As a Libra woman, how do you typically, react, feel, think, etc when a man hurts you?
Libra woman hurt

Like total morons who have no control over their emotions and behavior. They justify it, but it's stupid as fuck.

Cry cry cry, then get someone new.

I a.) try to keep myself from blocking him because that would be the wimpy thing to do, b.) end up blocking him anyway in order to regain some sense of control, c.) cry for about a week, then d.) move on to a new guy who happens to be waiting.
What I'm thinking: Why doesn't he love me? He should love me! I loved him--- kind of! Or else why would I be crying? Or maybe it's my ego that's hurt?? But it's okay that he doesn't love me because it's his choice and we all have to deal with our emotions on our own like grown-ups and I've done the same thing to plenty of men and it might be karma and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate being a Libra it's the worst!
And Sanchez is right. I've definitely taken some dick therapy which later turns into avoid-all-humans-for-two-weeks.
You know, because Libras are all about balance, like seesaws.
What I'm thinking: Why doesn't he love me? He should love me! I loved him--- kind of! Or else why would I be crying? Or maybe it's my ego that's hurt?? But it's okay that he doesn't love me because it's his choice and we all have to deal with our emotions on our own like grown-ups and I've done the same thing to plenty of men and it might be karma and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate being a Libra it's the worst!
And Sanchez is right. I've definitely taken some dick therapy which later turns into avoid-all-humans-for-two-weeks.
You know, because Libras are all about balance, like seesaws.
Posted by dopeicideHow do I find out what my moon sign is? I guess im not a typical Libra. Never sought out for men after a heart break. I obsessively disect everything for a few days then somehow detach myself emotionally and accept that I don't have control of other actions. I shift for a while from heart broken and sad. To numb and silent. I wait a long time before even considering to allow another man try court me, date me, sleep with me,etc. Hell after my last break up I stepped away from men for 4 years completely. No sex, nothing, carried on with life and focused on friends and family. Allow time to heal emotionally before allowing another man into my life.
I've seen a Libra once after a break-up with her Pisces.
It took her experiencing his violent, abusive side before she finally left and even so I don't think she has truly moved on.
She is a conservative Libra, and Libra women mostly are. She is focused on work, her education, and her son with the Pisces.
Her moon is in Capricorn though. Maybe it's because of that she's handled it in such a way (diving into work and such).
I think it's based on the moon sign for Libra women. Even then, most are pretty conservative to me. They're more like a water or earth sign.
My results... Assuming that means Scorpio moon
Your Ascendant: 21°05' Scorpio
The Ascendant brings a lot of information on your personality; it is one of the keys which make possible to approach closely certain elements of yourself such as your physical appearance, your character as other people perceive it externally at first contact, your immediate behavior, informations about your health, your spontaneous reactions. It also corresponds to the external and apparent part of your personality, the one you want to show always at best, but also corresponds to your physical robustness on the duration that is to say your health.
Your psychological nature is bilious with aggressive impulses that spur the transformation of your being and of any situation you are involved in. You are constantly struggling to assert yourself. You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction; life and the feeling of aliveness are experienced through rebellion and tension. Your aggressive attitude may equate with sly inquisition as often, you remain silent, introverted and secretive, mulling over turbulent thoughts in the depths of your mind, leaving others puzzled by your quite strange behaviour.
