Libra woman hurt

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lilyofthevalley
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I a.) try to keep myself from blocking him because that would be the wimpy thing to do, b.) end up blocking him anyway in order to regain some sense of control, c.) cry for about a week, then d.) move on to a new guy who happens to be waiting.

What I'm thinking: Why doesn't he love me? He should love me! I loved him--- kind of! Or else why would I be crying? Or maybe it's my ego that's hurt?? But it's okay that he doesn't love me because it's his choice and we all have to deal with our emotions on our own like grown-ups and I've done the same thing to plenty of men and it might be karma and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate being a Libra it's the worst!

And Sanchez is right. I've definitely taken some dick therapy which later turns into avoid-all-humans-for-two-weeks.

You know, because Libras are all about balance, like seesaws.
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Libralady1985
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Posted by dopeicide
I've seen a Libra once after a break-up with her Pisces.

It took her experiencing his violent, abusive side before she finally left and even so I don't think she has truly moved on.

She is a conservative Libra, and Libra women mostly are. She is focused on work, her education, and her son with the Pisces.

Her moon is in Capricorn though. Maybe it's because of that she's handled it in such a way (diving into work and such).

I think it's based on the moon sign for Libra women. Even then, most are pretty conservative to me. They're more like a water or earth sign.
How do I find out what my moon sign is? I guess im not a typical Libra. Never sought out for men after a heart break. I obsessively disect everything for a few days then somehow detach myself emotionally and accept that I don't have control of other actions. I shift for a while from heart broken and sad. To numb and silent. I wait a long time before even considering to allow another man try court me, date me, sleep with me,etc. Hell after my last break up I stepped away from men for 4 years completely. No sex, nothing, carried on with life and focused on friends and family. Allow time to heal emotionally before allowing another man into my life.
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My results... Assuming that means Scorpio moon



Your Ascendant: 21°05' Scorpio



The Ascendant brings a lot of information on your personality; it is one of the keys which make possible to approach closely certain elements of yourself such as your physical appearance, your character as other people perceive it externally at first contact, your immediate behavior, informations about your health, your spontaneous reactions. It also corresponds to the external and apparent part of your personality, the one you want to show always at best, but also corresponds to your physical robustness on the duration that is to say your health.

Your psychological nature is bilious with aggressive impulses that spur the transformation of your being and of any situation you are involved in. You are constantly struggling to assert yourself. You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction; life and the feeling of aliveness are experienced through rebellion and tension. Your aggressive attitude may equate with sly inquisition as often, you remain silent, introverted and secretive, mulling over turbulent thoughts in the depths of your mind, leaving others puzzled by your quite strange behaviour.

With this Ascendant, you come across as secretive, powerful, dominating, enduring, intuitive, assertive, charismatic, magnetic, wilful, daring, clear-sighted, passionate, creative, independent, vigorous, generous, loyal, hard-working, persevering, indomitable, possessive, shrewd, stubborn, ambitious, instinctive, tenacious, sexual, sexy, proud, intense and competitive. But you may also be aggressive, destructive, stubborn, anxious, tyrannical, perverse, sadistic, violent, self-centered, complex, critical, cruel, nasty, jealous, calculating, vulnerable and dissembling
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Libralady1985
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Posted by dopeicide
Posted by Libralady1985
My results... Assuming that means Scorpio moon



Your Ascendant: 21°05' Scorpio



The Ascendant brings a lot of information on your personality; it is one of the keys which make possible to approach closely certain elements of yourself such as your physical appearance, your character as other people perceive it externally at first contact, your immediate behavior, informations about your health, your spontaneous reactions. It also corresponds to the external and apparent part of your personality, the one you want to show always at best, but also corresponds to your physical robustness on the duration that is to say your health.

Your psychological nature is bilious with aggressive impulses that spur the transformation of your being and of any situation you are involved in. You are constantly struggling to assert yourself. You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction; life and the feeling of aliveness are experienced through rebellion and tension. Your aggressive attitude may equate with sly inquisition as often, you remain silent, introverted and secretive, mulling over turbulent thoughts in the depths of your mind, leaving others puzzled by your quite strange behaviour.

