Ayyayai111
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Maybe being on a dating site he is just looking to hook up? Is he still on there? That's why I don't trust these sites...too easy to have too many options at the press of your finger. I mean how many guys were you talking to when you were talking to him? How many other options did you have...yes, maybe you dropped the others when you felt something for him but just because you did does not set the grade for him...
Maybe being on a dating site he is just looking to hook up? Is he still on there? That's why I don't trust these sites...too easy to have too many options at the press of your finger. I mean how many guys were you talking to when you were talking to him? How many other options did you have...yes, maybe you dropped the others when you felt something for him but just because you did does not set the grade for him...
Your spelling turned him off.
Also, calm the hell down. You're already proving how clingy you ARE being.
He's probably sitting back, figuring shit out.
Either that, or he got the ass and is stringing you along.
In the meantime, go get a hobby and calm the hell down.
He's probably sitting back, figuring shit out.
Either that, or he got the ass and is stringing you along.
In the meantime, go get a hobby and calm the hell down.
Oh, shit..I messed up the quoting there. Ok, here it goes again- I see libra men as people of habit, they catch on to things pretty fast & get acquainted with them. So, STOP initiating contact while you're ahead, or you'll spoil him into thinking that that's what you'll always do. It never works. Let him contact you first, go with the flow & while you're at it, get yourself together..as in yesterday! Libra men are not hard to keep for a woman who doesnt stop breathing when they dont call, come around, etc. Eventually they do act right anyway, so why stress yourself? Continue to live life just like before you met him & things will be back to normal. You're the problem here, not him. You're the one giving yourself unnecessary headache over nothing. So what if he had a change of heart (or is taking a breather), life goes on & so should you in regards to this contact issue. How do you keep him on his toes? By being yourself, it's that simple. In short, leave him alone.
Lmao. I reread your post & it's hilarious on so many levels. Girl! The part about him not thanking you for the saturday night sex is particularly funny lol, the liking your sex part & so is the part about 'BOMB kisses'. No wonder so many women walk around thinking they're all that sexually when they really aren't, not saying you aren't btw. Its just that I like sitting with men & listen to the things they say about the girls they're sleeping with. Many tell the girls that they're the best & then get real when with friends, and talk trash about them. Ever heard a guy say this during sex 'yours is the lamest sex to date'? Nope, yet many of them say how bad it really was when with their boys lol. It's crazy.
I tell you for sure , and please trust me. I was doing a more bad mistake to say like this, than you and even that, he back to me !
So, first of all, you keep text him lovely messages like " I miss you my sweet love " etc.. Libra men are irresitible to this kind of words and they love them, they always need love. If he reply to you not lovely and just normal, it means he may feel likes you too much . After a Libra feel this , their intention is to be selfish and cold or to disappear ! They are afraid if they feel there things got to fast for them . They have your heart and they don't know what to do with it ! So , they need TIME ! Time to think how to do ! In this time, you keep contact with him in lovely way ! He will back to you soon as he was before , I can tell you sure this.
If he would not likes you, he would not reply anymore or he would tell you something directly.
About sex, no, you was not wrong ! Do not blame yourself for this because Libra man have the intention to have sex even from first date ! And they appreciate if you offer to them what they like. So, not this is the problem for sure. Libra men are crazy about sex and damn good also in sex.
Do not ask him questions as : what are you doing now ? why not reply to me ? why that, why that ??.... If you ask this, they will feel pressed and they will disappear without a word ! They no like jealousy ! Never show him that you are jealous .Tell him you can offer to him the freedoom he likes , tell him that he can see his friends also, never press him . If you make him feel you offer to him the freedoom , he will keep you forever for himself !
Try and you will see evcerything will be ok. I was in your situation the same and now I am with him and he loves me more than before !
Good luck !
So, first of all, you keep text him lovely messages like " I miss you my sweet love " etc.. Libra men are irresitible to this kind of words and they love them, they always need love. If he reply to you not lovely and just normal, it means he may feel likes you too much . After a Libra feel this , their intention is to be selfish and cold or to disappear ! They are afraid if they feel there things got to fast for them . They have your heart and they don't know what to do with it ! So , they need TIME ! Time to think how to do ! In this time, you keep contact with him in lovely way ! He will back to you soon as he was before , I can tell you sure this.
