here we go again: Libra 2.0

so every once in a blue moon, this sag girl ie me stumbles across someone that touches me spiritually. Just something about them really pulls me in.I recently started talking to a guy and from the get go sparks were flying. We were talking about travelling, places we wanted to go together, completely vibe-ing!

The feelings that surrounded me were similar to the ones i had when I first met my libra ex. Complete adoration
I mentioned something about being a Sag and he told me that we would get on perfectly as he was a Libra.
I'm not petrified that the things that broke down my old relationship would strike again. We burnt out really quickly because we were so head of heels in love when we first met. 4 months in and were sick of each other.

How can I avoid doing the same with this new guy? I'm already feeling overwhelmed. my head is spinning but i've just never met anyone so incredible, and you know us sag girls fall hard

Give each other space too. Do not spend every single moment together. I could see how there could be a break down after a while because honestly, I think Libra and Sag could end up head over heels, obsessed with each other. I take my time away though hanging out with friends, which forced him to do the same. At the end of the night, I always go right back to him and into his arms though. ‰

Anyway, I noticed (me being the Libra) that I needed space. I want to miss you and I want to feel missed as well.

You can avoid it by not convincing yourself that you're "head over heels in love" before 4 months.

That's not love, that's infatuation. The sooner you distinguish between the two, the easier it will be to determine what's going to happen.

Considering you just met this guy, you're already overthinking it. Ever consider this, as well as behaving impulsively, are a part of your problem?

Posted by rockyroadicecream
You can avoid it by not convincing yourself that you're "head over heels in love" before 4 months.

That's not love, that's infatuation. The sooner you distinguish between the two, the easier it will be to determine what's going to happen.

Considering you just met this guy, you're already overthinking it. Ever consider this, as well as behaving impulsively, are a part of your problem?

We just connected instantly and all these feelings came out of no where but you are right. The initial infatuation as died down a little, we talk, hang out and have been on a couple dates. I still like this guy but i've learnt to pace it. I'M hopeful and I've learnt from my past relationship with the libra

I have the most impulsive personality ever haha but i don't really see it as "a problem" or "my problem" thank you very much

Posted by jane84
Give each other space too. Do not spend every single moment together. I could see how there could be a break down after a while because honestly, I think Libra and Sag could end up head over heels, obsessed with each other. I take my time away though hanging out with friends, which forced him to do the same. At the end of the night, I always go right back to him and into his arms though. ‰

Anyway, I noticed (me being the Libra) that I needed space. I want to miss you and I want to feel missed as well.

"Anyway, I noticed (me being the Libra) that I needed space. I want to miss you and I want to feel missed as well." this is exactly what my ex used to tell me !! I've learnt this and I'm applying it. I'm very busy with uni etc so i've learnt how to utilise my time. I think my worry is that if I give him too much space he may forget about me and become bored?

Anyway he are doing great! Been on a couple of dates, talk on the phone for ours but we still live our lives 🙂

I'm hopeful.
What is your experience with libras/sag? I'm curious 🙂

You should post your synastry chart or at least his and your planets.

Also love happens when it happens. No such thing as too late or too soon contrary to online beliefs

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Posted by jane84
Give each other space too. Do not spend every single moment together. I could see how there could be a break down after a while because honestly, I think Libra and Sag could end up head over heels, obsessed with each other. I take my time away though hanging out with friends, which forced him to do the same. At the end of the night, I always go right back to him and into his arms though. ‰

Anyway, I noticed (me being the Libra) that I needed space. I want to miss you and I want to feel missed as well.

"Anyway, I noticed (me being the Libra) that I needed space. I want to miss you and I want to feel missed as well." this is exactly what my ex used to tell me !! I've learnt this and I'm applying it. I'm very busy with uni etc so i've learnt how to utilise my time. I think my worry is that if I give him too much space he may forget about me and become bored?

