Aries woman and Libra man can it really work?

I married a libra male going on 7 yrs now. We have been through a lot. Me giving and him not giving as much. Can this really work?

Thanks so much.
I was never into signs or what they meant until a friend of mind started talking about signs. I will have to look up his sign in more detail.

I should think that after 7 years of marriage (nearly) .. you would be better equipped to know if you two are going to make it or not, regardless of your astrological placements.

To want to explore traits according to these planets is fun, but, no absolute when it comes to compatibility.

Sorry about your marriage not feeling as though it's on equal ground, and I hope you can figure it out.

Doll

Aries do tend to give A LOT to their lovers. Perhaps if you take the focus off him and the marriage and more into doinging/giving yourself what you need to be happy it would balance things out. Marriage is hard. Some years harder than others. Best of luck.

Little_sparrow

Thanks this is something that I tell my self to do however it never happens. I know that aries are giving people and we are taken advantage majority of the time.

My spouse and I continue to talk about the future where we are going to be in 5 yrs it seems promising during the conversation, I am just going to be patience. Things had gotten so bad that I cheated on him, told him what happenend and we still back together isn't that something.

I think what feels really disturbing to me about this is that, from my perspective when I read inbetween the lines, it appears as though it is felt that the marriage might have some issues that need working on, and that's quite normal, for every union has it's quirks that need to be ironed out .. but, so far, this has proceeded without any prior knowledge astrologically .. whatever ups and downs have taken place, has done so without consideration of planets, as it should be.

Astrology doesn't make a person ..

And I'm almost getting the impression that there's an answer being sought after as to why this marriage is feeling unbalanced and maybe this answer is in the stars .. and this is what is disturbing.

The answer to your attraction, to your love, to your heart, to your years of melding, to your issues, to everything thus far, has come from two people who are communicating with each other .. there is where the answer lies .. not astrology.

I guess .. this strikes me as a person "looking" to find a reason for something other than what lies within the man, himself, regardless of sun sign.

Please, just don't USE anything you find in your charts as reasons to make a life-change .. use your own personal experiences and judgement🙂

"Things had gotten so bad that I cheated on him, told him what happenend and we still back together isn't that something."

That is incrediable .. have you found that since that "episode" that this unbalancing has gotten worse, or better?

I mean .. did that make him stand up and take notice, or, make him withdraw further?

"Things had gotten so bad that I cheated on him, told him what happenend and we still back together isn't that something."

They say Libra is the most willing to overlook a cheating spouse or lover.

😛 @ P-angel.

They actually do say that.

Doll,

What do you need to be happy? Don't look at him i.e. if he held me more or complimented me more .... but look inward. What is it you are lacking from your life right now?

Cheating has nothing to do with the circumstances, I guess. Aries would naturally be tempted anyways.

I want to become more familiar with libras there characteristic and Traits.

As far as how he acted after I told him that I cheated he does not bring it up much but there are times when we are talking that he say something about it. I think about it all the time. I ask myself how could I do something like that? But, there is no changing the past.

Libras are possibly the most misunderstood sign. I blame the fact that we are the only inanimate object in the zodiac. Voyage over to the Libra board. We are generally self-aware and honest.