Libras Help w/ Scorpio Please

I can't speak for all Libras, but getting women is as easy as breathing, but I met this amazing Scorpio woman crippled by the pain and loss of losing her mother and spouse recently and I am at odds. I can stay by her side and wait until the loss subsides, or I can move on with another Scorpio who is just as beautiful and closer to me. I love many of the qualities of the Scorpio who just lost her spouse and mother, but how long will I have to wait until she is ready to move forward? She shows me devotion and shows me I am important to her, but she told me her whole heart is not here because of her pain. In the meanwhile, there are other women who are ready to move forward. But the Scorpio is mature, beautiful, a high-earner, and took her of her dying spouse until the day he left this earth. I think a woman like this is rare and special. But I have never had to wait for a woman, and so I am in unfamiliar territory. Libras you all are fair, give me some of your flawless advice.

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Which one do you like better?

If she is rare, you wait.

But that could be my scorp Venus talking.

Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Posted by jeane
If she is rare, you wait.

But that could be my scorp Venus talking.

Thanks for your reply, do you have some advice on how to do that? I am dead serious! Meaning do I pull back but date others while waiting for her?

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Thanks for your non-judgmental reply.

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Posted by jeane
If she is rare, you wait.

But that could be my scorp Venus talking.

Thanks for your reply, do you have some advice on how to do that? I am dead serious! Meaning do I pull back but date others while waiting for her?

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it's hard because i realise i run absolutely against the grain in my behaviour. i wouldn't expect others to replicate it but since you ask, i wold remain as devoted to her as she is to me.

i wait. it means no one else. i wait until she is ready - how ever long that takes. you run the risk of waiting too long and then you find out there is nothing there. i really depends on how strongly you feel about her and how confident you are that you have a future together.

i know others will say, date and then if it's meant to be then it will be but for me personally? i would put myself in emotional cryogenics until she is ready. be her friend. it's probably not the best advice.

I think you're already into the lady whose going through a rough patch, just that you won't let yourself be with her. I think you should wait keep things as they are until you decide, making a quick decision will likely cause a strain on you

Posted by yupvirgoo
You should wait 🙂

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Thanks for your non-judgmental reply.

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I am sorry it was judgmental. But if you look at it from how I read it, you start with Libra can get anyone they want. Then ask for advise about putting a timeline on someone else's hurt to increase your own happiness.

Let's say you do stick around and wait for her, what if by the time she is no longer in pain and realises you are not the person for her and she only wants to be friends. You could have missed out on an opportunity for happiness with someone else.

As hard as it is to accept, our emotions can cloud our judgement. And someone who has been deeply hurt by the loss of a person they were devoted to should not be rushed to move on. They will when they are ready, if you really care for this person, you would have been willing to wait for them, be there for them and not need the advice of strangers. You would be willing to show the devotion she is capable of giving.

It may sound harsh but I believe if people are meant to be together they will be, without time limits.

I hope you find happiness with whomever you choose.

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Posted by jeane
If she is rare, you wait.

But that could be my scorp Venus talking.

Thanks for your reply, do you have some advice on how to do that? I am dead serious! Meaning do I pull back but date others while waiting for her?

it's hard because i realise i run absolutely against the grain in my behaviour. i wouldn't expect others to replicate it but since you ask, i wold remain as devoted to her as she is to me.

i wait. it means no one else. i wait until she is ready - how ever long that takes. you run the risk of waiting too long and then you find out there is nothing there. i really depends on how strongly you feel about her and how confident you are that you have a future together.

i know others will say, date and then if it's meant to be then it will be but for me personally? i would put myself in emotional cryogenics until she is ready. be her friend. it's probably not the best advice.

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I think you're already into the lady whose going through a rough patch, just that you won't let yourself be with her. I think you should wait keep things as they are until you decide, making a quick decision will likely cause a strain on you

Great insight, thanks for your reply.

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Posted by yupvirgoo
You should wait 🙂

Thanks for your reply, any suggestions on how?

Be there for her.

Do little things that you think would make it easier for her, to cheer her up 🙂

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Thanks for your non-judgmental reply.

