Libra ladies..first time caller long time listener

Libra Ladies:

I've become friends with a Libra whose birthday is in September.....I believe that qualifies as a Virgo/Libra cusp?

My question is: Would you think she would have more of the Libra traits or Virgo traits as it relates to things that she would do to show that she is interested in someone? Do you think she would be more submissive about flirting....waiting for the male to take the lead?

At this point all I have is a friendship which is nice but I see signs from her that make me scratch my head such as inviting me to be closer to her in a physical sense but then moving away slightly as I actually do what I assume she's asking me to do. I don't know whether she's just trying to be more comfortable as friends or if she's going a step beyond. Any assistance is greatly appreciated.

She's a libra....we're natural flirts, it depends on how you interpret it..for some men...a smile and being engaged in a person's conversation could be seen as flirting. If you're unsure, I'd lean towards no if you feel awkward about putting yourself out there.

This would aslo depend on your placements in relation to hers..namely her venus and mars which gives an idea of what kinds of things she's attracted to.

Also not to be the complete harbringer of doom and gloom but even if she doesn't dig you now..it doesn't mean that the possibility of cultivating an attraction is unlikely...if she's your friend, there's always the possibility. I know with some of my male friends, i didn't really see them in a 'romantic' light until they brought to my attention.

So in short...if you can find out her placements and they seem to flow you're way, take a chance..you never know...the good thing is that even if it doesn't work out..you can still maintain the friendship..so I don't think you have anything to really lose.

Sept. 15th

Sept 15th? Then she's a Virgo, and not even close enough to Libra to be a cusper.

Have you done the rest of her chart? I assume not, since you thought she was a Libra.

Try these to start:

http://www.alabe.com/freechart/<BR>
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal

The rest of her chart is important too.. I submit more important than knowing she's a Virgo. Her Venus is what will tell you how she is in flirting and relationships.. her Moon is how she is with emotions... her Mars is her drive, her action, her way of doing things. Mercury is her thinking and communication style .

And these placements can really make a person seem "different" than their Sun sign in certain areas.. for example.. I'm a Pisces Sun.. so I'm all sweet and timid, gentle and shy.. heck, I'm even wishy-washy and directionless, a dreamer with her head in the clouds, impractical and fanciful... right?

Nope. I think about these things, and I speak in images and abstracts.. cuz I also have a Pisces Mercury.. but I have a Taurus Moon and Mars... I feel and act like a Bullette... practical, determined, slow, careful... my Tau Moon/Mars "grounds" me and it shocks people who bought into the "weak, spacey" rap Pisces get.

BUT.. I also have an Aries Venus... in flirting and relationships, I'm bold and fearless.. outgoing, fiery, playful... sometimes fearless to the point of idiocy haha Cuz I don't worry about the what-if's.. if I want it I go for it, jump in with both feet, grab with both hands.. cuz good or bad, I'm gonna *experience* it!