
caplady28
@caplady28
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Posted by pisceanloves
I'm sorry to hear that. You should give him space he asked for, that means avoiding him completely and NO texts or calls. Just ignore him. Online contact means nothing honey and it will take you nowhere. Just ignore him and he will come back most likely soonest he realizes he can't be without you. Let him miss you to the point that he wants to see you in person




Posted by caplady28
Thank you so much to the two of you for responding! I greatly appreciate it! This past month has been one up and down crazy ride.? And I totally get what you mean by just cutting contact completely. I've thought about it but there's this annoying nagging thought in the back of my head that tries to convince me that if I were to cut contact, he would end up believing that I'm over him and he would just get up and walk away for good. So I feel like the reason why I've kept so much contact is because I want him to always know I'm there? But I realize that that may actually hinder things. You are right. But when do I know when it's the right time to reciprocate contact?
So even though we have been speaking every single day, I should just cut cold turkey? I haven't talked to him at all today.
Also, I'm a Capricorn Sun and Libra Moon.


Posted by caplady28Stop worrying about it and move on.. Sounded like he wanted to use you to help him get over his break up with YOU.Lame.
How crazy. I haven't heard from him ever since I posted this. Which isn't long but it went from every day to nothing out of nowhere haha
I have tried speaking to him on the matter before and expressing my feelings. But that didn't work none.
So I suppose I will just be here doing my thing and just let him reach out to me when he feels like it?

Posted by caplady28He's texting you because you text him back. He's calling you because you take the calls. You've allowed this fuckery to go on when you should've screened his calls. Your basically giving him the emotional relationship gf experience without actually getting anything in return. He can go out and date, kiss, fuck other women and then contact you for his emotional well being. AND YOUR ALLOWING THIS.
This is just so confusing to me. Me and my Libra officially dated for 3 years. And within the last year, things got rocky. Especially in the last months due to lack of proper communication. And then he decided to break up with me. I was devastated. I was and am still in love with him. He says he loves me but that he feels he needs to think with his head and not his heart. All the while he's crying.
But not even a day later, he's texting me every single day multiple times a day. It's been over a month of this and when I bring up the possibility of getting back together he refuses the idea.
I've heard of Libras coming back after breakups but mine never officially left. He just broke up with me all the while keeping constant contact. I don't think a day has gone by where we didn't text all day. And sometimes we talk on the phone and it goes great. What is happening here?


Posted by caplady28How arrogant of him to just assume that you will put your life on hold for him! This is how little he thinks of you.
He also tells me that as if right now he can't be with me but that he doesn't know what he'd think a month from now or 2 months from now or yada yada..

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by caplady28He's texting you because you text him back. He's calling you because you take the calls. You've allowed this fuckery to go on when you should've screened his calls. Your basically giving him the emotional relationship gf experience without actually getting anything in return. He can go out and date, kiss, fuck other women and then contact you for his emotional well being. AND YOUR ALLOWING THIS.
This is just so confusing to me. Me and my Libra officially dated for 3 years. And within the last year, things got rocky. Especially in the last months due to lack of proper communication. And then he decided to break up with me. I was devastated. I was and am still in love with him. He says he loves me but that he feels he needs to think with his head and not his heart. All the while he's crying.
But not even a day later, he's texting me every single day multiple times a day. It's been over a month of this and when I bring up the possibility of getting back together he refuses the idea.
I've heard of Libras coming back after breakups but mine never officially left. He just broke up with me all the while keeping constant contact. I don't think a day has gone by where we didn't text all day. And sometimes we talk on the phone and it goes great. What is happening here?
If you really want him back you need to cut off all contact. If he breaks up with you then that means he doesn't get to benefit at all from your presence. You can't miss something if it's not gone...and right now you not gone from his life. Can you see that??
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Posted by infires
Sounds like he found someone..
I hope it doesn't sound cruel but it's the harsh reality, he broke up with you because he was unsure..and wanted to see what's out there
Like most libras, he might decide to come after a month or so but just move on, you can be his friend if you want..but that's it. There's no no future with a guy like this