I am sorry it was judgmental. But if you look at it from how I read it, you start with Libra can get anyone they want. Then ask for advise about putting a timeline on someone else's hurt to increase your own happiness.

Let's say you do stick around and wait for her, what if by the time she is no longer in pain and realises you are not the person for her and she only wants to be friends. You could have missed out on an opportunity for happiness with someone else.

As hard as it is to accept, our emotions can cloud our judgement. And someone who has been deeply hurt by the loss of a person they were devoted to should not be rushed to move on. They will when they are ready, if you really care for this person, you would have been willing to wait for them, be there for them and not need the advice of strangers. You would be willing to show the devotion she is capable of giving.

It may sound harsh but I believe if people are meant to be together they will be, without time limits.

I hope you find happiness with whomever you choose.

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Sorry for not being perfect and using the forum for advice in areas where I need help. Your Majesty

Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Thanks for your non-judgmental reply.

I am sorry it was judgmental. But if you look at it from how I read it, you start with Libra can get anyone they want. Then ask for advise about putting a timeline on someone else's hurt to increase your own happiness.

Let's say you do stick around and wait for her, what if by the time she is no longer in pain and realises you are not the person for her and she only wants to be friends. You could have missed out on an opportunity for happiness with someone else.

As hard as it is to accept, our emotions can cloud our judgement. And someone who has been deeply hurt by the loss of a person they were devoted to should not be rushed to move on. They will when they are ready, if you really care for this person, you would have been willing to wait for them, be there for them and not need the advice of strangers. You would be willing to show the devotion she is capable of giving.

It may sound harsh but I believe if people are meant to be together they will be, without time limits.

I hope you find happiness with whomever you choose.

Yep, you also gotta communicate better with your loved one OP

I dont believe in saying what is convinient to my partner. I tell them what I feel, think, etc its the most respectful and effective thing to do. Be a friend above all then think with your weiner afterwards

Weiners betray lol

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Weiners betray lol. Actually mate, I met her on a dating app just a little over a week ago. I am not sure the reason for placing a profile on a dating site, if one is not ready to date? But hey different strokes for different folks. What are your thoughts now that you have this additional information?

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Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

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Well that changes things.

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Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

Well that changes things.

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LOL Okay.

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Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

Well that changes things.

LOL Okay.

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Are both these woman on the same dating site?

How long ago did the lady loose both her mum and partner?

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Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Thanks for your non-judgmental reply.

I am sorry it was judgmental. But if you look at it from how I read it, you start with Libra can get anyone they want. Then ask for advise about putting a timeline on someone else's hurt to increase your own happiness.

Let's say you do stick around and wait for her, what if by the time she is no longer in pain and realises you are not the person for her and she only wants to be friends. You could have missed out on an opportunity for happiness with someone else.

As hard as it is to accept, our emotions can cloud our judgement. And someone who has been deeply hurt by the loss of a person they were devoted to should not be rushed to move on. They will when they are ready, if you really care for this person, you would have been willing to wait for them, be there for them and not need the advice of strangers. You would be willing to show the devotion she is capable of giving.

It may sound harsh but I believe if people are meant to be together they will be, without time limits.

I hope you find happiness with whomever you choose.

Yep, you also gotta communicate better with your loved one OP

I dont believe in saying what is convinient to my partner. I tell them what I feel, think, etc its the most respectful and effective thing to do. Be a friend above all then think with your weiner afterwards

Weiners betray lol

Weiners betray lol. Actually mate, I met her on a dating app just a little over a week ago. I am not sure the reason for placing a profile on a dating site, if one is not ready to date? But hey different strokes for different folks. What are your thoughts now that you have this additional information?

Same thoughts. Obviously you're attracted to her, but now you have feelings or "respect" ?

So follow through

Weiner betray in that they don't care for feelings or respect, that's up to the man

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Great question.. wow! Actually mate, I think I have respect for her.

The negative side of her - She has a morose view of herself; I think she is stunning! She refers to herself as "old". and "un-attractive".

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Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

They are on the same dating site in two separate states. Ashley - lost her mother in June, and her spouse last Xmas.

