@Gennie
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Scorpios and Libras
I've never attracted scorpio men! I'm not sure what it is. Anyways, the scorpio females that I am close with are very nurturing and generous people. I feel as if they resemble cancer but they have better intentions.
with that Gemini moon.....
Elizabeth Shue has that sun/moon combination. But she has Scorpio mars.
this one has mars in leo, (that would be more Bridget Bardot, but her mars is in 8th house) and she was married short term to Scorpio sun/Gemini moon, Gunter Sachs.
both Shue and her long term Scorpio husband are Gemini dominant.
Posted by Ellycakes
I have a libra best who I absolutely adore. We talk an obscene amount daily. But then can go days without speaking and pick up and go months without seeing each other and all is well.But dear god if I had to date her I'd cut out my eyeballs and eat them myself. She's very airy with a touch of water. So she tries to run constantly from feelings. Anytime she come remotely close to an emotion her reaction is to bolt. I've talked her many a time off a ledge of ruining something great because she simply wasn't getting her way that very second.
She has scorp dudes around her often, they flock to her and she becomes obsessively infatuated with them, then disgusted with the fact she did and swears the guy off before a first date. She says scorpios are so frightening and intimidating but completely sexy. She's canceled almost a dozen dates with scorpios over the years, always last minute.
I myself have cautiously interacted with libra dudes. One was too creepy. The other two were too reserved. Not much experience honestly.
I think of it works it does work better male scorp to female libra. They can get a nice gendered balance of a Mars man and a Venusian woman.
It'll help truckloads of the scorp is airy and/or earthy. Much more so than watery or fiery. That way the emotionalism of Scorpio is tempered and Libras do well with earth dominants to set the pace I've noticed.
My girl has that Leo Mars and she has got her some swag. When she likes a guy she gets nervous and she PREENS. She doesn't have water in her chart, EXCEPT.... her natal moon is in the 12th house. She wants a little romance, strike her like a bolt of lightning kinda thing.
I will say, she's very Leo, Sun/Mercury in 5th house, besides just that Mars. I have a feeling it's gonna have to be an Airy Scorp if its a Scorp at all, so time to stalk them back and finagle the birthdays 🙂
Posted by Gennie
I will say, she's very Leo, Sun/Mercury in 5th house, besides just that Mars. I have a feeling it's gonna have to be an Airy Scorp if its a Scorp at all, so time to stalk them back and finagle the birthdays 🙂
that's very leo. Maybe a scorpio man (if that's what she really wants and they want her back) with a lot of air, and some leo too but also maybe aquarius (the opposite) with of course Gemini placements.
I saw that Bridget Bardot was also married a short term marriage with a Scorpio sun/Leo moon before Gunter Sachs, but that didn't last either. He has Sag venus/Virgo mars.
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Jacques_Charrier
Born: November 6, 1936, 6:45 AM
In: Metz (France)
Sun: 13°41' Scorpio AS: 15°18' Scorpio
Moon: 16°16' Leo MC: 0°41' Virgo
Dominants: Scorpio, Virgo, Sagittarius
Sun, Mercury, Pluto
Houses 1, 9, 2 / Water, Fire / Fixed
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I don't understand why she didn't last with either one. but I read that Mr. Sachs was a huge playboy.
what is your girl like? you'd get a fairly good idea of her personality seeming as you know her well.
My girl is a divorced mother of 2, whose spent the last few years single and focused on her career. She has a job she loves, bought her own house, and is now looking for a man for her. Not a dad for her daughters, they have a dad, but someone to share a life with.
She looks younger than she is, playful, funny, dorky. Works out, cause we both love pizza and tacos; we just don't want to look like a pizza or taco. She's shy around new people but she likes to impress with her natural self. She enjoys attention but Libra enough to not want to hog the spotlight. She's the type to preen and go all out in makeup and clothes to attract a guy she finds interesting.
She doesn't like players, she's the ONE for a guy, not ONE of many. Told ya, very very Leo. We get along well because Air signs, Suns in the 5th house, all that Leo energy, Moon trines etc etc.
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@lisabethur8My girl is a divorced mother of 2, whose spent the last few years single and focused on her career. She has a job she loves, bought her own house, and is now looking for a man for her. Not a dad for her daughters, they have a dad, but someone to share a life with.
She looks younger than she is, playful, funny, dorky. Works out, cause we both love pizza and tacos; we just don't want to look like a pizza or taco. She's shy around new people but she likes to impress with her natural self. She enjoys attention but Libra enough to not want to hog the spotlight. She's the type to preen and go all out in makeup and clothes to attract a guy she finds interesting.
