Libra & Aries

Libra guy here just want to ask your opinions regarding the Aries ladies. I want to know more about the lady rams. I have this aries lady who got my attention. I just want to know more about the aries type. All insights would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

Headstrong,does'nt want to be ignored by any means,very passionate!Also very loyal and likes the chase.

"You shut up, she will tell you what you have to do". That will be your lifelong motto. She is just ur opposite in everything. You think too much. She dont even know what it means by thinking. You worry before u do things, she worry after she has done something. Target and aim are same like yours but methods are totally opposite. She thinks she need someone who can emotionally support her but dont get much emotional with her or get obsessed. She love to chase and you are meant to just obey like a nice kid. She will ask you out, propose to you and do whatever she want to do, you are only meant to listen to her and obey her orders. Anyway its not bad listening to an Aries bcoz they hardly make mistakes. Her decisions might look stupid in the beginning but slowly you will get to see how well she handles it and takes the prize. She has everything you dont have and you have everything she dont have.


thats enuf for a start rite? 😉

Cool. Keep them coming. I'm learning a lot here. Thanks for the insights.

she'll burn you up.

All you need to know about Aries women is that we're very complusive. we do whatever comes to our heads the min it gets into our heads. very instinctive and always on the move. we like challenges and are constantly attracted to people with a confidence. i personally dont enjoy walking all over people and i wouldnt date someone who couldnt stand up to me. but dont mix the idea that any aries would be with someone who puts them down either. we're very absent mindedly flirty, we can become jealous (typically when provoked or good reason), we have a tendancy to see through the bs, but love to be sweet talked. We DO think a lot, but our minds are ever changing so it's not always on the same topic, i cant say for all, but i hate obessive ppl along with people who are far to emotional.. its difficult to be around a person when an aries personality is so ... blunt. some say we're reckless, others say we're outgoing and spontaneous. it all depends on ur cup of tea!

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LoL. That's funny Atom. 🙂

yea yea im probably a typical aries through and through, but hey deep down we're very loving and sweet hearts. easy to please, i've heard the ref more than once... we're like those little puppies u see in the window, needing attention and treats. just be nice, listen and always teach us new tricks. nothing better then free knowledge

Work my mind and my body. Don't be lazy, don't be boring. Don't be easy, but don't be too hard to get. Be romantic but detached. Be in love but independent. Walk the walk and talk the talk. And in exchange I'll be... anything and everything you've ever desired. Enough info for you? Hihihi. I am too an aries in a love/friendship/partnesrhip relation with a libra. And enjoying every minute of it. Well with little exceptions. Be more specific and I'll tell you more.

I don't know many Aries ladies. I am, however, happily dating an Aries man. He is simply wonderful.

He is fun, creative, warm, patient (I know. Go figure!), affectionate and kind. He is a wonderful partner and his ease in the world puts me at ease in the world, if you know what I mean. He has a wonderful ability to relax me. I seriously think I just slept for the first three months we dated. lol! He also solves problems so easily. I will be thinking, and thinking, and thinking and he will just say, "well we can always ...." and then I will laugh because it is so simple. lol! Of course, I do that for him too when he is stuck so it works out.

He is very intune with me too and sensitive to my moods. He picks them up immediately so we really don't fight because the problem is solved before it begins.

The only problems we have encountered is a) we tend to relax each other a lot so we can get a little domestic and lethargic and b) he always wants to do whatever I want to do. Sometimes I don't mind saying, "let's go here!" but I really don't like the responsibility having to make all the decisions about where/what we are eating or where/what we are doing. Aside from that, I have never had a moments worry. He is really a great guy through and through.

I really think the trick with any fire sign is to love them but in a detached way ... which for us air signs is the way we do it anyway. He can come and go as he pleases. I can come and go as I please. For me, it is just a really warm, loving, affectionate relationship there isn't much to complain about. lol!

I think one of the most amazing things he has done is brought back the concept of "we" to my life. He really talks about us as a "we" which intially I distrusted because of so many bad experiences, but now I am quite secure and happy in the relationship. Our decisions are made on the we factor. We really are a couple and he treats our relationship as such.

