Friendships between Libra's and Sagittarius

I posted this topic in the Sag forum; but I'm interested on both sides to this story.
What is your experiences with this kind of friendship? Whether your a Sag or Leeb, please share your experience's. Positives and negatives.

My best guy friend is a libra and I'm also dating a Libra. I think they mate better friends than partners tbh.

My libra best friend is like a brother to me. We have very intellectual conversations but at the same time laugh and joke about a lot of things. We know each others secrets and feelings about just about everything. He keeps me grounded by encouraging me to attend all my lectures, do all my work etc (saggs can be a bit lazy and demotivated , and he keeps me in check) He's a problem solver and I always go to him for relationship advice and same for him. He also lays out all my negatives and helps me improve on them.

The libra guy I'm dating is also like a best friend to me with the additions of being in a relationship with him. He's sweeting, charming and caring and we both love to spoil each other. He gives me some kind of purpose, like a reason to take care of myself and dress up etc.

I love having a Libra best friend and a Libra lover. life = complete

I've noticed that me and my Leeb friend get along extremely well; we talk everything out if we have a problem with one another; we don't judge each other; and are mindful of what we say and of each other's feelings.
I'm able to tell him things that I've never told anyone else; and he said he feels the same way. He says he tells me things that we can't discuss with other people. We have really good communication; and it's just so laid back our friendship.

R Leeb's usually open about everything with people? My friend is a Virgo/Libra cusp. And he has no problem being honest, or discussing things. He doesn't mind being up front; however he has told me he does shut down when ever he feels he can't get through to people. So instead of blowing up; he shuts down an drops the subject all together.
He and I are very much a like in that aspect. We also tend to bottle things up, not with each other; but with others. Once are patience runs thin we blow up.

I believe in many ways we are meant to help each other. I am more outspoken, which causes me to prob; he however, doesn't have an issue with the probing, he's always willing to talk, even if he's upset, he's willing to always open up to me and talk.


So I don't know if; the whole opening up is a common thing amongst libras or if it's just something he's able to do with me. Cause to be honest a lot of the negatives I read about; even disappearing acts, I don't see it with him. We made a promise to each other, about distancing ourselfs or shutting down; that we wouldn't do it to one another.

Many say our friendship seems more then platonic; but it truly is. Is just that we have good chemistry.

Try dating a leeb with sag parents. Out of the three of us we alternate which of the other two we can't stand on daily basis. Seriously though, from what I've seen they tend to get along pretty good though they annoy each other often. Definitely not as abrasive as Ari/Lib.

Posted by Aesma
I cant speak for all Librans. I am open about everything except my feelings. I can talk about anything even my past since it's nothing more but a mere story now.

I've noticed that in that his a bit more closed off; but if I ask the right questions in were I have him slowly open up with out forcing, he opens up with no problem. I'm more open about my feelings. Still; there isn't much of a wall up. Which I like so much. I dislike having to guess what people are thinking. With him is just always so easy.

Posted by size zero superhero
Tons of male & female Sagittarian friends here, of the loyal & long-term variety. Overwhelmingly positive experiences.

I'm also a fire dominant Libra thus it makes sense as to why I personally gravitate toward fire sign friendships. Mileage may vary depending on what your respective placements consist of(or how these placements correspond with the chart of the Sagittarius in question).

This is his chart; he's a Virgo/Libra

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 0.04 Ascendant Virgo 4.24
Moon Cancer 12.54 II Virgo 25.31
Mercury Libra 3.48 R III Libra 22.45
Venus Scorpio 12.18 IV Scorpio 26.48
Mars Libra 2.17 V Capricorn 4.10
Jupiter Cancer 8.50 VI Aquarius 7.18
Saturn Capricorn 7.25 VII Pisces 4.24
Uranus Capricorn 1.24 VIII Pisces 25.31
Neptune Capricorn 9.37 IX Aries 22.45
Pluto Scorpio 13.26 Midheaven Taurus 26.48
Lilith Libra 25.20 XI Cancer 4.10
Asc node Aquarius 25.13 XII Leo 7.18


This is my chart I'm the Sag;

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Sagittarius 23.30 Ascendant Libra 19.56
Moon Virgo 18.54 II Scorpio 17.32
Mercury Sagittarius 21.50 R III Sagittarius 19.04
Venus Aquarius 7.13 IV Capricorn 23.20
Mars Aquarius 22.23 V Aquarius 26.38
Jupiter Capricorn 17.40 VI Pisces 25.48
Saturn Scorpio 23.02 VII Aries 19.56
Uranus Sagittarius 14.23 VIII Taurus 17.32
Neptune Capricorn 0.52 IX Gemini 19.04
Pluto Scorpio 3.56 Midheaven Cancer 23.20
Lilith Aries 11.10 XI Leo 26.38
Asc node Taurus 27.18 XII Virgo 25.48


Don't know if I should included the aspects; if you'd like me to, then I will with no problem. With him I just feel like everything is so effortless.