If he would not likes you, he would not reply anymore or he would tell you something directly.
About sex, no, you was not wrong ! Do not blame yourself for this because Libra man have the intention to have sex even from first date ! And they appreciate if you offer to them what they like. So, not this is the problem for sure. Libra men are crazy about sex and damn good also in sex.
Do not ask him questions as : what are you doing now ? why not reply to me ? why that, why that ??.... If you ask this, they will feel pressed and they will disappear without a word ! They no like jealousy ! Never show him that you are jealous .Tell him you can offer to him the freedoom he likes , tell him that he can see his friends also, never press him . If you make him feel you offer to him the freedoom , he will keep you forever for himself !
Try and you will see evcerything will be ok. I was in your situation the same and now I am with him and he loves me more than before !
Good luck !
Watercup.... you really don't know the Libra man it seems ...
I agree with Aylin, take it light and easy on the pursuing ,just have fun . Now when your're in the bedroom - make sure the sex is good quality stuff . If so, He'll be back !! 😉
p.s what is your sun sign ??
Posted by Aylin33
Watercup.... you really don't know the Libra man it seems ...
I've known one for 10 years, so yeah, I know him well. I may not know the OP's libra man, like you also dont know him and only know yours. I gave my opinion like you gave yours & neither of us are certified libra experts, ok sweety, so now shush & let the OP make up her own mind 🙂
Thank Goodness for these boards, I can take my mind off my own madness
Now, I agree with @RockyroadIcecream CHILL! Firstly, yes in my opinion I would say you had sex to soon, but it's nothing to fret over. You??re grown, and I hope you could accept you made a grown up decision. But now it comes to deal with the outcome like a grown up. Wasn't like he wasn't taking you out and what not. I would say take it for what it is, and keep it light. Good sex is not enough to make a man stay sorry. At least not for the right reasons in my book. You should go on my page and read some of my post about these jokers. Trust me, as sad as it sounds I know my libra males better than the gals. This guy had fun with you, and he's responding from time to time because he's polite. We all are. Libra male or female. Plus, if you were really a good time, you can bet he will be back. The subject up for question is for how long will he stay when he does.
I??ll tell you, he will not stay put until he's made up his mind about you. He will always be in and out, because he's changing his mind constantly. The only way to deal with a Libra when they are like this, is to do your own thing. When they text you, text back then keep it moving. Don't read too much into anything they say until their actions match, and even when you feel yourself slipping come right out and ask him —what's up??. He??ll tell you. Don't part your damn lips though until he answers you first, because if you tell him how you feel first and the feelings don't match or balance he will shy away from the question or dance around it, and say whatever he thinks you need to hear to eliminate conflict. Once the coast is clear, he will vanish. So listen to HIM first. Then make your next move on how to proceed. Shit, it's almost like chess. If you get him to fall in love first, CHECKMATE! If you??re unsure if he's in love yet, then slow your role. You have to get inside his mind first. Stimulate his mind. Libra??s operate and feed off of the —Idea of love?? the actual act of it is a whole other story for them. All pros and cons must be weighed out, and they cannot be rushed or pressured. You are doing good by not chasing him, it's not your job it's his. I wouldn't text him anymore. I??d let him do it. And if he pop up (I'm sure he will) saying —Heyyy stranger! If you??re still interested, say —hey wats up.?? And let him take it from there.
Now, I agree with @RockyroadIcecream CHILL! Firstly, yes in my opinion I would say you had sex to soon, but it's nothing to fret over. You??re grown, and I hope you could accept you made a grown up decision. But now it comes to deal with the outcome like a grown up. Wasn't like he wasn't taking you out and what not. I would say take it for what it is, and keep it light. Good sex is not enough to make a man stay sorry. At least not for the right reasons in my book. You should go on my page and read some of my post about these jokers. Trust me, as sad as it sounds I know my libra males better than the gals. This guy had fun with you, and he's responding from time to time because he's polite. We all are. Libra male or female. Plus, if you were really a good time, you can bet he will be back. The subject up for question is for how long will he stay when he does.