After WAY too many years with a virgo it is such a relief to have that again.

I find because our relationship is so stable and happy, we aren't in any rush. We just enjoy our time together doing whatever. And really? Isn't that what it is all about?

I hope if things work out with you and your Aries lady it will be as wonderful as my relationship is turning out to be.

Okay. I will stop gushing now. lol!

oops...we've been made---by little sparrow. we're so uncomplicated in a complicated way.

I have known a couple libra male/Aries girl combos. One great, the other disaster. I guess it depends on the individuals and where they are. I notice that the Aries girl sort of spoils the libra guy... Actually really spoil them. However, she doesn't get that in return, but again, that is one example.

**QS, she's my libra male mentor and I'm just giving her a shout out. HEY GIRL✨**

Heeeeyyyy Chi buddy! Yeah, I have learned so much about libras. I have also grown to love them and respect them. They have a lot of stregnths that anyone can learn from as others have things they can learn from to. The most thing that I have learned from libras that help me deal with others is being more logical than emotional (imagine that for a scorp). Also the manylevels they can love and care for people. Which often confuses people, but inspires me.

Its oppositional and it can be tense, oppositional in the esoteric sense that what Aries has Libra doesn't have and vise versa but it can workout.

WoW. That's a lot of insight Arianlatay. Thanks for contributing on this thread especially being an aries lady yourself.

And thanks to everyone ofcourse who contributed as well. Most of your comments are exact reflection of this aries lady that I like. We'll see what happens though. She is already with someone now. It's like that show the office. Jim likes pam but pam is with roy etc. We get along so well though and I really like how she is really aloof just like pam. Thanks again everyone.

Escape plan—? It won't work. You're stuck.

(( Escape plan—? It won't work. You're stuck. ))


hahahahahaha.... lol... way true.

Aries may seem very flirty with people unknowingly at the begining but when they form a more serious long term relationship they can be one of the most loyal people you will ever meet and they would never cheat on you, but they expect the same amount of loyalty from thier partner otherwise behold the aries temper!!!

"What Aries has, Libra doesn't and vise versa and it can be worked out"

Quite true, unless the Libra chooses to be "led" by his other friends and acquaintances, gets the looses trust in the Aries because of outside influences and chooses to believe that person is a "liar" and never meant anything they said or promised.

All Aries are different, just like all Libras are different....it just depends on who clicks with who and their maturity.

Man! someone dug deep for this one. I'm a libra and she's Aries combo, but it's hell on wheels. Can't figure out why I can't let go.... but I'm getting better. I think she just has to get to her 30s, she's full of game and B I O T C H right now.

Sometimes it's entertaining and other times it's painful, but I'm developing the Aries show no emotions attitude and I actually like it. I'm surprised at how well I'm staying away from her, but she's Aries so now she's chasing. Thanks to some advice from Dancing. Still standing in line for the next rollercoaster ride.

Since I'm not the W H O R E most people think Libras are, I'm patient. I just got to stop being so damn stupid for her at times. The boredom is getting greater, it's about time.

This is just a personal venting ..... carry on ... but thanks for reading. 😉

FA, I find it strange that you are not the typical Aries but yet you have so much to say about the Arian women. So all of the above doesn't apply to you? I'm getting rather bored about how the Libra doesn't go all the way. I think we are too expressive about our love to anyone that we love. If the Aries women doesn't want to hear it, that's on them. Aries usually looks at someone that's into them as soft and the chase is over. It's you F U C K E R S that don't want to commit. Libras are not that damn indecisive, it's when someone doesn't agree with our decision or can't understand the decision. Then we are so indecisive. Libras like to take our time before going full force with someone. That's call making a DECISION. We rarely make mistakes unlike the Aries, that goes in head first (Ram right into things without thought). My Aries tells me all the time that she's not good with emotions. So we just be, or not be.

FA, I feel like you just wrote a detailed summary about my personality! Scary~ which decan are you?

