Libra, silent treatment/ignoring/angry ?!

Well, I met this Libra sun, Aries Moon and Scorpio moon (I've noticed he has at list three more Scorpio placements in his chart) guy like two months ago online and then irl and we were getting along really well, he treated me like a princess always caring and so attentive but then he had to return to Germany his motherland, to work and he told me it wasn't over, he would fight for us and a lot of stuff that I seriously believed and my instinct wasn't turning any red alarms or anything about this. Then after like two weeks he started to became kinda absent due to work but he was still sending me goodnight/morning messages, he even told me he was afraid I might lose interest in him cause he couldnt text me than often anymore! Then by the end of the month he had a weird attitude when we texted like I had to get the words out of him and He just sent emojis, in this time also we didnt talk everyday as I was trying to giving space to readjust and I was trying my best to make him feel supported and cared for. He wouldnt start a conversation anymore, he stopped sending gn/gm messages and sometimes even left me on read, I asked him how was he feelibg and he told me that he was so tired from work and down about his friends death that happened 2 months prior us knowing each other. He said "fuck distance" and I gave him some advice and tried to relate to him. Then we didn't speak for a week. I was busy two with my thesis and honestly My pride was taking the best of me. Finally I asked him if whats up Ive noticed u are different towards me? And he said "Nothing. Everything's fine.." Then i replied "Right. It doesnt seem like it but ok" after that he liked a post Of mine on facebook but we didnt talk for a month. I finally sent him a lenghthy text explainibg why I didnt talk, how I felt and things like that.. He left me on read and put a whatsapp status quoting "love yourself" by JB about how he didnt have his heartbroken and he wasnt crying... I sent him like 3 texts after this even apologizing without knowing wtf I did if I did anything and he keeps blatantly ignoring me and he doesnt block me, he doesnt deletes me off Facebook or unfollows me from IG, and tbh that feels really downgrading. I'm an airy Cancer having my moon in Aqua and some other Air sign placements in my chart so I get the whole space thing as I myself need it but I honestly dont get thid behavior of him!!! What do you guys think?

I meant Scorpio venus!! Damn lol

Posted by Libralula
Maybe this will help? I have ViS too but I'm still confused by his reactions. I don't understand Aries Moon sometimes.

Anyways:
http://astrolibrary.org/scorpio-in-love/

yeah a friend told me he's a living contradiction just by seeing his sun and moon! Thank you so much for the link, I have totally seen some of those traits defined there like the hard time they have to get to trust you, this unforgiveness and mean treatment! I wish I knew a way to get him to talk to me again...

Posted by 2Moon
here we go.....
another one cancer-libra relationship ruined..

cancer and libra = this is NOT going to work. but you guys dont get it...

( dj khaled be like: another one... another one! ) lool

Lol since he's a watery Libra and I'm an airy Cancer I thought it had a chance but I'm pretty much hopeless at this point, I just need to understand why he treats me like I'm dead

Hi! As someone who has an aries moon, perhaps I can help you out.

In general, we are very quick to act which is both good and bad. Think of the Ancient Spartan warriors- that's exactly how we are. Rough, tough, bold, direct and we don't back down from a challenge. On the flip side, we are quietly insecure and seeking acceptance, quick to anger and quick to get over it, impulsive, a bit immature and prideful.

With a libra sun and an aries moon, he's in direct contradiction with himself. While he wants people to think of him as logical, collected and fair, deep down inside he's a raging ball of testosterone. As a libra, he already has some tendencies to "disappear" when he's clearing his head. Couple that with his natural desire to try to suppress what he probably views as negative traits with his moon sign and you're going to get a lot of weirdness.

I think the best thing you can do is let him go. Cancers ( I have my 5th house in cancer, so I don't judge lol!) can be quite emotional and do not want a partner that's hot and cold. He's always going to be in conflict with himself and he secretly with the Scorpio moon, loves intense drama. Try being light, airy and carefree and he might come back but I think on this one you need to let him come to you.

Good luck!