I??ll tell you, he will not stay put until he's made up his mind about you. He will always be in and out, because he's changing his mind constantly. The only way to deal with a Libra when they are like this, is to do your own thing. When they text you, text back then keep it moving. Don't read too much into anything they say until their actions match, and even when you feel yourself slipping come right out and ask him —what's up??. He??ll tell you. Don't part your damn lips though until he answers you first, because if you tell him how you feel first and the feelings don't match or balance he will shy away from the question or dance around it, and say whatever he thinks you need to hear to eliminate conflict. Once the coast is clear, he will vanish. So listen to HIM first. Then make your next move on how to proceed. Shit, it's almost like chess. If you get him to fall in love first, CHECKMATE! If you??re unsure if he's in love yet, then slow your role. You have to get inside his mind first. Stimulate his mind. Libra??s operate and feed off of the —Idea of love?? the actual act of it is a whole other story for them. All pros and cons must be weighed out, and they cannot be rushed or pressured. You are doing good by not chasing him, it's not your job it's his. I wouldn't text him anymore. I??d let him do it. And if he pop up (I'm sure he will) saying —Heyyy stranger! If you??re still interested, say —hey wats up.?? And let him take it from there.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
LOL .. aylin is getting some good d-ck and all of sudden she's a libra expert
SMFH
Right??
Condoning desperation is total fail.
Hi all thanks trully for alll your feed back!!!!
pink Libra everything u said is what I already feel in my heart. I Know he will be back but I guess I messed up by giving it to him too soon. We had convos regarding intimacy before and I told him that I was not intimate with no one for almost ten months and if we ever got Intimate I needed to have Monogomy. He said ok that he will wait for me.. So two dates later BamMmMm I gave it to him Me as an Aquarius born Feb 1 I thought it would get us closer together. I guess that was wrong. Booo!!
It's weird because I've dated many guys inn the last year but I haunt had such a unique "connection" physically emotionally etc. Like with this Libra guy.
PINK LIBRA so when he does text bak in the near future I'm just gonna follow his lead but how the he'll do I get him to take me serious or fall for my ass..lol
Shoot I feel like a lil high school girl all over again ay ya yaii!! Silly me.. Don't get me wrong I'm dating other guys but nothing like this Libra guy. He's got me sprung Chiken! but one thing for sure I ain't chasing him I Hve too much pride. As far as me proclaiming my feelings to him He'll to the NO either I ain't trying to scare him away either!!
pink Libra everything u said is what I already feel in my heart. I Know he will be back but I guess I messed up by giving it to him too soon. We had convos regarding intimacy before and I told him that I was not intimate with no one for almost ten months and if we ever got Intimate I needed to have Monogomy. He said ok that he will wait for me.. So two dates later BamMmMm I gave it to him Me as an Aquarius born Feb 1 I thought it would get us closer together. I guess that was wrong. Booo!!
It's weird because I've dated many guys inn the last year but I haunt had such a unique "connection" physically emotionally etc. Like with this Libra guy.
PINK LIBRA so when he does text bak in the near future I'm just gonna follow his lead but how the he'll do I get him to take me serious or fall for my ass..lol
Shoot I feel like a lil high school girl all over again ay ya yaii!! Silly me.. Don't get me wrong I'm dating other guys but nothing like this Libra guy. He's got me sprung Chiken! but one thing for sure I ain't chasing him I Hve too much pride. As far as me proclaiming my feelings to him He'll to the NO either I ain't trying to scare him away either!!
Buttercup thank u for ur advise it's a lil Raw but ur right I should have thought with my head not my Heart!!😉!
libragemmale I will and I'm gonna just follow his lead. I'm silly for reading more than what it was. Thanks all!!!
