I got a question

Air signs are very very hard to pin down. But once they fall for you, they find it hard to let go/give up on you...(read that somewhere and comes from my own exp, its a pain tbh) Does the same apply to you? Is this true for librans?

yes, when i fall for someone, i fall hard. the only way i can finally let go is with time, keeping busy and invested in my life and being around others who add to my life in positive ways.

we also don't fall for anyone, even if they are into us. it takes mental stimulation first, chemistry and a sense of humor. looks are great, but it's the aforementioned qualities that attract me first. the rest takes care of itself.

I fall for the idea of a person more than the actual person...and then I end up crushed 😢 it's not me, it's the rose tinted glasses I was born with! And I agree with Tiz, for me it's been too long (although I'm after a Leo right now)!

For me, I rarely meet people I find I connect with on a meaningful level but when I do, yes I find it difficult to let go. Not so much in the physical sense, I can quite easily 'walk away' but If a person has got so far into my psyche they will always be in my thoughts, but I always try and keep it positive.

I'll reiterate what some others are saying a bit.

I don't consider myself hard to pin down. I am open to a good relationship. I am picky though. Just because someone likes me doesn't mean I'll like them back. If that equals "hard to pin down" then maybe, but otherwise no.

I generally don't fall quickly, but when I do I fall hard.

I have held on too long in the past, but I'm not resigned to accept it for my future. I know what I'm looking for. I'm not afraid to find it but I won't settle. So yeah, not hard to pin down...just picky.

What exactly is meant by "hard to pin down?"

I was never interested in someone simply as a reciprocation to them being interested in me if I didn't feel a connection. I was always looking for a serious committed relationship even with my boyfriend in high school. No guy i was truly into had any trouble pinning me down.

I've never strung anyone along either. It was always all in or all out, nothing in between, except for this one weird fwb thing once.

ummmm libra's fall in love with those who impress them in a way no one else has ever done 🙂... they hate vulgarity. plus it may take ages for anyone to make them fall in love.

actually we can't accept that it's over between us n our partner, cause we start depending too much on our partner n we start thinking that we are our partner's property... n cause of all this we are ones who suffer in the end....

the ones*

*sighs* its a tragic site, to look at a heartbroken libra...y'all are lovely people. Also very good at keeping control of your feelings...

Good question