IT'S HURT!! Libra man vanish!! ;((( WHYY—

Hi. Sorry for my english.
I met this Libra a month ago. 3 years younger than me (He's 24). At first, he came so strong. Calling for 1-2 hour, text everymorning or just a simple 'Hi' or 'What are u doing?'. And then he asked me out.
He knows how to treat a women. Very romantic, have a very manly manners, sweet eye, and cute (maybe bcoz he's younger). After our dinner, he asked me to meet his friends. Shocked, but I'm ok. But when we arrived, they already gone (go home, dating, etc). [In my mind] [Why he want me to meet his friends?? It's our first date? But I'm happy]. And that night, before I went home. He kissed me. Very romantic and sweet (like in a movies). I fell for him. How can not? 😉
And the next day we still texting. Maybe bcoz I'm a cancer, I like him more and more everyday. Then suddenly I realised that I'm the one that texting him first after our first date. But he respond very well. We text A LOT. 2ways conversation. Fun and caring. He asked me out for a second date. But then he canceled it. But we still text everyday. I want to see him, so I asked him out. He's Ok with it. So, we went to our second date. It felt awkward. He's like distant. But after we chat, he become sweet again and not awkward at all. Then he kissed me again on public. A sweet kiss.
And the next day, we still text like normal.
But SUDDENLY (4 days after our second date), he start replying my text late (like 2-4hour). I know his phone is always beside him. So what happen?? I start panic and start called him (needy I think). He's not answering. Then he text me said he's with his family. And the next day, same. I text, He reply short. I call, no answer. Then poof! He's just gone. He's not read & replying my text. I know he still alive because he changed his profile picture. & I know he delete me from his social media after he start ignoring me.
So, I text him for the last time, short and acted cool, asking why he ignoring my text and let's talk when his ready. I know he will read & won't reply it. But at least I want to make him think that I'm cool about it.

Will this Libra coming back? What should I do to make him come back? Is he need a space? Or should I just move on? It's hurt..... A LOT 😢((

Posted by libraqueen
Libra men are players haha. They're charming aren't they? Astrology aside, if a man is ignoring you don't chase after them. He's hurting your feelings and knows this. Leave him alone for now. He's also 3 years younger. You don't want to fall in love with an immature Libra. Get out while you can lol

So....he's not coming back? Zero chances? ;( I don't plan to fell for him...but he charmed me well. Damn!!! Is he ever have a feeling for me?

Thanks this helps me. Not to dismiss you're pain but my first relationship was with a Libra and for scale it took over ten years to realize he was immature and missed out on a great person. Now I'm not saying we were together during those ten years but he met someone as immature as himself and had to grow.

I went on my way, crossed paths with him ten years later is when he told me he had to grow and wanted to be back together. I said no. Just know you are taking him and vice versa.

Posted by Listenlearnteach
Thanks this helps me. Not to dismiss you're pain but my first relationship was with a Libra and for scale it took over ten years to realize he was immature and missed out on a great person. Now I'm not saying we were together during those ten years but he met someone as immature as himself and had to grow.

I went on my way, crossed paths with him ten years later is when he told me he had to grow and wanted to be back together. I said no. Just know you are taking him and vice versa.

Teaching not taking

i think you suffocated him.

Posted by Listenlearnteach
Thanks this helps me. Not to dismiss you're pain but my first relationship was with a Libra and for scale it took over ten years to realize he was immature and missed out on a great person. Now I'm not saying we were together during those ten years but he met someone as immature as himself and had to grow.

I went on my way, crossed paths with him ten years later is when he told me he had to grow and wanted to be back together. I said no. Just know you are taking him and vice versa.

Wow!! 10 years?? Geesh! I can't wait that long. Hahaha.

Good for you to not want to get back together.

Posted by jeane
i think you suffocated him.

So...now he hate me? 😢

Posted by cancerwomen15

Posted by jeane
i think you suffocated him.

So...now he hate me? 😢

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he probably doesn't hate you but he probably feels uncomfortable to interact with you now.

Posted by starlover
...let him go and be grateful you had a lucky escape

He sounds very immature

What woman wants that in her life?

X

Yeah, true. But maybe bcoz I'm a cancerian, I fell for him...hard 😢

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Posted by Listenlearnteach
Thanks this helps me. Not to dismiss you're pain but my first relationship was with a Libra and for scale it took over ten years to realize he was immature and missed out on a great person. Now I'm not saying we were together during those ten years but he met someone as immature as himself and had to grow.

I went on my way, crossed paths with him ten years later is when he told me he had to grow and wanted to be back together. I said no. Just know you are taking him and vice versa.

Wow!! 10 years?? Geesh! I can't wait that long. Hahaha.

Good for you to not want to get back together.

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Hahahaha. I didn't wait either!!!

Good idea

How many times do I have to tell Crab women to leave them Leebs alone.
A Cancer woman will lose her mind over these air boys.
Leebs are meant to be enjoyed for a short time and released back into the wild from whence they came!

Posted by LunarMaiden
How many times to I have to tell Crab women to leave them Leebs alone.
A Cancer woman will lose her mind over these air boys.
Leebs are meant to be enjoyed for a short time and released back into the wild from whence they came!

I thought he was different...but yeah.... I'm wrong. They all the same. Soon or later they will vanish! Poof! Like nothing happen 😢

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Posted by libraqueen
Libra men are players haha. They're charming aren't they? Astrology aside, if a man is ignoring you don't chase after them. He's hurting your feelings and knows this. Leave him alone for now. He's also 3 years younger. You don't want to fall in love with an immature Libra. Get out while you can lol

So....he's not coming back? Zero chances? ;( I don't plan to fell for him...but he charmed me well. Damn!!! Is he ever have a feeling for me?