P.s WATERCUP NOT BUTTERCUP DAMM !!!. ha haaa sorry
Thank u Aylin33 ur awesome I guess I was infatuated with his Charming ways. Me giving him my VCard I thought it would bring us closer. It's ok
No more VCard That's Forsure. For my sake! and by the looks of it he didn't deserve it. Of course I also did it for the sex for my pleasure but if I would have known it would scare him off I def. Would have waited maybe a year or two LOL J/k
No more VCard That's Forsure. For my sake! and by the looks of it he didn't deserve it. Of course I also did it for the sex for my pleasure but if I would have known it would scare him off I def. Would have waited maybe a year or two LOL J/k
Your right SWEETHEART just cause I was super into him and feeling him it was obviously not a mutual thang. GEshhhh funny now that i realize it. I don't regret it because I'm a grown women and I enjoyed his company but I think if anything it's very childish on his part. To poof dissaper or back off. The Truth IS IVE NEVER EVER HAD A GUY BACK OFF AFTER SEX. if anything they want me more or it always helps the relationship progress. When we become intimate. And also ive never had a one night stand so this is relatively new to my ass.;( I'm very careful to whom i sleep with.
P.s Cray Cray that ever since our second date when we started hanging out he changed his profile from "seeking something not too serious" to "seeking a Relationship".. I guess I was reading WAY TOO MUCH INTO IT!... thanks all again xoxo
P.s Cray Cray that ever since our second date when we started hanging out he changed his profile from "seeking something not too serious" to "seeking a Relationship".. I guess I was reading WAY TOO MUCH INTO IT!... thanks all again xoxo
Im dating a Libra guy now it will actually be a year this may that we have been together. I can't speak for all Libras because I am still learning about them. But one thing I have noticed is when they feel as if things are moving to fast they tend to back off a little. This is mainly because they need time to think about the relationship. Because Libras like to weigh all options and decisions from every angle. Im sure he probably liked you alot just give him some time.
Also don't make him feel obligated to talk to you everyday. Meaning don't text everyday or call everyday. You have to make it seem as if you can take it or leave it if you talk to him or not. I wouldn't say you were to clingy though. He made you feel comfortable by spending a lot of time with you. Which I know you werent expecting that. He put that infamous Libra charm on you Lol...
But don't worry if you give him all the space and freedom he wants he will definitly be back! You will see. Oh and you may wanna pick up the book Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov. This book did wonders for me! Lets just say I keep my Libra guy on his toes 😉 Good luck sweetie
Also don't make him feel obligated to talk to you everyday. Meaning don't text everyday or call everyday. You have to make it seem as if you can take it or leave it if you talk to him or not. I wouldn't say you were to clingy though. He made you feel comfortable by spending a lot of time with you. Which I know you werent expecting that. He put that infamous Libra charm on you Lol...
But don't worry if you give him all the space and freedom he wants he will definitly be back! You will see. Oh and you may wanna pick up the book Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov. This book did wonders for me! Lets just say I keep my Libra guy on his toes 😉 Good luck sweetie
Posted by WaterCup
Oh, shit..I messed up the quoting there. Ok, here it goes again- I see libra men as people of habit, they catch on to things pretty fast & get acquainted with them. So, STOP initiating contact while you're ahead, or you'll spoil him into thinking that that's what you'll always do. It never works. Let him contact you first, go with the flow & while you're at it, get yourself together..as in yesterday! Libra men are not hard to keep for a woman who doesnt stop breathing when they dont call, come around, etc. Eventually they do act right anyway, so why stress yourself? Continue to live life just like before you met him & things will be back to normal. You're the problem here, not him. You're the one giving yourself unnecessary headache over nothing. So what if he had a change of heart (or is taking a breather), life goes on & so should you in regards to this contact issue. How do you keep him on his toes? By being yourself, it's that simple. In short, leave him alone.
I totally AGREE 100% with this!
Posted by Ayyayai111
Thank u Aylin33 ur awesome I guess I was infatuated with his Charming ways. Me giving him my VCard I thought it would bring us closer. It's ok
No more VCard That's Forsure. For my sake! and by the looks of it he didn't deserve it. Of course I also did it for the sex for my pleasure but if I would have known it would scare him off I def. Would have waited maybe a year or two LOL J/k
I'm confused.
Do you know what a vcard is? You talk like you're giving it out each time you sleep with a guy. You can only give out the "vcard' once in your life...
