Age gap

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by jl_fiona on Monday, June 13, 2005 and has 6 replies.

Do Cancer Men Worry About Age Gaps in Relationships

Cancer men may feel comfortable with age differences, especially if emotional connection is strong. An 11-year age gap might concern some, but their focus often remains on compatibility and feelings rather than age. The zodiac sign of the partner, like Gemini, influences dynamics, but individual preferences vary widely.

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@jl_fiona
21 Years

Do Cancer guys worry about the age gap? Does it bother them if the girl is a lot younger than them? What is the girl is 11 yrs. younger than the guy? Would that bother a Cancer guy....and the girl is Gemini? Just curious.

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21 Years1,000+ Posts

jl fiona!
This thing about age gap is the universal thing. The research studies show that ideally htere shouldnt be more than 5 years difference between a couple either way. But then many connections are break all the research findings and general norms. Teh sexual attraction is very strong when age gap is more ..either way..but then there is generation gap which affects the communication level of the couple with huge age difference. And this comes up once the early euphoria of sexual enticement settles down.

If the cancer guy in question is concerned abotu th age gap..he is just being realistic. He must be aware that the relationship in the long run wont work. See the younger partner will m ost likely outgrow the older one. And the older partner may be soemwhat liek a mentor. Liek anti-biotics and alcohol dont go together, mentorship & being a lover/partner wont work together for long...in majority of the case.

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@yaline
21 YearsCapricorn

Hi JL Fiona,
Does he mention that he is concerned about it? And if he does, did he tell you why?
Im not a gemini but I have been with a cancer male for several years now and he is 11 yrs older than me. The age gap has never been a real issue. Not for us or for anyone else.

Yaline

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Older men always float my boat...My Pisces is at least 10 years older than me. I think it is a matter of the mind state of the person. I know some 40 years olds that act more childish than some 20 yr. olds.

Cancerlady