Anyway he are doing great! Been on a couple of dates, talk on the phone for ours but we still live our lives 🙂

I'm hopeful.
What is your experience with libras/sag? I'm curious 🙂

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It depends on what you consider to be too much space. I can't speak for all Libras, but I think, because you read about astrology and it says Libra is the sign of partnership, it makes you think they will want to be with you at all times. (OR you just want to be with them all the time...not sure)

Truth is I'm not like that. I need space. It's not meant to be rude or inconsiderate of your feelings. If you need me I'm there, but if you want to be stuck to me like glue....it makes me want to run away or I may get irritated and because I'm irritated I get moody. (That is my flaw...man can I be moody when someone smothers me or won't let me just be/calm down from something.) But of course if I love you, I will just simply tell you how I feel. (I have a lot of Sag in my chart too, maybe that's why I'm pretty blunt.)

Here is how it works with my Sag. We were friends for 3 months, when he sensed I could be putting him in the friendzone, he made a move. *Which I'm so happy that he did. We have now been with each other for 6 months. Every day is a great day with him. He is understanding, sweet, caring, adventurous, funny, just a great match. (We talk about being a great match.)

One issue: He wants to be with me ALL.THE.TIME. I'm not used to that because my ex and I were not like that. Plus, I was single for a while and used to doing things on my own and having quiet time to just read or complete home projects. I love that he shows me so much affection and care. I hope I show him as well. But I need space sometimes and we've had this discussion. He's starting to pick up on some signs that lets him know I just want to continue wh

One issue: He wants to be with me ALL.THE.TIME. I'm not used to that because my ex and I were not like that. Plus, I was single for a while and used to doing things on my own and having quiet time to just read or complete home projects. I love that he shows me so much affection and care. I hope I show him as well. But I need space sometimes and we've had this discussion. He's starting to pick up on some signs that lets him know I just want to continue what I'm doing without him coming and cuddling with me. Lol. I can be boring in that sitting down and just reading a book is good for me. He is extremely impulsive and I love that about him too. Especially when either of us really want to go somewhere, the answer is always "yes, I'd like to do that too." Because both of us are very open-minded and like to try new things. I LOVE THAT. 🙂

We talk all the time. I love talking to him. He is so intellectually stimulating, it makes me want him more. Honestly, the only issue is when he doesn't want to find something else to do while I'm doing my own thing (after we've spent almost every day together from the second we wake up to the second we go to sleep. And while sleeping he is cuddling me.) lol

I'll suggest something like, "Didn't you want to hang out with your best friend sometime this week?" His response, "No, I just wanted to hang out with you." lol I'm not trying to get him to get away from me, it's just that I know I need alone time sometimes. We need to be able to do things on our own, be our own people as well. It's all about balance. Which believe me, he can, he's very independent. He just loves having me around, as I do him. You just have to give enough space to allow each other to breathe and miss each other, not completely ignore each other for days. That's not good either.

**I will say though that once I got this out in the open, things have been great. I match more with him than anyone I have ever met. I can't say that would be the same for every sag/libra of course. I just find that I get along with him great

Posted by Imarollin
I relate to this. Being a sag who loved a Libra in an on and off relationship for 7 years.

I think where I went wrong is the once the thrill left, I forgot to occupy me. We fought because we were always together. We needed time to be separate while remaining as one.

It seems like libras need time to just be. No drama, no nothing. Just be in the same house and be content doing separate things.

So... Maybe take up some time by finding a new hobby? May I suggest a gym class or running club to rid that excess impulsive behavior I know so well lol.

And good luck!

I think this is the same reason me and my libra ex ended up fighting a lot. he was my first so I think I was over infatuated and didn't really know what to do. Truthfully I'm so focused on my studies that I think I'll be able to handle it this time around.

I think part of the beauty of the libra/sag relationship is the fact that we're so in sync and comfortable in eachother's company and can exist together very easily. I just love being around my bf, even if we're doing nothing. He's my peace and comfort so I can see how, over time, it can slip into spending extended periods of time without wanting to schedule some alone time.