Well that changes things.

LOL Okay.

Are both these woman on the same dating site?

How long ago did the lady loose both her mum and partner?

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Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Thanks for your non-judgmental reply.

I am sorry it was judgmental. But if you look at it from how I read it, you start with Libra can get anyone they want. Then ask for advise about putting a timeline on someone else's hurt to increase your own happiness.

Let's say you do stick around and wait for her, what if by the time she is no longer in pain and realises you are not the person for her and she only wants to be friends. You could have missed out on an opportunity for happiness with someone else.

As hard as it is to accept, our emotions can cloud our judgement. And someone who has been deeply hurt by the loss of a person they were devoted to should not be rushed to move on. They will when they are ready, if you really care for this person, you would have been willing to wait for them, be there for them and not need the advice of strangers. You would be willing to show the devotion she is capable of giving.

It may sound harsh but I believe if people are meant to be together they will be, without time limits.

I hope you find happiness with whomever you choose.

Yep, you also gotta communicate better with your loved one OP

I dont believe in saying what is convinient to my partner. I tell them what I feel, think, etc its the most respectful and effective thing to do. Be a friend above all then think with your weiner afterwards

Weiners betray lol

Weiners betray lol. Actually mate, I met her on a dating app just a little over a week ago. I am not sure the reason for placing a profile on a dating site, if one is not ready to date? But hey different strokes for different folks. What are your thoughts now that you have this additional information?

Same thoughts. Obviously you're attracted to her, but now you have feelings or "respect" ?

So follow through

Weiner betray in that they don't care for feelings or respect, that's up to the man

Great question.. wow! Actually mate, I think I have respect for her.

The negative side of her - She has a morose view of herself; I think she is stunning! She refers to herself as "old". and "un-attractive".

Yeah scorps can be negative and don't see how attractive they really are. Maybe you can show her the bright side

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we should probably pretend this thread didn't happen either.

Thanks for your insight...

elle-

Scorpio Trash of DXP

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Weiners betray lol. Actually mate, I met her on a dating app just a little over a week ago. I am not sure the reason for placing a profile on a dating site, if one is not ready to date? But hey different strokes for different folks. What are your thoughts now that you have this additional information?

12 days? you need to cool your jets and not worry about this sort of thing just yet. yeah be her friend. see how things play out. don't worry about getting into her pants just yet. just get to know her personally and see how you feel.

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Weiners betray lol. Actually mate, I met her on a dating app just a little over a week ago. I am not sure the reason for placing a profile on a dating site, if one is not ready to date? But hey different strokes for different folks. What are your thoughts now that you have this additional information?

12 days? you need to cool your jets and not worry about this sort of thing just yet. yeah be her friend. see how things play out. don't worry about getting into her pants just yet. just get to know her personally and see how you feel.

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Great Insight thanks Jeane! I am going to follow it.

Posted by Koniuchaa
You said she lost her mother and spouse recently? Seems a bit fast to already be on a dating site, for me.

I would take it slow

Thanks for your reply, yeah I am backing off.

Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

I do like this approach ...

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Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

Well that changes things.

LOL Okay.

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it does change things - you may not see it but it does

set out to be her friend for 3 months and see what happens - you will get your answer soon enough!

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Posted by jeane
If she is rare, you wait.

But that could be my scorp Venus talking.

Thanks for your reply, do you have some advice on how to do that? I am dead serious! Meaning do I pull back but date others while waiting for her?

it's hard because i realise i run absolutely against the grain in my behaviour. i wouldn't expect others to replicate it but since you ask, i wold remain as devoted to her as she is to me.

i wait. it means no one else. i wait until she is ready - how ever long that takes. you run the risk of waiting too long and then you find out there is nothing there. i really depends on how strongly you feel about her and how confident you are that you have a future together.

i know others will say, date and then if it's meant to be then it will be but for me personally? i would put myself in emotional cryogenics until she is ready. be her friend. it's probably not the best advice.

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Oh my god! You just made my day with that reply....hopeless romantics still exist... 🙂

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Agree with this.. Although I'm not at all surprised this came from a Libra.. Would have been my first guess.. Just look at the first line "getting women is as easy as breathing" That's a Libra line if I ever saw one.

