely think before I leap. I can only hope he agrees to see me in person to talk.
Ouch. So not only did you not say "I love you" back, you broke up with him shortly thereafter. It would take a lot more than some chocolate and a simple, "Sorry" for me to give you another chance. I wouldn't trust you not to pull this type of stunt again.
He was being very cordial and polite with you post-breakup, which is how I would have responded. It doesn't really mean anything. Why the sudden change of mind, anyway?
I suppose you have nothing to lose by reaching out, as I'm sure he still cares about you in some way, but be honest with yourself. Make sure you actually do want him back before taking the plunge. If it is purely for ego or loneliness, then please just let him be.
Next time, think before you leap. Don't break up with someone unless you know with absolute clarity that it's what you want.
Thank you for your help!
Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou're right rockyroadicecream, I am stupid and fickle, and he may be better off without me but I'm not going to let it go without talking to him first. I'm not unsure, I know I love him and I've already told him this during our relationship, he was just the first to say it in person and I honestly didn't know if he meant it because he told me before that he wasn't looking for a serious relationship but that he knew he wanted to be with me. I've been wanting to make it official but he was still unsure. So, therefore I became unsure of his intentions when he told me he loved me.
I wouldn't expect anyone to take you back, tbh. You sound stupid and fickle in this department. He sounds better off without you. Libras are indecisive enough on their own. They don't need more from their partner.
I mean really, you're on and off with the guy for almost a year and when he says the "L" word, you freeze up? Really? You either know or you don't. After that much time (off and on or not), you should have an idea of what's really going on.
This sounds more like a case of you want what you can't have since you cut yourself off. Stop fucking around with others' emotions when you can't even figure yours out. If you're this unsure after this much time, chances are it's not meant to be. Especially if it's been "on and off" for so long.
Posted by sagiluvI totally agree with this!
I'm dating a libra & what I've learned for him it was hard to show me his emotions at first, he was sweet and respectful always but at one point in the beguiling he pulled back so I left him too!! But he had never told me he loved me at the time only that he was crazy about me. I hear that libras say things in the moment & most of the time they do feel them. Yes there's a lot of change of mind, but if they mean it they usually don't like rejection, they are affraid not to hear things back and look or feel dumb, so they tend to mirror your behavior. Because some are affraid to show emotions it's good to show yours first sometimes and open up making them feel comfortable to open up to you too. Now the reason he must of pulled back was because he said he loved you and he felt as you didn't feel the same so there he became a little distant, there's a lot of miscommunication between couples who don't share feelings or talk about where they stand. In my case when mine became distant I did break it off, but he came back & when he did he was more demonstrative & so was I. I was done playing guessing games. The relationship because more clear to both & now we both feel loved and prove it to each other, you must be patient & understanding. Try to talk to him, he will be understanding, tell him how you felt when he said the I love you, tell him that you do care about him too & tje reason why you ended it & let him open up too make him feel at ease with you. Libras don't let go of people they love that easily. Don't text him that you wanna get back on track , but ask him if he has time to talk in person, then in person calmly talk to him and clear things up. That's my advise.
Posted by Libra82Thank you Libra82, that's what I plan on doing some time soon. I don't want to bother him while he just started a new job and is probably trying to get his life "balanced." But I guess sooner is better than later, right? Before feelings are officially lost with time passing.
I did not read all your posts but if you like him I think you should talk to him and explain why you ended it with him.
Maybe he still feels the same for you. If he doesn't well then you know.
Posted by Keen_FalconPosted by sparkWell, as an Libra Man i can say that you have chance. When he sayed "figred. Alright i won't hold ya down". It's not like he doesn't care for you, we don this because we care for your freedom, we wanto you to be with us because you want it and we want you to show your emotions without fear, it's fear that creates poison in relashioships and destroy the heaven we try to create with the person. It's hard to us libras to open our privacys and create and common heaven, it's easier to be in heaven alone, so you just need to always aim to create heaven and everything will be allright between us.
So I've been dating on and off again with a Libra Male for about 10 months now and just last week, I impulsively decided to end the relationship due to bitter emotions and a growing distance between us. Now, I've realized I may have made a mistake in ending the relationship so abruptly without talking it out first and I sincerely regret my decision in doing so.
I'll add that we ended on a mutual note I guess, as we certainly didn't end on bad terms. Although when I told him I didn't want to continue dating, he responded by saying, "Figured. Alright I won't hold ya down."
After almost a week of not speaking to each other since the day I ended it, I decided to see how he was doing yesterday and he responded positively, when I was expecting the worst.
Me: How was your first day at the new job?! π
Him: It was very agreeable thanks for asking. Hope yours was well.
To give a little more background information, the week before this all happened, he told me he loved me while we were cuddling. I froze and didn't say it back, out of fear and I wasn't 100% sure that it was real. I'm not sure if me not saying it back caused the sudden distance between him and I, but I know that my feelings for him are still there and I do want to make this work somehow. I understand Libra Males don't like wishy-washy people and I know that is what I've just displayed.
