cancer and lilbra!

DO u cancers seem to hold ur emotions when you really like a girl?? i am a libra and i felt like this cancer guy really liked me but he couldnt express is emotions to me, so after 3 months, i got inpatient...and things ended up kinda bad....but i miss him, and i wonder...what it would have been like if he would have just expressed to me what he felt—?? do u think it was worng of me that i got so inpatient w/ him??

Let me know PLease!

I am a Libra female ....... I dated a Cancer for 5 YEARS with NO and I mean NO commitment .....CANCERS protect their interest and until they deem you as someone they want around them and on what terms they want you around them, they tend to take along time to open up their shells .......once they gain your trust you have them ..........and I think at three months is a little to early..... you should tell him you miss him and you may want to share the fact that you want to be with him exclusively but give it a try and some TIME...good luck ..I have been there me and my cancer are still friends I dont REGRET time we have spent even if it was FIVE YEARS

You could try actually speaking or showing some interest instead of that shy smile. I know that libras tend to wait for prince charming to do everything, but the cancer needs a sign or two, he's insecure, he won't put himself out there if he has no idea what you're feeling.

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Hahaha mr. crabby you answer every single question in a thread like a cancer should lol. You're authentic.

Anyways, one of my best friends is a cancer and he'll begin to warm up to you, Ana, once you give him a reason to go ahead and get closer to you. He'll never ever ever get close until he FEELS that it's what he's SUPPOSED to be doing haha. Libras can make it happen too! So do it well, and you'll really have no problem keeping that Cancer hooked on your presence (they may stalk you). < But you'd want that right?

Take Care,
Elliot!

Well, i'm cancer with cancer rising, i can't hide. And i've stalked a libra before, she didn't seem to mind too much. I wouldn't do that anymore though.

we already broke things off though!! do u think he'll come back??
Thee was a lot of lack of communication..and frustration!!! but
i miss him A LOT!!

by the way, what do u mean by stalk??

I used to walk with her in the morning when she went to work. We'd chat about stuff. She liked me, but i was way too young.

sun in cancer, cancer rising, moon in virgo, venus in leo

Are you gonna give me some insight or something? 😉

Hi Ana,
I'm sorry to hear that you broke up with your Cancer.I was in a similar situation a while back. I think if he really likes you, then there's a good chance he'll come back.Cancer's have this thing about the past, they find it hard to totally let go of something they truly desired. So give him time...they are slow learners when it comes to matters of the heart.

"I used to walk with her in the morning when she went to work."

Umm, Mr.C, I'm not sure you were actually stalking her,sounds like she enjoyed your company as much you did...that's not stalking (I've authentic stalker experience,so I know what I'm talking about).😉

I was intruding in a way, she was pretty suprised the first time, i tell ya. Well, i did do a big BOOO, eh eh.

So you're canadian and you're cute enough for stalking, good to know...

I don't like to think of it as stalking...we Cancers are RARELY agressive and when I think stalker I think agressive.

I prefer to think of it as perserverance in the face of adversity...Yeah that's it!

I'm from the year of the rooster too, what about him?

Oh yeah Ana....I would definitely call him or send him a card (that would be even better) saying how much you miss him & you wish things could have turned out differently because he is somebody you could see yourself with (something to that effect)

Mesuline was right about the past...if it was a pleasant one, we would rather go back & revisit that than venture into the unknown! Also Elliot was right about giving more hints...we are NOT going to put our hearts out there if it is not a sure thing, and from my experience you Libra's DO like for others to make all the moves!

Good Luck, I wanna know how it goes!

"Oh yeah Ana....I would definitely call him or send him a card (that would be even better) saying how much you miss him & you wish things could have turned out differently because he is somebody you could see yourself with (something to that effect)."

CL,I think that's a wonderful idea b/c he might be afraid of intruding.Ana, I think you should take CL's advise.I'm sure this will do the trick.Good Luck!

"So you're canadian and you're cute enough for stalking, good to know..."

Mr.C, be careful, don't let me get started again with the flirting thing.
I'm trying very hard here,honestly. 😛

hey..yea im just gonna give it time..i cant seem to call him though, i feel like if he really liked me and wants to be w/ me..he'll be back!! sometimes in life u have to take chances...i was really hurt by him though..anyways, ill keep u guys posted!!

THANKS A MILLION

STOP BEING STUBBORN!

Why do women ALWAYS leave it up to the man? Don't you think THEY get tired of taking all the risks of rejection? What could it hurt you to call or write him a nice note, text message, etc?

Even if you don't mention the relationship, it might just be the nudge he needs to get him on track. Don't just sit around and wait for love to come to you...GO GET IT!

You obviously like this boy enough that he is on your mind alot, so I say GO FOR IT! Like one of my favorite member's name here...SEIZE THE DAY!

I'm rooting for you! Unless there was something really bad about him that you aren't mentioning here—

CL/CM2

Awww.. Cheers to you TOO CL/CM2!!!