With this Ascendant, you come across as secretive, powerful, dominating, enduring, intuitive, assertive, charismatic, magnetic, wilful, daring, clear-sighted, passionate, creative, independent, vigorous, generous, loyal, hard-working, persevering, indomitable, possessive, shrewd, stubborn, ambitious, instinctive, tenacious, sexual, sexy, proud, intense and competitive. But you may also be aggressive, destructive, stubborn, anxious, tyrannical, perverse, sadistic, violent, self-centered, complex, critical, cruel, nasty, jealous, calculating, vulnerable and dissembling
Oh, my bad.

That's not the moon.

What you want to do is go down and select all the boxes under "Display Parameters". Then select redraw.
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Positions of Planets

Sun 4°33' Libra

Moon 20°08' Pisces

Mercury 8°28' Libra

Venus 6°50' Virgo

Mars 11°11' Virgo

Jupiter 7°10' Я Aquarius

Saturn 24°34' Scorpio

Uranus 14°30' Sagittarius

Neptune 0°55' Capricorn

Pluto 3°29' Scorpio

Chiron 14°38' Я Gemini

Ceres 17°05' Leo

Pallas 28°49' Gemini

Juno 27°18' Libra

Vesta 28°37' Scorpio

Node 9°34' Я Taurus

Lilith 7°58' Taurus

Fortune 0°49' Taurus

AS 15°13' Scorpio

MC 2°07' Virgo

Did I get it right this time lol
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Libralady1985
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Posted by Libralady1985
My results... Assuming that means Scorpio moon



Your Ascendant: 21°05' Scorpio



The Ascendant brings a lot of information on your personality; it is one of the keys which make possible to approach closely certain elements of yourself such as your physical appearance, your character as other people perceive it externally at first contact, your immediate behavior, informations about your health, your spontaneous reactions. It also corresponds to the external and apparent part of your personality, the one you want to show always at best, but also corresponds to your physical robustness on the duration that is to say your health.

Your psychological nature is bilious with aggressive impulses that spur the transformation of your being and of any situation you are involved in. You are constantly struggling to assert yourself. You cannot refrain from testing others with cutting remarks, not because you want to hurt them, but because you want to know them better through their reaction; life and the feeling of aliveness are experienced through rebellion and tension. Your aggressive attitude may equate with sly inquisition as often, you remain silent, introverted and secretive, mulling over turbulent thoughts in the depths of your mind, leaving others puzzled by your quite strange behaviour.

With this Ascendant, you come across as secretive, powerful, dominating, enduring, intuitive, assertive, charismatic, magnetic, wilful, daring, clear-sighted, passionate, creative, independent, vigorous, generous, loyal, hard-working, persevering, indomitable, possessive, shrewd, stubborn, ambitious, instinctive, tenacious, sexual, sexy, proud, intense and competitive. But you may also be aggressive, destructive, stubborn, anxious, tyrannical, perverse, sadistic, violent, self-centered, complex, critical, cruel, nasty, jealous, calculating, vulnerable and dissembling
Oh, my bad.

That's not the moon.

What you want to do is go down and select all the boxes under "Display Parameters". Then select redraw.
Positions of Planets

Sun 4°33' Libra

Moon 20°08' Pisces

Mercury 8°28' Libra

Venus 6°50' Virgo

Mars 11°11' Virgo

Jupiter 7°10' Я Aquarius

Saturn 24°34' Scorpio

Uranus 14°30' Sagittarius

Neptune 0°55' Capricorn

Pluto 3°29' Scorpio

Chiron 14°38' Я Gemini

Ceres 17°05' Leo

Pallas 28°49' Gemini

Juno 27°18' Libra

Vesta 28°37' Scorpio

Node 9°34' Я Taurus

Lilith 7°58' Taurus

Fortune 0°49' Taurus

AS 15°13' Scorpio

MC 2°07' Virgo

Did I get it right this time lol
The lover and the dreamer. I like your chart. Watery moon and earthy in the right places. That Pisces moon might give you a dreamy perspective on love and in personal needs. Pisces moons are intuitive and mysterious to me. They're intelligent, brave and emotionally mature (the women... haha!!). The men can be ruthless scum sometimes, but that's another subject, haha. Both the men and women seem knowing to me nonetheless.