I have to admit... we are both so much alike just our tendencies in the background of why we do them are different.
We are both indecisive. Libra are FAR more indecisive so much mroe they need the Aries to put their foor down and decide for them.
Libras get clingy.
Aries gets attached.
Libras get confused they go off and think adn decide.
Aries get confused they run off until some time passes by.
Both don't like to deal with the past. What happened happened.
Aries are blunt.
Libras say things as they are.
Emotionally: Libras a verbally "communication" expressive, whereas Aries is physically "action" expressive.

JOJOJO

From what I have gone through personally and from what I have read from many on these boards is that Libra does ram in without thought and then pulls back..Which is okay and their decision but in the process they have really hurt someone and to top that off they want you to hang around and not move forward until they make a decision..There in lies the push pull and indecisive comments from those that have been hurt..

In my situation he was recently separated with two little chilren, he pursued me for quite awhile before I dated him..Then we dated and we hit it off and then he said he was scared..Too much to deal with the kids, the ex wife ect..Which is understandable but why didn't he think about these things before he dated me, told me he was going to marry me and let me fall in love with him..
And then play these push pull games for a year...

I personally think that a lot of libra men do rush in (especially when u are younger) and u get hurt and lord have mercy on the rest of the woman that fall in love with U after u get your heart broken..

Cold, I have never seen someone be so warm, loving and caring and turn into someone so detached, cold and bitter.. I think fa makes some good points but only in regards to libras who have been really hurt in the past..

dont be so arrogant a lot of male libras are sooo damn arrogant.

lol - it's an air sign trait - superior attitude...

The Libra I was discussing above was married to an aries and she cheated on him but he choose to stay with her for two years and live with it..I can see why this marriage did not work out if it consisted of the same behaviors that I was seeing..The games, the fear of intimacy, ignoring and coldness..Aries like leos have strong personalities and a lot of pride..

These behaviours lead to hurt, resentment and a struggle with your pride..

Aries man/Libra woman has a bigger change to succeed then libra m/aries f.

The aries/libra couple's i know ( that are still together after 2 years ) are aries M / Libra F.


I've dated 3 aries girls so far and it's always the same story...
Big love at first , disaster afterwards...

I would say that Libra believes in love at first sight, and we will pursue but doesn't mean we are in love. We love the physical attraction and yes Ram right into it, but once the inside picture of the beautiful women is blurred. We pull out before we cum .... lol. I always try to get the know the women from the inside first. But because of my perfectionist ways, there's usually something I will find, that will make me cold and turn away. I don't see that as being INDECISIVE. I see that as saying "look, let's not waste our time here". Myself as a Libra has a hard time of letting things go. If I see you doing something that I don't like over and over. Then once I get turned off it's hard for me to get turned back on. FA did bring up some valid points, I just have a problem with the indecisive thingamagig. I think "indecisive" is me calling home and saying are you cooking dinner tonight. she says, well I can but I'm a little tired but no problem. I say, well that's okay just order a pizza. Bye honey, love you, see you in a minute. I get home, pizza there, still hot ... and MY CRAZY ASS SAY ... I thought you were going to cook, you know I like your cooking. Then I'm pissed and cold towards her the rest of the night. Of course, I'm going to try to make it up to her in bed, but HELL NO.... cause when a woman is fed up, there's noting you can do about it. I made a decision and now I'm mad about it, maybe that's crazy and not indecisive. I really can't believe a Libra will let someone that we know truly love us, get away, I just don't see it, I don't care what the horoscope is. But I also don't agree with hurting someone and trying to remain there friend, move on.

I'll be very honest here. I think Aries is really bad for libra.
I have known aries my whole life and they have never been good for my emotional wellbeing.

Except my father, who is a very loving aries - still, i can only come into contact with him for a while.

I may be biased here, but having been betrayed by an aries woman close friend, i know basically aires and libra should stay far from each other emotionally, and romantically. There is not alot of harmony in the long run. Libra is all about the partner, aries is all about the self. Libra truly loses in the end.

I know i am right. I really pity libra males with aries females- and i have seen many.

