Libra man says we should stay platonic!

So we met, 4 weeks ago!

He was super forward with his advances and I went along with it then, upon reflection I decided to check where we stood - By asking him if we could stop the sexual advances and just take it slow - and low and behold, he replied to my voice note, and like a gent he is he explained his situation and said he is not looking to waste my time visa versa and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I obliged without hesitation not wanting to look needy!

Of course I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling.. lol I lack patience and I read on here Libra's need a tonne of it 🙂 😉 Ooopsy!

But I wonder if I wounded him 😢 Is he likely to return to this Scorp?

When man say he wants to stay platonic - why can't you ladies understand he has no sexual

Attraction to you you?

HOW is

This not making you just want

To say FU and forget his name—

What's with desperation to MAKE him

Want me

When he said honestly NOOooooooo!

And who cares if he comes back to his former, past former, future woman—

Yes! He will have someone he wants to have sexy with!

Posted by Gemitati
When man say he wants to stay platonic - why can't you ladies understand he has no sexual

Attraction to you you?

HOW is

This not making you just want

To say FU and forget his name—

What's with desperation to MAKE him

Want me

When he said honestly NOOooooooo!

And who cares if he comes back to his former, past former, future woman—

Yes! He will have someone he wants to have sexy with!

Point of correction.. He is the one pursuing me (If you understand what that means) So I am the one pushing away from sex thank you very much!! So I was asking if I have wounded his ego by rejecting him.

Before being a keyboard warrior read the content!!!

Read your own post! He said no!

And you typed it!

Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
he explained his situation... and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling..

Platonic friends don't talk about their feels.

Posted by Seraphlight

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
he explained his situation... and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling..

Platonic friends don't talk about their feels.

Yes they do!

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No. They don't.

Posted by Seraphlight

Posted by Gemitati
When man say he wants to stay platonic - why can't you ladies understand he has no sexual

Attraction to you you?

HOW is

This not making you just want

To say FU and forget his name—

What's with desperation to MAKE him

Want me

When he said honestly NOOooooooo!

And who cares if he comes back to his former, past former, future woman—

Yes! He will have someone he wants to have sexy with!

I feel really really sorry for you.

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Same here. I am crying myself to sleep thinking about you...

Posted by Seraphlight

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Seraphlight

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
he explained his situation... and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling..

Platonic friends don't talk about their feels.

Yes they do!

No. They don't.

Well ok but Mine do with me.

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I wish you post an example so we all could drink for that!

But something tell me you wouldn't...

Walk. Just walk

Eliminate all contacts. Ghost.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
he explained his situation... and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling..

Platonic friends don't talk about their feels.

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Maybe like...lol...if you so my member - would you want to...never see it again or see it again?

Still pretty not platonic but semi- platonic?

Nah...

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
he explained his situation... and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling..

Platonic friends don't talk about their feels.

Maybe like...lol...if you so my member - would you want to...never see it again or see it again?

Still pretty not platonic but semi- platonic?

Nah...

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wut?

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
he explained his situation... and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling..

Platonic friends don't talk about their feels.

Maybe like...lol...if you so my member - would you want to...never see it again or see it again?

Still pretty not platonic but semi- platonic?

Nah...

wut?

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You've never been sharp!

Maybe when you older...lets hope!

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
he explained his situation... and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling..

Platonic friends don't talk about their feels.

Maybe like...lol...if you so my member - would you want to...never see it again or see it again?

Still pretty not platonic but semi- platonic?

Nah...

wut?

You've never been sharp!

Maybe when you older...lets hope!

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and you the sharp one between the two of us. lmao

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
he explained his situation... and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling..

Platonic friends don't talk about their feels.

Maybe like...lol...if you so my member - would you want to...never see it again or see it again?

Still pretty not platonic but semi- platonic?

Nah...

wut?

You've never been sharp!

Maybe when you older...lets hope!

and you the sharp one between the two of us. lmao

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Wut?

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
he explained his situation... and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling..

Platonic friends don't talk about their feels.

Maybe like...lol...if you so my member - would you want to...never see it again or see it again?

Still pretty not platonic but semi- platonic?

Nah...

wut?

You've never been sharp!

Maybe when you older...lets hope!

and you the sharp one between the two of us. lmao

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There is nothing between us unless you want Hare! Heir - hen is all yours!!! Lol

Thank you all for replying!

I enjoyed reading and laughing my head off, was worth posting!

I am not here for drama just discovered this forum, it's intriguing to see peoples opinions.

To clarify, I had not fallen for this man I've only known him a minute technically. I understood what was said and severed my contact links with him, without hesitation.

