Love my Sag...need help

I had been seeing a Sag woman for a couple of months. Everything was great, we had fun, laughed, tried new things, went on vacation together. Never argued ro even a hint of a disagreement. We get back from vacation together and she texts me saying she just wanted to be friends. I panicked! I sent her pictures from vacation and a letter telling her how I feel. I waited about a month and sent another one. She hasn't responded. Any advice as to what I should do or this the end?

I had been seeing a Sag woman for a couple of months. Everything was great, we had fun, laughed, tried new things, went on vacation together. Never argued ro even a hint of a disagreement. We get back from vacation together and she texts me saying she just wanted to be friends. I panicked! I sent her pictures from vacation and a letter telling her how I feel. I waited about a month and sent another one. She hasn't responded. Any advice as to what I should do or this the end?

dayum.. you sure you didnt do anything rude? any ongoing rude behavior?

That's what I was thinking. Something turned her off like *snap*

In order for me to help out to the best of my ability, I need your suns and moon, mercury and venus signs. You may have secretly turned her off, during your stay together, and that is why she is retreating.Also, How long have you two been dating? Leos and Sag's have a hard time staying together for some reason.

Who is deleting my comments—

Birth data please....And yes, you turned her off some how...

Posted by Easha23000us
Who is deleting my comments—

No one. They're on the other thread, right where you posted them.

Posted by Easha23000us
In order for me to help out to the best of my ability, I need your suns and moon, mercury and venus signs. You may have secretly turned her off, during your stay together, and that is why she is retreating.Also, How long have you two been dating? Leos and Sag's have a hard time staying together for some reason.

Wasn't hard to find.

She is 51 I am 51. Everything was great! I wish I could upload pics of us together. It caught me totally off guard. She was born December 2, 1962, me August 15, 1963. Should I just let her be and try to contact at another time down the road?

This happened at eh end of June. She left a voicemail about a week ago saying We were just friends and to leave her alone. I certainly don't want ot piss her off. The pics we took together (not dirty) certainly do not indicate we were just friends. I just don't get it.

Venus in scorpio; ya done fucked up now.

Come clean or dont come at all.

And an Aqua Moon, could feel some inner conflict or anxiety maybe

And an Aqua Moon, could feel some inner conflict or anxiety maybe

Posted by Lioninlove
This happened at eh end of June. She left a voicemail about a week ago saying We were just friends and to leave her alone. I certainly don't want ot piss her off. The pics we took together (not dirty) certainly do not indicate we were just friends. I just don't get it.

If you really want to get her to be interested in you again, gain some Confidence, and let her see you dating a hot chick...Possibly another Leo or a Gemini...And pretend to friend zone her...That should pique her interest again....

I dunno, asking a Venus in scorpio whats wrong is not the way to go in my opinion. you should already know!

Lioninlove,

I am a Sag women and I believe there is something she figured out that she can not handle. I noticed that you are a LEO because you said Lioninlove. I am just guessing. However, we back off sometimes because we a very kind hearted people and do not want to see others hurt. I believe she will turn around she just needs to miss you....maybe you were to needy for her....Give her the space...we like out freedom but not too much space!

Never seen a sag female get back in a relationship after she ends it.. especially with a leo creeper... no offense op but you guys do go creeper 0_0

Posted by Lioninlove
... seeing a Sag woman for a couple of months. ... went on vacation together. Never argued ro even a hint of a disagreement. We get back from vacation together and she texts me saying she just wanted to be friends. ...

Didn't I say Sagittarius is misleading?

In case she was always just "a friend" she did not put enough effort to let him know before the vacation.
In case she wanted more but changed her opinion during the vacation, she did not let him know it during the vacation.

This is 100% like me. I give people a heaven time as long as we are together. When I'm home I say to myself, "this you'll never do to yourself again". And cut those people off.

The nicer I am to them the more they take me for granted. I'm sure it is not their fault. People can also handle less nice people in gatherings. Not sure if I can or want to change myself. maybe when I'm out again. we'll see.

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Posted by Lioninlove
... seeing a Sag woman for a couple of months. ... went on vacation together. Never argued ro even a hint of a disagreement. We get back from vacation together and she texts me saying she just wanted to be friends. ...

Didn't I say Sagittarius is misleading?

In case she was always just "a friend" she did not put enough effort to let him know before the vacation.
In case she wanted more but changed her opinion during the vacation, she did not let him know it during the vacation.

This is 100% like me. I give people a heaven time as long as we are together. When I'm home I say to myself, "this you'll never do to yourself again". And cut those people off.

The nicer I am to them the more they take me for granted. I'm sure it is not their fault. People can also handle less nice people in gatherings. Not sure if I can or want to change myself. maybe when I'm out again. we'll see.

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HAHAHA. same here. the minute i get to some alone time, i say NOPE. not ever again. I praise the Lord for getting me out of that predicament. then i pray the other person never calls me again. If the do, i probably wont answer or i will do what she did.

Posted by busyeyes88
@DOM. Isn't that kind of behaviour false?

false kinda. more so, trying to keep the peace. Dont want no dramatics or dishes flying. You never know how ppl will take a break up, especially if they feel like everything is okay.

much easier to "keep up appearances" then handle things from afar......

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Posted by DMV
Venus in scorpio; ya done fucked up now.

I just bursted out. So inappropriate.

DMV, why do you crack me the fuck up so much gah

Id personally think she either

1. Has side meat and is too cowardly to tell you. Perhaps a secret husband she separated from or Something. perhaps she used you??

2. Or something turned her off. Perhaps she needs something you won't give to her... are you sure you haven't lied to her about anything?

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its true. she saw and felt something she didnt like. id even go as far as to say, she felt that way for a minute and used the vacation to see if things could be different.

PLus Leos are so damn fixed and so into their needs and Saggis are so damn mutable and always giving in. Both living in a dream world.

that kind of behaviour false?"

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Posted by Lioninlove
... went on vacation together. ...

... I give people a heaven time as long as we are together. When I'm home I say to myself, "this you'll never do to yourself again". And cut those people off.

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You refer to which part?

a) I don't ruin their vacation/weekend/party?
or
b) I don't want to do that torture to myself again?

Posted by dontgetmewrong
[...] all kinds of red flags coming from him, and since she's on vacation with this guy alone, she was going to have fun regardless and didn't want to cause any conflict, who knows how he'd react if she broke it down to him then (not enough history together) so she waited until she was safe at home. [...] waiting for the right time to her. [...] being smart and playing it safe.

playing safe. yes, I agree. also a possible Motivation for her. Panic is not a good friend.