silentdoll9
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Im done with Libra men, women beware!
Then I called him and honestly asked him crying and desperate to tell me what was wrong, why was he treating me this way? I asked him if he was gonna come over to my house just to break up with me, but he kept saying "No its not that, I will see you soon". Anyways, I kept getting that feeling through the day that our relationship was gonna be over, so I text him a lot asking him if he had met someone else or if did he fall for someone else? And after persuading him a lot he told me he did.
He told me he was in love with this girl( his father's gf daughter, the one I mentioned in the beginning) and that he was sorry but he loved her and he wasnt sure about his feelings for me but I was still "very important to him" right...
Then I text him telling him that I didnt want to know anything about him and told him to leave me alone forever and that he should go and pick up all his clothes and crap he had on my house to my friends house. He then after 5 minutes text my friend and to tell him "Please take care of her, I thought I loved her but my feelings for this girl are too strong, sorry. I will pick up my things at your place when Im ready."
Then at night I just couldn't get it how it was possible that he felt in love with this girl who has just known for 1 week and a half, when he had been seeing me for 14 months and I have given him everything I could have possibly give him. He was my first one, I was his, I allowed him to stay over with me, I supported him and try to help him overcome his weed over use, try to help him get back to school, and even payed for him when we went out because I know his job doesnt give him enough to spend. So I decided to call him and tell him everything I felt.
To make a long story short, I told him he was garbage, a hypocrite and selfish. I told him that I hated him and that he disgusted me and that I regretted everything I lived with him and told him to stop being so fake because he is not a good person but just feeds himself lies to make himself feel better because this wasn't the only time he did that. He did it to his ex as well, he cheated on her because he fell in love with someone else.
Maybe I was too harsh on him but I meant every word.
He told me he was in love with this girl( his father's gf daughter, the one I mentioned in the beginning) and that he was sorry but he loved her and he wasnt sure about his feelings for me but I was still "very important to him" right...
Then I text him telling him that I didnt want to know anything about him and told him to leave me alone forever and that he should go and pick up all his clothes and crap he had on my house to my friends house. He then after 5 minutes text my friend and to tell him "Please take care of her, I thought I loved her but my feelings for this girl are too strong, sorry. I will pick up my things at your place when Im ready."
Then at night I just couldn't get it how it was possible that he felt in love with this girl who has just known for 1 week and a half, when he had been seeing me for 14 months and I have given him everything I could have possibly give him. He was my first one, I was his, I allowed him to stay over with me, I supported him and try to help him overcome his weed over use, try to help him get back to school, and even payed for him when we went out because I know his job doesnt give him enough to spend. So I decided to call him and tell him everything I felt.
To make a long story short, I told him he was garbage, a hypocrite and selfish. I told him that I hated him and that he disgusted me and that I regretted everything I lived with him and told him to stop being so fake because he is not a good person but just feeds himself lies to make himself feel better because this wasn't the only time he did that. He did it to his ex as well, he cheated on her because he fell in love with someone else.
Maybe I was too harsh on him but I meant every word.
According to him he didn't cheat on me with her yet(yeah right..), but he "wanted to let me know that he was in love with her before he started something with her".
Anyways on that same day I told him that he was dead for me and that I didn't want to ever know anything about him, he kept crying but then I decided to hang up after yelling at him for 1 hour.
Then on Monday he text me and told me that he was sorry about last night but that we should meet in person so he can clarify the situation with me. I decided to ignore him, deleted his phone from everywhere and decided to find comfort in my Aries friend arms on that Sunday night.
I'm done with libras, men are evil. How can you claim to love someone but at the same time fall in love with someone else. How can you plan your future and look at that person in the eyes and tell them they are everything for you and that you will love them forever and then a day after be "in love with other one" please Libras explain me why.
I never gave him reasons to do it. I trusted him with my heart, my appartment, my family and friends and he does this? We fought a lot for the past couple of months but always because he was careless and sloppy with our relationship and he was hurting me and I didnt want to break up with him because I thought he could change and he was trying but I guess he never cared.
But anyways, I just need your insights, I'm not planning to ever go back with him, for my Sagittarius pride, because I will be stupid to do so and because IMO he is not worth it and what he is doing is just sick and wrong even if they are not blood related she is 15, he is 18 and she is his father??s gf daughter and for a 20 year old like me is sick to even think about it.