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Really? Getting woman is THAT easy if you're a libra? Why? You know what to say? Libras usually look good? What exactly?

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I can't speak for all Libras, but getting women is as easy as breathing, but I met this amazing Scorpio woman crippled by the pain and loss of losing her mother and spouse recently and I am at odds. I can stay by her side and wait until the loss subsides, or I can move on with another Scorpio who is just as beautiful and closer to me. I love many of the qualities of the Scorpio who just lost her spouse and mother, but how long will I have to wait until she is ready to move forward? She shows me devotion and shows me I am important to her, but she told me her whole heart is not here because of her pain. In the meanwhile, there are other women who are ready to move forward. But the Scorpio is mature, beautiful, a high-earner, and took her of her dying spouse until the day he left this earth. I think a woman like this is rare and special. But I have never had to wait for a woman, and so I am in unfamiliar territory. Libras you all are fair, give me some of your flawless advice.

Good things come to those who wait.

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Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

I do like this approach ...

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tcta thanks for taking the time to assist in this very delicate matter. We are not actually "friends" I just met her on a dating site on November 17.

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Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

Well that changes things.

LOL Okay.

it does change things - you may not see it but it does

set out to be her friend for 3 months and see what happens - you will get your answer soon enough!

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3 Months hmm. LOL

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I can't speak for all Libras, but getting women is as easy as breathing, but I met this amazing Scorpio woman crippled by the pain and loss of losing her mother and spouse recently and I am at odds. I can stay by her side and wait until the loss subsides, or I can move on with another Scorpio who is just as beautiful and closer to me. I love many of the qualities of the Scorpio who just lost her spouse and mother, but how long will I have to wait until she is ready to move forward? She shows me devotion and shows me I am important to her, but she told me her whole heart is not here because of her pain. In the meanwhile, there are other women who are ready to move forward. But the Scorpio is mature, beautiful, a high-earner, and took her of her dying spouse until the day he left this earth. I think a woman like this is rare and special. But I have never had to wait for a woman, and so I am in unfamiliar territory. Libras you all are fair, give me some of your flawless advice.

Drop and send her my way. I'm not being funny. Drop her and send her packing to me. That's all I ask.

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You got it buddy.

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If she is rare, you wait.

But that could be my scorp Venus talking.

Thanks for your reply, do you have some advice on how to do that? I am dead serious! Meaning do I pull back but date others while waiting for her?

it's hard because i realise i run absolutely against the grain in my behaviour. i wouldn't expect others to replicate it but since you ask, i wold remain as devoted to her as she is to me.

i wait. it means no one else. i wait until she is ready - how ever long that takes. you run the risk of waiting too long and then you find out there is nothing there. i really depends on how strongly you feel about her and how confident you are that you have a future together.

i know others will say, date and then if it's meant to be then it will be but for me personally? i would put myself in emotional cryogenics until she is ready. be her friend. it's probably not the best advice.

Why wait just go with the flow

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Thanks for replying, not sure what that means....or what that would look like.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Agree with this.. Although I'm not at all surprised this came from a Libra.. Would have been my first guess.. Just look at the first line "getting women is as easy as breathing" That's a Libra line if I ever saw one.

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Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

Well that changes things.

LOL Okay.

it does change things - you may not see it but it does

set out to be her friend for 3 months and see what happens - you will get your answer soon enough!

3 Months hmm. LOL

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I would bet it won't take that long ...

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Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Agree with this.. Although I'm not at all surprised this came from a Libra.. Would have been my first guess.. Just look at the first line "getting women is as easy as breathing" That's a Libra line if I ever saw one.

Really? Getting woman is THAT easy if you're a libra? Why? You know what to say? Libras usually look good? What exactly?

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Cherrylips, thanks for replying, It's been that way since the 5th grade. Effortless! Astrologers say it's the charm, I call it respect and good manners. A Libra man who finds a Scorpio is a very lucky man!

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Dude seriously. she is going through a bad time and all you worried about is how long you have to wait for her to get over it.