In our case, if we're not careful we could be together for days on end but due to our circumstances our shared time is quite varied. We may spend an entire weekend together followed by a week of no physical contact but loads of long, deep conversations will fill that gap. And I like that sometimes we have no choice in how much time we have as it forces us to fill our time separately doing our own thing.

I have a good deal of Aqua placements in my chart so I do like some time to myself and he does too so it just works. We meet as better individuals with loads to share and it gives time for us to miss eachother which in turn keeps the spark alive. The urge to merge is real though and sometimes I just feel like I want to be with him all the time.

"I think part of the beauty of the libra/sag relationship is the fact that we're so in sync and comfortable in eachother's company and can exist together very easily."

Yes! I've never been so comfortable around someone and so in sync. I feel like all I have to do is think about something I want or want to do and he's all of a sudden bringing it up. I tell him to stop reading my mind. Lol
But we also argue less than any other couple I know in the sense that if we have a disagreement we discuss it. It's not an argument where one person is trying to "win." But again, that could just be how our relationship works..not all.
We give each other space and love on each other a lot. He's great...I like the sag/libra connection. Š

Don't listen to a thing a Libra man says, just listen to his behavior. In fact don't give him too much time to talk. I don't let air signs talk too much because they are gifted with words, but a Libra will "show" you how they really feel with their actions. For instance; I have a flat can you pick me up? His behavior will demonstrate the truth about his real feelings and his readiness to be present in a relationship. I sprung my ankle can you take me to the doctor? Make shit up! He said he wants to travel?I am flying to ... this weekend can you come.. etc.

Posted by Librawoman77
Don't listen to a thing a Libra man says, just listen to his behavior. In fact don't give him too much time to talk. I don't let air signs talk too much because they are gifted with words, but a Libra will "show" you how they really feel with their actions. For instance; I have a flat can you pick me up? His behavior will demonstrate the truth about his real feelings and his readiness to be present in a relationship. I sprung my ankle can you take me to the doctor? Make shit up! He said he wants to travel?I am flying to ... this weekend can you come.. etc.

Hey i like this advice! it's different ! I never thought about it that way. he talks A LOT and I usually end up talking along with im but i've never thought about reading his body language. I have no idea how to do that ! teach me 🙂

Posted by jane84
"I think part of the beauty of the libra/sag relationship is the fact that we're so in sync and comfortable in eachother's company and can exist together very easily."

Yes! I've never been so comfortable around someone and so in sync. I feel like all I have to do is think about something I want or want to do and he's all of a sudden bringing it up. I tell him to stop reading my mind. Lol
But we also argue less than any other couple I know in the sense that if we have a disagreement we discuss it. It's not an argument where one person is trying to "win." But again, that could just be how our relationship works..not all.
We give each other space and love on each other a lot. He's great...I like the sag/libra connection. Š

Hey 🙂 I tried to private message you but it said it was disabled. I have my 3rd date with libra this friday and i'm hella nervous! I'm not sure what his expectations are and I know he has a lit of female friends and i'm starting to feel as though i may not be up to his league. I'm seriously starting to doubt myself but I really do like this guy and I want to make it work! I love the sag.libra bond!

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Posted by Librawoman77
Don't listen to a thing a Libra man says, just listen to his behavior. In fact don't give him too much time to talk. I don't let air signs talk too much because they are gifted with words, but a Libra will "show" you how they really feel with their actions. For instance; I have a flat can you pick me up? His behavior will demonstrate the truth about his real feelings and his readiness to be present in a relationship. I sprung my ankle can you take me to the doctor? Make shit up! He said he wants to travel?I am flying to ... this weekend can you come.. etc.

Hey i like this advice! it's different ! I never thought about it that way. he talks A LOT and I usually end up talking along with im but i've never thought about reading his body language. I have no idea how to do that ! teach me 🙂

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Not body language, actions. Jill Scott has a song the words are,"You constantly talking 'bout how much you love me, want me, need me, you told me... stop talking. No more conversation is necessary... show me, show me, show me, show me, show me." So I arrange things in a way where the air signs don't talk much.