One more question,Libras, am I ever gonna hear from him ever again? I really dont want to and havent since I ignore his text msg and I am thinking of changing my phone number to avoid hearing from him but I really dont want to go that far. So do libras tend to cling/stalk people they left? Would he ever want to get back to me despite the hateful things I said? I wanna know so I am at least ready to ignore him if I ever see him again. Because I am moving on I already wasted 14 months with this clown.
Anyways on that same day I told him that he was dead for me and that I didn't want to ever know anything about him, he kept crying but then I decided to hang up after yelling at him for 1 hour.
Then on Monday he text me and told me that he was sorry about last night but that we should meet in person so he can clarify the situation with me. I decided to ignore him, deleted his phone from everywhere and decided to find comfort in my Aries friend arms on that Sunday night.
I'm done with libras, men are evil. How can you claim to love someone but at the same time fall in love with someone else. How can you plan your future and look at that person in the eyes and tell them they are everything for you and that you will love them forever and then a day after be "in love with other one" please Libras explain me why.
I never gave him reasons to do it. I trusted him with my heart, my appartment, my family and friends and he does this? We fought a lot for the past couple of months but always because he was careless and sloppy with our relationship and he was hurting me and I didnt want to break up with him because I thought he could change and he was trying but I guess he never cared.
But anyways, I just need your insights, I'm not planning to ever go back with him, for my Sagittarius pride, because I will be stupid to do so and because IMO he is not worth it and what he is doing is just sick and wrong even if they are not blood related she is 15, he is 18 and she is his father??s gf daughter and for a 20 year old like me is sick to even think about it.
One more question,Libras, am I ever gonna hear from him ever again? I really dont want to and havent since I ignore his text msg and I am thinking of changing my phone number to avoid hearing from him but I really dont want to go that far. So do libras tend to cling/stalk people they left? Would he ever want to get back to me despite the hateful things I said? I wanna know so I am at least ready to ignore him if I ever see him again. Because I am moving on I already wasted 14 months with this clown.
Even if right now I hate him and dont want to see his face again, if you read my other tread "libra boyfriend" I said I had an amazing relationship with him before, we understood each other very well, loved to go out and spend time anywhere we layed our hands on and we always knew what the other one was thinking. It was like a dream relationship.
Not that it matters anymore anyways because at least it doesnt to me, but I just wanted to let you know that.
Anyways that's the end of my story. Thank you for reading, if you read all the way and I appreciate your comments. My Sagittarius need for the truth wants answers.
Not that it matters anymore anyways because at least it doesnt to me, but I just wanted to let you know that.
Anyways that's the end of my story. Thank you for reading, if you read all the way and I appreciate your comments. My Sagittarius need for the truth wants answers.
One more thing, sorry if I had some mistakes (probably a lot) in punctuation and typos but I typed everything from my phone. I hope it doesnt confuse your reading.
Oh im sorry thats too bad. He's a waste of space he obviously doesnt know what love is i doubt hes in love with her it seems to me hes probaly in lust and unfourtunatly it can seem stronger than love. But the age thing is right but by no means an excuse. Cut strings straight away my friend was also in a relationship with a libra and took him back time and time again from cheating and he messed her up soo bad but she finally got rid of him and is in a lovely relationship with an aries. no matter what someones sign is it doesnt clarify thier actions esp not being unfaithful. And i know its hard but sometimes it doesnt matter what you do for people, how nice you are they'll still shit on you. He'll for sure try to come back in the future once hes realised what he's done or once hes had his fun, if he already hasnt.. but do you really wanna be with someone that can through away 14 months just because they met someone for a week if he knew the person for longer and a natural attraction grew then the feelings would be understandable but even then leaving you for her wouldnt be acceptable.
And about the change thing you feel the need to change someone, why be with them in the first place? hardly anyone changes for someone else a few do but not most people will change for themselevs and we're there ready. You deserve more than this.
(((Silentdoll)))
This is a shitty situation and it hurts and there is very little anyone can do or say to make you feel better.
Unfortunetly, stuff like this sometimes happens. The best you can do is learn what you can from it. You are all so very, very young. And I think the first heartbreak, is always the hardest. Mainly because you lose some of your idealism and innocence.
