Stinging4Leeb
@Stinging4Leeb
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Libra Man & Scorpion Woman
Any libra men willing to give insight?
Ok thanks everyone. So basically you're saying the push/pull and hot/cold is him hedging his bets? It's likely there are other women?
Well that's fine because we are not an item, no discussion has been had BUT I'd thought he might have the curtesy to tell me as I've made it clear I'm not seeing anyone else.
We've not slept together (dating 3 months but friends for about a year prior) and I've pretty much fallen for him hook, line and sinker because he seems to genuine care about me - until he goes cold. He does shower me with attention and because he's not lustful I felt there was a more meaningful connection. We have been intimate and it sometimes gets heavy but not gone there because he says he wants to be respectful etc. If he was more consistent and didn't blow cold I'd have jumped him by now.
I like to talk about my feelings but sense he's not one to discuss emotional feelings and because we're very much getting to know one another, I've just left him to it.
Getting these responses have left me feeling a little foolish. I should just ask him directly so I know where I stand but at the same time nervous that will scare him away because of said closed off emotions. Even though I through some shade in my initial post he has so many positive traits. I really like his energy.
@tiziani So as a Libra man, when/how do you enter into a committed relationship or even just become 'exclusive' if you only like the chase? Am I basically not the one? Is he just not that into me? ? If so, why the fuck is he wasting my time?
Well that's fine because we are not an item, no discussion has been had BUT I'd thought he might have the curtesy to tell me as I've made it clear I'm not seeing anyone else.
We've not slept together (dating 3 months but friends for about a year prior) and I've pretty much fallen for him hook, line and sinker because he seems to genuine care about me - until he goes cold. He does shower me with attention and because he's not lustful I felt there was a more meaningful connection. We have been intimate and it sometimes gets heavy but not gone there because he says he wants to be respectful etc. If he was more consistent and didn't blow cold I'd have jumped him by now.
I like to talk about my feelings but sense he's not one to discuss emotional feelings and because we're very much getting to know one another, I've just left him to it.
Getting these responses have left me feeling a little foolish. I should just ask him directly so I know where I stand but at the same time nervous that will scare him away because of said closed off emotions. Even though I through some shade in my initial post he has so many positive traits. I really like his energy.
@tiziani So as a Libra man, when/how do you enter into a committed relationship or even just become 'exclusive' if you only like the chase? Am I basically not the one? Is he just not that into me? ? If so, why the fuck is he wasting my time?
I just re-read your post Tiziani, so I should basically just ignore him? Like I done before?
This sounds like too much mind games. If he likes me surely he would want me to reciprocate?
This sounds like too much mind games. If he likes me surely he would want me to reciprocate?
Ok thanks for the insight Tiziani, much appreciated.
I really didn't see it that way. I just thought he made me notice him and then when I realised he was in fact hot and intelligent, I reciprocated. My mistake ?
What you say does make sense to me however, he was a lot heavier with the attention when I wasn't available to him.
I'll ask him to see where he stands but think I'll pass on this one. Such a shame because I thought we clicked and he worked hard to crack my shell.
Now how do I talk to him without happy clapping his face? ? Joke! I'm hurting really, don't like letting my guard down for any old Joe.
I really didn't see it that way. I just thought he made me notice him and then when I realised he was in fact hot and intelligent, I reciprocated. My mistake ?
What you say does make sense to me however, he was a lot heavier with the attention when I wasn't available to him.
I'll ask him to see where he stands but think I'll pass on this one. Such a shame because I thought we clicked and he worked hard to crack my shell.
Now how do I talk to him without happy clapping his face? ? Joke! I'm hurting really, don't like letting my guard down for any old Joe.
If he's gone quiet, you go quiet too. I wouldn't waste my time talking to this dude if I were you.
Just disappear.
Just disappear.
Posted by Stinging4Leeb
Hey,
Stumbled across this site when trying to figure out this man I'm sort of seeing.
I'm not sure if I fully understand astrology but I do find it interesting. I've discovered the typical scorpion traits define my personality and wondered how my leeb has got under my skin.
He chased me for months, friends first. I ignored. Then we entered into this cat and mouse game, which was harmless fun. His actions say he's 'into' me but then when I return the affection, he goes quiet. Like he's gone quiet on me now and it's beginning to really get boring.
I hate those sort of games. I'm direct and holding my tongue from stinging his ass, which is what I want to do but then he some how wiggles out of feeling my wrath by doing something nice. I can't stand this push and pull. Libra is a sign of balance, but I find it very unbalanced - well the men anyway. My libra females are amazing and consistent!
So what's the deal Libra men? Why is he doing this? I wanna walk, but whenever I'm about to he pops up and pulls me in again. I didn't realise I was such a sucker!!! He's so addictive.
I also read so many conflicting astrology articles about Scorpio and Libra. Rarely positive lol.
What's your opinion?
Some Libra men really like the chase. Is your Venus in Libra or is his Venus in Scorpio?
Posted by Stinging4LeebNo Scorpio women are very intoxicating to Libra men. I doubt he is seeing anyone seriously with a Scorpio's unmatched, un-questioned, devotion. There is no need to date another woman with a Scorpio on the scene. You best believe that. He is probably backed up because of the intensity we're not used to it. Everything will be okay. Don't worry so hard. I still love my Scorpio from many many years ago.
Ok thanks everyone. So basically you're saying the push/pull and hot/cold is him hedging his bets? It's likely there are other women?
Well that's fine because we are not an item, no discussion has been had BUT I'd thought he might have the curtesy to tell me as I've made it clear I'm not seeing anyone else.
