Is Libra actually interested or just wanting attention?

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Gemi13
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Libras.. I need help deciphering if this girl actually has some sort of feelings or is playing games and wanting my attention simply for an ego boost?

We've flirting heavily for 2 years since we met but she was in a relationship. Now she's single and she's seeked me out and we've been talking almost daily for about 3 weeks. We've been on one "date" and she suggested we get to know each other better and outside of the partying and drunk environment we always used to find ourselves in.

When she's not drunk she's much shyer and reserved but after a few drinks she flirts heavily and becomes touchy feeling. We had a date after 2 years 2 wks ago and we finally kissed for the first time and it was everything it should have been. Everything was going perfect and she out of no where a few days later she turned around and said she had been thinking and we should just be friends as we're from 2 different worlds and it would never work out and for her there were deal breakers such as me smoking (that's the only deal breaker she could come up whit). Anyway She admitted that she was pushing me away because she's trying to protect herself from getting hurt and she thinks I'd be someone who could hurt her. After she said to me that she didn't want to date me OR even hang out with me, she sent me a sexy photo the following morning and from then on I ignored her completely for 2 days. She reached out via text on the 2nd day going "You're so off me hey?" I didn't respond. She's been trying to get my attention by posting up certain photos to social media and sending me ones directly which I haven't opened. Anyway I saw her Saturday night (we have mutual friends and we were all out). We hadn't spoken for 3 days. I said hello to her like normal and everyone else. However, I basically avoided her and spoke to everyone else and danced but didn't give her attention at all or hardly looked at her. A friend told me she said to them "why am I being ignored" (ignored by me). Anyway not long into the night she started dancing really sexually in front of me so as to get my attention and it worked lol uugh! I called her over and she came to me and I grabbed her face and kissed her.

We chit chatted and we agreed to go outside and talk. Our conversation went around in circles. She wanted me to admit I liked her and had feelings. I wasn't budging and I wanted her to admit the same but she wouldn't and was very tight lipped. She said conversations about feelings etc are hard for her and she's not good at them. We kissed some more. She mentioned she had been on a date earlier that day. She said she didn't want us to sleep together I asked why her response "If I'm acting and feeling like this after a kiss I don't want to know how i'll be if we sleep together" So i asked if she'd develop feelings and she was like "no way". I'm really confused. Anyway I walked her to the car. She told me to drop my facade that nothing phases me and that I don't care and just be honest about how I feel.

Following day she sent me a photo of herself and captioned it "How's your head feeling today?. I replied 6 hours later and then heard nothing from her. I text her this morning and she's responded once but doesn't seem very talkative. Either she's just playing games or is really busy? Do I just let my guard down and give her what she wants which is me to give in?
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Gemi13
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Posted by LadyNeptune

Man your playing games too. You want her to open up and let you in but won't do the same for her.




Yes I am because I'm scared to let my guard down with her. She seems to string people along for her ego boost. I said this to her I said I feel your the type to make people want you and lead them on so you can pick and choose between them whenever it suites. She said that that was true to an extent "but it's differnet with you". I asked how so she said because we "have history. May not be the best history but we've known each other for a long time. You're not just some random I'm flirting with" and I tried to get her to come out and say it's different with me because she likes me but she wouldn't. I'm a little worried if I let my guard down she might throw it in my face and it will just be a satisfaction for her that she got to me.

She also said she wouldn't lead me on because she doesn't want to f*ck me over and that I'm a little scary so she def wouldn't want to mess with me in that sense. Should I just quit playing games and pursue her and if it doesn't work out then at least I know I tried?
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Man your playing games too. You want her to open up and let you in but won't do the same for her.




Yes I am because I'm scared to let my guard down with her. She seems to string people along for her ego boost. I said this to her I said I feel your the type to make people want you and lead them on so you can pick and choose between them whenever it suites. She said that that was true to an extent "but it's differnet with you". I asked how so she said because we "have history. May not be the best history but we've known each other for a long time. You're not just some random I'm flirting with" and I tried to get her to come out and say it's different with me because she likes me but she wouldn't. I'm a little worried if I let my guard down she might throw it in my face and it will just be a satisfaction for her that she got to me.

She also said she wouldn't lead me on because she doesn't want to f*ck me over and that I'm a little scary so she def wouldn't want to mess with me in that sense. Should I just quit playing games and pursue her and if it doesn't work out then at least I know I tried?
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No. Definitely string this out for the next few years. After all thats what you've already given her...time.
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Posted by LadyNeptune

Man your playing games too. You want her to open up and let you in but won't do the same for her.




Yes I am because I'm scared to let my guard down with her. She seems to string people along for her ego boost. I said this to her I said I feel your the type to make people want you and lead them on so you can pick and choose between them whenever it suites. She said that that was true to an extent "but it's differnet with you". I asked how so she said because we "have history. May not be the best history but we've known each other for a long time. You're not just some random I'm flirting with" and I tried to get her to come out and say it's different with me because she likes me but she wouldn't. I'm a little worried if I let my guard down she might throw it in my face and it will just be a satisfaction for her that she got to me.

She also said she wouldn't lead me on because she doesn't want to f*ck me over and that I'm a little scary so she def wouldn't want to mess with me in that sense. Should I just quit playing games and pursue her and if it doesn't work out then at least I know I tried?


No. Definitely string this out for the next few years. After all thats what you've already given her...time.
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I can't tell if you're being super sarcastic or not? Truly if it seems like she has feelings which I believe she does (but is being highly indecisive because she could never see us together then I'll make a move but if it sounds like a typical Libra just seeking attention then I won't pursue.
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Damn. However, we're both women. GAY women and yes we're both openly out and I am definitely the aggressor out of the both of us. But in all honesty.. does she seem like she is interested or playing games?!?! LIBRAS HELP ME!

blablabla he's still right, you're both playing motherf@cking games, how old are you people?

"She wanted me to admit I liked her and had feelings. I wasn't budging and I wanted her to admit the same but she wouldn't and was very tight lipped"

so you have feelings or what? whats there to hide?

wheres @Emhendo at when is needed ლ,ᔑ•ﺪ͟͠•ᔐ.ლ teach these hoes the way

so many crazy bittches comming lately ( ⚆ _ ⚆ )
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Posted by Gemi13

Damn. However, we're both women. GAY women and yes we're both openly out and I am definitely the aggressor out of the both of us. But in all honesty.. does she seem like she is interested or playing games?!?! LIBRAS HELP ME!

blablabla he's still right, you're both playing motherf@cking games, how old are you people?

"She wanted me to admit I liked her and had feelings. I wasn't budging and I wanted her to admit the same but she wouldn't and was very tight lipped"

so you have feelings or what? whats there to hide?

wheres @Emhendo at when is needed ლ,ᔑ•ﺪ͟͠•ᔐ.ლ teach these hoes the way

so many crazy bittches comming lately ( ⚆ _ ⚆ )
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😂😂😂. I'm 29. She's 27 end of Sept. I have a crush and I know if we continue I'll develop feelings for sure
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OK well I couldn't hold it anymore and I ended up spilling it all over text. We were texting about random things and she said something that triggered a reaction. Anyway I laid my cards out and she came clean and admitted that there's definitely something between us but she doesn't want it to go further and she loves my attention and the way I am toward her and look at her. She doesn't know why she loves it but she does and that it's incredibly selfish to keep acting the way she does. She said she really wants us to be friends if I want that too.

Safe to say I got my answer and it was what I assumed 🙂