Don't Chase Men Who Don't Want To Be Caught.

I just saw this message and am posting it here. This is why I don't think games work cause they know and well ... if they wanted to be with you in *that* way, they would.


Look when I said friends I mean friends.....no matter how many other guys who are interested in you...no matter how many little games you play to let me know just how many other men find you attractive. Yuo need to get over it. We are friends and that's it. We are not going to be together. I like you I think you are a nice person but there is no future in it....and besides

I am in love with someone else.....and I suspect you know who.

okay.

Don't Chase Men Who Don't Want To Be Caught.



Only the wise will hear this ... the fool will keep chasing, until one day, they are left with nothing except confused wounds to lick, and then wonder what happened.


This should be writing across the sky, as a daily reminder.

So true....

but every man and woman wants to get caught! Everyone person wants to fall in love...some just get scared easily and need a sneak attack!

This is very true.

Posted by xoxo
but every man and woman wants to get caught! Everyone person wants to fall in love...some just get scared easily and need a sneak attack!

that doesn't mean he wants to be caught by you and fall in love with you (not you in general xo) and if he says I want to be friends, she can call it wrap because as long as he feels friendship, he's not going to allow himself to be caught and fall in love with that particular woman....if it's truly a smidgen of attraction in a man that says I just wanna be friends the best way to find out is leave him alone, cut contact.

Women really need to listen to men when they speak there truth, men aren't dumb and they know how they feel and they know what those feelings mean for them.

I know many women and men are guilty of trying to make something into something that it is not. Thats why it's important to watch actions instead of listening to words. People say things they do not truly and fully mean sometimes though...especially in a state of confusion. I believe anything a person chases runs away. But sometimes....sometimes...its okay to go into a relationship on more of a "friendship" level and see what happens. Yes. it is highly unlikely that this will lead to love but as far as im concerned....i dont really like the men who chase me and most men i know dont like women who chase them. And starting the relationship out that way takes off so much of the pressure and leaves us air signs room to analyze and try to figure out what it all means. How boring and scary is it to know from the very beginning that the person your seeing is utterly in love with you and wants to spend the rest of their life with you.....id be running for the hills. I think that many women pressure men into labeling and "seeing where the relationship is going" sooo much that it just takes all the fun away!

Posted by xoxo
but every man and woman wants to get caught! Everyone person wants to fall in love...some just get scared easily and need a sneak attack!

And some think that the other person just isn't giving in to what they feel but they really just aren't giving in to what they don't feel.

Everyone wants to get caught or catch the right person but a lot of the time we get caught by or try to catch the wrong person.