That Virgo Venus might give you a traditional, conservative outlook on love. You're Virgo Venus is the reason you don't "need" to be in a relationship. You're slow to get into things. In the sense of someone not stuck in their ways (like the Taurus), but like someone who wants to consider all the possibilities before they fully commit. The Virgo Mars will ensure things are correctly structured before you dive into a serious relationship. When in love, you are loyal to a fault and breaks can crush you. You want to find that 'perfect' one and anyone who you do decide on is perfect until they let you down. That itself depends on the persons upbringing as well because the Virgo can be quite cynical and sceptical when adversely affected. That Virgo Venus is probably the reason you're obsessive about these things as well.
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Damn you just described me so accurate that its almost intimidating lol I'm impressed. Very head on.
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Like total morons who have no control over their emotions and behavior. They justify it, but it's stupid as fuck.
And aries justify getting angry as fuck. Living in the past.
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Anger is more justified than being a slut and going around acting like a reckless idiot.

"IT'S OKAY, THIS IS HOW I COPE!" *eyeroll*
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Posted by Libralady1985
As a Libra woman, how do you typically, react, feel, think, etc when a man hurts you?


I'm also 1985 🙂

So the last time this happened to me was 5 years ago. I hope that was the last of this same reaction to hurt/betrayal.

I lose alot of weight, days kind of drift into one another, my work can suffer. It pretty much used to consume me. I think Ive gone through a major transition period since that last time though. I spent that time pretty much alone/single...in order to work through that feeling of ridiculous suffering because another human decided not to treat me right or decide that I wasn't worthy based one their short-comings.

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My Gemini friend was just talking about her Libra sister and how she acts after breaking up with someone...it was too much for me. Lol

Anyway, it didn't happen to me till after I already had a good career, money saved in my account, a good support system, confidence etc.

Well the physical stuff (he physically abused me, when I started to pull away, he cheated) broke me down quite a bit, but screw that, I wasn't going to let it drown me.

I did this:

1. Got a great lawyer...all was settled well.

2. Used some saved up money to get a nice apartment and then within a year a nice house of my own.

3. Achieve personal and career related goals. (Losing weight since he hated when I lost weight and promotions since he hated when I made more money than him.)

4. After paying off every single credit card or loan, I saved up money for a traveling fund. I traveled to places I loved, some alone and some with friends.

5. Enjoyed a good amount of time with my family and friends.

6. Long baths and a good wine... Lol

I did cry... I did morn the loss of what I thought I had. But I was not out of control. I stood my ground and overcame it, just like any other challenge in my life.
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Like total morons who have no control over their emotions and behavior. They justify it, but it's stupid as fuck.
And aries justify getting angry as fuck. Living in the past.
Anger is more justified than being a slut and going around acting like a reckless idiot.

"IT'S OKAY, THIS IS HOW I COPE!" *eyeroll*
Haha. I guess so.

Yolo. Why not fuck everything that moves..
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...did you really just justify it with "yolo?"

Null and void input, sorry.
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Posted by lilyofthevalley
I a.) try to keep myself from blocking him because that would be the wimpy thing to do, b.) end up blocking him anyway in order to regain some sense of control, c.) cry for about a week, then d.) move on to a new guy who happens to be waiting.

What I'm thinking: Why doesn't he love me? He should love me! I loved him--- kind of! Or else why would I be crying? Or maybe it's my ego that's hurt?? But it's okay that he doesn't love me because it's his choice and we all have to deal with our emotions on our own like grown-ups and I've done the same thing to plenty of men and it might be karma and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate being a Libra it's the worst!

And Sanchez is right. I've definitely taken some dick therapy which later turns into avoid-all-humans-for-two-weeks.

You know, because Libras are all about balance, like seesaws.


Haha Accurate. Except the dick therapy. Never found comfort in that. When im hurt I cant even think about it, im too obsessive over the breakup.