Libra Male/Cancer Female Experiment

I've read that Libras and Cancers are not at all compatible. I know there are exceptions to some things, but are their any Libra males here that has some real life experience with Cancer females that can support the incompatibility factor.

Are you trying to get a libra? If so... Come join the club 😄
I am not a libra but honestly what I have been told here and the cancer forum it doesn't look so good 🦇

MEEEE..... You will be attracted to their initial talkative and childish nature. Only to see the half baked brain after the initial lust settles down which turns your off after a while. Then they are noisy. They dont know how to talk things without getting emotional which annoys me. But then they make good friends with whom you can sit and have long talks especially for releasing your emotional pressure.

I am a cancer...I have a good relationship with 3 Libra male friends
A good ongoing communication with one gorgeous Libra suitor
But perhaps that's because of past experiences that I now know how to think like them
So I was able get inside the hard walls...

Cancers Rock!! I am one. I have had a lot of experiences with Libras in the past...some great some crappy. Seems the ones I blew off were the ones that pursued me even harder, and the ones that I pursued left me hanging. Oh well. I have an Aqua. Moon and Leo Ascendant so I get along fab. with Libras. I dont find them- they find me. Each and every one of them. I am currently half pursuing one now. So you help me and give me your insight and I will help you out - with whatever you want to know in regard to Cancers- which really we are not all as wack as people want you to think.

People say the dumbest things about all signs. Like, Cancers can smother. But usually not until they have the green light to do so. You really should look at the big picture )ascendant and what not, etc.) in order to know what her personality IS overall. It's not just a sun sign thing. Then again, folks get so wrapped up in the do's and dont's of a particular sign that I feel they lose who they are as a person. Or they judge someone based upon their sign- so wrong. Stereotyping before you give the person a chance... I know several mates that are Lib./Canc. boy/girl respectively...they are still together.

((People say the dumbest things about all signs.))

Its not abt cancer. its abt how a libra will often feel about a cancer.

like I said, "people say the dumbest things"
apparently lib. you have had issues with Cancers in the past?
sorry to hear that. but being the "fair" person that Libra's tend to be...
I would hope that you would be fair enough to not lump ALL cancers into one boat and cook 'em.

Or should I have said pot...I digress.

((I would hope that you would be fair enough to not lump ALL cancers into one boat and cook 'em.))

If you meet 10 cancers and 9 of them behave in similar manner and irritate me, its only fair from my side to say whatever i felt. It has nothing to do with cancer's or libras. its all abt libra plus cancer situation. Its not a healthy combo.

ok LiBro. I get the feeling that your contrariness comes more from the need to debate a sitch. than youre letting on- it's alright. Gem's have that ability as do Lib's and therefore I understand. However, I would like to know if you have in fact been around 10 Cancers at one setting(and to be honest to much of a good thing is not really a good thing) but I would be interested to see just how many really did irritate you- or is it in fact a matter of pre-judgment to assume in advance that Cancer ='s irritation.
(for you alone apparently it is).
AND
if in THAT fact alone you make the assumption and comment that if all Cancers irritate YOU than everyone else should feel the same way (how is that fair again). Otherwise, if it wasnt about Cancer's or Lib's (which you are right its not at this point-its just your biased opinion)you would have done the fair thing and kept your fingers quiet or mouth shut if we were face to face.

Everyone else do feel the same way once they finish dreaming and start facing the realities. Libras can adapt on to extreme character conditions and this often happens with a cancer/cappy situation. Talk to few libras who came out of relationship with Cancer/cappy and find out for urself provided they are in a mood to talk openly and you are not another person to him he/she hides her frustrations.

Have you considered the other side of the Scales Lib. and thought "is it them or me?" because that would be the reality of the bigger picture and not the narrow minded assumption that Cancer's and Cap's irritate Lib's no matter what. I happen to have had several Lib. friends in the past...a couple that stuck around for years to see if I would "come around" (I didnt). Furthermore, the Lib. that I happen to be mixing with at the moment happens to have a close Cappy friend and then me "Ltl. Miss Cancer". Who in fact is chomping at the bit to get the hell out of work and join the group tonite for some beers and a promised breakfast for 2 in the morn.
Keep on hatin' Lib. but it's not productive my friend.

Libran..perhaps you can help this Cancer female figure this one out.

Recently re-connected with a boy I used to date in High School - a Libra. Nothing serious in those days - just a lot of kissing. He had a major crush on me. I ended up breaking up with him as I did not feel the same. End of story.

20 years later, he's married with 2 kids. I'm married. He tells me he has never gotten me out of his life. He dreams about me once or twice a week - for the past 20 years! He has wrote songs about me ( and not his wife). He has always known where I live, but claims he's not a stalker. Now that he's seen me and talked with me after all these years, he says his love for me is 100 times more than ever.

Now...his wife finds out abt these hidden feelings and has forbidden him to have anything to do with me. Have I heard from him? Once in 7 months. He called me on a friend's cell phone bc his wife might check his. Can't email me.

What do you make of this? Could you see yourself feeling this way? I can't imagine pining away year after year for someone and being married...I think he's out for an affair and that's it.

Librapersonified,

You have a scorpio moon, so water signs might be good for you. You should test the waters and see for yourself. Every situation is different, plus you seem to be drawn to water signs.

Lucky Libra remember your chart is full of scorpio, meaning you would probably get along with a cancer well too, more so than librans with more air in their charts. I am a scorp with a lot of air and fire in my chart.

Oh wait, that was my initial thought until I looked at my birth certificate again and found that I have a couple planets in scorpio but I have several planets in libra and a couple in Sagitarius including my moon.