Getting to know Libra Man without having Sex

This topic was created in the Libra forum by ScorpioS3xGoddess on Wednesday, March 15, 2017 and has 9 replies.

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@ScorpioS3xGoddess
9 Years

Hi All,

Please I am interested in a Libra man as you may have read in my previous post, however I really want to avoid the bedroom and get to know him on a "normal" level do you guys have any date ideas etc to stimulate us both mentally?

Also how to skilfully turn down his advances to visit him at home..?

Thank you.

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@Mlibra
9 Years

Hi so I've never been on a date before and so I don't want to give advice I don't know but there is a guy I've watched on YouTube named Mathew Hussey and he does a program call get the guy and talks about a variety of things on that subject you should check it out🙂

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@Wonderfulscorp
9 Years

Well, first of all he is making a lot of sexual advances?

I have dated a few Libra's here recently and still ongoing with one, but I had to wait forever to have sex. They are more so shy to me so I had to make the first move, not sure if it's just me or not but that's been my experience. I wouldn't make a big fuss or think to much about (but I haven't read your previous post) unless it's a issue.

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@Wonderfulscorp
9 Years

Oh the libra I am dating now we connected on our Midwest roots, but he would love to wine and dine me and we would literally talk for hours on end until I had to seduce him, but I would say find a common interest and do things based on that, Libra men like a smart women with good conversation, feed into his thoughts...okay I am done, LOL

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@ScorpioS3xGoddess
9 Years

Posted by Wonderfulscorp
Oh the libra I am dating now we connected on our Midwest roots, but he would love to wine and dine me and we would literally talk for hours on end until I had to seduce him, but I would say find a common interest and do things based on that, Libra men like a smart women with good conversation, feed into his thoughts...okay I am done, LOL

Hi , Thank you for replying. That's such a stark contrast with my Libra, he is so forward almost to sure of himself perhaps its because he is a lawyer by trade which obviously takes confidence, or maybe to experienced in the field of charming women that he always gets what he wants.

On an intellectual level I feel as though he is also rather ahead in many ways, so I find it hard to break the ice with him as he seems so well informed I almost don not want a fool of myself! :/

I have never had issues with having conversations with men of any sign but this one is a tricky ricky. He seems like my dream man, appearance, career, intellect, compassionate and morals so I feel the need to pursue but only by laying the right foundations not rushing into things like he desperately wants.

Thank you once again for your suggestion perhaps an outdoor setting will ease the sexual urge 🙂 😉

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Whatever you do DONT tell him that you want to wait because 'you really like him'. That sends the message that if you didn't like him as much he'd already be fucking you. Instead say you want to take things slow before you get physical. If he respects and likes you he'll wait.

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@ScorpioS3xGoddess
9 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
Whatever you do DONT tell him that you want to wait because 'you really like him'. That sends the message that if you didn't like him as much he'd already be fucking you. Instead say you want to take things slow before you get physical. If he respects and likes you he'll wait.

Thank you. I agree 🙂

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@ScorpioS3xGoddess
9 Years

Posted by 2Moon
Posted by ScorpioS3xGoddess
Posted by Wonderfulscorp
Oh the libra I am dating now we connected on our Midwest roots, but he would love to wine and dine me and we would literally talk for hours on end until I had to seduce him, but I would say find a common interest and do things based on that, Libra men like a smart women with good conversation, feed into his thoughts...okay I am done, LOL

Hi , Thank you for replying. That's such a stark contrast with my Libra, he is so forward almost to sure of himself perhaps its because he is a lawyer by trade which obviously takes confidence, or maybe to experienced in the field of charming women that he always gets what he wants.

On an intellectual level I feel as though he is also rather ahead in many ways, so I find it hard to break the ice with him as he seems so well informed I almost don not want a fool of myself! :/

I have never had issues with having conversations with men of any sign but this one is a tricky ricky. He seems like my dream man, appearance, career, intellect, compassionate and morals so I feel the need to pursue but only by laying the right foundations not rushing into things like he desperately wants.

Thank you once again for your suggestion perhaps an outdoor setting will ease the sexual urge 🙂 😉

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On an intellectual level I feel as though he is also rather ahead in many ways, so I find it hard to break the ice with him as he seems so well informed I almost don not want a fool of myself! :/

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Aww! So cute

On a serious note: yes, take your time with him. If you feel like you guys have serious potential together. Take things slow. Strong and solid.. Just like you are doing... 🙂

Keep him in check to not F up..

Libra - Scorpio = so much to learn from each other.

Last advice I can give to a Scorpio dating a Libra is to be patient.

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Thank you for your sound advise, although it's come too late for me we mutually decided not to pursue.

Maybe with If I ever encounter another Libra 🙂 :*