Posted by utopian
Lol Sag how do 2 people with natal retrograde Mercuries work so effortlessly. Smh good luck lol

He's a lot younger too!

I take astrology serious ; but there is also such thing as nurture and nature. Your upbringing can be a key factor; (as well as your experiences in life) in how mature you are. Being young does not mean your not mature. There are many people older then him who are way more immature, and it's effortless, because we have the same ideals; and values, and view life in similar ways.
So yes; he's young; yes he's a Leeb; however, I've yet to see the negatives. Because we have such good communication, and respect for each other; we basically talk everything out with out screaming; or saying hurtful things to one another.

As far as Sag; not all Sagges are as you claim them to be; at least not I; so I'm not even gonna go in to the Sag traits.

Posted by MrBalance
Meh...not going to work. Because the Saggs are drama queens or should I say you come off too strong and also..that Moon in Virgo will not help you much...goodluck with that. But as far what you are mentioning then there shouldn't be any problems. But why would you want to know about friendships between Libras and Sags— Don't you think its a waste of time? Ofcourse, everyone will have an experience that is a little different. I don't find Sag women particularly attractive. They have a sort of ''man'' like quality that I don't like. My mom is a Sag with a Moon in Virgo just like you...we don't get a long 90% of the time. But then that's just my experience. Reason being is because Sagg women come off as the nice girl that secretly are the psychotic-bitch type. That comes off the extreme jealousy.. my gosh all the BS that comes out when they get jealous. Too negative is all I have to say!

I can over think things that for sure. But; I've learned how to quiet my mind; and just use that analytical part of myself when needed. As far as jealousy; far from jealous, because I don't understand jealousy at all. But that's just me. If I have any problems with people, I know how to be straightforward with out being brash. You can be honest; and not have to take low blows( something I've learned). To me it's all on the person; and how they were also brought up. I'm not a drama queen; in fact I don't like it; and don't like to much attention on me. I believe there is a time and place for everything. All the attention doesn't have to revolve around me twenty four seven and I don't crave it either.
To be honest at times I don't feel like a Sag, and others tell me I don't act like a Sag. I sometimes come off as too grounded; yet my attitude is somewhat airy at times. All depends on my mood. However I can sometimes have the temper of a Sag. I think it's all a balancing act in my opinion.

My asking about friendships between Sagges and Libras is because I'm currently friends with one and in curious about the negatives and positives between the two. Are the trustworthy, loyal, honest, and so on. I can be quiet cautious when it comes to befriending people; with him to be honest I don't even know how we got so close, so fast.

There's only one other person I've been this close to and he's a Cap(awesome, awesome man.). So just wondering how Sagges and Libras g

Sorry got cut short.

But just wondering how they get along; the positives and negatives. I'm not interested in romantics, or view him in that kind of way; just enjoy and cherish his friendship a lot. So I just wanted to know from others experiences, what were the ups and downs of such a friendship.

Yeah I posted his birth chart; he done at have much libra in his chart. I think it's mostly earth, have to go back and check. But I will be careful; so far so good. I tend to be very accepting of others flaws; and he seems the same way. Which is crazy cause we constantly tell each other to stop being so hard on ourselves. He tells me I can be my worst critic, which is true. I tell him the same and he says it's true.

But if anything arises; I'll address it accordingly and right away. Thanks for your response.

I also want to thank everyone else. I like to get opinions of both sides; and it's also why I posted this very same question on the Sag forum.

Gracias_??

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Thanks for pointing that out. I need to learn a bit more about astrology and placements; still a novice. So thanks for pointing that out to me....for future references.

Posted by Sagittarius2315
R Leeb's usually open about everything with people? My friend is a Virgo/Libra cusp. And he has no problem being honest, or discussing things. He doesn't mind being up front; however he has told me he does shut down when ever he feels he can't get through to people. So instead of blowing up; he shuts down an drops the subject all together.He and I are very much a like in that aspect. We also tend to bottle things up, not with each other; but with others. Once are patience runs thin we blow up.
I believe in many ways we are meant to help each other. I am more outspoken, which causes me to prob; he however, doesn't have an issue with the probing, he's always willing to talk, even if he's upset, he's willing to always open up to me and talk. So I don't know if; the whole opening up is a common thing amongst libras or if it's just something he's able to do with me. Cause to be honest a lot of the negatives I read about; even disappearing acts, I don't see it with him. We made a promise to each other, about distancing ourselfs or shutting down; that we wouldn't do it to one another.
Many say our friendship seems more then platonic; but it truly is. Is just that we have good chemistry.