Does anyone have advice on what I should do?
Should I just let him go or should I tell him how I truly feel?
I was also planning on texting him someday soon and saying, "I do want to continue dating, I'm sorry." Something along those lines where it is honestly short, that way it is ultimately up to him to decide without any emotional banter. The last thing I want to do is push him away with a paragraph of my feelings.
Thank you for anyone's help and input, I greatly appreciate you all πclick to expand
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Beautifully written and well said Keen_Falcon..Thank you π
You're right, now I think about it, he was definitely mirroring my actions as I had my heart guarded. I hope he'll give me the chance to speak to him in person, that way we can clarify any misunderstandings and I do want him to know that my feelings are truly genuine.
You're right, now I think about it, he was definitely mirroring my actions as I had my heart guarded. I hope he'll give me the chance to speak to him in person, that way we can clarify any misunderstandings and I do want him to know that my feelings are truly genuine.
Posted by DollyLuxeIt's hard for us Aquarius' to open up and show emotions as well, we are thinkers too and live in our heads. I've already opened up to him before during a disagreement and told him I loved him, in return he mocked me and brushed it off. Now, after some time has passed and we are spending time together in person, he decides to unexpectedly tell me he loves me which took me off guard and as much as I wanted to say it back to him, I didn't have to guts to because I did not trust it was true at the moment. I thought he may have been telling me he loved me, only to make me happy. Yes, I've betrayed him and I probably lost him for good but it was a mistake that I'm learning from. We have both made mistakes, I was just the first to end it without giving any explanation in which he never asked. Therefore, I hope reaching out to him and asking if he has time to meet in person will resolve each other's misunderstandings. And if not, I'll let him and let him be. I already know I don't deserve it but one can only hope.
I'm a Libra. You can talk to the guy but personally? My ego would be bruised and would cut you off from my life. I see your actions as betrayal. If I say those three words, I mean it and if the other person runs away then that's definitely an eye-opener for me. I'm not going to let someone like that into my life again. It's hard enough for us Libras to show emotions as we are thinkers so him opening up to you and being vulnerable was a mistake IMO.
Posted by Keen_FalconThank you for your help again, Keen_Falcon,
(Don't forget to let us take care of balance, (i will not say we now) i love when the girl have flaws and no shame in her flaws, like she's become angry with something but she respect me when i try to help her with her emotions. I like being the guide of emotions and i like you to destroy the balance to create adventure and surprise. But this is just my opinion as an Libra Man. You can do whatever you choose do do, hope you choose me so i can choose you. π (i have too much difficult in relationships as an libra man, i hope i find someone that care about me like you do about him. π )
You are very wise and your words are very inspirational. If I may, I would like to ask you another question in regards to this if you don't mind. So, I do plan on asking him if he has time to speak to me in person but I was wondering if I should do so as soon as possible or if I should give it a few days or more. It's been a week since I've ended it and I don't want to come off as a bipolar psychotic (which he may think I am) or seem like this is all rushed. As much as I would love to talk to him now, I know that he's busy as he just started a new job and I don't want to get him off balance (although, you've mentioned that Libras like to take care of their own balance). How long do you think I should wait before asking him to speak with me? I want him to know my intentions are true and my feelings are real, as hard as it may be to believe since I am the one who ended it so abruptly =/
Posted by topesCertainly and undeniably selfish stupidity on my end, no doubt about that. I have told him I loved him in the past and he mocked me in return. He suddenly says it to me in person and I could not say it back because I did not know if he genuinely meant it and I take those 3 words very seriously. I'm pulling all this effort because I don't think it's pointless and I appreciate all the help I can get from reading other people's opinions as well as thoughts.
Saying 'I love you' isn't a contract saying 'you are mine forever'. All you had to do was say it back and now you're putting all this pointless effort into fixing your silly mistake.
It may or may not mend. But the memory of that horrific moment will live with him forever. Librans don't forget things this big.
Selfish stupidity on your end. Good luck.
LM.
Posted by Keen_FalconThank you for sharing your experience and story Keen_Falcon, your perspective and advice has helped me out greatly π
But maybe i will be happy if i talk to her again, but i am an proud guy? if so i will not give up my reason. But what i like about she is that she has no reason, she have flaws but she don't fear her flaws, i'm happy she's talking to me)
And so go on... I'm not a guru, you will need to figure out for yourself, i have fear in tellling you to do the wrong thing. π
So, I text messaged him last night asking if we can talk in person and luckily, he happily agreed. Although today, he asked why we needed to talk though, and I simply replied that I wanted to be with him and that I would like for us to speak in person on Saturday. He keeps texting me that I can't keep on doing this and I agree. I know what I plan on saying when I see him, hopefully he will understand and accept my flaws. Anyways, I cannot thank you enough for your help and thoughtful responses in this. If you can set your pride and ego aside for a moment by talking to her, I think you would be pleased with the outcome either way it turns out because then you'll have peace of mind of knowing instead of wondering. If you truly want to be with her and if she wants to be with you, you should be fearless as she had been with you by approaching you in the past. Hopefully, her games and coldness is over with though. Don't blame yourself or believe that failed relationships were your fault, because it "takes two to tango."
