SunPisces183
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Havent got any respond from my libra guy. What should I do?
Sorry to tell you this but he is not into you. it is very obvious when libra's fall in love, they can't hide it. My advise to you is to completely cut him off if you dont wwant to be just friends.
Posted by thebeesoulActually there are times that he shows or at least i think he shows his feelings and cannot hide it by the fact he turns from a passive guy to the one who initiates many conversation and asking abt my ideally boyfriend. Is it not a sign?
Sorry to tell you this but he is not into you. it is very obvious when libra's fall in love, they can't hide it. My advise to you is to completely cut him off if you dont wwant to be just friends.
I hate texting like a lot to the point I wish it was never invented.
Posted by Librasetting777Neither do I but then we live far away from each other so there is no choice for me to keep in touch with him *sigh*
I hate texting like a lot to the point I wish it was never invented.
Posted by stickyHe must at least know the reason why he is killed then 🙂)))))
I say kill him
There is one more thing that whenever I initiate our conversation first, he always replies and then askes abt how is my day, how’s my weekend, am I at work or am i listening to music late and havent gone to bed yet... something like that.
So I’m confused now and I know that I shouldnt contact him first again but it’s been 2 weeks already. Is it long enough or am I impatient?
So I’m confused now and I know that I shouldnt contact him first again but it’s been 2 weeks already. Is it long enough or am I impatient?
Posted by TaniwhaSorry if my story is too long and thanks for taking your time to drop a comment 🙂
Write a huge big wall of text, that will help.
Posted by tizianiTo be honest I didnt mean to use “I like you but if you dont like me I will pull away” with him. I used to stay in this kind of flirting and blurried relationship for 3yrs with another person and it’s hurt so I just dont want to get myself into the same situation once again. That’s why I decided to express my feeling toward him and also explain the reason why.
I think the "I like you but if you don't like me I will pull away" thing you tried has always been annoying, in my experience.
other than that I don't really see problems or anything to think much about. Being in different countries and social media is never making life easier.
It’s been 2wks already and he hasnt respond anything. Does it mean No or he still consider abt this relationship? Dont you think that I’ll become clingy if I continue to initiate conversation with him again even if I wont mention abt my confession?
Posted by TaniwhaAbt why didnt he respond to my previous confession? Hahahaa just dont want to become more pathetic in his mind lolPosted by SunPisces183Posted by Taniwha
Write a huge big wall of text, that will help.
Sorry if my story is too long and thanks for taking your time to drop a comment click to expand
lol it probably will actually help tho click to expandclick to expand
Where’s his venus?
Posted by BiboroonI just know his dob and didnt ask for the time 😢
Where’s his venus?
Posted by vixen14He just hasnt initiated any conversation since the day I confessed to him but still replies when I texted him in the early morning. Does it count as ghosting as well? :-Posted by SunPisces183Posted by thebeesoul
Sorry to tell you this but he is not into you. it is very obvious when libra's fall in love, they can't hide it. My advise to you is to completely cut him off if you dont wwant to be just friends.
Actually there are times that he shows or at least i think he shows his feelings and cannot hide it by the fact he turns from a passive guy to the one who initiates many conversation and asking abt my ideally boyfriend. Is it not a sign? click to expand
No.
If he ghosted, he’s not interested. No man that ghosts, is interested. A man who comes back after ghosting, is a man who exhausted his first option. click to expandclick to expand
Kinda. A guy I was in a serious relationship did this to me for a month - I would initiate conversations and meet ups and everything was fine and dandy when we were together. The situation seemed kinda shady though so I stopped calling and texting and guess what - I haven’t heard from him since.
Posted by vixen14Yeah I guess so. There is nothing I can do now except let him be and if he still wants to meet up in June, there might be some chance to fix thing up 🙂
Idk texting is hard to build a relationship with someone. He’s not emotionally invested and him not initiating after you confessed your feelings, could mean he’s not that into you. He probably feels thrusted and pressured so that’s why he backed off. He’s not ‘there’ yet.
Posted by BiboroonReally cannot understand why they can react that way 😢 i think i deserve a reason at least
Kinda. A guy I was in a serious relationship did this to me for a month - I would initiate conversations and meet ups and everything was fine and dandy when we were together. The situation seemed kinda shady though so I stopped calling and texting and guess what - I haven’t heard from him since.
Posted by SunPisces183Posted by Biboroon
Kinda. A guy I was in a serious relationship did this to me for a month - I would initiate conversations and meet ups and everything was fine and dandy when we were together. The situation seemed kinda shady though so I stopped calling and texting and guess what - I haven’t heard from him since.
Really cannot understand why they can react that way i think i deserve a reason at least click to expandclick to expand
I know, it’s really cruel.
What I learned from that situation is that sometimes you don’t get closure.
Posted by stickyYub thanks for your advise. I have no other choice but I think it must be better for me to take a break as well before getting myself to another storm haha
I’m all seriousness, a man in to you will be obvious about it and you will have no questions. I suggest also finding someone closer to you.
Posted by Librasetting777Me too! My Gawd, why would I waste my precious time getting back to people all day long?
I hate texting like a lot to the point I wish it was never invented.
Posted by vixen14I could not agree more. He is not into you and the fact that you confessed your feelings made him uncomfortable because he doesn't feel the same about you. We Libras do not ghost people we want. We make it known that we want them too.
Idk texting is hard to build a relationship with someone. He’s not emotionally invested and him not initiating after you confessed your feelings, could mean he’s not that into you. He probably feels thrusted and pressured so that’s why he backed off. He’s not ‘there’ yet.
Posted by SunPisces183Libra's have a hard time with confrontations especially when it involves having to hurt someone's feelings. This is why he didn't give you a reason but it just trying to slip away. He can't give you closure you have to find your own.Posted by Biboroon
Kinda. A guy I was in a serious relationship did this to me for a month - I would initiate conversations and meet ups and everything was fine and dandy when we were together. The situation seemed kinda shady though so I stopped calling and texting and guess what - I haven’t heard from him since.
Really cannot understand why they can react that way i think i deserve a reason at least click to expandclick to expand
Had a casual talk with him today about random things. My 1st text was in the afternoon and somehow we are going back and forth until now. Probably both of us are trying to get thing back to how it was and less awkward to each other.
Kinda surprise when he keeps replying but friend will be friend no more hopes or anything lol
Kinda surprise when he keeps replying but friend will be friend no more hopes or anything lol
Posted by SunPisces183Why do you continue to contact him when he is only replying to you? You should leave him alone.
Had a casual talk with him today about random things. My 1st text was in the afternoon and somehow we are going back and forth until now. Probably both of us are trying to get thing back to how it was and less awkward to each other.
Kinda surprise when he keeps replying but friend will be friend no more hopes or anything lol
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by SunPisces183
Had a casual talk with him today about random things. My 1st text was in the afternoon and somehow we are going back and forth until now. Probably both of us are trying to get thing back to how it was and less awkward to each other.
Kinda surprise when he keeps replying but friend will be friend no more hopes or anything lol
Why do you continue to contact him when he is only replying to you? You should leave him alone. click to expandclick to expand
So we cannot event be friend? 😢
Posted by SunPisces183If he is not contacting you he is not your friend. Don't chase after him or you will turn him off.Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by SunPisces183
Had a casual talk with him today about random things. My 1st text was in the afternoon and somehow we are going back and forth until now. Probably both of us are trying to get thing back to how it was and less awkward to each other.
Kinda surprise when he keeps replying but friend will be friend no more hopes or anything lol
Why do you continue to contact him when he is only replying to you? You should leave him alone. click to expand
So we cannot event be friend? click to expandclick to expand
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