With this Ascendant, you come across as secretive, powerful, dominating, enduring, intuitive, assertive, charismatic, magnetic, wilful, daring, clear-sighted, passionate, creative, independent, vigorous, generous, loyal, hard-working, persevering, indomitable, possessive, shrewd, stubborn, ambitious, instinctive, tenacious, sexual, sexy, proud, intense and competitive. But you may also be aggressive, destructive, stubborn, anxious, tyrannical, perverse, sadistic, violent, self-centered, complex, critical, cruel, nasty, jealous, calculating, vulnerable and dissembling
Your Ascendant: 21°05' Scorpio
The Ascendant brings a lot of information on your personality; it is one of the keys which make possible to approach closely certain elements of yourself such as your physical appearance, your character as other people perceive it externally at first contact, your immediate behavior, informations about your health, your spontaneous reactions. It also corresponds to the external and apparent part of your personality, the one you want to show always at best, but also corresponds to your physical robustness on the duration that is to say your health.
Your psychological nature is bilious with aggressive impulses that spur the transformation of your being and of any situation you are involved in. You are constantly struggling to assert yourself. You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction; life and the feeling of aliveness are experienced through rebellion and tension. Your aggressive attitude may equate with sly inquisition as often, you remain silent, introverted and secretive, mulling over turbulent thoughts in the depths of your mind, leaving others puzzled by your quite strange behaviour.
With this Ascendant, you come across as secretive, powerful, dominating, enduring, intuitive, assertive, charismatic, magnetic, wilful, daring, clear-sighted, passionate, creative, independent, vigorous, generous, loyal, hard-working, persevering, indomitable, possessive, shrewd, stubborn, ambitious, instinctive, tenacious, sexual, sexy, proud, intense and competitive. But you may also be aggressive, destructive, stubborn, anxious, tyrannical, perverse, sadistic, violent, self-centered, complex, critical, cruel, nasty, jealous, calculating, vulnerable and dissembling
Posted by dopeicidePositions of PlanetsPosted by Libralady1985Oh, my bad.
My results... Assuming that means Scorpio moon
Your Ascendant: 21°05' Scorpio
The Ascendant brings a lot of information on your personality; it is one of the keys which make possible to approach closely certain elements of yourself such as your physical appearance, your character as other people perceive it externally at first contact, your immediate behavior, informations about your health, your spontaneous reactions. It also corresponds to the external and apparent part of your personality, the one you want to show always at best, but also corresponds to your physical robustness on the duration that is to say your health.
Your psychological nature is bilious with aggressive impulses that spur the transformation of your being and of any situation you are involved in. You are constantly struggling to assert yourself. You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction; life and the feeling of aliveness are experienced through rebellion and tension. Your aggressive attitude may equate with sly inquisition as often, you remain silent, introverted and secretive, mulling over turbulent thoughts in the depths of your mind, leaving others puzzled by your quite strange behaviour.
With this Ascendant, you come across as secretive, powerful, dominating, enduring, intuitive, assertive, charismatic, magnetic, wilful, daring, clear-sighted, passionate, creative, independent, vigorous, generous, loyal, hard-working, persevering, indomitable, possessive, shrewd, stubborn, ambitious, instinctive, tenacious, sexual, sexy, proud, intense and competitive. But you may also be aggressive, destructive, stubborn, anxious, tyrannical, perverse, sadistic, violent, self-centered, complex, critical, cruel, nasty, jealous, calculating, vulnerable and dissembling
That's not the moon.
What you want to do is go down and select all the boxes under "Display Parameters". Then select redraw.click to expand
Sun 4°33' Libra
