Hey guys ,

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Hello on Friday, April 1, 2016 and has 29 replies.

Best Tips for a Leo Visiting a Libra Male

When visiting a Libra male as a Leo, be yourself and stay relaxed. Show genuine interest without overdoing it, and maintain your confidence. Keep the conversation light and avoid heavy topics to create a comfortable atmosphere. Remember to listen and give him space to share. This approach helps build connection and keeps him thinking about you afterward.

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@Hello
10 Years

I'm supposed to be going to see my libra male just to chill , Saturday . I'm a Leo by the way .
We haven't seen each other in a minute , so I feel
Like it's going to feel weird.
Any advice while I'm over there?? I don't wanna make any of the wrong moves. So advice anyone? I don't know what to do when it comes down to him. Cause I know he can be a sweet talker & we not together but we do talk to each other . I just want him to still think about me while I'm gone. . So I just need the best advice that I can get , but I still wanna be able to be myself at the same time

Xoxo, Delilah ❤

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Welp-
seeing as you mentioned previously he's cheated on you, lied to you- and you referred to him as a fat fuck, treated you like crap etc
I'd be dropping by his place just to leave a burning bag of poo on his front step...
But that's just me ~shrugs~

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@Hello
10 Years

@illalupus why wouldn't I want him to think about me? Lol I obviously like him. We used to be in a relationship but things went down hill & we stopped talking for a few weeks & now we are back talking again .

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Hello
He wasn't always an asshole . @wagtail

I know, I get what you're saying I really do.
I'm no stranger to second chances myself, and working through some hardcore shit with long term partners before.
But, honestly, why are you pursuing any type of meaningful relationship with someone who hasn't been 100% with you...
When you could be experiencing a whole world out there happily single- or with somebody new by your side?

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@Hello
10 Years

@wagtail
I put up a fight for what I want . I don't just give up easily on somebody that I really do care about , even if they haven't been the perfect piece of pie . Nobody is perfect . I don't want to always start over . That kind of gets old moving from stranger to stranger , trying to get to know others . I'm not a wanderer . Lol it's a limit to how much I will put up with . & when I get tired I will get back out there and start talking to others. But I'm not ready to give up on him just yet. Although he is not perfect , & he has done his dirt . he does have good things about him also.

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@Cancer Lady
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Go see him and have fun. You're not new to each other so there's no point in faking things and trying to be something you're not. However don't expect anything to become serious because it's more than likely not and he's probably seeing someone else too. So don't be surprise if he tells you that or you find out later that someone else is in the picture.

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by tiziani

Posted by wagtail
Welp-
seeing as you mentioned previously he's cheated on you, lied to you- and you referred to him as a fat fuck, treated you like crap etc
I'd be dropping by his place just to leave a burning bag of poo on his front step...
But that's just me ~shrugs~

Jeez. Fair play, I missed a few chapters.

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Maybe the burning bag of poop is overkill tho...

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@Hello
10 Years

@tiziani yes , I figured. I just didn't want to make the first move & stuff when I seen him. I just want to be the one to play hard to get cause usually I feel as if I give him too much attention . I don't really like that feeling . So I just kind of want to try a different approach & play it cool & still have a good time . I kind of want him To chase me. I don't wanna feel like I'm chasing him.

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@hera
12 Years

i cant speak for all the libras, but i hate when someone is trying to hard... i can see that no matter how hard you try ... just be yourself, if he likes you that way, great, if not...hey plenty of fish in the sea, my dear... no point in wasting your time on one...

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@Hello
10 Years

It is a free sight , say how you feel. But not comment to say pointless negative things. This actually is a sight for advice . But thank you❤ @tcta

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Hello
It is a free sight , say how you feel. But not comment to say pointless negative things. This actually is a sight for advice . But thank you❤ @tcta

You can't spell, cling to the notion of "positive/negative," and are here trying too hard to impress a dude you've barely been dating.

Knock off the neuroses. It's going to be the end of your relationship.Chill the fuck out you brainless tard.

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@Hello
10 Years

Lmao b*tch who are you? Get your attention for what? B*tch you are an attention seeker , you commented on here to get my attention cause you didn't have sh*t else to do except be negative when you probably are pretty damn miserable yourself lol. if anything you need to chill the f*ck out . Like I said before why comment pointless sh*t that nobody cares about? Yet you still continue to comment on this.. You don't know what's going on , you only know what I tell you dumb**s but I'm not going to continue to argue with some arrogant prick over the internet that decides they like to talk sh*t through a screen . I couldn't give two f*cks about you , what you think. I wouldn't p*ss on you if you were on fire , lmao . Bye @rockyroadicecream

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by sagiluv
I really have no great advice to give you on your libra but for men in general always be yourself. Let them fall in love with you. No mind games will win him over.

Be yourself. Stay positive. Happy. Friendly. Respectful.
Be genuine. Honest/loyal.

If that man Cannot love you, respect you for who you really are, then he's not for you.

Good luck!

This.

We have had SO many Leo women come to the Libra forum and do this.

Those crazy hoes self sabotage like whoa because of their utter neuroses on this stuff.

"OMG WHAT IF."

Omg stfu you're effing nuts. They're the source of all their problems, tbh.

This chick seriously needs to calm the fuck down and just go with it.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Hello
Lmao b*tch who are you? Get your attention for what? B*tch you are an attention seeker , you commented on here to get my attention cause you didn't have sh*t else to do except be negative when you probably are pretty damn miserable yourself lol. if anything you need to chill the f*ck out . Like I said before why comment pointless sh*t that nobody cares about? Yet you still continue to comment on this.. You don't know what's going on , you only know what I tell you dumb**s but I'm not going to continue to argue with some arrogant prick over the internet that decides they like to talk sh*t through a screen . I couldn't give two f*cks about you , what you think. I wouldn't p*ss on you if you were on fire , lmao . Bye @rockyroadicecream

Here comes the ratchet ghetto fuck.

No wonder you're worried about dude's view of you. This trashy response right here says a lot about you sweetie.

Poor thing. Probably scared you're going to scare him off. Get some class, you trash.

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Hello
Lmao b*tch who are you? Get your attention for what? B*tch you are an attention seeker , you commented on here to get my attention cause you didn't have sh*t else to do except be negative when you probably are pretty damn miserable yourself lol. if anything you need to chill the f*ck out . Like I said before why comment pointless sh*t that nobody cares about? Yet you still continue to comment on this.. You don't know what's going on , you only know what I tell you dumb**s but I'm not going to continue to argue with some arrogant prick over the internet that decides they like to talk sh*t through a screen . I couldn't give two f*cks about you , what you think. I wouldn't p*ss on you if you were on fire , lmao . Bye @rockyroadicecream

if you are going to swear then just swear. everyone knows the words you're typing anyway.

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@Librawoman77
11 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Hello
@wagtail
I put up a fight for what I want . I don't just give up easily on somebody that I really do care about , even if they haven't been the perfect piece of pie . Nobody is perfect . I don't want to always start over . That kind of gets old moving from stranger to stranger , trying to get to know others . I'm not a wanderer . Lol it's a limit to how much I will put up with . & when I get tired I will get back out there and start talking to others. But I'm not ready to give up on him just yet. Although he is not perfect , & he has done his dirt . he does have good things about him also.

Just prepare yourself for a repeat performance. Have a strategy, he probably has others - that's how we roll, just plan out how you are going to handle future disappointments, they are just around the corner.