I'm a Leo female and dated a libra about 6 monts ago for 6 months. Neither of us have begun dating anyone else yet and I think there are definitely still lingering feelings. We are both very free spirited, adventurous people so the break up, though hurt, was not very detrimental.
Libra has reentered my life recently and I would really like to rekindle something between us. He has moved across the city into a house two blocks away from me and has been randomly appearing the last few weeks. I am unsure of the best way to go about this. It seems he may subtlely be pursuing me but I am not positive.
I have also recently gone on a date with another man and it seems we may have something that could be worth continuing. I really just want to spend time with this libra though. Should I chase him a bit and see if he bites? Should I date this man? Would that make libra jealous in a good or bad way? Any advice? Just keep playing it cool?
If you are lukewarm about him maybe it's better to just move on to someone you are more attracted/compatible with. It's your choiuce , not his , if he makes you hot -then go for it !
Q is right.. when a Libra ends it, it's because he's made his judgement -- decided that it won't work out, and likely had been thinking about it for weeks or months (unbeknownst to you.) Takes a lot to get to that point - generally speaking, a Libra thinks about it exhaustingly, weighing and measuring *everything* to make the best decision. That's just how most Libras are.
Now, that said.. Libras DO come back sometimes.. but THEY must be the one to decide that maybe ending it wasn't the best decision, or that maybe there is some new information they didn't have before and so this needs to be reconsidered.
YOU pursuing HIM (in ANY way, even "subtly" or "innocently").. likely backfire.. he may indeed entertain you or get with you a little.. if he's bored or lonely, missing you a bit, wanting some attention or sex... but like I said.. if he's still got it in HIS mind that you two won't work out.. you'll end up feeling like the catnip mouse getting batted around. (Which you kinda would be.. but don't forget you volunteered for that, by pursuing a man who decided months ago he didn't want you, and hasn't been the one to change his mind about you!)
You going out with this other guy... that's great.. and probably the best course of action. Be unconcerned about Libra. Libra let you go six months ago, and if Libra changed his mind about you, trust me -- he WOULD come back for you and not in some subtle way you have to decipher.
Best way to hook your Libra ex? Move on. No I'm serious, bear with me. You move on with your life, continue living your fabulous, fun life.. date others, love your life and YOURSELF too much to go chasing after some guy who dumped you... and IF there really is a chance for you two.. Libra will see you living your happy life, and think think think some more.. and IF he decides maybe he was too hasty letting you go, then HE will be the one to pursue you for a second chance.
Just don't become the catnip mouse.
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Libra has reentered my life recently and I would really like to rekindle something between us. He has moved across the city into a house two blocks away from me and has been randomly appearing the last few weeks. I am unsure of the best way to go about this. It seems he may subtlely be pursuing me but I am not positive.
I have also recently gone on a date with another man and it seems we may have something that could be worth continuing. I really just want to spend time with this libra though. Should I chase him a bit and see if he bites? Should I date this man? Would that make libra jealous in a good or bad way? Any advice? Just keep playing it cool?