Libra woman when she likes someone

Hey so I'm into this Libra girl, we dated a few times over the summer and we kind of had a fall out. She was leaving back upstate for her last year of law school and had told me it was going to be a pretty busy year for her and so we lost touch for a few months. I recently reached out to her and told her if she was interested in taking it slow that I'm here. She told me she thinks I'm sweet and that we should hang out when she's in town for Christmas break, but that she's not looking for anything bc of how busy she is for the next year. She then continued to say that she would reach out to me when she's back home and that we can take it from there.. Libra women what does this mean? Is she into me?

No.

If she friend zoned me then why would she initiate for us to meet up? She's also not the friend zoning type of girl she tells you straight up

Is a nice way of telling you friends and no more.

Posted by nysag86
If she friend zoned me then why would she initiate for us to meet up? She's also not the friend zoning type of girl she tells you straight up

Because she wants to be your friend. I initiate get togethers with my friends.

Posted by nysag86
If she friend zoned me then why would she initiate for us to meet up? She's also not the friend zoning type of girl she tells you straight up

She has told you. You're just not listening.

She's been saying how busy she would be even since the summer. If it wasn't for our argument we probably would've been still dating. We had an awesome chemistry, and I know she would tell me straight up that she only sees me as a friend

Posted by nysag86
She's been saying how busy she would be even since the summer. If it wasn't for our argument we probably would've been still dating. We had an awesome chemistry, and I know she would tell me straight up that she only sees me as a friend

It's great that you ask the opinion of libran women and when we give it to you, you tell us we are wrong.

Libra in general don't like to hurt another's feelings. You need to read between the lines. Don't get carried away on how you still want things to be. She may still cancel the get together as well. It's not easy to hear but I'd try move on and save yourself any hurt. Good luck ?

Ok thanks I'll forget about her then

Posted by nysag86
Hey so I'm into this Libra girl, we dated a few times over the summer and we kind of had a fall out. She was leaving back upstate for her last year of law school and had told me it was going to be a pretty busy year for her and so we lost touch for a few months. I recently reached out to her and told her if she was interested in taking it slow that I'm here. She told me she thinks I'm sweet and that we should hang out when she's in town for Christmas break, but that she's not looking for anything bc of how busy she is for the next year. She then continued to say that she would reach out to me when she's back home and that we can take it from there.. Libra women what does this mean? Is she into me?

My boyfriend went to law school...he said all they did was study...I mean of course other things, but he studied quite a bit. Those who had boyfriends or girlfriends back home didn't make it or their relationships were very difficult. I wasn't with him at that time and he chose to stay single because he said there was just no way he could give someone the attention they deserved and still get the grades he wanted. School became his focus. We met afterward.. He's the Sag and I'm the libra though.. The only ones I know who succeeded during law school were those who met there, studied together, and ended up marrying that person OR they had very supportive, forgiving SO.

I think it depends on what your falling out was about. Sag could be cruel with their words, maybe you did hurt her and she just decided it wasn't worth the risk.. Libras put their all into a relationship, with law school as well, arguments and disagreements would just not be worth it... So maybe she did friend zone you, but it could also be that she just felt that with the falling out she wasn't going to risk law school and that she'd pick up with any kind of real relationship later..

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Posted by nysag86
Hey so I'm into this Libra girl, we dated a few times over the summer and we kind of had a fall out. She was leaving back upstate for her last year of law school and had told me it was going to be a pretty busy year for her and so we lost touch for a few months. I recently reached out to her and told her if she was interested in taking it slow that I'm here. She told me she thinks I'm sweet and that we should hang out when she's in town for Christmas break, but that she's not looking for anything bc of how busy she is for the next year. She then continued to say that she would reach out to me when she's back home and that we can take it from there.. Libra women what does this mean? Is she into me?

My boyfriend went to law school...he said all they did was study...I mean of course other things, but he studied quite a bit. Those who had boyfriends or girlfriends back home didn't make it or their relationships were very difficult. I wasn't with him at that time and he chose to stay single because he said there was just no way he could give someone the attention they deserved and still get the grades he wanted. School became his focus. We met afterward.. He's the Sag and I'm the libra though.. The only ones I know who succeeded during law school were those who met there, studied together, and ended up marrying that person OR they had very supportive, forgiving SO.

I think it depends on what your falling out was about. Sag could be cruel with their words, maybe you did hurt her and she just decided it wasn't worth the risk.. Libras put their all into a relationship, with law school as well, arguments and disagreements would just not be worth it... So maybe she did friend zone you, but it could also be that she just felt that with the falling out she wasn't going to risk law school and that she'd pick up with any kind of real relationship later..

In law school I had just about enough time to cook dinner and breakfast ahead for the next morning. Buy lunch everyday. Some sleep, and that was about it. The rest was entirely taking notes, revising and attending classes to talk with other students.

