what is the real issue?

the libra i had told you guys about up and leaves me a message the other day. he said he was checking on me and hoped everything was ok. and that i will always be his girl no matter what. blah blah blah. and that's where i get things confused. blah blah blah. and i can talk to him anytime. we haven't spoken since the baby issue that ended our relationship a few weeks ago. he left that loooonnnnggg message on my voicemail. what is his deal? i haven't bothered him one time. can somebody tell me something? by the way i did not respond to the message.

He thought about it over and over again and figured out it wasn't a fair deal from him side.

They do that. They change their minds constantly.

why is that? do you think he will admit to being an ass about the whole situation? or was the sudden contact his way of "apologizing" in so many words?

i think thats it too. i think he figures i'd get over it in a few weeks (as usual) but this time i just can't so oh well.

may be you should ask him.

he texted again and i was out to dinner with someone so i excused myself to the restroom and texted i was out and would call him when i got home. i did . he asked what did i do. told him went out to dinner with a guy friend. a silent pause and i asked was he calling me for any particular reason. he danced around the question and said "justification is relative. u r a beautiful woman. congrats and best wishes on your search for that magical feeling you long for. originality is key. be good." i was like Uh thanks i think. it was just dinner i'm not marrying the guy. He got quiet again and said he had to go and we hung up. What the heck was that about?

he prob. wanted to makes things right again between the 2 of you but sinds you guyz didn't talked eachother for 2 weeks and you where out dinner with a "male" friend -> he prob. thinks you moved on , that's why he told you that quick sweet thing to rapidly and friendly ending the painfull phonecall

yup. same thoughts as upheaval. plus if i remember correctly, u called it off right?? that adds to his confusions.

what was the point in telling him it was a "guy" friend? i haven't following your crisis, but it sounds like you've hurt him. After that kind of comment from him, I don't think you'll get anymore texts or calls.

its just a habit that im used to telling him everything. like where i go and with whom i'm hanging out with and he does the same thing to me. like when he had his resume revised he told me he was going with a girlfriend of his to have her do it.he used to tell me where he was going and with whom too. it wasn't to hurt him at all. i was the one to call it off after he told me to abort our baby (if i was to get pregnant). because he didn't want anymore kids. but he also didn't want to use protection either to prevent the possible pregnancy. that was a quick recap of what finally ended our relationship.

oh that's right... in that case, I agree with LeoKitten. He knows he's wrapped around your finger.

Before anything else you should make sure he's changed his mind about the abortion subject. He sounds like a little boy. He doesn't want to use protection but if you get pregnant you are supposed to either deal with it on your own or go through the physical and emotional pain involved with an abortion. Are you kidding me? I forgot this was the same guy. Sorry to sound so harsh. But why would you want him back. He sounds completely pathetic.

that's not harsh at all. he is pathetic. i refuse to let him get to me. he texted a tonight and said "so how was your date? Smile". i just ignored it.

now i understand why aries is no good match for libra

libras (guys) just like to keep you at arms length just in case whatever relationship they may have now, goes wrong....

they need someone on the rebound...

I'm not aries but i have decided to change my cell number so then i won't have to worry about him texting me anymore. he texted again while i was at work and was like "so are you sure you're not having anymore babies?" i was thinking you are such an a******! (i didn't respond though). but before that he texted a whole story(like 10 texts in a row) saying i always start the arguments and try to flip everything on him. blah blah blah. why was i ignoring his messages. i deleted all the texts and turned off my cell after i got home from work. i just figured it would be best to change my number.