She doesn't like players, she's the ONE for a guy, not ONE of many. Told ya, very very Leo. We get along well because Air signs, Suns in the 5th house, all that Leo energy, Moon trines etc etc.
she sounds like, on paper, a really really great catch!!
I don't see why any man would not want to date her, and make it a long term commitment just by what you wrote.
it would just be better if she had more 8th house/ more earth, more water, because even airy scorpio men, are deep down old fashioned. Even in the article, about Gunter Sachs, he was old fashioned and she (Bardot) was too bohemian. That won't do. the famous celebrity couple, Fergie and Josh Duhamal, both married, and despite him being so airy, and her also airy/ fiery, she does have Taurus venus and cancer rising.
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Posted by Gennie
@lisabethur8My girl is a divorced mother of 2, whose spent the last few years single and focused on her career. She has a job she loves, bought her own house, and is now looking for a man for her. Not a dad for her daughters, they have a dad, but someone to share a life with.
She looks younger than she is, playful, funny, dorky. Works out, cause we both love pizza and tacos; we just don't want to look like a pizza or taco. She's shy around new people but she likes to impress with her natural self. She enjoys attention but Libra enough to not want to hog the spotlight. She's the type to preen and go all out in makeup and clothes to attract a guy she finds interesting.
She doesn't like players, she's the ONE for a guy, not ONE of many. Told ya, very very Leo. We get along well because Air signs, Suns in the 5th house, all that Leo energy, Moon trines etc etc.
she sounds like, on paper, a really really great catch!!
I don't see why any man would not want to date her, and make it a long term commitment just by what you wrote.
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Dating can be shallow, some guys are intimidated by her success, some guys just want to see her in sexy pics, some guys are self centered and think they are entitled to date her. Its all very depressing, makes me glad I'm off the market.
We're supposed to go speed dating tomorrow, I'll be going with pom poms ready to be her wing girl. Already cleared it with Scorpie, who finds it funny that I've created a totally undateable personality to bring to this thing.
I have nothing to add for a Scorp/Libra connection other than I get along with them really well. I've never dated one though.
But your description of how you feel about her, support her, and are helping her is why I love my Aqua friends/family members so much.
They are the same way with me and were like you when I was single. Lol
Love it.
Good luck at the speed dating event!
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Posted by Gennie
@lisabethur8My girl is a divorced mother of 2, whose spent the last few years single and focused on her career. She has a job she loves, bought her own house, and is now looking for a man for her. Not a dad for her daughters, they have a dad, but someone to share a life with.
She looks younger than she is, playful, funny, dorky. Works out, cause we both love pizza and tacos; we just don't want to look like a pizza or taco. She's shy around new people but she likes to impress with her natural self. She enjoys attention but Libra enough to not want to hog the spotlight. She's the type to preen and go all out in makeup and clothes to attract a guy she finds interesting.
She doesn't like players, she's the ONE for a guy, not ONE of many. Told ya, very very Leo. We get along well because Air signs, Suns in the 5th house, all that Leo energy, Moon trines etc etc.
she sounds like, on paper, a really really great catch!!
I don't see why any man would not want to date her, and make it a long term commitment just by what you wrote.
Dating can be shallow, some guys are intimidated by her success, some guys just want to see her in sexy pics, some guys are self centered and think they are entitled to date her. Its all very depressing, makes me glad I'm off the market.
We're supposed to go speed dating tomorrow, I'll be going with pom poms ready to be her wing girl. Already cleared it with Scorpie, who finds it funny that I've created a totally undateable personality to bring to this thing.
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I found that a lot of men do like successful women though, so she has nothing to be worried about! and the ones who don't want a successful woman, she shouldn't care or worry about them. Focus on the guys who do want her. have fun tomorrow!
Ahhh, speed dating was a success. Afterwards we met up with Scorpie for dinner and had a break down of all her dates. Which mostly consisted of us repeating something a man said and then staring my poor guy down with "What does it mean!!?"
Anyways, the Scorps came to naught, they sorta just ghosted or just didn't click. Mooooving along, I have to finagle the birthdays from the new set.
She's thinking about doing a lock and key, but I'm not going to a singles mixer with a lock around my neck with guys checking to see if their key will fit. I have to draw the line somewhere.
However, Scorp and I are thinking, since the event is at a public place, we'll go ourselves and lurk in the background just in case.
And before someone says something like, "isn't she an adult". That's not the point. I can drink by myself.....but its so much fun with someone else. Besides...in our age group it's like:
I remember, been there, done that, have a t-shirt.