Posted by libraqueenThank you libraqueen,
You bruised his ego and now he's loving how you realized your mistake. My advice is don't get clingy or act desperate. As of now, he has leverage over you. He knows it. Just have fun together, act chill, and make him want to be with you again. The moment you panic and cling on is when he'll blast away from you.
Don't breakup with him so easily ever again. Think about it..you probably hurt his feelings.
By the way don't listen to the "Libras are indecisive" stereotype. When we really like you, you're it. We might be indecisive on where we wanna eat, but we know you're who we wanna eat with.
I agree, I definitely bruised his ego more than once as I didn't reply back that I loved him too and for allowing the distance to grow between us, ultimately leading me to end our relationship without consequential thought =/ Oh yes, I know he's definitely loving the attention now and that I've realized my mistake. Thankfully, I'm not a clingy person and I have not given the notion of desperateness. He has texted me a long paragraph of what I've been doing wrong and I'd simply reply back that I would like to speak in person. I love your last sentence as I believe that rings true π I understand what I've done wrong in our relationship and I don't plan on ending things so easily ever again. Although what I did was absolutely messed up to the core, it has made me realize not only things I've done wrong but it has also made me want to become better than I was before and fearless π
Posted by Keen_FalconYour advice and words have helped me tremendously π Although you may fear that what you're telling me may be wrong, I don't believe there is technically a "right" or "wrong" when receiving advice from others. I greatly appreciate reading different points of views as it opens my mind and helps me learn.Posted by spark" walk beside me or just get out of my way." (but this is my case, π ) I can see a long road ahead and less weigh i carry, more freedom and news i will see. Sorry for opening this up.Posted by Keen_FalconThank you for sharing your experience and story Keen_Falcon, your perspective and advice has helped me out greatly π
But maybe i will be happy if i talk to her again, but i am an proud guy? if so i will not give up my reason. But what i like about she is that she has no reason, she have flaws but she don't fear her flaws, i'm happy she's talking to me)
And so go on... I'm not a guru, you will need to figure out for yourself, i have fear in tellling you to do the wrong thing. π
Don't blame yourself or believe that failed relationships were your fault, because it "takes two to tango."click to expand
That's great that you've acknowledged what you want at this moment for you and you only, it's very admirable. I don't know about playing cold, hopefully it's not like that all of the time but I do agree with a phase where you focus on your independent self and constantly change things up daily. If you like someone, I think you should go for it because who knows what may happen? But I understand your case and situation, because you have chosen a path to be alone right now..Hopefully until you've achieved your goals. Keen_Falcon, I think it amazing and inspiring that you have truly found your inner peace and have chosen to find a place where you feel you belong, away from negative energy and surroundings. Anyways, no need to apologize for opening up about yourself π Like I've mentioned, I enjoy reading what you have to say and I find it very interesting.
I hope you leave your hometown at the right time (in which I know you will), you'll succeed in whatever work/career you find and do.
I like your tagline and I think it holds true to you right now, "Don't be afraid to walk alone, don't be afraid to like it." π
Posted by sparkmuch love and luck and keep us posted ...Posted by Keen_FalconYour advice and words have helped me tremendously π Although you may fear that what you're telling me may be wrong, I don't believe there is technically a "right" or "wrong" when receiving advice from others. I greatly appreciate reading different points of views as it opens my mind and helps me learn.Posted by spark" walk beside me or just get out of my way." (but this is my case, π ) I can see a long road ahead and less weigh i carry, more freedom and news i will see. Sorry for opening this up.Posted by Keen_FalconThank you for sharing your experience and story Keen_Falcon, your perspective and advice has helped me out greatly π
But maybe i will be happy if i talk to her again, but i am an proud guy? if so i will not give up my reason. But what i like about she is that she has no reason, she have flaws but she don't fear her flaws, i'm happy she's talking to me)
And so go on... I'm not a guru, you will need to figure out for yourself, i have fear in tellling you to do the wrong thing. π
Don't blame yourself or believe that failed relationships were your fault, because it "takes two to tango."
That's great that you've acknowledged what you want at this moment for you and you only, it's very admirable. I don't know about playing cold, hopefully it's not like that all of the time but I do agree with a phase where you focus on your independent self and constantly change things up daily. If you like someone, I think you should go for it because who knows what may happen? But I understand your case and situation, because you have chosen a path to be alone right now..Hopefully until you've achieved your goals. Keen_Falcon, I think it amazing and inspiring that you have truly found your inner peace and have chosen to find a place where you feel you belong, away from negative energy and surroundings. Anyways, no need to apologize for opening up about yourself π Like I've mentioned, I enjoy reading what you have to say and I find it very interesting.
I hope you leave your hometown at the right time (in which I know you will), you'll succeed in whatever work/career you find and do.
I like your tagline and I think it holds true to you right now, "Don't be afraid to walk alone, don't be afraid to like it." πclick to expand
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