For those who post against me here or add dirty words , I wish them all be all their life alone ! Read my post made special for you " I am so happy" and " I am again sooooo happyy" , there I wish you this very open ! I don't think so this girl who posted this post here is interested in your shit comments also ! So move on your ass from here !
Posted by Aylin33
For those who post against me here or add dirty words , I wish them all be all their life alone ! Read my post made special for you " I am so happy" and " I am again sooooo happyy" , there I wish you this very open ! I don't think so this girl who posted this post here is interested in your shit comments also ! So move on your ass from here !
You're a freaking retard. Why are you making this post about you? Go back to your cracked out threads and stay there.
FYI, nobody gives a fuck how "happy" you are. If you were truly happy, you wouldn't have to brag about it on the internet. Go the fuck outside, bitch.
Libragem male idk my sun sign?!!! I'm Feb 1 1981 born like 2-4 a.m so who knows lol!!!!!
...rockyroaddicecream... vcard VigIna vA Ja jay! Geshhhh ar thing suppose to be perfectly spelled out and clear to understand?... Cmon dear ...
J/k
J/k
MISSD312 I'm def. Getting that bookmtomorrow I love to read a good book!!!.. Not only for the " libra issues" I'm having but the fact that it sounds juicy and I really enjoy reading. thank u soooooo much I rally appreciate ur thoughtful comments . I actuallynfeel good reading all ur comments it's like a breath of fresh air. I know I'm in "lust" with this Libra dude but it feels like it's more than just this dude it's like finally I meet a guy I'm feeling" and it kinda back fires and to be frank I'm just not use to having guys " back off" or disappear maybe it's the "easy online click" and go move on " convinience. idk but it suds.. Oh well I'm just getting home now from a hot date but no sex no intimacy for me for a while definitely waitingnfor Monogomy I really feel that's the best way. at least for me it is. Gracias MISSD312
Trust I felt the exact same way about my Libra guy when I first met him. He was soooo different from anyone I have ever dated. We were constantly together when we started out as well. Then one day out of the blue he disappeared on me! He didnt answer my calls, or reply back to my text messages. I was so lost! Like wtf happened here. So one day I googled why men disappear. Stumbled upon this artical written by Mirror of Aphrodite. This articled explained in detail why, and stated what to do when they reappear.
I followed the directions to A Tee! For three days as the article suggested. I couldn't believe how dead on this article was! He came back I went into action. Lol just know homie didnt pull the old disappearing act after that! The article actually suggested the book why men love bitches. That book was my bible! He said "I dont know what hold you have on me, but I can't leave you along!" I smiled so hard in the inside exsp when he confessed " I love you so much but I just cant figure you out! " Thanks to that book! I stand 100% behind that book.
I followed the directions to A Tee! For three days as the article suggested. I couldn't believe how dead on this article was! He came back I went into action. Lol just know homie didnt pull the old disappearing act after that! The article actually suggested the book why men love bitches. That book was my bible! He said "I dont know what hold you have on me, but I can't leave you along!" I smiled so hard in the inside exsp when he confessed " I love you so much but I just cant figure you out! " Thanks to that book! I stand 100% behind that book.
I meant *alone* 😉
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by MissD312
But don't worry if you give him all the space and freedom he wants he will definitly be back! You will see. Oh and you may wanna pick up the book Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov. This book did wonders for me! Lets just say I keep my Libra guy on his toes 😉 Good luck sweetie
Noooooooo, men don't love bitches!
There's a difference between a bitch and someone that can keep you on your toes, srs!click to expand
Lol its not the bitch you are thinking of. Its not talkin about bitchy women. Its about learning to hold your self together while dating.
Posted by Ayyayai111
...rockyroaddicecream... vcard VigIna vA Ja jay! Geshhhh ar thing suppose to be perfectly spelled out and clear to understand?... Cmon dear ...
J/k
Honey, the Vcard is the "virginity" card. Nobody refers to their lady bits as the vcard.
That said, you can only give up your virginity once, dear.