Also, aries women are truly alot better off with a man they can respect - the libra man is the antithesis of assertiveness - what the aries woman really needs in a partner.

The libra man usually gives in to the aries woman because of her power over him - alot of the time he really wants to get away.

"aries is all about the self."

Not all. I gave more than I received in my last relationship. You're right that "aries women are truly alot better off with a man they can respect." In my case, I don't like to control men(I don't like to dominate in relationships, I mean it just make you look bad in front of friends >.

Not really spica. Its really exciting to be with an Aries girl.

FA - Bravo!

hmmmm..... the question here is do I agree with you or just keeping the peace? Huh—

''the libra man is the antithesis of assertiveness''

Erm, I think not! They want to appear this way, kinda passive/aggressive - so everyone forgets they're a Cardinal sign. That's why a lot of people regard Libra as manipulative, I just think leadership and venus oppose 🙂
I also think an unbalanced Libra has a way of giving in to avoid trouble and everyone can appear to take them for a ride not only Aries.

Yes Aries may be the sign of the self, can go alone towards goals but Libra projects self onto any partnership to achieve goals, so more of how does this person see me. Libra has the forethought so knows what they're out to get from the beginning, Aries sees the goal but not with the insight. They're both high levels of self-involvement.

''Its really exciting to be with an Aries girl.''
''They just "put up" with each other. And you should never date girl because she is exciting you will end up hurting her''

I don't think he meant it like that BS. I have a close Libra male friend - always have - I'm an Aries female. He says something similar and I say something similar to him too. It's exciting as I want adventure and he always comes for the ride but brings some sophistication which makes life so much easier for me in the long run. I push him on the little decision stuff but know when to back off but also call him on his manipulation which he now admits to. He does exactly the same for me - questions my decisions.

Libra females on the other hand are almost exactly Aries women but with the cute smiles and cute outfits - very very aggressive and shrewd 😉

Like any opposing signs, there are good and bad and they are not fixed signs so some other planetary compatibility helps but with romance or friendship, they stand to learn a lot from the other. Emotionally and physically fire signs can exhaust anybody while air signs can be emotionally lacking...balance still needed - comes with maturity, education, etc, from both parties.

"I'll be very honest here. I think Aries is really bad for libra."


I totally agree...I think Libras and Aries aren't a good match at all. I think most opposites are a bad match truthfully, and this is one where they are just too different and they rub each other the wrong way.

Disagree: That's like saying all men cheat!!! Not all Aries were a good thing for me. But I take each one as individuals, and yes similar traits are present. My Aries and I didn't make it in a relationship but she can't let me go and vice versa. She's got some ways that almost made me catch a case, then there are ways that makes me want to go shopping for a ring.

But the Aries woman has brought strength in life that I thought I could never achieve. And a big THANK YOU goes out to you B I O T C H E S (I mean that in a good way FA). I think if Libra stop wanting to be right and just watch the Aries, there's a lot of positive things to learn. Even when the negative happens to Aries, usually something positive can be learned as well. One of my biggest lessons is and I think I've said it before. Learning how to move on and not ponder on past events is a great addition for me personally. And Aries should learn from Libra that it's okay to just watch and observe sometimes. Not all diamonds shine for long.

FA a Libra will never work for you becuase of the way you think. Negative energy, negative feedback.

Like any opposing signs, there are good and bad and they are not fixed signs so some other planetary compatibility helps but with romance or friendship, they stand to learn a lot from the other. Emotionally and physically fire signs can exhaust anybody while air signs can be emotionally lacking...balance still needed - comes with maturity, education, etc, from both parties.

WELL SAID Z!!!

lol Arian - why if I may ask?

"spica- I'm sorry to hear about your bad experience with that Aries. My close Aries female friend sold me out one time too."

No worries. That one was a sociopath.. she had no heart and always lied and manipulated. I think it is one tendency of Aries because they control so well. But, to say all aries are like that would be my fault. 🙂

"Not really spica. Its really exciting to be with an Aries girl."

Oh, so exciting. I know that too. Aries are like the batteries of Libra. I believe an Aries can run a Libra if allowed. Too bad if the libra follows without any thought.

