If you can avoid the committment of falling in love with a MARRIED CAP. then by all means do so... they most likely will not leave their spouse. I speak from experience with two.. both at the time of our affair were separated. But, neither managed to give up their marriages... they are devoted to their spouse... which is great if both in the marriage is happy... sad if not. If you're with a married cap...get out while you can without getting to hurt.