Stopping contact isn't manipulation the way I see it. What's the point in continuing calling somebody who is standoffish on the other end of the line? Its hard enough for an aqua woman to pick up the phone & make the 1st call or sms, its against our nature as the OP also stated..it feels like chasing. Manipulation is following some book ie. the bitch book mentioned above because the guide lines you're to follow are not really how you'd have done it have you not read the book..its fake. I personally dont believe in taking advice from books, etc, when it comes to relationships, follow your gut & act like yourself. If he stays then it would be because of you & not because of some tips found in a book. If its not in your nature to control yourself & be ok when a man pulls a vanishing act, doesnt matter how many books you follow, you'll still feel hurt inside & whatever tips (eg. No contact) you take from the book will not numb down the hurt because the 'it doesnt matter' chick is not who you really are...you're being a fake to make him think you're cool & not clingy, when deep down inside ur the opposite. I say act like your nature & if he doesnt like that then no love lost because it'd mean he doesnt like the real you, so he can go kick rocks barefoot for all you care.
"we like to talk and if you don't talk we'll just talk to somebody else"
^^I like it because it shows true nature & intentions of a person. If you stop talking to them then they'll go talk to another person = they didnt care that much in the 1st place if stopping contact is all it takes to send them in the arms of someone else. Keeping contact shouldnt be the thing that makes him stay or keep him from forgeting you exist. He can go on & talk to whomever else is willing to talk if that's the case.
^^I like it because it shows true nature & intentions of a person. If you stop talking to them then they'll go talk to another person = they didnt care that much in the 1st place if stopping contact is all it takes to send them in the arms of someone else. Keeping contact shouldnt be the thing that makes him stay or keep him from forgeting you exist. He can go on & talk to whomever else is willing to talk if that's the case.
Posted by tiziani
I don't know where you got all of that out of what I said, WC, but you are all free to see it in whichever light you want. I'm just sharing my honest reflection as a Libra man and it is what it is.
If you don't want to do something, don't do it. That goes without saying.
However, not talking to someone with the end goal of getting them to chase is obviously manipulation. And I'm just saying there's no positive outcome to that. Indeed, the best advice is always to be yourself.
my post was about the OP & not exactly about what you said. The guy acts standoffish when she calls him, now tell me which sane person will continue to call a person who acts bleh over the phone? I wont & I'll stop contact altogether until they pick up the phone in a more cheery mood. I've done that to friends too. I'm not gonna waste my time calling an uninterested person, when they improve their mood then they call me cause I wont be calling again. Its not about being chased, its about being appreciated for my effort with equal enthusiasm-I dont call because I'm bored.
I have a friend who just lost her sister & I get that cause I've lost loved ones too, but my behaviour doesnt change no matter what I'm going throu personally. Ok, so I called her to say how sorry I am about her sister's passing & she acted kind of funny, and gave the phone to someone else to speak to me. That annoyed me, not gonna lie, but I sent her an sms so she could really know how sorry I was, etc. She never replied & I never called her again. I've been throu death also & have been nice and said 'thank you' to everybody who sent their condolences, including her, so I wont tolerate rude behaviour under any circumnstances-dont care. That's just me.
Ok so after not hearing from him for two days he Finally texts me today a.m "Hola" how are you?...
Deep down inside I'm like screewww u motha F*!# $ * for pulling back after sex!.. But then again I'm like Omg I missed u..lol
What now?.. Should I do what The mirror of Aphrodite article said to do the "Push and pull" method?.. To wait a few days and text back with " what's up. Nice to hear from u. Hope all is well. Ive been really busy lately! Hope we can catch up soon. Talk to ya later!
Or should I text him later today and be natural and just mirror his ass?... Ay ya yaiii decisions decisions!!!
Deep down inside I'm like screewww u motha F*!# $ * for pulling back after sex!.. But then again I'm like Omg I missed u..lol
What now?.. Should I do what The mirror of Aphrodite article said to do the "Push and pull" method?.. To wait a few days and text back with " what's up. Nice to hear from u. Hope all is well. Ive been really busy lately! Hope we can catch up soon. Talk to ya later!
