Libra women, what do you do when you like someone?

I am an Aries guy and I think she is interested, she gives me a shy smile/ dreamy look from far away, and if i catch her looking she smiles and kinda blushes, she compliments me/ goes out of her way to compliment me, she just smiles and laughs at what i say and looks at me from far away, so do you think she is interested?

Also what are somethings you do consciously and unconsciously when you like someone?

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by FieryAries9
I am an Aries guy and I think she is interested, she gives me a shy smile/ dreamy look from far away, and if i catch her looking she smiles and kinda blushes, she compliments me/ goes out of her way to compliment me, she just smiles and laughs at what i say and looks at me from far away, so do you think she is interested?

Also what are somethings you do consciously and unconsciously when you like someone?

Definitely sounds like she has a thing for you.

Usually I don't make a secret out of it if I'm into somebody. I find no need to keep it to myself(unless I discover they're in a relationship;in which case I'll to back off & move on).

There were also instances which guys gladly assumed most of the courtship, which was great if he was charming or funny & I liked him in return.

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Well that's good, and so you don't mind if i were to take more of the initiative with the talking and things like that?

I am very flirty with eeryone but there will usually be something different about the way I act with the person I really like. I've got into the habbit of buying people I like a book (not quite sure where thats came from! lol) but usually I will go out of my way to do things for them, and make sure (without being a stalker) that I always happen to be around them. If I like someone I try my best to be around them as much as possible

Posted by size zero superhero
if it's your style and what you'd usually do in this situation, that should work out well

Alright cool, I usually do take the initiative, thanks for you advice.

Posted by libra sun
I am very flirty with eeryone but there will usually be something different about the way I act with the person I really like. I've got into the habbit of buying people I like a book (not quite sure where thats came from! lol) but usually I will go out of my way to do things for them, and make sure (without being a stalker) that I always happen to be around them. If I like someone I try my best to be around them as much as possible

I'm the same way when i like someone, I like to be around them too, and one time she choose to set next to me when she could of sat anywhere so i guess that's a good sign then.

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Except the book part...

haha yeah the books a new thing that i seem to be doing this year, didnt notice till someone pointed it out to me!

i act like a nervous 12 year old when i like a guy. alternating looking at him and smiling with acting like he doesn't even exist. lol.

in middle school, i found out a crush's schedule so i could avoid walking past him on days i wasn't feeling so hot.

if you like her, you should totally make a move. when a libra puts herself out there and doesn't get any reassurance, she'll get really sad. and the sadder she gets over you, the more attention you'll have to give her when you finally do come around.

i recently wrote off a guy i'd had a huge crush on. he'd blanked me for such a long time. eventually he started being friendly, and at that point it actually pissed me off. like dude, i've been here throwing myself at you (in that passive libra way that probably didn't seem that way to him, but i don't care) for a year, and all you're gonna do is ask me how i'm doing? fuck off.

Posted by curious visitor
i act like a nervous 12 year old when i like a guy. alternating looking at him and smiling with acting like he doesn't even exist. lol.

in middle school, i found out a crush's schedule so i could avoid walking past him on days i wasn't feeling so hot.

if you like her, you should totally make a move. when a libra puts herself out there and doesn't get any reassurance, she'll get really sad. and the sadder she gets over you, the more attention you'll have to give her when you finally do come around.

i recently wrote off a guy i'd had a huge crush on. he'd blanked me for such a long time. eventually he started being friendly, and at that point it actually pissed me off. like dude, i've been here throwing myself at you (in that passive libra way that probably didn't seem that way to him, but i don't care) for a year, and all you're gonna do is ask me how i'm doing? fuck off.

are you serious? she has done the same thing she like avoided me for a week does that mean she liked me cause i just though she was avoiding me....

it could. or maybe not. it depends on how she is in general.

if she's usually the girl who tells everybody who she likes and has obvious crushes and all that, no she probably doesn't like you. if she's the girl no one knows anything about, acting like that is typical, yes she probably does. when i was younger, i was totally boy crazy, but most people thought i was a lesbian, because i kept my neutral face on around crushes.

actually, i flirted a ton more with friends than boys i liked. a few of them ended up hating me because they thought i was a bitch. lol.

How old is she?

Posted by curious visitor
it could. or maybe not. it depends on how she is in general.

if she's usually the girl who tells everybody who she likes and has obvious crushes and all that, no she probably doesn't like you. if she's the girl no one knows anything about, acting like that is typical, yes she probably does. when i was younger, i was totally boy crazy, but most people thought i was a lesbian, because i kept my neutral face on around crushes.

actually, i flirted a ton more with friends than boys i liked. a few of them ended up hating me because they thought i was a bitch. lol.

hmm that's interesting, and yes i think she does like me and oh that must have been weird.

Posted by little_sparrow
How old is she?

