Letting people go

Let's say you meet new people , offcourse you are friendly etc etc doing the libra thing. BUT you feel like you don't want to hang out with those people but they want to hang out with you. Cause you find them boring or irritating but then again you don't want to hurt those people by saying " hey f-off i don't like you ".

But what happens them you come up with exhausting excuses and they want your attention more and more.
How do you blow them off ?

Just be honest... in a nice way. Why can't Libra's just be straight?

My ex-Libra borrowed a towel from a colleague of mine at the gym. This was about 2 weeks ago. Now, it is my problem. She has told the whole office about this. I told her it is not my problem. And I was not there. So, I would rather stay out of it.

She called him to ask for her towel yesterday. So, maybe he wanted to know who gave her his number. She must have said me. So, he pitched up at my office and says that she is a nuisance and just went on and on. She is irritating and just because I speak to her doesn't mean we are friends. How busy, hectic he is and he doesn't have time for stupid things. .He showed me the towel. He has been using it so I said that he can't give it back to her like that .And I suggest that he just goes and buys her some nice guest towels to say thank you. He went on with his ranting she gave him and old towel and why must he go buy her other towels.

All I said is you borrowed her towel and now she wants it back. I really don't see how she is bothering you.

Of course he was nice to her didn't tell her all the rubbish he told me. He is such a smooth operator charmed the pants off her and he invited her to lunch Thursday... was amusing to watch.

Today has just been a crazy day. People(4) I have not seen or spoken to for years (2-4 years)all of the sudden called me this morning literally one after the other. Then I bumped into my exx- Pisces while filling up the car. Then I coughed and I hurt my back. It is still sore. Can't go home have a presentation due on Thursday. Now ex-Libra. It is just ridiculous .It is quiet strange?
My birthday is tommorrow.

It's just the way Librans are. They hate confronting anyone no matter what.

I can understand that... but Libra can save others a lot of heartache if you just say listen. I don't want a friendship or relationship with you. Or just saying listen I am just really busy but I will bring your towel soon.don't think saying that to someone is confronting. Your just being honest.

I had nothing to do with them and the gym and the towel.Now he has to talk my ear off about things that I don't even care about.
And why would you want to give someone back a dirty towel.It's just so crazy

Say nothing at all, they should get the picture. I'm Libra but I'm getting bored with the hanging on.

ahmen to that

((Let's say you meet new people , offcourse you are friendly etc etc doing the libra thing. BUT you feel like you don't want to hang out with those people but they want to hang out with you.))

nice. I am going through the same situation. There are people whom i really want to avoid right now and stay away from them. I avoid responding to them like how i used to do.

Happy Birthday Bella79:-)

thanks ,b_bs4u :-)

((Don,t lead people on you will hurt them more than if you just told them directly.))

I agree

((Don,t lead people on you will hurt them more than if you just told them directly.))

As a Libran I must say it's one of the worst traits of Librans. They just can't do it before they make it worse😢

Bella79, if you don't mind me asking, by any chance are you from South Africa? I saw you referring to JHB in one of your message in a different thread.

Cool! I am in JHB for a little more than 2 years. Though I work in CBD, it's so far so good:-) I like this place in a way.

There seem to be a lot of angry people on the LIbra board these days...some seem to only come on here to abuse....WTF?

"Libra can save others a lot of heartache if you just say listen. I don't want a friendship or relationship with you"

first of all, I don't believe this is strictly a libra trait. So many people meet others they don't feel like developing a relationship with and are not forthright about their feelings, they fade into the woodwork and don't respond.

Second...I am a libra to the 5th degree (5 planets in libra) and I have 0 problem letting people know when they are getting on my nerves, when I think they are wrong about something, or when they are simply bad people. I say what's on my mind to their face and never behind their back.

tell em u got locked up or just keep talking to em till they get tired of you

22Diddy02, sorry if I offended you or any other Libra.