Or should I text him later today and be natural and just mirror his ass?... Ay ya yaiii decisions decisions!!!
Posted by Ayyayai111
Ok so after not hearing from him for two days he Finally texts me today a.m "Hola" how are you?...
Deep down inside I'm like screewww u motha F*!# $ * for pulling back after sex!.. But then again I'm like Omg I missed u..lol
What now?.. Should I do what The mirror of Aphrodite article said to do the "Push and pull" method?.. To wait a few days and text back with " what's up. Nice to hear from u. Hope all is well. Ive been really busy lately! Hope we can catch up soon. Talk to ya later!
Or should I text him later today and be natural and just mirror his ass?... Ay ya yaiii decisions decisions!!!
I would totally follow the article. Forget that its fake its not the real you crap. Its not fair to you that he has left you feeling the way you feel. Like I stated before I followed through it worked for me.. 🙂
Tiziani and Miss312 gracias for your advise I'm def. Following the article.. Wish me luck..lol🙂!!!!
Posted by Ayyayai111
Tiziani and Miss312 gracias for your advise I'm def. Following the article.. Wish me luck..lol🙂!!!!
Although I think Tiziana wouldnt approve of the article lol I am WE both could help you to the best of our ability. Good luck hun 😉
*Could help*
I'm with Watercup. Tiz is a guy so of course he's going to tell you not to cut contact. I'm telling you it's a psychological thing. Men don't like to feel what they dish out. I wouldn't curse him out, or even let him know how I've been feeling the past few days. Honestly, it's clear you like him so it's no sense in playing games but you don't need to put yourself out there until you find out what this mans true intentions are with you. If it were me, i'd respond but i'd be very short with him. If I were you, you need to equip yourself with the "exepectations rule." Because right now, you two just had fun, had sex with no commitment and no talk of none. It's the woman job to set the foundation of what she wants and what she requires, and it's the man's job to either oblige to her wishes, or keep it pushing to the next. Frankly, you will have a few that will try to have you at their beck and call.
So far, he's only said "Hi." I'd say "Hi back." and keep the convo light. He starts talking about sex, I delete his damn number. You are not a piece of meat.
So far, he's only said "Hi." I'd say "Hi back." and keep the convo light. He starts talking about sex, I delete his damn number. You are not a piece of meat.
I meant "no expectations." rule.
Thanks Much Pink libra I sure will. I know I ain't sleeping with him again until I feel come of a commitment from him because this is what I eventually want if all goes well. And besides we are just getting to know one another who knows I might not like him in the next week or so LOL.. Or at least until I know he's not JUST S looking for SEX. IM MORE THAN JUST A PIECE OF MEAT. I deserve more. Gracias!
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I'm with Watercup. Tiz is a guy so of course he's going to tell you not to cut contact. I'm telling you it's a psychological thing. Men don't like to feel what they dish out. I wouldn't curse him out, or even let him know how I've been feeling the past few days. Honestly, it's clear you like him so it's no sense in playing games but you don't need to put yourself out there until you find out what this mans true intentions are with you. If it were me, i'd respond but i'd be very short with him. If I were you, you need to equip yourself with the "exepectations rule." Because right now, you two just had fun, had sex with no commitment and no talk of none. It's the woman job to set the foundation of what she wants and what she requires, and it's the man's job to either oblige to her wishes, or keep it pushing to the next. Frankly, you will have a few that will try to have you at their beck and call.
So far, he's only said "Hi." I'd say "Hi back." and keep the convo light. He starts talking about sex, I delete his damn number. You are not a piece of meat.
+1000000. only, we women can become blind in love 😢
Yes, of course you would disappear. I would too if someone I like was showing no interest in me and I've done nothing but show how interested I am in them. BUT, this dude disappeared on HER first. All i'm saying is she needs to set the grounds right now while it's early that it just wont fly. Her life is not a revolving door. How you start a relationship, is how it will be, 95% of the time, with a few minor compromises on both willing partners parts. In this case the relationship or courtship is still too new to tell.