Posted by Nyleve
Well, I met this Libra sun, Aries Moon and Scorpio moon (I've noticed he has at list three more Scorpio placements in his chart) guy like two months ago online and then irl and we were getting along really well, he treated me like a princess always caring and so attentive but then he had to return to Germany his motherland, to work and he told me it wasn't over, he would fight for us and a lot of stuff that I seriously believed and my instinct wasn't turning any red alarms or anything about this. Then after like two weeks he started to became kinda absent due to work but he was still sending me goodnight/morning messages, he even told me he was afraid I might lose interest in him cause he couldnt text me than often anymore! Then by the end of the month he had a weird attitude when we texted like I had to get the words out of him and He just sent emojis, in this time also we didnt talk everyday as I was trying to giving space to readjust and I was trying my best to make him feel supported and cared for. He wouldnt start a conversation anymore, he stopped sending gn/gm messages and sometimes even left me on read, I asked him how was he feelibg and he told me that he was so tired from work and down about his friends death that happened 2 months prior us knowing each other. He said "fuck distance" and I gave him some advice and tried to relate to him. Then we didn't speak for a week. I was busy two with my thesis and honestly My pride was taking the best of me. Finally I asked him if whats up Ive noticed u are different towards me? And he said "Nothing. Everything's fine.." Then i repl

Posted by busyeyes88
Maybe he realised with the best intentions he can no longer do an LDR and hopes you are smart enough to also see.this?!!

Then why don't just say so?... He knows I'm the type to not freak out and go crazy and that I know shit happens

mmm Scorpio placements can equal a disaster. They over power the Libra Sun. I'm sorry but it's the truth. Speaking from my own experience and what I have heard from others and have seen as a pattern (and to be fair it isn't just libra). It would actually be ideal if you knew where these were. They will not delete you from social media and messengers and this is due to them wanting to "keep tabs on you" and see how you are getting a long without them. To them, you still are theirs. It's as if you are being studied from afar but their emotions are so deep (and the sad thing is you probably never truly knew 'how deep') it's like they are letting go without letting you go but they won't say because to them, they think the truth wouldn't fir in your head, OR they really don't know how to handle their emotions themselves. -Mine admitted this to me once.

You will drive yourself crazy if you constantly attempt to analyze it. Mine did this and I went through the same thing. Just dropped me and I never heard from them again and it was done over a text. But they sign in on Google Hangouts now and then to see when I was last on. It's like they are testing you to see if you will attempt contact, but believe me, don't do it. Rumor is they may be back, who knows. But you can't wait around because you'll be waiting for a very, very long time, and that's if they even choose to have anything to do with you again. If you already texted him once, leave it alone. He got it and it's his turn to get back to you if he chooses to do so. But again, don't wait around. You need to go about living your life again.

Posted by Vixen2
Libra men...
so easy to trick into coming to the darkside...

right! Now I'm like "I didnt fall for you! You tripped me" lol I actually wanna give him a round of applause for fooling me like this

Posted by gemguyaz34
mmm Scorpio placements can equal a disaster. They over power the Libra Sun. I'm sorry but it's the truth. Speaking from my own experience and what I have heard from others and have seen as a pattern (and to be fair it isn't just libra). It would actually be ideal if you knew where these were. They will not delete you from social media and messengers and this is due to them wanting to "keep tabs on you" and see how you are getting a long without them. To them, you still are theirs. It's as if you are being studied from afar but their emotions are so deep (and the sad thing is you probably never truly knew 'how deep') it's like they are letting go without letting you go but they won't say because to them, they think the truth wouldn't fir in your head, OR they really don't know how to handle their emotions themselves. -Mine admitted this to me once.

You will drive yourself crazy if you constantly attempt to analyze it. Mine did this and I went through the same thing. Just dropped me and I never heard from them again and it was done over a text. But they sign in on Google Hangouts now and then to see when I was last on. It's like they are testing you to see if you will attempt contact, but believe me, don't do it. Rumor is they may be back, who knows. But you can't wait around because you'll be waiting for a very, very long time, and that's if they even choose to have anything to do with you again. If you already texted him once, leave it alone. He got it and it's his turn to get back to you if he chooses to do so. But again, don't wait around. You need to go about living your life again.