Posted by caplady28To keep it plain and simple
This is just so confusing to me. Me and my Libra officially dated for 3 years. And within the last year, things got rocky. Especially in the last months due to lack of proper communication. And then he decided to break up with me. I was devastated. I was and am still in love with him. He says he loves me but that he feels he needs to think with his head and not his heart. All the while he's crying.
But not even a day later, he's texting me every single day multiple times a day. It's been over a month of this and when I bring up the possibility of getting back together he refuses the idea.
I've heard of Libras coming back after breakups but mine never officially left. He just broke up with me all the while keeping constant contact. I don't think a day has gone by where we didn't text all day. And sometimes we talk on the phone and it goes great. What is happening here?

Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by caplady28He's texting you because you text him back. He's calling you because you take the calls. You've allowed this fuckery to go on when you should've screened his calls. Your basically giving him the emotional relationship gf experience without actually getting anything in return. He can go out and date, kiss, fuck other women and then contact you for his emotional well being. AND YOUR ALLOWING THIS.
This is just so confusing to me. Me and my Libra officially dated for 3 years. And within the last year, things got rocky. Especially in the last months due to lack of proper communication. And then he decided to break up with me. I was devastated. I was and am still in love with him. He says he loves me but that he feels he needs to think with his head and not his heart. All the while he's crying.
But not even a day later, he's texting me every single day multiple times a day. It's been over a month of this and when I bring up the possibility of getting back together he refuses the idea.
I've heard of Libras coming back after breakups but mine never officially left. He just broke up with me all the while keeping constant contact. I don't think a day has gone by where we didn't text all day. And sometimes we talk on the phone and it goes great. What is happening here?
If you really want him back you need to cut off all contact. If he breaks up with you then that means he doesn't get to benefit at all from your presence. You can't miss something if it's not gone...and right now you not gone from his life. Can you see that??
I know I am a bytch but you are meanest Pisces female I have seen on this site. ☺??
I suspect you don't like people to hurt and you want to shake some sense into them.
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Posted by ShrewdsharpThank you so much for caring.❤ I sway between feelings of sadness and anger. I cry when I need to since I know holding it in will do no good. :\
Are you still feeling devastated? I hope not...I hate for people to cry.?

Posted by Algol-RisingWhy would someone leave just to plot getting back together? I don't see why anyone would do that haha
When a guy with a Libra Moon did this to me it was because he was plotting getting back together with me. I have no idea if that is happening in this case.

Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by caplady28Well, in my case, I was acting like a nutjob, and he hoped that if he left me alone for a while, I'd get help. I did.Posted by Algol-RisingWhy would someone leave just to plot getting back together? I don't see why anyone would do that haha
When a guy with a Libra Moon did this to me it was because he was plotting getting back together with me. I have no idea if that is happening in this case.click to expand

Posted by bumboklattHe's Cancer Moon hahaha
Typical Libra energy. You just gotta cut off all communication to show that your serious. Also if has any cancer or water placements he's just gonna beat around the bush for ages.

Posted by bumboklattHahaha! Feels good to laugh at him for once :pPosted by caplady28I had a feeling. Expect him to cry and whine all the way homePosted by bumboklattHe's Cancer Moon hahaha
Typical Libra energy. You just gotta cut off all communication to show that your serious. Also if has any cancer or water placements he's just gonna beat around the bush for ages.click to expand