We've not slept together (dating 3 months but friends for about a year prior) and I've pretty much fallen for him hook, line and sinker because he seems to genuine care about me - until he goes cold. He does shower me with attention and because he's not lustful I felt there was a more meaningful connection. We have been intimate and it sometimes gets heavy but not gone there because he says he wants to be respectful etc. If he was more consistent and didn't blow cold I'd have jumped him by now.
I like to talk about my feelings but sense he's not one to discuss emotional feelings and because we're very much getting to know one another, I've just left him to it.
Getting these responses have left me feeling a little foolish. I should just ask him directly so I know where I stand but at the same time nervous that will scare him away because of said closed off emotions. Even though I through some shade in my initial post he has so many positive traits. I really like his energy.
@tiziani So as a Libra man, when/how do you enter into a committed relationship or even just become 'exclusive' if you only like the chase? Am I basically not the one? Is he just not that into me? ? If so, why the fuck is he wasting my time?
In regards to all of the astrologers they claim that Libra and Gemini and Libra Aquarius get along great and a match made in heaven and actually those are matches for me were matches made in hell! ??☺
Posted by ScorpioTruth
Air signs are typically shifty and indecisive like that which is why they're not a good match for us. I'm sure he means well and maybe doesn't even realize he's doing it. I'm a Scorpio but have 4 libra placements so I can feel like I'm a straight up walking contradiction at times.. Very indecisive and blowing hot then cold.
Keep your options open and keep dating other men. I wouldn't put all my eggs in this one basket (we typically do that as scorps and that's where we go wrong). Especially not with this guy. It sounds like he's more into it for the challenge.
She's right unless he has Venus in Scorpio or Virgo.
Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Stinging4LeebNo Scorpio women are very intoxicating to Libra men. I doubt he is seeing anyone seriously with a Scorpio's unmatched, un-questioned, devotion. There is no need to date another woman with a Scorpio on the scene. You best believe that! He has probably backed up because of the intensity we're not used to it. Everything will be okay. Don't worry so hard. I still love my Scorpio from many many years ago.
Ok thanks everyone. So basically you're saying the push/pull and hot/cold is him hedging his bets? It's likely there are other women?
Well that's fine because we are not an item, no discussion has been had BUT I'd thought he might have the curtesy to tell me as I've made it clear I'm not seeing anyone else.
We've not slept together (dating 3 months but friends for about a year prior) and I've pretty much fallen for him hook, line and sinker because he seems to genuine care about me - until he goes cold. He does shower me with attention and because he's not lustful I felt there was a more meaningful connection. We have been intimate and it sometimes gets heavy but not gone there because he says he wants to be respectful etc. If he was more consistent and didn't blow cold I'd have jumped him by now.
I like to talk about my feelings but sense he's not one to discuss emotional feelings and because we're very much getting to know one another, I've just left him to it.
Getting these responses have left me feeling a little foolish. I should just ask him directly so I know where I stand but at the same time nervous that will scare him away because of said closed off emotions. Even though I through some shade in my initial post he has so many positive traits. I really like his energy.
@tiziani So as a Libra man, when/how do you enter into a committed relationship or even just become 'exclusive' if you only like the chase? Am I basically not the one? Is he just not that into me? ? If so, why the fuck is he wasting my time?
In regards to all of the astrologers they claim that Libra and Gemini and Libra Aquarius get along great and a match made in heaven and actually those are matches made in hell!
??☺
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Posted by blackphase
He's likely seeing someone else.. Libras will shower you with attention when you are the only one.
You won't be bored if they are into you... they won't give you room to breathe let alone get bored..
Actually we will give you room to breathe when we are in love; first we get a huge dosage then go some place high in the wind where the eagles soar, to balance our scales. Then we return bigger, badder, and centered.
Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by Stinging4LeebNo Scorpio women are very intoxicating to Libra men. I doubt he is seeing anyone seriously with a Scorpio's unmatched, un-questioned, devotion. There is no need to date another woman with a Scorpio on the scene. You best believe that. He probably backed up because of the intensity; we're not used to it. Everything will be okay. Don't worry so hard. I still love my Scorpio from many many years ago.
Ok thanks everyone. So basically you're saying the push/pull and hot/cold is him hedging his bets? It's likely there are other women?
Well that's fine because we are not an item, no discussion has been had BUT I'd thought he might have the curtesy to tell me as I've made it clear I'm not seeing anyone else.
We've not slept together (dating 3 months but friends for about a year prior) and I've pretty much fallen for him hook, line and sinker because he seems to genuine care about me - until he goes cold. He does shower me with attention and because he's not lustful I felt there was a more meaningful connection. We have been intimate and it sometimes gets heavy but not gone there because he says he wants to be respectful etc. If he was more consistent and didn't blow cold I'd have jumped him by now.
I like to talk about my feelings but sense he's not one to discuss emotional feelings and because we're very much getting to know one another, I've just left him to it.
Getting these responses have left me feeling a little foolish. I should just ask him directly so I know where I stand but at the same time nervous that will scare him away because of said closed off emotions. Even though I through some shade in my initial post he has so many positive traits. I really like his energy.
@tiziani So as a Libra man, when/how do you enter into a committed relationship or even just become 'exclusive' if you only like the chase? Am I basically not the one? Is he just not that into me? ? If so, why the fuck is he wasting my time?
In regards to all of the astrologers they claim that Libra and Gemini and Libra Aquarius get along great and a match made in heaven and actually those are matches for me were matches made in hell! ??☺
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I'm not sure if I fully understand astrology but I do find it interesting. I've discovered the typical scorpion traits define my personality and wondered how my leeb has got under my skin.
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