* I trusted him with my heart, my appartment, my family and friends and he does this? We fought a lot for the past couple of months but always because he was careless and sloppy with our relationship and he was hurting me and I didnt want to break up with him because I thought he could change
Part of learning about love is realizing that you either accept someone for who they are or you reject them completely. People have different needs. People tend to give what they need. And if you experience a lot of unhappiness in your relationship, chances are NOT that he/she doesn't care. They just aren't compatible or capable of giving you what you need. No amount of caring will make things different.
The bad news is your relationship is over. The good news is it means a better relationship, more suited to you, is somewhere down the road.
hang in there.
This is a shitty situation and it hurts and there is very little anyone can do or say to make you feel better.
Unfortunetly, stuff like this sometimes happens. The best you can do is learn what you can from it. You are all so very, very young. And I think the first heartbreak, is always the hardest. Mainly because you lose some of your idealism and innocence.
* I trusted him with my heart, my appartment, my family and friends and he does this? We fought a lot for the past couple of months but always because he was careless and sloppy with our relationship and he was hurting me and I didnt want to break up with him because I thought he could change
Part of learning about love is realizing that you either accept someone for who they are or you reject them completely. People have different needs. People tend to give what they need. And if you experience a lot of unhappiness in your relationship, chances are NOT that he/she doesn't care. They just aren't compatible or capable of giving you what you need. No amount of caring will make things different.
The bad news is your relationship is over. The good news is it means a better relationship, more suited to you, is somewhere down the road.
hang in there.
On behalf of Libra men, I deeply apologize that one of our brethren did that to you. I don't know if this is more of an immature 18-year-old thing than a Libra thing, but yeah it does seem like an immature Libra thing to do:
A. The Charity Case.
-Libras are a pretty insecure, which is why many of us are manwhores & floozies when we're younger and/or single (not the case when we're in love though 'cuz when we're in love, it's EVERYTHING). We might say we're not but it is kinda true. The "charity case" was pretty much Libra bait; the false sense of a "love" who they would feel will never leave them due to the love they'll show them from saving them. It shows many things about Libras: our natural mindset for reciprocation, our insecurity by going for someone who we might deem as pitiful just because it's "safe", and our idealism about thinking we could make things better. We sometimes treat people like they're fragile & that can be a bit patronizing.
B. "am I ever gonna hear from him ever again?"
-Probably not if it was definite but you just might when time has passed and the intense emotions have dissipated enough. Since it was his fault, he might want eventual closure and try to make sure it closes on either a positive or a neutral note. I can attest to that, I'm friends w/ all my exes but then again, I never left any of my exes for anyone. If it was your fault, he'd just move on.
C. Conclusion
-You're a Sag, you shouldn't be wasting your time w/ him. You probably thought he wasn't manly enough/too metro for you and eventually, you'll realize he was too indecisive, lazy, & passive for you (although we do tend to work well with domineering people as long as they're not taking absolute advantage of us, especially with fire signs since we make the ideas that you bring to fruition). But that's on just an astrology view. Seriously though, I'm really sorry for what he did and I hope it doesn't turn you away from all Libras. Regardless of signs, most people do try to be good people when we're old enough to realize the gravity of our past mistakes.
A. The Charity Case.
-Libras are a pretty insecure, which is why many of us are manwhores & floozies when we're younger and/or single (not the case when we're in love though 'cuz when we're in love, it's EVERYTHING). We might say we're not but it is kinda true. The "charity case" was pretty much Libra bait; the false sense of a "love" who they would feel will never leave them due to the love they'll show them from saving them. It shows many things about Libras: our natural mindset for reciprocation, our insecurity by going for someone who we might deem as pitiful just because it's "safe", and our idealism about thinking we could make things better. We sometimes treat people like they're fragile & that can be a bit patronizing.
B. "am I ever gonna hear from him ever again?"
-Probably not if it was definite but you just might when time has passed and the intense emotions have dissipated enough. Since it was his fault, he might want eventual closure and try to make sure it closes on either a positive or a neutral note. I can attest to that, I'm friends w/ all my exes but then again, I never left any of my exes for anyone. If it was your fault, he'd just move on.