Posted by Algol-RisingHaha! He just decided to one day outright confess?Posted by caplady28Yeah, you should do that. The funny thing is if I'd known he was intentionally manipulating me, even with the best of intentions, I would have been furious. It wouldn't have worked because I would have been pissed on principle. It only worked because I saw that my bad behavior had hurt me, and I thought he was really gone (and just being nice and maybe a bit clingy). I don't think I would have done all the things to "fix" myself that I did if I'd known what he was up to. I found out YEARS later. LOLPosted by Algol-RisingPosted by caplady28Well, in my case, I was acting like a nutjob, and he hoped that if he left me alone for a while, I'd get help. I did.Posted by Algol-RisingWhy would someone leave just to plot getting back together? I don't see why anyone would do that haha
When a guy with a Libra Moon did this to me it was because he was plotting getting back together with me. I have no idea if that is happening in this case.
That's very funny cause that's very close to what is happening on my end. I deal with anxiety/depression and I tend to be senseless. But I wasn't always like that. I used to go to therapy and discontinued at some point. It was in the middle of our relationship where I started falling back on negative antics. He insisted I get more help. He blames his leaving on that. And since then, I've scheduled an appointment to get help again.
Either way, I'm still preparing myself to move on so I'm not just sitting here.
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ShrewdsharpPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by caplady28He's texting you because you text him back. He's calling you because you take the calls. You've allowed this fuckery to go on when you should've screened his calls. Your basically giving him the emotional relationship gf experience without actually getting anything in return. He can go out and date, kiss, fuck other women and then contact you for his emotional well being. AND YOUR ALLOWING THIS.
This is just so confusing to me. Me and my Libra officially dated for 3 years. And within the last year, things got rocky. Especially in the last months due to lack of proper communication. And then he decided to break up with me. I was devastated. I was and am still in love with him. He says he loves me but that he feels he needs to think with his head and not his heart. All the while he's crying.
But not even a day later, he's texting me every single day multiple times a day. It's been over a month of this and when I bring up the possibility of getting back together he refuses the idea.
I've heard of Libras coming back after breakups but mine never officially left. He just broke up with me all the while keeping constant contact. I don't think a day has gone by where we didn't text all day. And sometimes we talk on the phone and it goes great. What is happening here?
If you really want him back you need to cut off all contact. If he breaks up with you then that means he doesn't get to benefit at all from your presence. You can't miss something if it's not gone...and right now you not gone from his life. Can you see that??
I know I am a bytch but you are meanest Pisces female I have seen on this site. ☺??
I suspect you don't like people to hurt and you want to shake some sense into them.
You obviously haven't seen much of P-Angel then. ? ? ?
My intention isn't to be mean, just keeping it ?
I've been strung along before and it's only ends up being a waste of time.
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Posted by caplady28You know what you can let go in any capacity that is best for you. When I left California to relocate in the South I left a 10-year relationship with a Capricorn and I'm a Libra. It was quite devastating but you know what I did for the first year I kept telling myself "any day now he's going to fly out here any day now any day now we're going to get back together again." And I held on to that in my head in order to not have to deal with a blow from the break-up that was too severe to function.Posted by ShrewdsharpThank you so much for caring.❤ I sway between feelings of sadness and anger. I cry when I need to since I know holding it in will do no good. :\
Are you still feeling devastated? I hope not...I hate for people to cry.?click to expand