I have no words.

How about you just be a friend to her, it's what she needs! if things progress from there it's a natural flow. Being someone's friend does not stop you from seeing others.

Blimey. Speechless that this has come from a Libra.

Agree with this.. Although I'm not at all surprised this came from a Libra.. Would have been my first guess.. Just look at the first line "getting women is as easy as breathing" That's a Libra line if I ever saw one.

Thanks for replying re: "getting women is as easy as breathing" I am sorry women are attracted to good manners and respect, perhaps I should try rude comments - it appears to be a very effective turn-off!

Good manners and respect are not seen on the surface.. your appearance is. That's what catches the bitches attention and makes it so easy for ya'll.. lol

But a Libra man with good manners and respect.. few and far between, so good on you 🙂

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Blackphase, LOL! I have my moments, but for the most part I am average-looking. Re: Libras with good manners are few and far between - it sounds like the "Law of Attraction" - like attracts like- hasn't been too kind to you. Sorry about that.

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I can't speak for all Libras, but getting women is as easy as breathing, but I met this amazing Scorpio woman crippled by the pain and loss of losing her mother and spouse recently and I am at odds. I can stay by her side and wait until the loss subsides, or I can move on with another Scorpio who is just as beautiful and closer to me. I love many of the qualities of the Scorpio who just lost her spouse and mother, but how long will I have to wait until she is ready to move forward? She shows me devotion and shows me I am important to her, but she told me her whole heart is not here because of her pain. In the meanwhile, there are other women who are ready to move forward. But the Scorpio is mature, beautiful, a high-earner, and took her of her dying spouse until the day he left this earth. I think a woman like this is rare and special. But I have never had to wait for a woman, and so I am in unfamiliar territory. Libras you all are fair, give me some of your flawless advice.

Drop and send her my way. I'm not being funny. Drop her and send her packing to me. That's all I ask.

You got it buddy.

Does she in California?

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Naw bro, sorry about that, but I got you..I will keep my eyes open for you.

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Posted by communicator
I can't speak for all Libras, but getting women is as easy as breathing, but I met this amazing Scorpio woman crippled by the pain and loss of losing her mother and spouse recently and I am at odds. I can stay by her side and wait until the loss subsides, or I can move on with another Scorpio who is just as beautiful and closer to me. I love many of the qualities of the Scorpio who just lost her spouse and mother, but how long will I have to wait until she is ready to move forward? She shows me devotion and shows me I am important to her, but she told me her whole heart is not here because of her pain. In the meanwhile, there are other women who are ready to move forward. But the Scorpio is mature, beautiful, a high-earner, and took her of her dying spouse until the day he left this earth. I think a woman like this is rare and special. But I have never had to wait for a woman, and so I am in unfamiliar territory. Libras you all are fair, give me some of your flawless advice.

Good things come to those who wait.

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Thanks for replying - you are right.

Posted by Koniuchaa
You said she lost her mother and spouse recently? Seems a bit fast to already be on a dating site, for me.

I would take it slow

Koniuchaa thanks for your reply. Yes her mother died in June, and her spouse died last Xmas. I agree....

OP, I am not sure I understand fully...

you met her on a dating site... you are talking (messages? texting? calling? videochat?)

she is miles away....

she recently lost her mother and a spouse.... and she is already on a dating site.... did she tell you about how she supported and sticked around her sick husband?

I mean.... I dont want to accuse her of lies, but.... did you meet her in person? do you have common friends?

Who can confirm that her story is true?

It is very fishy..... but maybe when you answer my questions, the whole situation will be clearer

PS. Sorry to say, and I feel bad if her story is actually true, but I read a thread on another site, where a woman was asking: Are people attracted to widows?

And I agree with some others, your language need to change a bit🙂 🙂 you know, starting your OP with: getting women as easy... etc

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Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Which one do you like better?

Thanks for your reply, I like them both, however I respect the Scorpio who stood by her spouse more.

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Do you like her because you can't have her, she's not as easy as you're used to etc? Sometimes that might make someone more appealing. I've only read the first few posts but will read the rest but I just wondered this point.