No! He is not coming back! The signs are there! After the second date he even deleted you from his social media. Maybe something did not sit right after the second date!

Read my thread : Libra : Fake Flakes of the Zodiac. That should give you an insight of the 'charms' of a libra male!

There's better out there! Go fishing !

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Thanks! I need that... I think ur rite 😢 I still in a denial-phase. Bcoz people always said that they will reappearing after disappearing..... 😢 Ok. Now I will start crying

I don't think he's good for you girl. Save your peace of mind and move on. You need someone who is going to fall hard for you the way you fall for them. I don't see a Libra man doing that...not right away like that.

Posted by Libsizzler
You gotta give him space. Remember cancers can suffocate the hell out of a libra. Ya'll come across very possessive and we hate that.

Just let the man breathe and let him come to you.

Also you gotta be exciting and interesting for a libra man. Cancer women tend to be boring and "go with the flow". "Whatever is good" says a cancer. "Why not do this? What do you think?" Says the libra.

It just complicated for no reason lol

Hey there! Hahaha. You found me here 😉

Nope. I haven't slept with him. Thank God.
Yeah. True. I don't know why I fell for this young man (ops! I mean boy). I think he won't coming back. It's not just a disappearing and reappearing act. Rite?

Posted by jane84
I don't think he's good for you girl. Save your peace of mind and move on. You need someone who is going to fall hard for you the way you fall for them. I don't see a Libra man doing that...not right away like that.

Not right away like that?? He must be hate me very much then.. Should I just block him before he block me? Hahaha.

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Posted by jane84
I don't think he's good for you girl. Save your peace of mind and move on. You need someone who is going to fall hard for you the way you fall for them. I don't see a Libra man doing that...not right away like that.

Yep! Just read the thread about when do you know thread. Many libras said years and even then they weren't 100% sure. lol

I'm a libra and very indecisive when it comes to men. What I hate is that my "in the moment" and actions that make people feel they are the only one has caused a lot of hurt. My ex of 10+ years said I led him on. But what he didn't understand is that I'm an air--I change without notice and when I do it's fast. Sometimes I'm shocked at how fast.

I thinks we're best in our 40's. Anything earlier can be a constant headache for non-air signs.

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Yeah I agree. It's just that I want to make sure you are the right person for me and I'm the right person for you. I'm not going to just jump into a relationship. I am relationship oriented, but I don't need a relationship. Does that make sense? Lol

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Posted by jane84
I don't think he's good for you girl. Save your peace of mind and move on. You need someone who is going to fall hard for you the way you fall for them. I don't see a Libra man doing that...not right away like that.

Not right away like that?? He must be hate me very much then.. Should I just block him before he block me? Hahaha.

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No honey, I mean you deserve someone who is going to love and care for you the same way. I can't say if he hates you, I'm not him. It's just that it does take some Libras some time to figure things out. He may have liked you, but realized he couldn't give you the kind of attention you wanted and felt like it was time to move on. I dated a Virgo for a short time and ended up telling him we were not right for each other because he wanted to marry very soon and all that. Doesn't make him a good/bad person or myself, we just were not compatible. Not because of our signs, but because of how we fell and how fast. You deserve someone who will treat you right. If he is not the right one, then just move on. There are many men out there who will feel like you.

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Posted by Libsizzler
You gotta give him space. Remember cancers can suffocate the hell out of a libra. Ya'll come across very possessive and we hate that.

Just let the man breathe and let him come to you.

Also you gotta be exciting and interesting for a libra man. Cancer women tend to be boring and "go with the flow". "Whatever is good" says a cancer. "Why not do this? What do you think?" Says the libra.

It just complicated for no reason lol

Hey there! Hahaha. You found me here 😉

Nope. I haven't slept with him. Thank God.
Yeah. True. I don't know why I fell for this young man (ops! I mean boy). I think he won't coming back. It's not just a disappearing and reappearing act. Rite?

Yep he'll be back. We keep doors open for rainy days.

Tip: to catch him is to be like him. So when he comes back don't be the typical cancer--all certain. Act indecisive, add some other actors to your movie, blow some stuff (conceptually) up but be sexy doing it, and the one who will be sitting front and center ready to get in on the action will be the libra.

Now that's you deem him worth it. If not, then throw him back to the wild.

I had a libra man I was dating and he couldn't stand me bc he couldn't pin me down---finally he says "I just want you to build a life with me". He would frequent my spots on hopes of seeing me and when he did---I couldn't swish him away. Mutual friends who knew him before me would say they've always known him to be a player so the fact he was trying to claim stake in public was shocking. This man would come into the area where I was sitting and talking to other guys and text me saying he wasn't okay with me talking to other people. lol. Mind you I only knew him for shy of 6 months. Had sex twice.

If I wanted him now, I could have him. But no thanks. He's too short and I'm not into "pretty boys" with no mental depth. He was is a hair stylist/barber and dressed better than me. lol Nah.

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Wow! A great tips! Thanks. I will do that 😉
I thought libra-libra can not match, bcoz you two seek for a perfect partner? I don't like a short guy too. But I do like "pretty boys". Hahaha

Even if he does come back, don't take it serious anymore. Most men who do this, even just once make a pattern out of it. Libras are too indecisive and just generally unstable especially emotionally, I've found many to be confused too much so for a sign that craves stability/security..

Gemini is probably the most stable, air sign for water. Aquarius is probably the most compatible air sign for a Cancer, but no stability either.