She just tuned 16 on the 18th of October.

awww. i guesstimated her chart. she's probably got moon in aries, which would be really good synastry if it's in conjuct with your sun. as well as venus in scorpio, and possibly mercury in scorpio (but could be libra in a more accurate chart). if you know where she was born and especially the time, go to astro.com and calculate her chart more accurately.

but an aries moon with scorpio placements in there too means that you shouldn't worry too much about being intense. venus in scorp girls like intensity, as long as they like the guy. it's hot. downside is that it could also make her more prone to hide her feelings.

her mars is probably in leo, which is compatible with your aries sun, and probably also means that she can be very warm and affectionate once she trusts you. and also is probably quite faithful. and again, she is likely to like a guy who can be a bit intense.

i'm oct 19. i've got some scorp and leo placements too. (and yes, my own experience was quite weird)

Posted by curious visitor
awww. i guesstimated her chart. she's probably got moon in aries, which would be really good synastry if it's in conjuct with your sun. as well as venus in scorpio, and possibly mercury in scorpio (but could be libra in a more accurate chart). if you know where she was born and especially the time, go to astro.com and calculate her chart more accurately.

but an aries moon with scorpio placements in there too means that you shouldn't worry too much about being intense. venus in scorp girls like intensity, as long as they like the guy. it's hot. downside is that it could also make her more prone to hide her feelings.

her mars is probably in leo, which is compatible with your aries sun, and probably also means that she can be very warm and affectionate once she trusts you. and also is probably quite faithful. and again, she is likely to like a guy who can be a bit intense.

i'm oct 19. i've got some scorp and leo placements too. (and yes, my own experience was quite weird)

wow you quite close in your guess her is her and my chart

Me:
Rising Sign is in 25 Degrees Cancer
Sun is in 19 Degrees Aries.
Moon is in 00 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 29 Degrees Pisces.
Venus is in 09 Degrees Taurus.
Mars is in 25 Degrees Pisces.
Jupiter is in 12 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 08 Degrees Pisces.
Uranus is in 26 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 23 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 27 Degrees Scorpio.
N.Node is in 24 Degrees Scorpio.

Her:
Rising Sign is in 20 Degrees Sagittarius
Sun is in 25 Degrees Libra.
Moon is in 15 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 00 Degrees Scorpio.
Venus is in 17 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 07 Degrees Leo.
Jupiter is in 18 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 06 Degrees Pisces.
Uranus is in 22 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 20 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 26 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.

with your pisces, cancer, and taurus, and her scorpio, aries, and leo, i'm gonna guess that if you can get things started, she'll probably end up doing a lot more than you need to do. to other people, you'll need to seem like the "man" in the relationship, but in reality, you'll just be going along for the ride. she'll be making the plans to go out, she'll be initiating whatever sexual affection goes on.

if you can handle that (i suspect the idea thrills you), you just need to get in there and get things started. start talking to her more. smile a lot. act all adoring and stuff. plan a couple dates. make sure she knows you like her. then just hand the reigns over to her, and she'll take them with a firm grip. you'll love it. you'll just need to do cute romantic stuff here and there to hold up your end of things, which is super natural and easy with your double aries. y'all are some of the sweetest guys, at least when you like somebody you are.

Posted by curious visitor
with your pisces, cancer, and taurus, and her scorpio, aries, and leo, i'm gonna guess that if you can get things started, she'll probably end up doing a lot more than you need to do. to other people, you'll need to seem like the "man" in the relationship, but in reality, you'll just be going along for the ride. she'll be making the plans to go out, she'll be initiating whatever sexual affection goes on.

if you can handle that (i suspect the idea thrills you), you just need to get in there and get things started. start talking to her more. smile a lot. act all adoring and stuff. plan a couple dates. make sure she knows you like her. then just hand the reigns over to her, and she'll take them with a firm grip. you'll love it. you'll just need to do cute romantic stuff here and there to hold up your end of things, which is super natural and easy with your double aries. y'all are some of the sweetest guys, at least when you like somebody you are.

wow you don't know how happy you just made me with this description this is my ideal of a relationship, and thank you I agree with you, I especially, when i love someone i love them with all my heart, i want to see them happy and I honestly would do anything for her.

Posted by curious visitor
with your pisces, cancer, and taurus, and her scorpio, aries, and leo, i'm gonna guess that if you can get things started, she'll probably end up doing a lot more than you need to do. to other people, you'll need to seem like the "man" in the relationship, but in reality, you'll just be going along for the ride. she'll be making the plans to go out, she'll be initiating whatever sexual affection goes on.

if you can handle that (i suspect the idea thrills you), you just need to get in there and get things started. start talking to her more. smile a lot. act all adoring and stuff. plan a couple dates. make sure she knows you like her. then just hand the reigns over to her, and she'll take them with a firm grip. you'll love it. you'll just need to do cute romantic stuff here and there to hold up your end of things, which is super natural and easy with your double aries. y'all are some of the sweetest guys, at least when you like somebody you are.

and also since your close to her in birthdates, what are some thing you specifically like someone to do when they are trying to get to know you? what are some things somebody could do for you that would stand out? do you like compliments?