"it would never workout in the longrun because aries and libra never will have genuine love for each other . They just "put up" with each other."

The love can be genuine, but betrayal will be a main theme. Libra will always feel shortchanged and their aura broken. Tolerance is not a basis of a relationship. It is draining and wears both out soon enough.

"All of the Librans I've known I've found them be very indecisive and manipulative and passive-aggressive and they were all worked psychologists or therapists for a living, yet they were very unbalanced and had a lot of personal issues of their own."

At least they try to give a fair chance to others 😛

"I totally agree...I think Libras and Aries aren't a good match at all. I think most opposites are a bad match truthfully, and this is one where they are just too different and they rub each other the wrong way."

Amen.

"I also think an unbalanced Libra has a way of giving in to avoid trouble and everyone can appear to take them for a ride not only Aries."

Hmm, appearance and reality are different. Aries really takes them for a ride, if allowed to. Key word is allowed. Usually a libra who loves aries will ALLOW anything. Same with an aries who loves libra. BUT, libra loses in the end because Mars is all about WANT. I can only see Aries GIVING to someone more powerful than them, and it is definitely not Libra (because they hate arguments). Most likely scorpio.

OMG, FA you got it sweetie. RAH RAH RAH SISH BOOM BAH!!! GOOOOO FA!!!!

Ouch FA .... Low Blow. Oh yes, she and they were all heart breakers.

Oh F-A is a girl.. sorry, need to switch context 😛

"I don't like one-sidedness, and if I sense that happening within my relationships, I speak up or I walk away."

Since when did you turn into a Libra? Alot of Aries represent the bitch who takes and then drops the hapless "lover"

"Strength of a person has nothing to do with the act of giving."

Yes, BUT, respect seems to have to do alot for aries... and respect is found in strength, it seems.

"Giving should come from the heart and unconditionally if you love and care about someone."

Thats why there are so many torn lovers.. thats what they do without expecting anything in return.

"I've been in a relationship for five years with a wonderful Virgo man who loves me for all that I am and all that I'm not, and I him."

Wow, square relationships are really challenging. I wonder if you think they are worse than opposite relationships.

NOW I'M DIZZY !

((Oh, so exciting. I know that too. Aries are like the batteries of Libra. I believe an Aries can run a Libra if allowed. Too bad if the libra follows without any thought.))


Thats the whole point. Aries women can make the same decision a libra man would make within a shorter period of time. what we spend days deducting, they just do it using their instincts. I have met so many Aries girls ever since i figured out how an aries brain works. Am still searching for some negative points about them. still havent found any. They also mature and learn a lot with age.

and bs, what exactly are the parameters to identify two people as in love? I am beginning to get bored of the word love. it sounds like God issue. No definite meaning, no sensible explanation. its kinda spoooky stuff which everyone use here and there.

Yes, BUT, respect seems to have to do alot for aries... and respect is found in strength, it seems.

Hmm, appearance and reality are different. Aries really takes them for a ride, if allowed to. Key word is allowed. Usually a libra who loves aries will ALLOW anything. Same with an aries who loves libra. BUT, libra loses in the end because Mars is all about WANT. I can only see Aries GIVING to someone more powerful than them, and it is definitely not Libra (because they hate arguments). Most likely scorpio.

Spica, I think you're taking the strength thing too literarily...what kind of strength/power are we talking about here?

I also see some of the passive-aggressive thing in your posts --- I've seen Libras taken for a ride by Libras, Aquas, Aries and other signs. I've noticed Libra uses the word Love, losely as they can convince themselves they love someone but I'm not sure they know the actual meaning of the term --- blame Venus 😉

Again, Libra I've never seen lose out much, unless they allow it - the Mars power thing with Aries and the Partnership thing with Libra seems to be taken literarily here. Some of the most self-involved people I've come across have been Libras where their idea of partnership is actually to get others to do what Libra actually wants. On the other hand, I've seen Aries that have no aggression and are frequently taken for a ride but even hey don't know it. I think every sign has this same aspect.

*they don't know it