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Posted by theGrinch
I can assure you I've never set anyones things on fire. Honestly, you'll know because I treat you entirely differently then everyone else. You'll see that warm glint in our eyes is gone. Depending on how bad it was, I will either just be polite and short or I'll completely ignore you. We unfortunately wear our hearts on our sleeves so if we're ticked everyone will know it.



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If you pissed me off, I'd let you know.
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Thanks for all of your replies!

@Tiziani: This is a quite unique and very mature approach towards enemies. I'd be glad if there would be more people who could deal in such a respectful manner with their enemies.

—You'll see that warm glint in our eyes is gone. Depending on how bad it was, I will either just be polite and short or I'll completely ignore you??

The last thing happened... The problem is that I just don't know what exactly I did wrong. I'm not sure if he would let everyone know about it. His chart contains lots of Scorpio — Venus in Scorpio and Pluto exactly conjunct mercury in Scorpio.
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Posted by theGrinch
I can assure you I've never set anyones things on fire. Honestly, you'll know because I treat you entirely differently then everyone else. You'll see that warm glint in our eyes is gone. Depending on how bad it was, I will either just be polite and short or I'll completely ignore you. We unfortunately wear our hearts on our sleeves so if we're ticked everyone will know it.



I wasn't serious when I wrote that.
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freemind
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11 Years

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@Denver: Your explanation sounds logical and I wish things were like this in my case.

@Sugarfoot:
—We do not like each other but he still smiles at me, asks about me, and tries to make conversation.??

That makes it so hard that assess how a Libra actually feels about you. My Libra ignores me since early 2014. I know ZERO POINT NOTHING about him. NO CONTACT — no sms, facebook, e-mail etc. I really do care about him and tried to asked mutual friends for him. They had no idea, which is strange enough because Libras are social butterflies. Finally I met his mother by chance a few weeks ago. She told me that he went through serious crisis. He started to detach himself from friends and me slowly. I understand that everybody needs time to regenerate from crisis, but detaching from your friends completely is still something different to me...
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freemind
@freemind
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@LibraSid:

I you give some more details about the happenings in my following posts. I??d like to ask him, but he changed his mobile number, no facebook or e-mail contact anymore etc. I think reaching out is nevertheless a very good idea and the right thing to do. Since I live in a different state than him, there is the next chance to see him after moving to his state in august. I got a study place there 🙂 I'm absolutely not willing to let him go and disappeare from my life - at least not without explanation...

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freemind
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@ Tiziani: —He just thinks you're both better of out of each other's space. —that's different to someone where I feel it's best we have no relationship of any kind at all??.

This was my first thought as well??_ We got to know each other at a party 5 years ago and became friends soon. I got to know his best friend (Sagittarius) on the same occasion. The better my friendship with the Sagi became, the more he started to detach himself. NOTE: He had a girlfriend (Cap) at this time.
I can definitely say that he tried to figure me out a few time in the past. Even googled me 😉 At the same time he started to avoid me. Last time when I visited mutual friends during university holidays, he was just 10 minutes earlier there. When I arrived he was already gone. Our friends told him that I that planned to visit and was on the way.

@Sugarfoot: —I go into severe shutdown/hermit mode when in crisis and crisis recovery. Only the essentials are in the loop. I'm talking immediate family members and thats it.??

That's totally okay. I just worry about the long period of time (half a year), that he's doing this kind of behavior..