I'm not so sure about the opening up to people...as a Libra and having a few friend Libra's, (female) we're pretty strange when it comes to that. We're not as trusting of other people. Well, at least I'm not, so I can only speak for myself, but as a female I'm constantly listening to my other friends both male and female bash the hell out of each other when their angry, I always keep in the back of my head..WOW, if they talk that way about someone they love or supposed to be best friends with, then imagine how they will talk about me, which some folks could care less, but some of the stuff that comes out of their mouth's should have NEVER been repeated! I just don't believe in being two-faced, so I stay neutral.

"cont"
However, we're great listener's and advisers, but that is the one draw back with us...not opening up. Also, if we feel things are not going right, and as selfish as it sound, which is really bad, we will shut down QUICKLY and disappear because we are thinkers by nature, and sometimes we need space to be able to think things through. We would rather do that than do something that will require an apology later, but I think that is a Male & Female Libra trait.

With him being a Virgo/Lib cusp, it doesn't surprise me that he blows up when pushed because in spite of what folks think about Libra's not speaking up, trust me, it's not the case. If you bring it, we'll meet you, but most Libra's I know are very upfront, opinionated and blunt..we're just a little more TACTFUL with our words than some people are. I know some folks don't care what comes out of their mouth's. They use it as an umbrella to say that's just the way they are, but those are the one's who cry like a whiny azz biatch when you change your tone on them or say something they perceive as hurting their feelings. Those are the one's that can dish it, but can take it. Most Libra's just believe in treating people like WE want to be treated, so most of the time~~but not all of the time~~ we try to remember that because again, Libra's don't like apologizing, so they try to think before they speak.

Other than that, you have yourself a ride or die friend for life🙂

Posted by LIb4Life

"cont"
However, we're great listener's and advisers, but that is the one draw back with us...not opening up. Also, if we feel things are not going right, and as selfish as it sound, which is really bad, we will shut down QUICKLY and disappear because we are thinkers by nature, and sometimes we need space to be able to think things through. We would rather do that than do something that will require an apology later, but I think that is a Male & Female Libra trait.

With him being a Virgo/Lib cusp, it doesn't surprise me that he blows up when pushed because in spite of what folks think about Libra's not speaking up, trust me, it's not the case. If you bring it, we'll meet you, but most Libra's I know are very upfront, opinionated and blunt..we're just a little more TACTFUL with our words than some people are. I know some folks don't care what comes out of their mouth's. They use it as an umbrella to say that's just the way they are, but those are the one's who cry like a whiny azz biatch when you change your tone on them or say something they perceive as hurting their feelings. Those are the one's that can dish it, but can take it. Most Libra's just believe in treating people like WE want to be treated, so most of the time~~but not all of the time~~ we try to remember that because again, Libra's don't like apologizing, so they try to think before they speak.

Other than that, you have yourself a ride or die friend for life🙂



I can already tell I do; there have been many situations where he has shown me he's loyal and he's been there for me and my family; and visa versa. So I know he's has my back; just like I have his back.

Posted by MrBalance
You like to explore, possibly bisexual? Your Venus and Mars are in a masculine sign

Your right on the money on this....lol. I do find woman very beautiful indeed. And don't worry I won't act psycho; I'm not the type. I'm very laid as a friend and that goes two times on relationships.
There won't be any romance though; just friendship at this point.

Posted by MrBalance

Posted by Sagittarius2315
Yeah I posted his birth chart; he done at have much libra in his chart. I think it's mostly earth, have to go back and check. But I will be careful; so far so good. I tend to be very accepting of others flaws; and he seems the same way. Which is crazy cause we constantly tell each other to stop being so hard on ourselves. He tells me I can be my worst critic, which is true. I tell him the same and he says it's true.

But if anything arises; I'll address it accordingly and right away. Thanks for your response.

I also want to thank everyone else. I like to get opinions of both sides; and it's also why I posted this very same question on the Sag forum.

Gracias_—

Just know that Libra men will value their male friends more than female friends.

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Mr Balance (or any other male Libras) can u please explain/expand on this statement?

Never thought to ask that question. I wonder is this statement still remains of it's a Libra with a Cancer Moon?