Thanks! This was very interesting and I think it's true that this Venus overpowers his sun cause he even has that bad boy vibe waiting to be released and I could see some minor rage reactions where I had to tell him "babe chill out its ok". Also he had shown signs of being possessive. Im not waiting anymore Im talking to other guys and stuff but the social media issue has me still thinking about it lol Again thanks for the insight

i doubt that his scorp placements had a chance to kick in yet with you. 2 months is nothing. i think the simple answer is he got bored.

he won't tell you because he won't want to deal with the hard reality of the situation so instead would hope that is all just goes away by itself to save him the uncomfortable truth.

lol.

This one's so blatantly obvious. This is classic "Libra dude lost interest," sorry. It's a total mind fuck, but all the typical signs are there. Going in hard, living the fairy tale, and when reality hits, they start distancing, denying any change on their part, then go MIA. It's the cowards' way of ditching someone when THEY don't feel it anymore.

Assholes like this should be banned from dating. It's too much of a mind fuck for the other party to do shit like that and being so wreckless with someone else's feelings because they live in fantasy and treat everyone as something disposable if it doesn't fit their fairy tale outlook on life.

Well if thats the case, not that I was looking forward to see his ViS side because from what Ive read about ViS they're fucking nuts. Thanks!

Posted by Nyleve
Well if thats the case, not that I was looking forward to see his ViS side because from what Ive read about ViS they're fucking nuts. Thanks!

I always joke when people mention that placement. "Ruuuun!"

The Libra dudes I've personally been involved with had that placement. It made everything such a headache. ViS is fine when things are good, but when they're being flaky assholes, it's the worst thing out there. Unless the dude is evolved and has his shit together, it's most likely going to be the latter.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
lol.

This one's so blatantly obvious. This is classic "Libra dude lost interest," sorry. It's a total mind fuck, but all the typical signs are there. Going in hard, living the fairy tale, and when reality hits, they start distancing, denying any change on their part, then go MIA. It's the cowards' way of ditching someone when THEY don't feel it anymore.

Assholes like this should be banned from dating. It's too much of a mind fuck for the other party to do shit like that and being so wreckless with someone else's feelings because they live in fantasy and treat everyone as something disposable if it doesn't fit their fairy tale outlook on life.

Thanks for opening my eyes to the so blatantly obvious then! Agree, but I guess what comes around goes around! He's gonna get what he deserves in the end

This guy ... not for you. You don’t need broken things. This is a broken thing. Guy showing rage and possessiveness at two months into a relationship? That is a broken thing.

Take control of the issue. No more texting or calling this guy. Delete his from your social media and take back the power. Don’t explain. Refrain.

Posted by littlesparrow
This guy ... not for you. You don’t need broken things. This is a broken thing. Guy showing rage and possessiveness at two months into a relationship? That is a broken thing.

Take control of the issue. No more texting or calling this guy. Delete his from your social media and take back the power. Don’t explain. Refrain.

It's my nurturing and caring nature that kept me trying to solve things. Idk why I'm always drawn to broken guys if I know I can't fix them. Thanks for the advice!

Posted by Nyleve

Posted by rockyroadicecream
lol.

This one's so blatantly obvious. This is classic "Libra dude lost interest," sorry. It's a total mind fuck, but all the typical signs are there. Going in hard, living the fairy tale, and when reality hits, they start distancing, denying any change on their part, then go MIA. It's the cowards' way of ditching someone when THEY don't feel it anymore.

Assholes like this should be banned from dating. It's too much of a mind fuck for the other party to do shit like that and being so wreckless with someone else's feelings because they live in fantasy and treat everyone as something disposable if it doesn't fit their fairy tale outlook on life.

Thanks for opening my eyes to the so blatantly obvious then! Agree, but I guess what comes around goes around! He's gonna get what he deserves in the end

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Most likely. I've seen it happen with the ones I dealt with who behaved like this. It may not be immediate, but it'll happen.

> markers like this should be banned from dating. It's too much of a mind treetrunk for the other party to do butter like that and being so wreckless with someone else's feelings because they live in fantasy and treat everyone as something disposable if it doesn't fit their fairy tale outlook on life.

Well that is one approach. The other is to know that you can’t change anyone else. So you can rail against that or you can change your perspectives on dating. Protect your heart until someone proves themselves worthy over time.

Just agree with the protect your hearts part... Because they have to know treating someone who cares for them like this is just WRONG... I let him go... He would prolly find someone better for HIM, because he knows I was the real deal and told me so several times, BS or not on his part and idc if all men say that, it is true