libra man cannot say no?

Have known me as a gemini asc libra, libra male for years living in neigbouring country, met through these
years once twice per year. Nowadays living alone with daughter, has never lived with any woman as far
as I know. I have been visiting them and we have had fun. Now this summer send a message and asked if
I can come for 3 days to meet him and daughter. He answered that he looks into it and will come back.
I also gave my holiday dates, 3 weeks gone and no news.
WHat I mean is this typical of libra behaviour? I would understand no as an answer and I add it to my
message, anyhting can happen, steady relationship, busy with daughter, hobby ( cricket) etc but
for me it is opposite the sign of disrespect when people are not straight, but staying silent.?

I am middle age lady, so I am not for drame, but it is annoying when people do not make decisions or tell
aloud what is in their minds?
Last time when I visited them, he said I am always welcome to visit, and consider myself easygoing guest.

It's true, Libras don't like to say no because we don't like to disappoint anyone. If we aren't too close, you'll tend to hear "let me get back to you on that" rather than "no". I don't have a problem saying no to my close friends though, especially if it has to do with something I don't like & they should by now not even to ask me.

In this situation you will have to move first, otherwise you might be waiting for quite a long time for anything to happen, if at all.

i'm pretty good at saying no. but when it comes to the positive stuff, i'm really bad. and sometimes if i get confused about what people feel about me (or if they feel it, etc) i'll just disappear, in the hope that they'll care enough to call me on it.

I cant say no to people i care about, i think its because i dont like to let people down, but as ive got older ive realised that people appreciate a definate no rather then a "dont know" or "let me think about it" because then they know where they stand. People that know me well have learnt to say "that means no doesnt it" to me when they feel i am struggling lol

people i dont care about i tell them no with ease, people i dislike i actually derive pleasure from saying no to 🙂