L:ibra women/Cancer men

are there any other Libras in here who have dealt with Cancer men?Are they worth it?Do they tend to play a lot of head games?im a Libra with a Cancer moon ,does that have any thing to do with why im attracted to Cancer men?(even though they give me headaches)but the sex is good

As i cancer, i will only play head games if someone is doing it with me too, i noticed a particular Libra lady looking relaxed and content on the weekend, till she saw me dancing or speaking to other women and her face would change until the other women were not giving attention then she was ok again, with this particular woman i did not want to play head games with her as i have enough respect for her and had no feeling to start acting that way. i just enjoyed the night instead.

I think having some water in your chart has to help, because otherwise these two don't really go together. Being cautious and indecisive looks like headgames sometimes, we're just insecure at first. Well, not just at first.

Hi Cocopuffz,

Well, my first serious b/f was a cancer. I was young and have changed quite a bit through the years, but things were good for the first couple of years. He was very protective, loving, doting, and as time went on very possesive. When I say possesive, I dont mean jealous, just that I was his and that was that. When I began to mature a bit (he was a bit older), I wanted something more. I needed to see what life was all about. My cancer was a homebody, comfortable with our circle of friends. As a libra, I needed to know everyone and everything, social butterfly dont cha know. When the break up occured, he became quite distraught, now it would be reffered as stalking. He was my "first", maybe that is why the possesivness, but I wouldn't change a thing. It was a wonderful learning experience. Good luck, I have many Cancer friends and enjoy them all.

Sunshine...

I was with a Cancer Man for five years .best match for me




There are some similarities between you, and also some significant differences in your temperaments and needs.

Both of you are thoughtful, considerate, sensitive to, and aware of, other people's needs. Having good personal relationships is very important to both of you, and you make harmony and pace in your personal lives a very high priority. You both avoid conflict and confrontation if at all possible.

The differences are thus: Libra is more objective, rational, and fair compared to Cancer, who is subjective, emotional, and biased by personal sympathies and loyalties. Though seemingly sympathetic, Libra can be surprisingly cool and intellectual when problems arise between the two of you. Cancer responds very personally and emotionally. Libra needs more communication and conversation than Cancer seems to.

Also, Libra wants to relate as an equal and a peer, while Cancer wants to mother or be mothered by a partner. So Cancer is more comfortable with becoming emotionally or financially dependent on a partner (or having the partner dependent in that way), while Libra wants a more egalitarian relationship. These differences can cause misunderstandings between you, but rarely are they a source of major conflict.

Both of you try very hard to please and accommodate people, especially your love partner, and you are both very sensitive to others' approval and opinion of you. Because harmony in your personal life is so important to both of you, you go out of your way to try and make one another comfortable and at ease. Both of you, in fact, feel very threatened by interpersonal conflict and you sometimes avoid confronting the more thorny problems or underlying differences in your emotional natures, however.

Cancer wants and needs security, reassurance, a home, a sense of belonging, close family ties. Cancer needs to be needed, is inclined to smother loved ones, and may be more of a mother or father than lover to Libra. Libra, on the other hand, wants a romantic partners more than a parent. So differences may arise regarding loyalties to family (Cancer) versus giving time and attention to the two of you as a couple (Libra).

Also, Cancer is often more emotional and "irrational" than Libra, who is usually more even, cool-headed, and reasonable than Cancer is.

You are inclined to become very annoyed with each other over minor differences. Irritations over small differences of opinion and a tendency to be inconsiderate towards each other can make you both feel uncomfortable. These annoyances are not likely to lead to major upsets or seriously threaten the stability of your relationship, but they are a nuisance. You must learn to respect the differences in your temperaments and personal habits, and strive to be aware of each other's needs.

You enjoy going out together and you will develop a love for the same friends, groups, and social activities. As a couple, you are outgoing and friendly, and will meet lots of new people and share many new experiences together.

You may join clubs and associations or spend many leisure hours at your favourite haunt. Catching up with others, brings a lot of meaning and satisfaction to you both. Lots of social exchange, chit-chat, gossip and fun times are your cup-of-tea.

Circumstances develop so that the two of you become very active together in community affairs, socialising, or political/social action. Together the two of you explore many social circles and develop a wide variety of friends and acquaintances.

The romantic and sexual attraction between you is almost irresistible. This relationship is one that was probably "more than just friends" from the start. The intensity of your feelings for one another is unlikely to fade over time, and you find much fulfilment in your love for each other.

You love each other very

Thanks for sharing this information, I am sure it has helped anyone who is in a libra/cancer relationship situation to understand the dymamics of the union better.

I had a Cancer guy friend who was...misleading...hmmm. I'm not quite sure. Very often though, he had the tendency to overexagerate things, or blow things out of proportion. Tend to be fairly emotional, but attached once they commmit to someone.

cocopuffs is good cereal...yyyup

Yumm! I kind of like cocopuffs also, lol.

i'm a cancerian with lot of love.....i think cancerian are the best to date...cos they r always ready for sacrifice

Not in my experience with a cancer guy. He was so insecure and protective with his own feelings and afraid to let go any feeling or emotion in the beginning of relationship. I have so many fire signs in my chart so I didnt have much patience to wait untill he would let himself out of the shell...

But he was sweet, caring and tender...

Hey

I dated a CANCER MAN for 6 years ..it was great we had a good time but Cancers take awhile to open up to anyone ..we are no longer dating because he took a long time to open up and show his feelings dont get me wrong we went out to the finest places and he dined me very well..anyway when he finally open up I lost my patience

after the break up he tok it very hard ....

A cancer is great for a libra who seeks comfort in someone who has the same energy as you but beware of how long it will take for them to open