Nobody has the answer to the 'how long is a piece of string' question. You could wait for a very, very long time for someone you think you like, hoping that once she is ready to embark on a new relationship that she will see you as an amazing man and have the same level of feelings that you have for her.

The danger here is that she may not reciprocate at all or on the same level. Meanwhile, many others who are ready to be with you have been passed by.

Where is your Venus? In Scorp?

I will read on.

Posted by Pandora101
OP, I am not sure I understand fully...

you met her on a dating site... you are talking (messages? texting? calling? videochat?)

she is miles away....

she recently lost her mother and a spouse.... and she is already on a dating site.... did she tell you about how she supported and sticked around her sick husband?

I mean.... I dont want to accuse her of lies, but.... did you meet her in person? do you have common friends?

Who can confirm that her story is true?

It is very fishy..... but maybe when you answer my questions, the whole situation will be clearer

PS. Sorry to say, and I feel bad if her story is actually true, but I read a thread on another site, where a woman was asking: Are people attracted to widows?

And I agree with some others, your language need to change a bit🙂 🙂 you know, starting your OP with: getting women as easy... etc

Thank you for replying; no I haven't met her in person she lives about 1500 miles away and we just met on November a little under two weeks. Mutual friends? No we didn't meet on Facebook, we met on dating app. I haven't the slightest idea who can confirm her story but now you have me thinking.

Regarding "Getting women is as easy as breathing" Yeah next time I will just keep it a secret.

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Posted by Koniuchaa
You said she lost her mother and spouse recently? Seems a bit fast to already be on a dating site, for me.

I would take it slow

Koniuchaa thanks for your reply. Yes her mother died in June, and her spouse died last Xmas. I agree....

I do like the libra man Scorpio woman combination though.

So go find yourself a Scorpio woman ?

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Are you available? Just Kidding! I am determined to find a Scorpio woman!

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Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

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WTF?

Don't be a knob.

You haven't actually met this person. What you HAVE met is an online persona.

Your last line says it all.

'I just never met a woman like her'

Exactly. You have never met.

Unless you're prepared to travel the 1500 miles to actually meet her and continue doing so each week to build a relationship in reality then swipe right or whatever it is on the dating app and find another one.

Preferably one more local and available.

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Posted by Koniuchaa

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Posted by Koniuchaa
You said she lost her mother and spouse recently? Seems a bit fast to already be on a dating site, for me.

I would take it slow

Koniuchaa thanks for your reply. Yes her mother died in June, and her spouse died last Xmas. I agree....

I do like the libra man Scorpio woman combination though.

So go find yourself a Scorpio woman ?

Really?

But aren't they a little too different?

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Thanks for your question. A Scorpio provides single-handed devotion to the partnership unmatched by any other sign; Libra is the sign of partnership.

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Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

WTF?

Don't be a knob.

You haven't actually met this person. What you HAVE met is an online persona.

Your last line says it all.

'I just never met a woman like her'

Exactly. You have never met.

Unless you're prepared to travel the 1500 miles to actually meet her and continue doing so each week to build a relationship in reality then swipe right or whatever it is on the dating app and find another one.

Preferably one more local and available.

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Posted by AgentP911

Posted by communicator

Posted by tiziani
These are decisions you should take together. And if she's not willing to make decisions with you, then you already know you're on your own.

All of that is separate from being supportive of someone as a friend who's been through a loss.

Thanks for your reply, I just met her on a dating app 12 days ago and she is 1500 miles away. So far, I just never met a woman like her.

WTF?

Don't be a knob.

You haven't actually met this person. What you HAVE met is an online persona.

Your last line says it all.

'I just never met a woman like her'

Exactly. You have never met.

Unless you're prepared to travel the 1500 miles to actually meet her and continue doing so each week to build a relationship in reality then swipe right or whatever it is on the dating app and find another one.

Preferably one more local and available.

Thanks, "a knob!" LOL! I assure you my reasons for getting insight was definitely not to aspire to be a "handle on a door or drawer shaped like a ball." Your metaphors are admirable! But seriously, I think you make a lot of sense.

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That's not what a knob means here...