Libra lady rant about a Scorpio Guy

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Tallblackbarbie on Sunday, November 27, 2016 and has 21 replies.

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@Tallblackbarbie
10 Years

He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marriage!" I'm like....I know you said I'm gorgeous your type, blah blah. But he can't see us seriously dating. Cool, I get it. I'm fine with that. I just want the goods. We've known each other as close friends for 4 months. I've never put the moves on any guy. The min I do, this happened. Wtf lol.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by Tallblackbarbie
He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marriage!" I'm like....I know you said I'm gorgeous your type, blah blah. But he can't see us seriously dating. Cool, I get it. I'm fine with that. I just want the goods. We've known each other as close friends for 4 months. I've never put the moves on any guy. The min I do, this happened. Wtf lol.

Posted by Reincarnation
Don't make the first move.

Big turnoff.

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lol

I was reminded, reading on another site, about a double libra making all the moves on a fixed sign and the fixed sign was 'whatever,' kind of type of guy and she proceeded to make them into a commitment, then proceeded to make them "together"...she did all the MOVES. lol 😆

super cardinal moves....and he sounded like, okay whatever sure. we're together? okay dokey.

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@Mark-23
9 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Tallblackbarbie
He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marriage!" I'm like....I know you said I'm gorgeous your type, blah blah. But he can't see us seriously dating. Cool, I get it. I'm fine with that. I just want the goods. We've known each other as close friends for 4 months. I've never put the moves on any guy. The min I do, this happened. Wtf lol.

He's saving for marriage— WTF— Go get an Aries guy lol that'll workout much better

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@themagnetoreborn
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Tallblackbarbie
He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marriage!" I'm like....I know you said I'm gorgeous your type, blah blah. But he can't see us seriously dating. Cool, I get it. I'm fine with that. I just want the goods. We've known each other as close friends for 4 months. I've never put the moves on any guy. The min I do, this happened. Wtf lol.

Well damn...good things come to those who wait, right?

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@Tallblackbarbie
10 Years

Posted by SofiaV87
No need to make a first move with a Scorpio. They will go for it when they feel comfortable & know u will reciprocate

Well I messed up the so called friendship now. But if I ever meet another one I'll know what to do.

Then I hate when he says, when you meet the right guy, I want to meet him.? And make sure he treats you right. That will never happen.

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@Tallblackbarbie
10 Years

Posted by themagnetoreborn
Posted by Tallblackbarbie
He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marriage!" I'm like....I know you said I'm gorgeous your type, blah blah. But he can't see us seriously dating. Cool, I get it. I'm fine with that. I just want the goods. We've known each other as close friends for 4 months. I've never put the moves on any guy. The min I do, this happened. Wtf lol.

Well damn...good things come to those who wait, right?

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True, but I want to try something different instead of waiting on the man to do everything. Didn't work so I'll never do it again.?

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@Tallblackbarbie
10 Years

Posted by themagnetoreborn
Posted by Tallblackbarbie
He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marriage!" I'm like....I know you said I'm gorgeous your type, blah blah. But he can't see us seriously dating. Cool, I get it. I'm fine with that. I just want the goods. We've known each other as close friends for 4 months. I've never put the moves on any guy. The min I do, this happened. Wtf lol.

Well damn...good things come to those who wait, right?

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Thanks....making a mental note.

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@Tallblackbarbie
10 Years

Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Tallblackbarbie
He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marriage!" I'm like....I know you said I'm gorgeous your type, blah blah. But he can't see us seriously dating. Cool, I get it. I'm fine with that. I just want the goods. We've known each other as close friends for 4 months. I've never put the moves on any guy. The min I do, this happened. Wtf lol.

Posted by Reincarnation
Don't make the first move.

Big turnoff.

lol

I was reminded, reading on another site, about a double libra making all the moves on a fixed sign and the fixed sign was 'whatever,' kind of type of guy and she proceeded to make them into a commitment, then proceeded to make them "together"...she did all the MOVES. lol 😆

super cardinal moves....and he sounded like, okay whatever sure. we're together? okay dokey.

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? LMAO. Fixed and stubborn as heck. I'll get over it in a few weeks. I move on fast.

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@themagnetoreborn
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Tallblackbarbie
Posted by themagnetoreborn
Posted by Tallblackbarbie
He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marriage!" I'm like....I know you said I'm gorgeous your type, blah blah. But he can't see us seriously dating. Cool, I get it. I'm fine with that. I just want the goods. We've known each other as close friends for 4 months. I've never put the moves on any guy. The min I do, this happened. Wtf lol.

Well damn...good things come to those who wait, right?

Thanks....making a mental note.

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I'm curious to know your thoughts on marriage proposals though. Since we're in a different time now, would you be open to the idea of proposing to a guy?

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@Tallblackbarbie
10 Years

Posted by dolluxe
Can't blame you, they do give off a vibe that make your Libran lady bits all tingly. Lmao.

Seriously though, lesson learned. Next Scorp you meet, go with the flow. Let him lead.

Yes! Plus, if you give me a massage and suck my toes that might give me the wrong idea.☺️Which he did!! More than once.

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@Tallblackbarbie
10 Years

Posted by themagnetoreborn
Posted by Tallblackbarbie
Posted by themagnetoreborn
Posted by Tallblackbarbie
He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marriage!" I'm like....I know you said I'm gorgeous your type, blah blah. But he can't see us seriously dating. Cool, I get it. I'm fine with that. I just want the goods. We've known each other as close friends for 4 months. I've never put the moves on any guy. The min I do, this happened. Wtf lol.

Well damn...good things come to those who wait, right?

Thanks....making a mental note.

I'm curious to know your thoughts on marriage proposals though. Since we're in a different time now, would you be open to the idea of proposing to a guy?

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I'm going to say no because of this experience. This was the one time in my life, I tried to be spontaneous with a guy, and this happened. I'll just stay in my safe lane.

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@Tallblackbarbie
10 Years

Posted by dolluxe
Posted by Tallblackbarbie
Posted by dolluxe
Can't blame you, they do give off a vibe that make your Libran lady bits all tingly. Lmao.

Seriously though, lesson learned. Next Scorp you meet, go with the flow. Let him lead.

Yes! Plus, if you give me a massage and suck my toes that might give me the wrong idea.☺️Which he did!! More than once.

Lmao. In my case the ex Scorp wanted to move fast cause you know, pheromones. My Taurus moon won't allow that.

Take it slow next time.

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Gotcha? Much appreciated

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@themagnetoreborn
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Tallblackbarbie
Posted by themagnetoreborn
Posted by Tallblackbarbie
Posted by themagnetoreborn
Posted by Tallblackbarbie
He is just like the last Scorpio I dated: smart, handsome, outgoing, very kind hearted, and sweet. He invites me a few times a week to hang out, show me a good time, kiss, talk everyday. The min I make a move on him, he's like" I'm saving myself for marriage!" I'm like....I know you said I'm gorgeous your type, blah blah. But he can't see us seriously dating. Cool, I get it. I'm fine with that. I just want the goods. We've known each other as close friends for 4 months. I've never put the moves on any guy. The min I do, this happened. Wtf lol.

Well damn...good things come to those who wait, right?

Thanks....making a mental note.

I'm curious to know your thoughts on marriage proposals though. Since we're in a different time now, would you be open to the idea of proposing to a guy?


I'm going to say no because of this experience. This was the one time in my life, I tried to be spontaneous with a guy, and this happened. I'll just stay in my safe lane.

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Ok, fair enough...