Libra indecisive??

I told this libra guy that I'm feeling some confusion from him, which is totally fine, and that I'm going to take some space. Because I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't know what they want. I said I know what I want, and if he does know what he want, let me know.

After that, I didn't hear anything from him, it's been two weeks since the last time we spoke. It look like he went cold and ignoring me.

Is he mad because of what I said??

I would not expect him to speak up!! What you said is fine, and if you said in the mature fashion you indicate, then he would respect you for that I am sure.

My experience with a Libra was that they do go 'quiet' on you..... whilst presumably collecting their thoughts, balancing the pros and cons, BUT also judging you quietly..... but at the end of the day, if they cannot communicate with you for whatever reason (and that means he cannot verbalise himself either way), then leave him alone, sorry.

I felt that the Libra was very good at verbalising the positive sides of our relationship, gushing at times to be honest, but when it came to overcoming bumps, i.e. negatives in a relationship, he just could not do that and shut down.

You could try to engage with him once more, to see if he is still there, but after that, I would say move on as hard as it may be?

what sign are you?

Posted by airati
I told this libra guy that I'm feeling some confusion from him, which is totally fine, and that I'm going to take some space. Because I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't know what they want. I said I know what I want, and if he does know what he want, let me know.

After that, I didn't hear anything from him, it's been two weeks since the last time we spoke. It look like he went cold and ignoring me.

Is he mad because of what I said??

so what if he is - move on ...

You know when a Libra likes you. Sign of relationships. We crave that shit, if he isnt on it, it means he is juggling other possibilities.

Posted by blackphase

Posted by heliumfiasco
You know when a Libra likes you. Sign of relationships. We crave that shit, if he isnt on it, it means he is juggling other possibilities.

This ^

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Cosign

When I first started dating my libra he just said "you're my girl now, ok?" And that was that.

The disappearing started when his life got crazy but even when he's gone, I always know that he loves me and never stopped. Broken up or not, they are pretty clear.

*edited for typos

Posted by heliumfiasco
You know when a Libra likes you. Sign of relationships. We crave that shit, if he isnt on it, it means he is juggling other possibilities.

Ouch! Op what sign are you?

Op, stand your ground and don't reach out first. He is just balancing his scales, he will return. I promise you.

He is going to respect your self-respect he is probably juggling other people trying to figure out if they have the same type of self-respect as you do to decide what it is that he wants.

he'll be back I promise you he will definitely definitely be back we love women with strong character.

Posted by airati
I told this libra guy that I'm feeling some confusion from him, which is totally fine, and that I'm going to take some space. Because I don't want to get closer to someone who doesn't know what they want. I said I know what I want, and if he does know what he want, let me know.

After that, I didn't hear anything from him, it's been two weeks since the last time we spoke. It look like he went cold and ignoring me.

Is he mad because of what I said??

Sometimes we need people to decide for us. In relationships (or prospectives) we may follow your lead to see where your head is at. You made the decision, he took it. Space it is.