Posted by bumboklattMakes a lot of sense.Posted by caplady28You just gotta rationalize it cause he sure wouldn'tPosted by bumboklattHahaha! Feels good to laugh at him for once :pPosted by caplady28I had a feeling. Expect him to cry and whine all the way homePosted by bumboklattHe's Cancer Moon hahaha
Typical Libra energy. You just gotta cut off all communication to show that your serious. Also if has any cancer or water placements he's just gonna beat around the bush for ages.
His sun is trying to leave but his moon has a tough time letting go, which creates conflict within
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Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by caplady28He had reasons for confessing. Old stuff coming out. And then this bomb. LOL I thought it was hilarious, but at the time I would have exploded.Posted by Algol-RisingHaha! He just decided to one day outright confess?Posted by caplady28Yeah, you should do that. The funny thing is if I'd known he was intentionally manipulating me, even with the best of intentions, I would have been furious. It wouldn't have worked because I would have been pissed on principle. It only worked because I saw that my bad behavior had hurt me, and I thought he was really gone (and just being nice and maybe a bit clingy). I don't think I would have done all the things to "fix" myself that I did if I'd known what he was up to. I found out YEARS later. LOLPosted by Algol-RisingPosted by caplady28Well, in my case, I was acting like a nutjob, and he hoped that if he left me alone for a while, I'd get help. I did.Posted by Algol-RisingWhy would someone leave just to plot getting back together? I don't see why anyone would do that haha
When a guy with a Libra Moon did this to me it was because he was plotting getting back together with me. I have no idea if that is happening in this case.
That's very funny cause that's very close to what is happening on my end. I deal with anxiety/depression and I tend to be senseless. But I wasn't always like that. I used to go to therapy and discontinued at some point. It was in the middle of our relationship where I started falling back on negative antics. He insisted I get more help. He blames his leaving on that. And since then, I've scheduled an appointment to get help again.
Either way, I'm still preparing myself to move on so I'm not just sitting here.
When he had first told me to get help in the midst of our breakup, I thought to myself "who does he think he is?" And I refused the thought.
It wasn't until some time had passed that I thought to myself, "man, I really do need to get myself together."
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Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by caplady28You know what you can let go in any capacity that is best for you. When I left California to relocate in the South I left a 10-year relationship with a Capricorn and I'm a Libra. It was quite devastating but you know what I did for the first year I kept telling myself "any day now he's going to fly out here any day now any day now we're going to get back together again." And I held on to that in my head in order to not have to deal with a blow from the break-up that was too severe to function.Posted by ShrewdsharpThank you so much for caring.❤ I sway between feelings of sadness and anger. I cry when I need to since I know holding it in will do no good. :\
Are you still feeling devastated? I hope not...I hate for people to cry.?
So it may not be time to completely let go and that's nobody's business; you let go when you're ready to let go. So hold on and let go when you're ready...let go in small dosages you know Earth signs move slow you guys stay forever and sometimes slow to leave.
It's okay I have a very strong suspicion however that this Libra is going to be back. More than likely there is a 99.9% chance that this Libra is going to return especially if you've done nothing wrong. So look at this as a break get yourself together and maybe if it's any consolation to you tell yourself that he'll be back besides the longer you don't talk to him the more likely it is that when you do call he'll pick up the phone.
But don't put any more pressure on yourself than you can bear it's just been 4 days honey.click to expand


Posted by caplady28Posted by ShrewdsharpPosted by caplady28You know what you can let go in any capacity that is best for you. When I left California to relocate in the South I left a 10-year relationship with a Capricorn and I'm a Libra. It was quite devastating but you know what I did for the first year I kept telling myself "any day now he's going to fly out here any day now any day now we're going to get back together again." And I held on to that in my head in order to not have to deal with a blow from the break-up that was too severe to function.Posted by ShrewdsharpThank you so much for caring.❤ I sway between feelings of sadness and anger. I cry when I need to since I know holding it in will do no good. :\
Are you still feeling devastated? I hope not...I hate for people to cry.?
So it may not be time to completely let go and that's nobody's business; you let go when you're ready to let go. So hold on and let go when you're ready...let go in small dosages you know Earth signs move slow you guys stay forever and sometimes slow to leave.
It's okay I have a very strong suspicion however that this Libra is going to be back. More than likely there is a 99.9% chance that this Libra is going to return especially if you've done nothing wrong. So look at this as a break get yourself together and maybe if it's any consolation to you tell yourself that he'll be back besides the longer you don't talk to him the more likely it is that when you do call he'll pick up the phone.
But don't put any more pressure on yourself than you can bear it's just been 4 days honey.
Thank you so much for your insight. That sounds like it was really rough. 😢 Sometimes I tell myself that he will be back, but I'm just so impatient. It does help a little.
I have been trying to let go in very small dosages as you say and it's been taking a lot of restraint to not get into contact. I just feel such a mess as I've never been through this before. But then again, does it ever get easier? Hahah..
I'm trying to stay busy busy busy but then when night falls it's all I wonder about haha
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But not even a day later, he's texting me every single day multiple times a day. It's been over a month of this and when I bring up the possibility of getting back together he refuses the idea.
I've heard of Libras coming back after breakups but mine never officially left. He just broke up with me all the while keeping constant contact. I don't think a day has gone by where we didn't text all day. And sometimes we talk on the phone and it goes great. What is happening here?