@ellycakes HAHAHA nah we would go, to make sure that no creepers followed her to her car.
You know, time really does fly, in a few days the Scorp and I will have been relationshipping in different phases for 9months. Where does it all go?
Posted by Ellycakes
Yeah a skittish Scorpio ain't worth the time.May your friend find a lovely Taurus stuffed full of air and a few drops of fire so says I. Lol.
I really like Taurus/Libra couples. They seem like they don't match on paper but they stick together well.
Pierce Brosnan and his wife. She's super lucky that's for sure. (he seems like such a good man!!)
I dunno when he was born, but here is this guy:
Sun 25°28' Cancer
Moon 14°22' Scorpio
Mercury 5°37' Leo
Venus 5°04' Virgo
Mars 12°58' Cancer
Jupiter 1°14' Я Sagittarius
Saturn 27°58' Libra
Uranus 5°22' Я Sagittarius
Neptune 27°07' Я Sagittarius
Pluto 26°45' Libra
Yup, Scorp MOON...aaaahhhh, Scorps coming outta the woodwork.
Although her and my Scorpie have the same twisted humor, it's his Gem moon on her Gem moon and both of them Libra mercs....weirdos the two of them when they get together.
Posted by Ellycakes
Posted by Gennie
I dunno when he was born, but here is this guy:Sun 25°28' Cancer
Moon 14°22' Scorpio
Mercury 5°37' Leo
Venus 5°04' Virgo
Mars 12°58' Cancer
Jupiter 1°14' Я Sagittarius
Saturn 27°58' Libra
Uranus 5°22' Я Sagittarius
Neptune 27°07' Я Sagittarius
Pluto 26°45' Libra
Yup, Scorp MOON...aaaahhhh, Scorps coming outta the woodwork.
Although her and my Scorpie have the same twisted humor, it's his Gem moon on her Gem moon and both of them Libra mercs....weirdos the two of them when they get together.
His saving grace might be that Venus. Venus in Virgo is one of my favs. Maybe cause it's a detriment like mine lol. That much water in a chart will make him either really calm or spook easy though.
It's funny she's attracting more feminine energy for her having such a masculine energy chart.
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I think that might be what she needs, shes got the Leo mars and a packed 5th house, so she's very...RAWR. We're gonna see if we can pull a birthdate from a second guy, the Lioness is considering her options.
Yeah, shes very different from me.
Basically, if she shows interest, then she waits for the male to impress her. It's like "COME AT ME BRO.....but not too slutty, I'm still a lady."
Meanwhile, I'm off to the side laughing my ass off, not at her I just find the whole thing amusing in a "National Geographic Mating Ritual" kinda way.
OMG....
What is with the water....
Last Night's date:
Sun 18°31' Pisces
Moon 23°02' Pisces
Mercury 27°59' Pisces
Venus 29°43' Pisces
Mars 22°34' Cancer
Jupiter 26°34' Gemini
Saturn 25°29' Я Leo
Uranus 16°16' Я Scorpio
Neptune 18°17' Sagittarius
Pluto 16°03' Я Libra
Sun House 1
Moon House 1
Mercury House 1
Venus House 1
Mars House 5
Jupiter House 4
Saturn House 6
Uranus House 8
Neptune House 10
Pluto House 7
looks like im going to the fishes board
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Soooo...The Gemini with the Taurus moon is making calf eyes on his ex and stalking my bestie's snapchat at the same time, so for the last 2 months I've been helping my Libra bestie with her online dating stuff, cause really, who has time for that 😕
Anywho, the guys she's been in contact with, 3 Scorpios and another Gemini. Really, my girl loves Gems, must be her moon but suddenly we find ourselves in unknown territory. It seems like the Gemini expects her to be super flirty and vapid, but the Scorps have been the most consistent in the chase and not being wierd with asking for pics or FB.
Her chart:
Sun 22°45' Libra
Moon 0°12' Gemini
Mercury 27°40' Я Libra
Venus 8°05' Sagittarius
Mars 27°08' Leo
Jupiter 21°11' Libra
Saturn 14°04' Libra
Uranus 28°10' Scorpio
Neptune 22°35' Sagittarius
Pluto 24°13' Libra
AS 27°03' Gemini
MC 6°13' Pisces
Sun House 5
Moon House 12
Mercury House 5
Venus House 6
Mars House 3
Jupiter House 5
Saturn House 5
Uranus House 6
Neptune House 6
Pluto House 5