I need some advices about a Libra man!!!

I was dating with one Libra man for 4 months. Things were great at first cos he was chasing me all the time and treating me well, I felt he was really into me. Then he always drove me mad cos he was so indecisive, unstable emotion, turned things to negative sides, his cold and hot attitude made me feel insecure. So I called our relationship off for a few times, he tried to get me bck couple of times but accepted it the last time. I felt it was my mistake as I broken off our relationships too many times, and I knew I fell in love with him when I was losing him, so I tried to make it up and get him bck but he refused, said he needed time cos he didn't know what he wanted, maybe he wasn't ready for relationship or he didn't know how to act in relationship cos he had been single for too long (we had both been single for more than 3 years before met each other). Then he went on hols to the America for 3 weeks but left me a text saying we would talk about us again when he's back. He still text me sometimes when he was on hols and when he's back he was chasing me again, asking if we could try to work out our relationship again, so we got back together for a month, it was very smooth. Then he was freaking out, again, he said its too pressure, too much too soon for him to get into a proper relationship, he still has so many things to do on his own and the relationship had eaten up too much time that he felt he had no time for himself, as he sometimes just wanted to stay on his own and relax, so he thinks he should off being single cos we were into different things, he didn't want to commit yet and I was ready for serious relationship but wanted us to be friends. I couldn't do it at this time.
So we split up again and had no contacts for 2 months, I moved on with my life. Then we've started to talk again for a month, as a friend, although I still have feelings for him but it's very calm now so I can handle it being just a friend. First we didn't talk much, especially after he asked me what I'm thinking about FWB, I made very clear to him that I have no interest in this and I'm looking for a potential bf, otherwise we can just be friend, nothing inbetween. First he said he couldn't do it, cant resist me, he cares about me a lot, find me very attractive and enjoy my company, but can't commit neither. But now he chats up to me everyday and sometimes being flirtatious and very sweet. I don't get what he's thinking and what he wants from me as all are mixed signals?

I always gave us both space and time to figure things out in life, to know what we want and see if our relationship is stil worth a try, and if we were meant to each other, because seriously he's the second one made me fall in love after my first love, I was on many dates but I wasn't interesting enough to go any exclusively. I feel he's the one for me and wanna fight for his unstable decision making but he's making me so confusing with his attitudes and I have no clue what's going on? What should I do with this guy, is there anything I can do to push him out of his shell? Any advices would be very helpful and appreciate!! Thanks guys :-)

First couple of month of dating are always a whirlwind of excitement with high attention from the other person. Don't form a permanent opinion of someone based on those early days. Both sides of the couple are putting their best face on the situation. Now reality has kicked in and you are seeing what he is really like, and him you. He has basically told you that he does not want a relationship but he wants to sleep with you. Thank him for being honest and move on. He is either not ready for a relationship or he is just not that into you. You might want to wait for him to be ready, but it could take years and in the meantime you would be missing out on fabulous dating opportunities.

He's not worth the trouble. Sorry.

Congratulations for having good boundaries. Even though you feel hurt now, it's nowhere near as bad as you would have felt if you entered a fwb hoping he would fall in love with you. When he meets Ms Right (for him) he won't behave like an idiot.

Thanks you for shaking me back to the reality :-). I'm just wondering then why he's aware that I'm not into Fwb he's still kept chatting up to me everyday, bought me a gift, and asked me out with his friends? It's made no sense and I'm really confusing why he has to put an effort for all those things for nothing?

I agree with Librarose.
Your Libra's scales do not seem balenced in my opinion- and that makes for a not-so-good partner. If he does not charm your world with smiles and attention then he is not a balenced Libra. And yes Virgo fem Libra male CAN work very smoothly (married to one for 20+ yrs) but the timing seems wrong for the two of you. Your best bet is to become very assertive and let him know that if he remains wishy washy he WILL LOOSE you , that might knock some sense into him. I wish you the best !