OP, do what you want girl. I'm just letting you know if it were me, Libra man or not, I would treat him just like he treat me. You drop communication with me, then i'll do it right back assuming that's what he wants. Esepecially if find we don't talk unless I text YOU— Um no no. But like I said. It's your show girl. Rock it how you want.
OP, do what you want girl. I'm just letting you know if it were me, Libra man or not, I would treat him just like he treat me. You drop communication with me, then i'll do it right back assuming that's what he wants. Esepecially if find we don't talk unless I text YOU— Um no no. But like I said. It's your show girl. Rock it how you want.
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Yes, of course you would disappear. I would too if someone I like was showing no interest in me and I've done nothing but show how interested I am in them. BUT, this dude disappeared on HER first. All i'm saying is she needs to set the grounds right now while it's early that it just wont fly. Her life is not a revolving door. How you start a relationship, is how it will be, 95% of the time, with a few minor compromises on both willing partners parts. In this case the relationship or courtship is still too new to tell.
OP, do what you want girl. I'm just letting you know if it were me, Libra man or not, I would treat him just like he treat me. You drop communication with me, then i'll do it right back assuming that's what he wants. Esepecially if find we don't talk unless I text YOU— Um no no. But like I said. It's your show girl. Rock it how you want.
Agreed. Women gotta set their boundaries with guys.
This whole following that website step by step is kind of ridiculous. "OMG WHAT DO I DO NEXT??" Really? You should know. Pay attention to your gut. You will act accordingly. You get too much outside feedback, then you start feeling muddled on what really to do.
In regard to Libra guys, they're indecisive douchebags when it comes to this stuff. It'll drive you crazy trying to figure out what the hell their deal is. I'm in a similar boat with the one I've been seeing and tbh, I got sick of doing all the work and not knowing what the hell his problem was suddenly. So I've left contact up to him. I'm not doing all the work anymore.
Your situation is different because it hasn't been going on as long and mine didn't back off after sex. But it's an example of the ridiculous bs these guys pull when they're indecisive. This whole insane, panicky thing you're doing isn't benefiting you at all. Like I said, simmer down, do you, and his actions will tell you where he stands. There's no freaking "order" in when and how you reply to him. If he contacts you, talk to him. If he doesn't contact you, oh well. You're busy doing you and are not going to let your life revolve around this dude. He hasn't declared you his girlfriend, so you have nothing tying you down to this guy. < This is how guys think. You need to start doing the same if you don't want to be left confused and burned.
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Yes, of course you would disappear. I would too if someone I like was showing no interest in me and I've done nothing but show how interested I am in them. BUT, this dude disappeared on HER first. All i'm saying is she needs to set the grounds right now while it's early that it just wont fly. Her life is not a revolving door. How you start a relationship, is how it will be, 95% of the time, with a few minor compromises on both willing partners parts. In this case the relationship or courtship is still too new to tell.
OP, do what you want girl. I'm just letting you know if it were me, Libra man or not, I would treat him just like he treat me. You drop communication with me, then i'll do it right back assuming that's what he wants. Esepecially if find we don't talk unless I text YOU— Um no no. But like I said. It's your show girl. Rock it how you want.
+1. Plus its way too early for him to be pulling these kind of stunts. Who has the time to deal with that nonsense?
^^EXACTLY!
"we dont go anywhere we're not invited" That's false lol. My libra friend has a libra stellium & he is beyond pushy. Regarding your statement about why should she judge her responses based on his actions...arent you guys masters of mirroring & why shouldn't she just mirror him back? I find it strange that you'd say that considering the fact that mirroring is a libran trait, that's all. At this point she has nothing to lose if she just drop him like an anchor in the sea. It's been 3 weeks!!! Imagine dealing with his current behaviour for 3 more panic filled wks, 3 mnths even. Self torture. What for?At 3 wks they should be still enjoying the honeymoon phase, this guy jumped to the 7 year itch lol. Not worth it. A libra man, any man, keeps contact when he's interested & he doesnt wait until you contact him first. Plus, why should she be the one doing all the work? Relationships are a two way street (partnership) & both parties need to pull equal weight (scales?) for it to balance out. He sits on his ass not initiating anything, so who must play his part for him? NO WAY.
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