C. Conclusion
-You're a Sag, you shouldn't be wasting your time w/ him. You probably thought he wasn't manly enough/too metro for you and eventually, you'll realize he was too indecisive, lazy, & passive for you (although we do tend to work well with domineering people as long as they're not taking absolute advantage of us, especially with fire signs since we make the ideas that you bring to fruition). But that's on just an astrology view. Seriously though, I'm really sorry for what he did and I hope it doesn't turn you away from all Libras. Regardless of signs, most people do try to be good people when we're old enough to realize the gravity of our past mistakes.
Amethyst2002 I really understand you when you say the changing thing and how they just go and get attached to other people. Its just sad how much you trust them and then they go around falling in love with other people.
Thank you everyone for your responses they have been very helpful and I really appreciate the time and effort you took to read my story and comment on it. I no longer feel sad what I feel is mostly anger towards him actually, because I really did love him and I tried everything to make our relationship work so I dont blame or ask myself "What if?" because in my heart and head I know and feel I tried.
Most of you comment about the age and I couldn't agree more, he is immature and after what happened it made me realize that inside him he is still a 15 year old boy and maybe thats why he felt his "connection" with this other girl.
About the changing him thing, I didnt really mean changing the person he is/was. I loved everything from him, he was sweet, attentive, active and always made me feel happy. The only thing I didnt like about him was that he always said he was gonna do things and he never did them. I meant mainly for helping him, changing who he was in respect of what he did. Before we met me he used to smoke weed everyday with his brother buddies, stayed home drinking beer and stoned and didnt want to do anything with his life. I was trying to help him not to become his brother, tried to help him become better, when I met him he failed his last high school year and I convinced him to do it again and he did it, he had dreams but not ambitions.
And thats what I was trying to change from him, because he wanted to be successful and have a good life but he never bother to tried, and he always said I gave him that push and strength to move forward because at some point in our relationship we did think about being together longterm.
So thats what I did, not that it matters anymore because I want to leave him behind and everything I knew about him, for me he doesn't exist anymore. I feel like all the love I had towards him has turned into hate. And although its not healthy to do so its helpful to move on and never look back and thats what I want. I wouldnt take him back because then I will be gambling with him again, never knowing whats gonna happen and what if he "falls in love again" with someone else.
Im not wanna wait for him to mature. I guess in a way I am glad I saw his true colors before it was too late.
Thank you everyone for your responses they have been very helpful and I really appreciate the time and effort you took to read my story and comment on it. I no longer feel sad what I feel is mostly anger towards him actually, because I really did love him and I tried everything to make our relationship work so I dont blame or ask myself "What if?" because in my heart and head I know and feel I tried.
Most of you comment about the age and I couldn't agree more, he is immature and after what happened it made me realize that inside him he is still a 15 year old boy and maybe thats why he felt his "connection" with this other girl.
About the changing him thing, I didnt really mean changing the person he is/was. I loved everything from him, he was sweet, attentive, active and always made me feel happy. The only thing I didnt like about him was that he always said he was gonna do things and he never did them. I meant mainly for helping him, changing who he was in respect of what he did. Before we met me he used to smoke weed everyday with his brother buddies, stayed home drinking beer and stoned and didnt want to do anything with his life. I was trying to help him not to become his brother, tried to help him become better, when I met him he failed his last high school year and I convinced him to do it again and he did it, he had dreams but not ambitions.
And thats what I was trying to change from him, because he wanted to be successful and have a good life but he never bother to tried, and he always said I gave him that push and strength to move forward because at some point in our relationship we did think about being together longterm.
So thats what I did, not that it matters anymore because I want to leave him behind and everything I knew about him, for me he doesn't exist anymore. I feel like all the love I had towards him has turned into hate. And although its not healthy to do so its helpful to move on and never look back and thats what I want. I wouldnt take him back because then I will be gambling with him again, never knowing whats gonna happen and what if he "falls in love again" with someone else.
Im not wanna wait for him to mature. I guess in a way I am glad I saw his true colors before it was too late.
* He wont fully mature until the age 29-30
You're an optimist Taste. 🙂
You're an optimist Taste. 🙂
Please beware of Libra men--I am a Pisces and am married to a Lazy,lying manipulative libra man. We have 2 babies (2yrs and 1yr).