Moon 20°08' Pisces
Mercury 8°28' Libra
Venus 6°50' Virgo
Mars 11°11' Virgo
Jupiter 7°10' Я Aquarius
Saturn 24°34' Scorpio
Uranus 14°30' Sagittarius
Neptune 0°55' Capricorn
Pluto 3°29' Scorpio
Chiron 14°38' Я Gemini
Ceres 17°05' Leo
Pallas 28°49' Gemini
Juno 27°18' Libra
Vesta 28°37' Scorpio
Node 9°34' Я Taurus
Lilith 7°58' Taurus
Fortune 0°49' Taurus
AS 15°13' Scorpio
MC 2°07' Virgo
Did I get it right this time lol
Posted by dopeicidePosted by Libralady1985The lover and the dreamer. I like your chart. Watery moon and earthy in the right places. That Pisces moon might give you a dreamy perspective on love and in personal needs. Pisces moons are intuitive and mysterious to me. They're intelligent, brave and emotionally mature (the women... haha!!). The men can be ruthless scum sometimes, but that's another subject, haha. Both the men and women seem knowing to me nonetheless.Posted by dopeicidePositions of PlanetsPosted by Libralady1985Oh, my bad.
My results... Assuming that means Scorpio moon
Your Ascendant: 21°05' Scorpio
The Ascendant brings a lot of information on your personality; it is one of the keys which make possible to approach closely certain elements of yourself such as your physical appearance, your character as other people perceive it externally at first contact, your immediate behavior, informations about your health, your spontaneous reactions. It also corresponds to the external and apparent part of your personality, the one you want to show always at best, but also corresponds to your physical robustness on the duration that is to say your health.
Your psychological nature is bilious with aggressive impulses that spur the transformation of your being and of any situation you are involved in. You are constantly struggling to assert yourself. You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction; life and the feeling of aliveness are experienced through rebellion and tension. Your aggressive attitude may equate with sly inquisition as often, you remain silent, introverted and secretive, mulling over turbulent thoughts in the depths of your mind, leaving others puzzled by your quite strange behaviour.
With this Ascendant, you come across as secretive, powerful, dominating, enduring, intuitive, assertive, charismatic, magnetic, wilful, daring, clear-sighted, passionate, creative, independent, vigorous, generous, loyal, hard-working, persevering, indomitable, possessive, shrewd, stubborn, ambitious, instinctive, tenacious, sexual, sexy, proud, intense and competitive. But you may also be aggressive, destructive, stubborn, anxious, tyrannical, perverse, sadistic, violent, self-centered, complex, critical, cruel, nasty, jealous, calculating, vulnerable and dissembling
That's not the moon.
What you want to do is go down and select all the boxes under "Display Parameters". Then select redraw.
Sun 4°33' Libra
Moon 20°08' Pisces
Mercury 8°28' Libra
Venus 6°50' Virgo
Mars 11°11' Virgo
Jupiter 7°10' Я Aquarius
Saturn 24°34' Scorpio
Uranus 14°30' Sagittarius
Neptune 0°55' Capricorn
Pluto 3°29' Scorpio
Chiron 14°38' Я Gemini
Ceres 17°05' Leo
Pallas 28°49' Gemini
Juno 27°18' Libra
Vesta 28°37' Scorpio
Node 9°34' Я Taurus
Lilith 7°58' Taurus
Fortune 0°49' Taurus
AS 15°13' Scorpio
MC 2°07' Virgo
Did I get it right this time lol
That Virgo Venus might give you a traditional, conservative outlook on love. You're Virgo Venus is the reason you don't "need" to be in a relationship. You're slow to get into things. In the sense of someone not stuck in their ways (like the Taurus), but like someone who wants to consider all the possibilities before they fully commit. The Virgo Mars will ensure things are correctly structured before you dive into a serious relationship. When in love, you are loyal to a fault and breaks can crush you. You want to find that 'perfect' one and anyone who you do decide on is perfect until they let you down. That itself depends on the persons upbringing as well because the Virgo can be quite cynical and sceptical when adversely affected. That Virgo Venus is probably the reason you're obsessive about these things as well.click to expand
Damn you just described me so accurate that its almost intimidating lol I'm impressed. Very head on.