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You went to law school? Nice!

I have several friends who went to law school and like I said my boyfriend. I can't speak from experience myself, but when I read this, I didn't think necessarily that she was just not into him at all. I mean she could be, but really just does not have time. From what my friends describe and that you agree, there just really isn't any time.

That actually led to more respect for my boyfriend when he said that he didn't get into a relationship, because he didn't think it was fair. I like people who are dedicated, determined and are real with the people around them.

OP, needs to know this girl could just really be busy. It's her last year too.. Unfortunately for him, she needs to focus.

I don't think she's going to ask you to hang out when she's back home

She's forgotten after all of these posts. I know she will come around and hopefully respect that I did offer to be there for her she only has a few more months to go of school but que sera sera

I would buy her "busy" excuse if they hadn't had a falling out. It was bad enough that they didn't speak for a few months and only started talking again after he reached out. My guess is she saw something and while there was an initial interest, it left after the disagreement. While she still enjoys his company, that clash made her realise that she didn't want to take it further.

Busy is a convenient way to say I still like you as a person but it's not going beyond this. Come on, we're libras. There is no valley too low or mountain too high if we are really interested. We'd make it work, even if it is long distance. Plus, it's the last year! Not a long wait at all.

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I would buy her "busy" excuse if they hadn't had a falling out. It was bad enough that they didn't speak for a few months and only started talking again after he reached out. My guess is she saw something and while there was an initial interest, it left after the disagreement. While she still enjoys his company, that clash made her realise that she didn't want to take it further.

Busy is a convenient way to say I still like you as a person but it's not going beyond this. Come on, we're libras. There is no valley too low or mountain too high if we are really interested. We'd make it work, even if it is long distance. Plus, it's the last year! Not a long wait at all.

She just texted me she's home for the weekend, we're hanging out tonight! I'll keep you updated on being a "friend"

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Posted by jeane
I would buy her "busy" excuse if they hadn't had a falling out. It was bad enough that they didn't speak for a few months and only started talking again after he reached out. My guess is she saw something and while there was an initial interest, it left after the disagreement. While she still enjoys his company, that clash made her realise that she didn't want to take it further.

Busy is a convenient way to say I still like you as a person but it's not going beyond this. Come on, we're libras. There is no valley too low or mountain too high if we are really interested. We'd make it work, even if it is long distance. Plus, it's the last year! Not a long wait at all.

She just texted me she's home for the weekend, we're hanging out tonight! I'll keep you updated on being a "friend"

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Well I hope every libra that posted in this thread is wrong. Best of luck.

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Posted by jeane
I would buy her "busy" excuse if they hadn't had a falling out. It was bad enough that they didn't speak for a few months and only started talking again after he reached out. My guess is she saw something and while there was an initial interest, it left after the disagreement. While she still enjoys his company, that clash made her realise that she didn't want to take it further.

Busy is a convenient way to say I still like you as a person but it's not going beyond this. Come on, we're libras. There is no valley too low or mountain too high if we are really interested. We'd make it work, even if it is long distance. Plus, it's the last year! Not a long wait at all.

She just texted me she's home for the weekend, we're hanging out tonight! I'll keep you updated on being a "friend"

Well I hope every libra that posted in this thread is wrong. Best of luck.

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C'mon now you didn't any credit for being wrong as well! And I'm officially not friend zoned she spent the night. I do have to say this thread taught me an awful lot. Libras see things in a very negative manner as does she I don't think I could deal with that. I need a positive woman in my life I have too much going on. But we decided to take it slow so hopefully she'll show more positive outlooks

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Posted by jeane
I would buy her "busy" excuse if they hadn't had a falling out. It was bad enough that they didn't speak for a few months and only started talking again after he reached out. My guess is she saw something and while there was an initial interest, it left after the disagreement. While she still enjoys his company, that clash made her realise that she didn't want to take it further.

Busy is a convenient way to say I still like you as a person but it's not going beyond this. Come on, we're libras. There is no valley too low or mountain too high if we are really interested. We'd make it work, even if it is long distance. Plus, it's the last year! Not a long wait at all.

She just texted me she's home for the weekend, we're hanging out tonight! I'll keep you updated on being a "friend"

Well I hope every libra that posted in this thread is wrong. Best of luck.

C'mon now you didn't any credit for being wrong as well! And I'm officially not friend zoned she spent the night. I do have to say this thread taught me an awful lot. Libras see things in a very negative manner as does she I don't think I could deal with that. I need a positive woman in my life I have too much going on. But we decided to take it slow so hopefully she'll show more positive outlooks

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By extension, I did include myself. 😉

Well, if I was really going to be cynical I would be doubtful of your highly convenient tale but my response remains the same, I wish you the best of luck.

Best relationships begin with friendship. Be her friend, get to know eachother better, enjoy time together & go from there.