Libras are needy, clingly, dirty(the one i have) and have no respect for your things nor you. He has been out of work for 3 years and complains he can't find a job. but he can go out every weekend and drink and party--steals money from my purse (by the way he's 43) who the hell does that!!!!
They only care about themselves, and they tell u what u want to hear so you can stop arguing with them--then turn right around and do the same bull sh**. He apologizes consistently without making a change-- He prefers to hang out with so called friends--until wee hours of the night, and then he goes out on a limb for them—? what about me over here "whoohoo" (I'm waving) your wife!!!!! He goes into this mood where, he curses me out for nothing, blames me for his short comings, gets angry at the world--then comes back 2 hours later apologizes like that means anything!
I'm telling you, if you ever meet a Libra man---RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!! Like you've never run before! They destroy families, are manipulative, oh boy are they manipulative-- would make beleive they are telling the truth, until you find out otherwise. Oh and they are HUGH cheaters too! they become confused and then they love you today--next week they don't or they do--but they love someone else too?? WTF??!!
They are wishy washy, no backbone, take all your money bull sh**ters that I have ever seen in my life! I am getting out very soon. If you find a libra man that has it together, works full time for over 3years, has his own car, home, etc... consider that a blessing--but this one i got here---gotta go fast!!
I was told not to marry him and thought oh no he's not like that--boy was my friend right! She saw it in him. (Her x-husband was a libra too)-- Well I just had to get this off my chest. Please Please take my advice.........I hope i helped someone.
Libras are needy, clingly, dirty(the one i have) and have no respect for your things nor you. He has been out of work for 3 years and complains he can't find a job. but he can go out every weekend and drink and party--steals money from my purse (by the way he's 43) who the hell does that!!!!
They only care about themselves, and they tell u what u want to hear so you can stop arguing with them--then turn right around and do the same bull sh**. He apologizes consistently without making a change-- He prefers to hang out with so called friends--until wee hours of the night, and then he goes out on a limb for them—? what about me over here "whoohoo" (I'm waving) your wife!!!!! He goes into this mood where, he curses me out for nothing, blames me for his short comings, gets angry at the world--then comes back 2 hours later apologizes like that means anything!
I'm telling you, if you ever meet a Libra man---RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!! Like you've never run before! They destroy families, are manipulative, oh boy are they manipulative-- would make beleive they are telling the truth, until you find out otherwise. Oh and they are HUGH cheaters too! they become confused and then they love you today--next week they don't or they do--but they love someone else too?? WTF??!!
They are wishy washy, no backbone, take all your money bull sh**ters that I have ever seen in my life! I am getting out very soon. If you find a libra man that has it together, works full time for over 3years, has his own car, home, etc... consider that a blessing--but this one i got here---gotta go fast!!
I was told not to marry him and thought oh no he's not like that--boy was my friend right! She saw it in him. (Her x-husband was a libra too)-- Well I just had to get this off my chest. Please Please take my advice.........I hope i helped someone.
Oh em gee. Libra men sound terrifying!
*blinks slowly*
I'm thinking the Libra isn't the one lacking the backbone in this scenario. So I ask you, Miss pisces1.. how you gonna blame the man for what YOU keep putting up with?
I mean, hell.. if I found me a man who would tolerate me running amok with my friends while I left him with the kids.. hey, even cheating or at least having emotional affairs.. not working or contributing much for three years... stealing from him... and oh ho ho.. the icing on the cake.. I get to BLAME HIM for everything... yeah, if he were so weak and wishy-washy and spineless that he put up with it, and the best he could do was bitch to his buddy who "tried to warn" him I was bad news, or get on an Astrology website and try to "warn" everyone how weak and selfish and USING that PISCES women are... hahaha yeah, I'd think he was a joke. Sure, I might still love him, we've got history.. and babies together.. and a marriage. But until he's ready to stand up for himself and stop being pushed around by me.. hell, this seems to be exactly what he wants.. he keeps putting up with it, after all - so he must secretly like it!!
This isn't about him being a Libra or you being a Pisces... this is about you being a doormat and blaming HIM because you accept bad treatment. Pack up those precious babies and go stay with your mom or a friend.. or a women's shelter. Don't tell me you can't... cuz you CAN! Maybe you just WON'T.. but that would make YOU the lazy, clingy, needy one.