Posted by topesAnger is more justified than being a slut and going around acting like a reckless idiot.Posted by rockyroadicecreamAnd aries justify getting angry as fuck. Living in the past.
Like total morons who have no control over their emotions and behavior. They justify it, but it's stupid as fuck.click to expand
"IT'S OKAY, THIS IS HOW I COPE!" *eyeroll*

Posted by Libralady1985I'm also 1985 🙂
As a Libra woman, how do you typically, react, feel, think, etc when a man hurts you?
So the last time this happened to me was 5 years ago. I hope that was the last of this same reaction to hurt/betrayal.
I lose alot of weight, days kind of drift into one another, my work can suffer. It pretty much used to consume me. I think Ive gone through a major transition period since that last time though. I spent that time pretty much alone/single...in order to work through that feeling of ridiculous suffering because another human decided not to treat me right or decide that I wasn't worthy based one their short-comings.
My Gemini friend was just talking about her Libra sister and how she acts after breaking up with someone...it was too much for me. Lol
Anyway, it didn't happen to me till after I already had a good career, money saved in my account, a good support system, confidence etc.
Well the physical stuff (he physically abused me, when I started to pull away, he cheated) broke me down quite a bit, but screw that, I wasn't going to let it drown me.
I did this:
1. Got a great lawyer...all was settled well.
2. Used some saved up money to get a nice apartment and then within a year a nice house of my own.
3. Achieve personal and career related goals. (Losing weight since he hated when I lost weight and promotions since he hated when I made more money than him.)
4. After paying off every single credit card or loan, I saved up money for a traveling fund. I traveled to places I loved, some alone and some with friends.
5. Enjoyed a good amount of time with my family and friends.
6. Long baths and a good wine... Lol
I did cry... I did morn the loss of what I thought I had. But I was not out of control. I stood my ground and overcame it, just like any other challenge in my life.
Anyway, it didn't happen to me till after I already had a good career, money saved in my account, a good support system, confidence etc.
Well the physical stuff (he physically abused me, when I started to pull away, he cheated) broke me down quite a bit, but screw that, I wasn't going to let it drown me.
I did this:
1. Got a great lawyer...all was settled well.
2. Used some saved up money to get a nice apartment and then within a year a nice house of my own.
3. Achieve personal and career related goals. (Losing weight since he hated when I lost weight and promotions since he hated when I made more money than him.)
4. After paying off every single credit card or loan, I saved up money for a traveling fund. I traveled to places I loved, some alone and some with friends.
5. Enjoyed a good amount of time with my family and friends.
6. Long baths and a good wine... Lol
I did cry... I did morn the loss of what I thought I had. But I was not out of control. I stood my ground and overcame it, just like any other challenge in my life.
That's interesting that 2 posters say they lose weight upon a break up. I am the same way. After leaving my last committed relationship I dropped 70 whopping pounds. I guess there's a good side to everything lol even heartbreak

Posted by topes...did you really just justify it with "yolo?"Posted by rockyroadicecreamHaha. I guess so.Posted by topesAnger is more justified than being a slut and going around acting like a reckless idiot.Posted by rockyroadicecreamAnd aries justify getting angry as fuck. Living in the past.
Like total morons who have no control over their emotions and behavior. They justify it, but it's stupid as fuck.
"IT'S OKAY, THIS IS HOW I COPE!" *eyeroll*
Yolo. Why not fuck everything that moves..click to expand
Null and void input, sorry.
Posted by lilyofthevalley
I a.) try to keep myself from blocking him because that would be the wimpy thing to do, b.) end up blocking him anyway in order to regain some sense of control, c.) cry for about a week, then d.) move on to a new guy who happens to be waiting.
What I'm thinking: Why doesn't he love me? He should love me! I loved him--- kind of! Or else why would I be crying? Or maybe it's my ego that's hurt?? But it's okay that he doesn't love me because it's his choice and we all have to deal with our emotions on our own like grown-ups and I've done the same thing to plenty of men and it might be karma and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate being a Libra it's the worst!
And Sanchez is right. I've definitely taken some dick therapy which later turns into avoid-all-humans-for-two-weeks.
You know, because Libras are all about balance, like seesaws.
Haha Accurate. Except the dick therapy. Never found comfort in that. When im hurt I cant even think about it, im too obsessive over the breakup.
I also have never blocked anyone, ever.
I get blocked by every ex though. They obviously cant stand seeing my wonderful self on their feeds. hahaha JK
I get blocked by every ex though. They obviously cant stand seeing my wonderful self on their feeds. hahaha JK

I also smashed his car headlights in. I wanted him to feel the pain he was putting me through and knew there was only one way...he was one smug mofo. God just remembering makes me want to rip a loaf.
1. Pout or cry. While trying to figure out where the fuck I messed up
2. Post some passive aggressive quotes/tweets towards them
3. Proceed to Block and/or delete that bitch off every possible social media website once they've clued in to my posts
4. Ignore all their texts, private messages, emails and calls
5. Choose the next one's number out of a hat
2. Post some passive aggressive quotes/tweets towards them
3. Proceed to Block and/or delete that bitch off every possible social media website once they've clued in to my posts
4. Ignore all their texts, private messages, emails and calls
5. Choose the next one's number out of a hat
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