Onwards and upwards!!!

PS: I have enough adoring admirer's on my plate to keep me occupied in good conversation this summer 🙂 😉

Posted by Lunabee
Eliminate all contacts. Ghost.

Done and dusted ! Thank you lovely!

Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
So we met, 4 weeks ago!

He was super forward with his advances and I went along with it then, upon reflection I decided to check where we stood - By asking him if we could stop the sexual advances and just take it slow - and low and behold, he replied to my voice note, and like a gent he is he explained his situation and said he is not looking to waste my time visa versa and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I obliged without hesitation not wanting to look needy!

Of course I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling.. lol I lack patience and I read on here Libra's need a tonne of it 🙂 😉 Ooopsy!

But I wonder if I wounded him 😢 Is he likely to return to this Scorp?

I don't see why you should ghost him. He flirted. He likely saw it as innocent or perhaps a quick way to get into your pants. From your point of view, this connection had potential and took the flirting as a good sign for something more.

When you sought clarity, he recognised you were on different pages so said he would back off.

I don't think you wounded him.

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Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
So we met, 4 weeks ago!

He was super forward with his advances and I went along with it then, upon reflection I decided to check where we stood - By asking him if we could stop the sexual advances and just take it slow - and low and behold, he replied to my voice note, and like a gent he is he explained his situation and said he is not looking to waste my time visa versa and continued to say we should stay platonic from now on!

I obliged without hesitation not wanting to look needy!

Of course I rattled the cage by asking him what he was feeling.. lol I lack patience and I read on here Libra's need a tonne of it 🙂 😉 Ooopsy!

But I wonder if I wounded him 😢 Is he likely to return to this Scorp?

I don't see why you should ghost him. He flirted. He likely saw it as innocent or perhaps a quick way to get into your pants. From your point of view, this connection had potential and took the flirting as a good sign for something more.

When you sought clarity, he recognised you were on different pages so said he would back off.

I don't think you wounded him.

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I agree! I think the lucky thing for me is I was ready for it to go south! So I am happy he was honest and bailed out before it got complicated!

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Posted by Harukka

Libra and scorpio will never be a good combo.

It's one of the best imo.

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Agree 10000%

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Posted by Gemitati
When man say he wants to stay platonic - why can't you ladies understand he has no sexual

Attraction to you you?

HOW is

This not making you just want

To say FU and forget his name—

What's with desperation to MAKE him

Want me

When he said honestly NOOooooooo!

And who cares if he comes back to his former, past former, future woman—

Yes! He will have someone he wants to have sexy with!

Point of correction.. He is the one pursuing me (If you understand what that means) So I am the one pushing away from sex thank you very much!! So I was asking if I have wounded his ego by rejecting him.

Before being a keyboard warrior read the content!!!

Gemitati is correct.

He rejected you by asking to be platonic friends.

And as expressed by Gemitati, instead of telling him to FO and losing his number you are sitting there waiting him to feed you his leftover crumbs... He saw you coming.

Go and get some self respect

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Thank for your contribution. If you have time to write I am sure you have time to read the thread and take note! I am not entertaining him nor chasing after him.. some of you keyboard warriors think you are scholars when in fact you are probably nothing short of lonely, depressed individuals looking to spread your negativity.

For the record ...In a world of so much potential and great people I wont fail to find another. There's something called experience and learning that is why I'm here, to explore signs and behaviors not to indulge in nonsense!!

Posted by Vageenka
Libra men are adorbs. They like romance, they like to chase, they're an Air sign so they like to see if you guys bounce off of eachother well in convos, they like the stuff that leads up to the sex (along with the sex too obviously).

I feel like you gave him your goodies too soon and he lost interest. What's there to stick around for if you already showed all your cards? People need to remember this when dealing with Air signs in general.

You can't just say you suddenly want to slow down now and ease up on the sex when you've already gave it to him. Holler.

I am sure Libra's can be amazing and if anything this situation may have made me curious to have another encounter with a Libra...However regardless of how you may have interpreted my saying 'gave into his advances' it was nothing short of a superficial kiss. So if this counts as showing all cards then i'd be astonished!

Upon reflection like I said (which was really my intuition suggesting something isn't right ) I felt I'd rather be upfront and not waste either persons time (Mature behavior) .

And true to my suspicion he was not on the same page, and like two graceful adults we bowed out.

Chapter closed.

I like how people draw to blind conclusions based on how they may have dealt with the situation! Ask and you'll get clarity.

I find that this is true of Libra men, they seem to come on very strong and then if you question why they freak out and say that theyre really not sure what theyre trying to do :/

lol he's trying not to hurt your feeling by letting you know he's on to the next