But don't blame HIM for YOU not handling your bidness, chica.
I'm thinking the Libra isn't the one lacking the backbone in this scenario. So I ask you, Miss pisces1.. how you gonna blame the man for what YOU keep putting up with?
I mean, hell.. if I found me a man who would tolerate me running amok with my friends while I left him with the kids.. hey, even cheating or at least having emotional affairs.. not working or contributing much for three years... stealing from him... and oh ho ho.. the icing on the cake.. I get to BLAME HIM for everything... yeah, if he were so weak and wishy-washy and spineless that he put up with it, and the best he could do was bitch to his buddy who "tried to warn" him I was bad news, or get on an Astrology website and try to "warn" everyone how weak and selfish and USING that PISCES women are... hahaha yeah, I'd think he was a joke. Sure, I might still love him, we've got history.. and babies together.. and a marriage. But until he's ready to stand up for himself and stop being pushed around by me.. hell, this seems to be exactly what he wants.. he keeps putting up with it, after all - so he must secretly like it!!
This isn't about him being a Libra or you being a Pisces... this is about you being a doormat and blaming HIM because you accept bad treatment. Pack up those precious babies and go stay with your mom or a friend.. or a women's shelter. Don't tell me you can't... cuz you CAN! Maybe you just WON'T.. but that would make YOU the lazy, clingy, needy one.
But don't blame HIM for YOU not handling your bidness, chica.
wait..what's the date on this? There's something familiar about how this post is worded..not sure.
You can do better than him sorry to hear that u went thru that
Sad to say but that's an involved and young libra for you that whole situation sounds sick to me datinghis dads girlfriend underaged daughter over a grown woman,byes you deserve batter than that baby girl
It takes slot of learning for libras to change that over. All signs have their own work but ours seems more extreme b/c of the focus on relationships. On one extreme we enter relationships out of pure sex drive sad to say but it's true and then when someone else comes along that turns us on then we leave the other in the dust and it's painful but we do it out of pure selfishness
We are cardinal signs so the self is never sacrificed. But we enter relationships for the wrong reasons( remember this is jus one extreme not a whole judgemen) and its funny cuz he will do her the same way and he is just confusing sex with love it takes alot of learning.
That's what happens when u fake it up for people, you end up realizing the truth and do something to destroy meaningful relationships when all you had to do was assert what you want
Sad to say but that's an involved and young libra for you that whole situation sounds sick to me datinghis dads girlfriend underaged daughter over a grown woman,byes you deserve batter than that baby girl
It takes slot of learning for libras to change that over. All signs have their own work but ours seems more extreme b/c of the focus on relationships. On one extreme we enter relationships out of pure sex drive sad to say but it's true and then when someone else comes along that turns us on then we leave the other in the dust and it's painful but we do it out of pure selfishness
We are cardinal signs so the self is never sacrificed. But we enter relationships for the wrong reasons( remember this is jus one extreme not a whole judgemen) and its funny cuz he will do her the same way and he is just confusing sex with love it takes alot of learning.
That's what happens when u fake it up for people, you end up realizing the truth and do something to destroy meaningful relationships when all you had to do was assert what you want
Oy vey.
A Pisces complaining about being used,wow why am I not surprised.
Most of y'all are getting just one extreme of libras and to the pisces woman moaning and groaning about her libra and libras period you kno you do have the option to leave him. If you quit submitting to his ways and put your foot down then you wouldn't have this problem
I hate being put in categories and libra men is such a general term but I know I have handled my relationships far better then what I see on here
It never fails tho, one day no libra man is going to come on this estrogen fueled thread and only women will be here bickering to themselves about how they accepted the same shinand finally after 10 years they wanna put their foot down. This libra board used to be fun and insightful and had some wise members but mo it's become somewhere for unhappy women to vent and down libra men and bitch and moan only to ask will they return? Smh, this board has become the Maury show
Most of y'all are getting just one extreme of libras and to the pisces woman moaning and groaning about her libra and libras period you kno you do have the option to leave him. If you quit submitting to his ways and put your foot down then you wouldn't have this problem
I hate being put in categories and libra men is such a general term but I know I have handled my relationships far better then what I see on here
It never fails tho, one day no libra man is going to come on this estrogen fueled thread and only women will be here bickering to themselves about how they accepted the same shinand finally after 10 years they wanna put their foot down. This libra board used to be fun and insightful and had some wise members but mo it's become somewhere for unhappy women to vent and down libra men and bitch and moan only to ask will they return? Smh, this board has become the Maury show
Posted by UrsaMediocre
On behalf of Libra men, I deeply apologize that one of our brethren did that to you. I don't know if this is more of an immature 18-year-old thing than a Libra thing, but yeah it does seem like an immature Libra thing to do:
A. The Charity Case.
-Libras are a pretty insecure, which is why many of us are manwhores & floozies when we're younger and/or single (not the case when we're in love though 'cuz when we're in love, it's EVERYTHING). We might say we're not but it is kinda true. The "charity case" was pretty much Libra bait; the false sense of a "love" who they would feel will never leave them due to the love they'll show them from saving them. It shows many things about Libras: our natural mindset for reciprocation, our insecurity by going for someone who we might deem as pitiful just because it's "safe", and our idealism about thinking we could make things better. We sometimes treat people like they're fragile & that can be a bit patronizing.
B. "am I ever gonna hear from him ever again?"
-Probably not if it was definite but you just might when time has passed and the intense emotions have dissipated enough. Since it was his fault, he might want eventual closure and try to make sure it closes on either a positive or a neutral note. I can attest to that, I'm friends w/ all my exes but then again, I never left any of my exes for anyone. If it was your fault, he'd just move on.
C. Conclusion
-You're a Sag, you shouldn't be wasting your time w/ him. You probably thought he wasn't manly enough/too metro for you and eventually, you'll realize he was too indecisive, lazy, & passive for you (although we do tend to work well with domineering people as long as they're not taking absolute advantage of us, especially with fire signs since we make the ideas that you bring to fruition). But that's on just an astrology view. Seriously though, I'm really sorry for what he did and I hope it doesn't turn you away from all Libras. Regardless of signs, most people do try to be good people when we're old enough to realize the gravity of our past mistakes.
FUCK. MY LIBRA HAS BEEN ACTING LIKE THIS 😢 he
always says he's tired or never replys ima just
leave him alone before he breaks my heart.x(
always says he's tired or never replys ima just
leave him alone before he breaks my heart.x(
I think I got a very rotten Libra then, it's been 4 months since I last saw him (10 months since the break up) and asked him to stay away from me and leave me alone but uhh boy he did not give up, he kept calling me/texting me/emailing almost everyday just to tell me that he was in a lot of problems and that he needed to talk to me so desperately and that he needed me in his life and that he wanted to be friends, so I kinda fell in his trap again. Despite of what he did of course I didn't trust him fully but I thought people make mistakes and some do change and he sounded so sincere and honest all the time so I gave him the benefit of a doubt and we started texting and chatting with each other until he persuaded me to see each other on January, so I agreed we saw each other again, I realized I still liked him a lot so I decided to give him another chance to prove himself, he told me that he was so sorry and that he did not love that girl and that she was a whore with a lot of issues ,she had manipulated him and made him cheat on me and it was me that he loved but he wanted to take things slow, so we kept our little friends with benefits game until I knew it wasn't going to get us anywhere and that that I was always going to be in that whore's shadow because he left it clear that he wanted a relationship but not now and that the whore he cheated with was still in his life like a "little sister" to him, so I never agreed and I send him to hell around February and told him to stop talking to me and looking for me, he stopped for a while but then he started bugging me again around March, so then we started texting each other since then.
He always seemed so genuine, he would text me every morning, send me emails, very attentive and would not give up talking to me despite the fact that I told him countless of times that the only way we would be friends was if the whore he cheated on me with was gone from his life, he always avoided the topic and kept telling me that he wanted me in his life and that he had lost me once but he wouldn't again. So I know what I did was wrong and I shouldn't be looking into people's privacy but I had to.. I checked his email yesterday(yeah the idiot puts my name as his password usually) I knew things were way too good to be true and even though he sounded so sincere and honest with me all the time there was something wrong.
He always seemed so genuine, he would text me every morning, send me emails, very attentive and would not give up talking to me despite the fact that I told him countless of times that the only way we would be friends was if the whore he cheated on me with was gone from his life, he always avoided the topic and kept telling me that he wanted me in his life and that he had lost me once but he wouldn't again. So I know what I did was wrong and I shouldn't be looking into people's privacy but I had to.. I checked his email yesterday(yeah the idiot puts my name as his password usually) I knew things were way too good to be true and even though he sounded so sincere and honest with me all the time there was something wrong.
So in his email I found that he's been dating the 15 year old whore who he cheated on me with since September despite the fact that he told me they were over since last October and not only that but he is also chasing 3 other girls at the same time!!
I was truly disgusted, surprised and shocked, so I decided to confront him next day of course without telling him that I had seen his inbox.
"I told him the same thing I always did that "I didn't want to be friends because that whore who he cheated on me with was in his life and that I was asking him to choose between me or her (refered to her as his gf)" and he replied "Look I'm never going to stop talking to the whore because it's my father's girlfriend daughter, unless my father breaks up with his mom plus she calls her mom sometimes at home and I speak to her once in a while besides, do you think I will be the boyfriend of someone who's 300 km away from me? Where do you get all of this things I am not dating her she just calls her mom sometimes and I speak to her for 5 minutes but thats it, I never cheated on you with her it was her who wanted to do things but I always told her I had a girlfriend and that I couldn't " YEAH RIGHT!
So finally I opened my eyes, he is a liar scum bag cheater, finally the charm is over and I got to see with my own eyes the lying son of a bitch he is, I don't feel hurt, instead I feel happy I finally got rid of that disgusting douche of my life .
I could not let go of him before because I was still confused, charmed and still had feelings for him and because he made it so hard for me to completely erase him from my life but I wanted to know the truth so badly so even if it took me almost 6 months I finally found it and got to tell him to fuck off and to get the hell out of my life 😄.
I was truly disgusted, surprised and shocked, so I decided to confront him next day of course without telling him that I had seen his inbox.
"I told him the same thing I always did that "I didn't want to be friends because that whore who he cheated on me with was in his life and that I was asking him to choose between me or her (refered to her as his gf)" and he replied "Look I'm never going to stop talking to the whore because it's my father's girlfriend daughter, unless my father breaks up with his mom plus she calls her mom sometimes at home and I speak to her once in a while besides, do you think I will be the boyfriend of someone who's 300 km away from me? Where do you get all of this things I am not dating her she just calls her mom sometimes and I speak to her for 5 minutes but thats it, I never cheated on you with her it was her who wanted to do things but I always told her I had a girlfriend and that I couldn't " YEAH RIGHT!
So finally I opened my eyes, he is a liar scum bag cheater, finally the charm is over and I got to see with my own eyes the lying son of a bitch he is, I don't feel hurt, instead I feel happy I finally got rid of that disgusting douche of my life .
I could not let go of him before because I was still confused, charmed and still had feelings for him and because he made it so hard for me to completely erase him from my life but I wanted to know the truth so badly so even if it took me almost 6 months I finally found it and got to tell him to fuck off and to get the hell out of my life 😄.
Posted by Pride of 0ctober
You can do better than him sorry to hear that u went thru that
Sad to say but that's an involved and young libra for you that whole situation sounds sick to me datinghis dads girlfriend underaged daughter over a grown woman,byes you deserve batter than that baby girl
It takes slot of learning for libras to change that over. All signs have their own work but ours seems more extreme b/c of the focus on relationships. On one extreme we enter relationships out of pure sex drive sad to say but it's true and then when someone else comes along that turns us on then we leave the other in the dust and it's painful but we do it out of pure selfishness
We are cardinal signs so the self is never sacrificed. But we enter relationships for the wrong reasons( remember this is jus one extreme not a whole judgemen) and its funny cuz he will do her the same way and he is just confusing sex with love it takes alot of learning.
That's what happens when u fake it up for people, you end up realizing the truth and do something to destroy meaningful relationships when all you had to do was assert what you want
Thanks a lot Pride of October it makes a lot of sense, it's been almost a year since everything happened but I finally managed to get rid of him, finally saw who he really is, it sure took me a while and I knew he was full of shit and everyone told me so but I had to see it myself and now that I did I can finally close the book with him and run away as fast as I can.
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